Songs and contra-songs

Songs and Counter songsWhen Peter Drucker wrote in 1986 that the world economy is not changing, it has already changed, “We are living in a changed world” became a fashionable jargon. His assertion was open to question, but Corona has changed the world in a very fundamental way. Someone said that in the human history whenever mankind faced a major crisis, it came together to save itself, but today is a crisis when we have to stay apart to save the world. We are into Lockdown 3.0; even after it is lifted, would it be really back to the normal? It is already being said that  we have to brace for a ‘New Normal’, and we can feel it within ourselves. Would I feel confident in going to my neighbourhood salon for a haircut? We always knew that there was a risk of infection, but didn’t give much thought to it. Or to a mall, a restaurant, a multiplex, or a wedding reception indoors?

WhatsApp has spawned a set of appropriate songs for these days, striking out the old favourites, such as Mujhko apne gale laga le O mere hamrahi, Chhoo lene do nazuk hothon ko, Jumma chumma de de, and replacing these by Corona-compliant songs like Teri duniya se door chale ho ke majboor, Chalo ek baar phir se ajanabi ban jayein hum dono etc. Madhulika Liddle (Dusted Off) has already written a post on the songs for the lockdown. Anuradha Warrier (Conversations Over Chai) has expanded it to include various kinds of sicknesses. I knew her as a writer and editor, she must also be a top medical professional to know about complex diseases, such as Misophonia, Hyperesthesia and Arrythmia.

All through our civilisation there have been truths and contra-truths, i.e. exact opposites which were also truths. Was Vibhishan righteous or treacherous? Every sovereign state has a right to have a National Register of Citizens; but no, NRC is a vicious, divisive step, it must be withdrawn. CAA is a benign legislation to give relief to a class of persecuted minorities in some of our neighbouring countries; no, it is a pernicious legislation. It is unconstitutional, it is perfectly constitutional. And finally, prolonged lockdown is the only way to contain the virus; no, it would kill people of starvation by making them jobless. Not to speak of our fundamental values of freedom and liberty – who gave the state the authority to turn Fascist in the name of a virus? How do we choose between life and livelihood? And between freedom versus outbreak of the disease?

This dilemma is reflected in our proverbs, too, which are aphorisms containing some fundamental truth. There are a large number of pairs of proverbs enunciating opposite truths. Such as, you are never too old to learn, but you can’t teach an old dog new tricks. It is important to do a thing well, or none at all, but half a loaf is better than none. The bigger the better, but someone said small is beautiful. Clothes make the man, but we should not judge a book by its cover. You must look before you leap because haste makes waste, but remember time and tide wait for none, and you must strike while the iron is hot. Great men think alike, but fools seldom differ. If knowledge is power, how can ignorance be bliss?

Long before we had heard of Corona, a keen SoY-er, Rahul Bhagwanrao Muli, suggested to me the idea of songs of contrasting ideas, and also sent me a list of such pair of songs. This can be really unlimited. Let me present a selection of some songs with their contra songs, with thanks to Mr Muli.

तक़दीर/तदबीर

This must be one of the most popular conflicts in Hindi films. If ‘whatever will be will be’ and no one can erase what is written in one’s destiny, is it really worthwhile doing backbreaking work? But God helps those who help themselves. That is what Lala Kedarnath thought in Waqt (1965). He was proud of what he had achieved and was confident of expanding his business into more prosperity by the dint of his hard work. The astrologer, who must have sponged himself all his life on other peoples’ earnings, warns him of ominous things that might happen. And lo and behold, in the earthquake, the Lala loses his everything, plus his entire family to boot. The film was a great eulogy to destiny: Aage bhi jaane na tu; Waqt ke din aur raat. For some reason taqdeer does not follow the laws of probability in our songs, it almost always brings misery.

1. Taqdeer ka fasana jaakar kise sunaayein, is dil mein jal rahin hain armaan ki chitaayein by Rafi from Sehra (1963), lyrics Hasrat Jaipuri, music Ramlal

It takes a seductive club dancer to emphasise the importance of action over destiny.

2. Tadbeer se bigadi hui taqdeer bana le, apne pe bharosa hai to ye daaon laga le by Geeta Dutt from Baazi (1951), lyrics Sahir Ludhiyanavi, music SD Burman

Our philosophy is ‘Neti neti’ (neither this, nor this), therefore, we have peaceful co-existence of contrary views. Shammi Kapoor believes that everything is just play of the fate, Dilip Kumar debunks it, he is a firm believer in human effort, but this difference does not cause a dent in their friendship.

3. Haathon ki chand lakeeron ka ye khel hai sab taqdeeron ka by Suresh Wadkar and Anwar from Vidhata (1982), lyrics Anand Bakshi, music Kalyanji-Anandji

एक/अनेक

अकेला चना भाँड़ नहीं फोड़ता, but there are times when you have to Ekala chalo re. Rabindranath Tagore qualified it for situations when others did not respond to your call, but Ayn Rand, in The Fountainhead, says unambiguously through her protagonist Howard Roark that “Mind is the attribute of the individual, there is no such thing as a collective brain. Everything we have, every great achievement has come from independent work of some independent mind. Every horror and destruction came from attempts to force men into a herd of brainless, soulless robots. This is an ancient conflict. It has another name: the individual against the collective.” Listen to this monologue by Gary Cooper in the court, playing Howard Roark, in the film adaptation of the book.

4. Howard Roark’s speech in the courtroom in The Fountainhead (1949)

You can not get a clearer rebuttal of our philosophy of the individual yielding to the wishes of the collective, त्यजेदेकं कुलस्यार्थे.

5. Jodi tor daak shune keu na ashe tobe ekla chalo re by Kishore Kumar, lyrics Rabindranath Tagore

Contrast this with the international humanist Tagore’s invocation for ploughing a lonely furrow, but qualified with “If”. Amitabh Bachchan made it famous by his rendering in the film Kahaani (2012), but let us hear Kishore Kumar singing it.

6. Saathi haath badhana, ek akela thak jayega by Rafi, Asha Bhosle and chorus from Naya Daur (1957), lyrics Sahir Ludhyanavi, music OP Nayyar

It is obvious that a single person will get tired, therefore, building the road has to be a collective effort, as it has always been in our epics. Can we imaging Lord Ram reaching Lanka without the collective effort to bridge the ocean?

The value of the collective has to be instilled from the childhood. This was done by this timeless video played on Doordarshan during its days of glory.

7. Ek chidiya anek chidiya (animated short film) by Bhimsain

Forgiveness/Revenge: ‘To turn in the other cheek’/ ’Eye for an eye’

Turn in the other cheek” can create serious dilemma, because tolerating injustice is as sinful as the perpetration of injustice. अहिंसा परमो धर्म‌: might appear to be an absolute dictum, but it is followed by धर्म हिंसा तथैव च (so too is all righteous violence). (See Note 1 at the end.)

Forgiving can be immensely more difficult than seeking forgiveness. In the philosophical dance-drama Shyama, Tagore depicts the heart-wrenching pain of the hero Bajrasen at his inability to forgive Shyama who has committed a most horrific crime to get him. No one could convey this pain better than Hemant Kumar, singing the last verse of Shyama.

8. Khomite parilam na je by Hemant Kumar singing the last verse of Shyama, Tagore’s dance-drama

Leaving its detailed explanation to our scholar N Venkataraman, very briefly Bajrasen has been falsely accused of stealing the necklace of the princess and is being taken to the gallows. The beautiful court dancer Shyama becomes infatuated with him, and, to get him released, persuades her infatuated lover Uttiyo to take his place. On knowing this Bajrasen is horrified and repulsed, and is unmoved by Shyama’s entreaties for forgiveness. And then in the last scene he wails before the Lord, “O Lord the Redeemer, I couldn’t forgive her, please have mercy on my helplessness. She the sinner, as she repents and falls at your feet, you would pardon her and redeem her. But you would not forgive me, for my unforgiveness, O Lord the Redeemer.

Our film songs are not bothered by such philosophical doubts. Here the wronged man is very clear in cursing ‘eye for an eye’ to the perpetrator.

9. Mere dushman tu meri dosti ko tarase by Rafi from Aye Din Bahar Ke (1966), lyrics Anand Bakshi, music Laxmikant-Pyarelal.

The severity of Dharmendra’s curses would send shivers down your spine: Mujhe gham denewaale, tu khushi ko tarase/ Tu phool bane patjhad ka, tujh pe bahaar na aye kabhi/ Meri tarah hi tu tadape, tujh ko qaraar na aye kabhi/ Jiye tu is tarah ki zindagi ko tarase.

But not all dejected lovers are so bitter. Some are very Gandhian.

10. Meri kahani bhoolanewale tera jahan aabad rahe by Rafi from Deedar (1951), lyrics Shakeel Badayuni, music Naushad

So what if you have forgotten me, may you get all the happiness in life.

पास/दूर

Earlier we were confused between ‘Out of sight, out of mind’ and ‘Absence makes the heart grow fonder’, because ‘Familiarity breeds contempt.’ But now there is no ambiguity. Ae dil mujhe aisi jagah le chal jahan koi na ho must be the ultimate social-distancing song, but this is sung by a morose man and there is an element of misanthropy in this. Talat Mahmood has also sung a great inspirational song for these days, befitting well-adjusted people.

11. Humse aya na gaya tumse bulaya na gaya by Talat Mahmood from Dekh Kabira Roya (1957), lyrics Rajendra Krishna, music Madan Mohan

हमसे आया न गया तुमसे बुलाया न गया
फासला प्यार में दोनो से मिटाया न गया

I couldn’t come
You couldn’t call me
We were deeply in love
Therefore we could not erase the distance between us

But not all lovers were so understanding. Generally they would not separate without kicking and screaming.

12. Teri duniya se door chale hoke majboor humein yaad rakhna by Rafi and Lata Mangeshkar from Zabak (1961), lyrics Prem Dhavan, music Chitragupta

But the wise lovers devised their own ways of consoling each other, such as in Chaahe paas ho chaahe door ho, mere jeevan ki tum tasveer ho. The women are stronger in such situations as in the next song.

13. Wo paas bhi rahkar paas nahin, hum door bhi rahkar door nahin by Lata Mangeshkar from Afsana (1951), lyrics Asad Bhopali, music Husnlal-Bhagatram

Even if he was close by he must have been engrossed in cricket or football on the TV, but the generous lady feels close to him even if he is now far away.

दोस्ती /प्यार

This is a singular contribution of Bollywood to the world of ideas. Ruth Vanita and Saleem Kidwai have written and edited a scholarly book, ‘Same Sex Love in India: A Literary History’. I don’t think anyone has written its companion book, ‘Opposite Sex Friendship in India’. We know the reason; being educated in Bollywood Academy we know that it is an impossibility, as Mehboob Khan showed so eloquently in Andaaz (1949). If you commit this mistake, you end up singing Kisi ko dil ka dard mila hai, kisi ko man ka meet on the piano, and wait for a graver disaster. Raj Kapoor expanded this idea in Sangam (1964) by elevating dosti to the highest pedestal. Dosti is between the same sex, particularly men, but the entry of a woman messes up both dosti and pyar.

14. Dost dost na raha, pyar pyar na raha by Mukesh from Sangam (1964), lyrics Shailendra, music Shankar-Jaikishan

When there is no woman, all confusions disappear. Dosti and Pyar both remain intact.

15. Meri dosti mera pyar (Koi jab raah na paaye, mere sang aaye, ki pag pag deep jalaaye) by Rafi from Dosti (1964), lyrics Majrooh Sultanpuri, music Laxmikant-Pyarelal

Notes
1. Ahimsa paramo dharmah occurs at many places in the epic Mahabharat, but its next part Dharma hinsa tathaiva cha is a hanging line, and is often affixed to the first part as a critique of Gandhi’s non-violence, and as a general endorsement of violence for just causes. To my knowledge the two parts do not appear together anywhere. I have used the spurious information from the Internet for making the point.

2. There are a large number of videos on the YouTube of the dance-drama Shyama, performed by various groups. It is performed to either pre-recorded music or to singing by live singers in the wings. The record by the doyens Hemant Kumar, Kanika Banerjee and others, is most highly regarded. Its commercial CD has been brought out by Saregama India Limited. You can move to its last two minutes for the song #8 I have added. Some enthusiasts have also made Shyama into a film.

3. ‘Corona’ is a generic name for a class of flues known for several years. The current one, which has caused worldwide mayhem, has a longish technical name, but I have used the word in common usage to refer to the current pandemic.

4. ‘Same Sex Love in India’ was published first in the year 2000 by St Martin’s Press. Its revised edition was published in 2008 by Penguin India. This book has been cited in the Supreme Court judgement dated 6 September 2018 on Section 377 of the IPC. Incidentally, the book mentions that Vatsyayan gives an important place to friendship in Kamsutra, and the women categorised as avoidable by a man include, among others, his own female friend. So Mehboob Khan was, after all, enunciating ancient wisdom Smile.

Disclaimer/Acknowledgement
1. At places I have been irreverent in my writing, in a light-hearted way. No disrespect is meant to anyone, least of all to the very respected ladies. Nevertheless, I sincerely apologise if anyone feels offended.

2. The song links have been embedded from the YouTube only for the listening pleasure of the music lovers. This blog does not claim any copyright over these which rests with respective owners like Saregama India Limited and others.

3. Songs #9 and 10 are Mr Muli’s contribution. He had sent several other pair of songs, I am leaving it to him and other readers to contribute such pair of songs explaining the underlying contrasting ideas pertaining to that pair.

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  1. Highly interesting topic, complimented by selection of even more interesting songs.

    Normally pandemic sets in a mood of depression, but in some people it has set the gene of creativity come alive.

    Congratulations for such a creative piece and thanks to providing the food for thought (::/)

  2. What an interesting post, AK. I have often pondered over the way our idioms can be so contrary to each other, but I never thought to extend that to songs. This is a post with which I have only one complaint: it’s too short! 🙂

  3. Very interesting, AK ji.
    Little tricky to select the songs!!

    Tere dar pe aaya hoon
    Kuch kar ke jaoonga….
    Various LAILA MAJNUs

    Or

    Teri galiyon mein hum aaye..
    MINOO

    Or

    Jaaoon toh kahan jaaoon
    Sab kuch yahin hai
    Tere ghar ke bahar toh
    Na dunia na deen hai
    ANAMIKA

    Paired with…

    Teri galiyon mein na rakhenge kadam
    Aaj ke baad…
    HAWAS

    Or

    Teri duniya se hoke majboor chala
    PAVITRA PAAPI

    Or

    Hum chod chale hain mehfil ko
    Yaad aaye kabhi toh mat rona
    JEE CHAHTA HAI

  4. Interesting theme AK and well presented. Your theme reminded me of two snippets of songs from the same film that my father mentioned several time. Neeraj presented the moods of love in contrasting ways in Prem Pujari. In ‘Phoolon ke rang se’ he says ‘Yaad tu aaye, man ho jaaye, bheed ke beech akela’. In contrast in ‘Shokhiyon mein ghola jaaye’ he says ‘Yaad agar wo aaye, aise kate tanhaayi; soone shahar mein jaise, bajne lage shahnai.’

    Apart from contra songs I wonder if there are enough examples to fill a complementary songs post? The one example that comes to my mind – that I mentioned in my post on Maand-Shivranjani – is the lament of the boy who walked away from his beloved expecting that she would call him back ‘Main yeh soch kar uske dar se utha tha’; and the lament of the lady who failed to stop the man as he was walking away ‘Jo main jaanti bisrat hain saiyan, ghughta mein aag laga deti.’

    There is a kind of contrast in two great songs: ‘Tum apna ranj-o gham’ with its unconditional support even if ‘he’ is not interested; and ‘Kabhi tanhaiyon mein yoon’ which says ‘Yeh bijli raakh kar degi yeh tere pyaar ki duniya, na tu phir ji sakega aur, na tujhko maut aayegi.’

  5. Very interesting and thought provoking theme AKji.
    It would be difficult to post songs off hand.
    Can we think of this pair of songs from Kala Bazaar, one praising the strength of money, the other stating to be away from money.

    Teri dhoom har kahin
    And
    Na main dhan chahoon

    Anup
    🙂

  6. Hope/despair: ‘Gardish mein hon taare, na ghabrana pyare’ vs ‘Zindagi dene wale sun, teri duniya se dil bhar gaya.’ There seem to be a lot more despair songs than songs of hope.

  7. I got carried away and omitted one from the pair I wanted to post.

    Teri galiyon mein na rakhenge kadam aaj ke baad…

    HAWAS.
    Rafi,Sawan Kumar Tak Usha Khanna.

    Jis gali mein tera ghar na ho balma
    Us gali se hume na gujarna…

    KATI PATANG.
    Mukesh, AB, RDB.

  8. AKji,

    Hats off for presenting an original and creative article. Adverse situations can produce out-of-the-box thinking.

    Thank to Rahulji for implanting the seeds for this article. And you have nourished the idea into a tree with vibrant fruits, vegetables, and flowers. Thanks to Rahulji and congratulations to you for the brilliant piece.

    As Anupji has said, it seems it would be difficult for me to think and post songs on the theme off hand.
    And Pradeepji has taken guard and seems to be at ease on the away pitch too.

  9. AK ji
    Thanks for taking up what I suggested. My suggestion was not even a skeletal & you have made it come alive
    आपने उसमे प्राण भर दिये
    Will come back after reading the article & the comments that have appeared so far.

  10. Ashokji @1,
    Thanks a lot for your appreciation. Two thing happened: WhatsApp full to romantic songs of closeness, and Corona-compliant songs of distance. Mr Muli’s mail about contrasting ideas was already in my mailbox. ‘Ideas’ led to contrasting proverbs. And Hindi film songs have everything. So you have the post. I can’t be claiming the entire credit.

  11. Madhu @2,
    Thanks a lot for your appreciation. Corona gave one contrasting idea: closeness versus separation. The contrasting proverbs are so many that it just needed some epiphany to connect the two. Had I worked harder I could have found more than a dozen contrasting ideas and corresponding songs. You think of anything under the sun, you are sure to get songs for that. I hope it spurs the readers’ creative juices.

  12. Dr Shetty @3, 7,
    Thanks a lot. Thanks a lot. On one contrasting idea you have come up with so many pairs of songs. Impressive. Please also think about contrasting proverbs and their songs.

  13. Subodh @4,
    Thanks a lot for your appreciation and my compliments for your brilliant selection and insightful analysis. Complementary songs could be too many. But your example of Tum apna ranj-o-gham and Kabhi tanhaaiyon mein is an interesting set. The songs are all time greats, and identifying the contrast requires a very sharp observation.

    @6,
    Nice example of complete contrast.

  14. Anup @5,
    Thanks a lot for your appreciation. Yearning for money and detachment with wealth perfectly fits the theme. And if we wrack our brains we could find many contrasting proverbs in Hindi, English and Sanskrit.

  15. Venkataramanji @8,
    Thanks a lot for your appreciation. Waiting for your return fully energised after lunch break. As Madhu said, the post was too short :), I have left the field open for the readers to post not only songs, but their contrasting ideas and their associated proverbs and cultural references.

  16. Mr Muli @9,
    Thanks a lot for your appreciation, and more importantly for mentioning contrasting ideas. Having seen your creative comments the field is yours. As I have said the scope is unlimited.

  17. 1. Ab Yaad na kar bhool ja ae dil from anokha pyar
    And
    Woh Din Yaad Karo from Humrahi

    2. Sach hue sapne tere
    And
    Jeevan sapna toot gaya

    3. Remembering someone with happiness
    Beete hue din kuchh aise hi hai, Yaad Aate hi dil machal jaye

    And

    Weeping and crying in remembrance
    Yaad Tori Aayi main to Chham Chham Royi re

  18. 4 Mat ja mat ja mere Bachpan na ja
    And
    Ja ja ja mere Bachpan

    5 Aaj phir jeene ki Tamanna Hai, Aaj phir Marne ka irada Hai

    A single song with contrasting emotions.

  19. I’m not sure about this one!

    6 Aaj Ki mulaqat bas itni
    And
    Abhi na Jao chhodkar Ke dil abhi Bhara nahi

    But
    This one appears to fit

    7 Koi bura kahe ya kahe bhala, main Shadi karne chala
    And
    Kue mein kud Ke mar Jana, Yaar tum Shadi mat Karna

  20. From the same movie…two contrasting emotions…

    DOSTANA.

    Bane chahe dushman zamana hamara
    Salaamat rahe dostana hamara…

    &

    Mere dost kissa ye kya ho gaya
    Suna hai ke tu bewafa ho gaya..

    Dosti and Dushmani, Pyar and nafrat… there are many.

  21. Anup @17, 18, 19,
    Nice pairs. #6: Difficult to classify. One interpretation is that in the first song the lady is quite OK with the duration of the meeting but the guy is pleading her to be not so rigid, whereas in the second both lovers are sad that the meeting was too short, and pleading not to leave so soon. Therefore, it is a semi-contrast song?

    Rest are superb.
    1. Happy memories/ Sad memories
    2. Romancing the childhood/ Yearning to grow up
    3. Bliss of marriage/ Perils of marriage

  22. Venkatraman ji @ 8
    Thanks a lot. You have echoed my sentiments about how the idea is nourished & embellished by AKji.
    Actually I was vexed by this thought of how the lyricists think of starkly opposite themes for a belong brine. Coincidentally the songs selected by AKji from my list had given birth to this thought. I had often tried to discuss this with some of my friends over the years . But not much interest was shown by them. Whatsaap & FB are not pepper fora, I felt. Then came SOY. I had some reservations about whether this idea would be entertained or not & I had expressed them in my mail to AKji. But he not only encouraged me but transformed my raw thoughts in to a beautiful result.

    As is evident there is no dearth of songs fitting the theme. But one must go for substance over form.
    Here is one such pair
    Chhod de sari duniya kisi ke liye – Saraswatichandra
    https://youtu.be/FFW6dBHPcTo
    Here Indeevar is being toov pragmatic when he claims that ‘ye munasib nahi aadmi ke liye’
    But see much before Indeevar wrote this , Rajinder Krishan had already helped Vaijayanti mala to leave this world
    Oonchi oonchi duniya ki – —— main aayi re tere liye sara Jag chhod ke
    https://youtu.be/KQSL2m7y460

  23. AKji,
    The saying, ‘You are never too old to learn’, is Ok with us, but the adage ‘You cannot teach an old dog new tricks’, perhaps applies to the canine crowd only, and not the senior citizens.

    Posting a pair-Hope it fits the theme

    Chale Ja Chale Ja Jahan Pyar Mile
    itane bade jahan me, koyee toh mit hoga
    iss gam kee basuree me, koyee toh git hoga,
    Jahan Pyar Mile (1970)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZNH_6i27LE&feature=emb_err_watch_on_yt

    Rani Roopmati (1957)
    Laut ke aa laut ke aa laut ke aa
    Aa laut ke aaja mere meet
    Tujhe mere geet bulate hain

    Emphasizing the contrasting situation in life…..
    Ek pal hai hasna ek pal hai rona
    Kisa hai jeevan ka khela
    ek pal hai milna ek pal bichhadna
    duniya hai do din ka mela
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hyIVG9SM46Y

  24. Go away/Don’t go: ‘Ja ja re ja, balamwa’ vs ‘Na jao saiyan chhuda ke bahiyan.’ Particularly poignant as in the first one the balamwa is being accused of spending the night with souten, while in the second one the wife knows her husband is on way to spend the night with a courtesan.

  25. Mr Muli @23,
    FB, WA, Twitter are very ephemeral platforms, and it is impossible to restrain people from posting ‘Good Morning’ messages and forward jokes, photos, and worse, unverified provocative messages. The other adverse consequence is that if you shift your serious discussion to WA platform, no one visits the main site.

    You have posted a nice pair. I see Vedant in this. It is difficult to for a person to renounce the entire world for the love of anyone. But when the Jeev has realised the Supreme Being, it becomes easy for that enlightened person to renounce the world for the Brahma (ब्रह्म).

  26. SABAK, 1973.

    Barkha Rani jara jham ke barso…
    Mukesh.

    Barkha bairan jara tham ke barso..
    Suman Kalyanpur.

  27. Venkataramanji @24,
    So you can’t teach an old dog new tricks, but this does not hold good for old humans. Very sharp Freudian analysis. That is why a youngster sang, Seekha nahi sabak tune pyar ka, whereas an oldie sang O meri zohrajaben, tu abhi tak hai haseen aur main jawan.

    You have posted a nice pair of ‘Go-No go’ songs. Since we have a large number of engineers on the group, I am sure they would be able to discover relationship between these songs and their engineering application.

    Subodh @26,
    There are also situations when the lady is not whining and crying, but quite bold in challenging:
    Jaate ho to jaao par jaoge kahan, Babuji phir aisa dil paoge kahan

  28. Another factor which further fuelled the idea of contrast songs was Sahir’s famous riposte (unprovoked)
    “Ek shahanshah ne daulat ka sahara lekar
    …….”
    Perhaps this was too strong condemnation of symbol of love that nobody had the daring to include it in a film.
    There are so many songs on Zindagi & we may easily find cotrasting songs there .
    The best pair that comes to mind is
    Main Zindagi me hardum rota hi raha hoon – Barsaat
    https://youtu.be/6HsoVuqsEIA
    Very rarely did a hero expressed his grief in such a defeatist manner
    Contrast this with (& no prizes for guessing correctly ) the epitome of never ending hope that the hero was both in reel & real life as portrayed by Sahir
    Main Zindagi ka saath – Hum Dono
    https://youtu.be/PbTY_m5yZ0w

  29. Excellent. The idea, choice of proverbs, aphorisms and sayings, choice of songs-everything is excellent. It is a unique post. I join Vaishnav ji@ 1 in appreciating the creativeness.
    As Venkatraman ji says, we have to think hard before posting songs–especially when we are not quick on the draw like Dr.Shetty.

  30. Dr Shetty @27,
    Interesting pair in which they are not exact opposites, but there is difference in degrees.

  31. “Someone said that in the human history whenever mankind faced a major crisis, it came together to save itself, but today is a crisis when we have to stay apart to save the world.”

    Your lines triggered a thought.

    Can we have the power the save the world/planet. The atrocities we, human beings all over the word, have perpetuated on her was borne patiently by Mother Earth for long. We are forced by Mother Earth to stay apart to save the Mankind; else a huge chunk of Mankind would be wiped out, thus restoring Nature”s balance. It is a chance Mother Earth is offering us for redemption. Mother Earth/ Nature do not have any compulsions to preserve “Life/Praan” in any particular form, say Mankind. If we don’t surrender (Sarangatham) to her , Mother Earth/ Nature will exercise her option in deciding in which form Life will exist in future.

  32. Venkataramanji @28,
    So Go/No-go is a big class by itself. Heard Chali ja chali ja chali ja for the first time. But why Nutan has self-doubts?

  33. Giri ji,
    Probably an idle mind getting ideas quickly!!

    Chalo dildar chalo
    Chand ke paar chalo….
    PAKEEZA

    &

    Hum tum ek kamre mein band ho
    Aur chabi kho jaaye..
    BOBBY.

    Spreading one’s ( two’s?_ I know there can not be such a word) wings far versus cocooning oneself ( twoselves_ again,a non existent word)!

    In COVID 19 times..

    One advocating ultimate social distancing ( leave the earth, for the moon, where, possibly, the virus has not yet reached!) . The other , social distancing,yes.. on a much more basic level.

  34. Mr Muli @30,
    Ek shahenshah ne daulat ka sahra lekar. But Shakeel was rebutting it? – Ek shahenshah ne banwa ke haseen Taj Mahal, saari duniya ko mohabbat ki nishani di hai

    Zindagi: What a vast minefield! Everyone lives a different life. Sometimes it also deals poor cards, at times we are always looking for better cards.

  35. I thank AK ji for introducing this new angle of looking at Hindi Film songs and the beautiful collection of songs . I have heard all these HF songs earlier but now am looking at it with a different eye .

    I do not know if any of the songs I post would fit in here .

    1) ‘ Hasne ki Chah …’ /AVISHKAR/1974/Kanu Roy/Manna Dey

    https://youtu.be/uomu2WP5CAE

    2)’ Laakhon taare aasman… /HARYALI AUR RAASTA /1962/SJ/Mukesh,Lata

    https://youtu.be/wBmkeW4y1cg

  36. AKji @31
    Committed a blunder @30 in fact two blunders
    One is pointed out by you
    Second is that Sahir’s tajmahal is included in Gazal incidentally both the films were released in 1964 but Sahir’s must have come much earlier

  37. Venkataramani @34,
    You have taken the discussion to a very serious plane. We are not bothered about the small mercies of Mother Earth in this pandemic. Because the economy has to be opened. Therefore, liquor shops have to start first. And since we have been thirsty for so many days, we are on the verge of dehydration, therefore, we would would create stampede. These people might die of Corona in the next few weeks, but you cannot blame them. They would have died yesterday without without alcohol. They cannot help if their behaviour put ten times more at risk. The Mother Earth should have given fair choices to her children.

  38. Mr Joseph @39, 41, 42, 43, 44, 45, 46, 47, 48, 49,
    Thanks a lot for your appreciation. I can see that some songs contain internal contrasts. Even without being a pair they can fit as intra-song contrasts, but in some stand-alone songs I did not understand the contrasting ideas.

  39. Posting a pair of pairs ( king pair?) All 4 songs penned by Sahir
    1 a) ye desh hai veer jawano ka
    – Naya Daur
    Hero portraying effervescent picture of his Desh full of energy, love & strength
    Machati hai dhume bastime
    Hasata hai sawan balo mein
    Khilti hai kaliyan galomein
    1 b) Jinhe naaz hai hind pe – Pyaasa
    In the same year ( 1957) now Sahir writes for a dejected & disillusioned protagonist
    Be- khauf sahami si galiya
    Masali Hui adh khilisi kaliya
    Bikti Hui khokhali rangraliya
    2 a) Wahida rehman completely shattered realizing fate of her son whose father was a dreaded dacoit & Sahir writes for her
    Tujhko halat kev aandhi se bachane ke liye
    Aaj main pyar ke aanchal me chipa leti hoon
    Tere bachpan ko – Mujhe Jeene do
    b) More than a decade later again Wahida Rehman & her son but this time brimming with Revenge.Sahir writes
    Main tujhe raham ke saye
    Mein na palane dungi
    Interestingly he uses almost
    Similar lines in both the songs with a small twist to make them fit in two different contexts altogether
    Jindgani ki kadi dhup me jalana hoga ( tere bachpan ko)
    Jindgani ki kadi dhoop mein
    Chalane dungi ( tu mere saath)
    Absolutely brilliant!

  40. Akji:

    A wonderfully creative post. If the recent flurry of activity at SoY is truly due to the lockdown then I would wholeheartedly support Justice Gupta’s suggestion that we should have 15 days’ lockdown every year!

    Here are two songs pitting ‘O bhole balma’ (Lata in Poonam; MD: SJ)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f4B8gWTkPUY

    against ‘Saiyan jhoothon ka bada sartaj’ (Lata in Do Aankhen baarah haath; MD: Basant Desai)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4n6nm8sBvyc

  41. Rahulji,
    Thanks you for providing such an interesting idea.
    And additional thanks for the contrast song by Sahir.

    Akji,
    Is it your taqdeer aur tadpbir that you attract such diverse personalities to your blog?
    Once again you have used an interesting idea at the appropriate time added fours moons to it.
    Good job. Lockdown is working for you.

    I would urge you to give more time to this article to flourish, because this idea can be and will be debated with so many minds springing, that will need some more time.
    The contrast of a believer song ( Bhajan ) would be a song of a no believer?
    A contrasting pair of songs of two believers one submissive other challenging.

    Tere phoolon se bhi pyar tere kaanton se bhi Nastik Lata
    https://youtu.be/18CI719CKmQ

    Mere hathile shyam Pankaj Mullick I have heard announcers referring this song as bhajan wondered if this can be called a bhajan.

    https://youtu.be/gakH0yfCGtA

  42. Canasya @54,
    Thanks a lot for your appreciation.
    Bhole Baalma/ Beiman Baalma must be another perennial favourite of our song makers. This has a large number of songs. SoY has some posts on this theme.

  43. Mumbaikar8 @55,
    SoY had great ‘Taqdeer’ for sure. When I found such diverse talents patronising the blog, ‘Tadbeer’ was forced upon me.

    Wouldn’t contrast of a believer song be a song admonishing the God for all the injustices he inflicts on his children?

  44. Sir. I absolutely enjoy your pieces. As a singer, it’s sheer joy to go through all your blog posts, including this one

  45. The countless possibilities make me chuckle!

    Ore maajhi….
    Mera Sajan hai us paar main is paar…
    BANDINI.

    Sajan mere us paar hai
    Milne ko dil bekarar hai…
    GANGA JAMUNA SARASWATI.

    Samay O dheere chalo
    …..
    Door hai Pee ka gaon…
    RUDAALI.

    etc, etc, etc…

    Contrasting_

    Ghar se nikalte hi
    Kuch door chalte hi
    Raste mein hai us ka ghar…
    PAPA KEHTE HAIN.

  46. Mere Piya Gaye Rangoon
    Kiya hai wahan se telephone..
    PATANGA

    Dakiya daak laaya…
    PALKON KI CHAON MEIN

    A Aa E Ee…
    Master ji ki aa gayi chitti.,.
    KITAAB

    Chitti aayee hai aayee hai chitti aayee hai….
    NAAM

    Kabootar jaa jaa jaa…
    MPK

    Sandese aate hain.,,.
    BORDER

    And, hold your breaths, in a first for our blog , a Garhwali song.

    Ghar bati chitti aegyayee.,.
    CHAKRACHAL, 1996.
    Singer, Lyricist, Composer… Narendra Singh Negi.

    https:// youtu.be/ ZQYDqZjUmhl

    Contrasting_

    Aayegee zaroor chitti sab dekhna…
    DULHAN
    ( It has not arrived!)

    Chitti na koi sandes…
    DUSHMAN

    Jaane chale jaate hain kahan
    Duniya se jaane wale
    Nahin kadmon ki nishan…
    PUSHPANJALI

  47. Abhilasha,
    Welcome to Songs of Yore and thanks a lot for your appreciation. I am happy that you found the blog useful in your professional work.

  48. Deewane hain deewanon ko
    Na ghar chahiye….
    ZANJEER

    Tere dil ka makaan
    Sainya bada alishan…
    DO USTAD

    Na chahoon sona chandi..
    Na maangoon bangla gaadi…
    BOBBY

    Contrasting_

    Ek bangla bane nyara…
    PRESIDENT

    Nazar laage Raja tore bangle par…
    KAALAPANI

    Pyara ek bangla ho
    Bangle mein gaadi ho…
    AAP KE KHATIR

    Do deewane shehar mein…
    GHARONDA

    Rehne ko ghar do o o o o…
    BIWI AUR MAKAN

  49. Subodhji @ 4
    2 Neeraj songs mentioned by you include by far the subtlest contrast lines .
    Salute to Neeraj, your father & you in that order.
    I had posted the following in the morning but I got the message regarding duplicate comment. As the comment has not appeared yet, I am repeating it.
    Tribute to Talat Mahmood on his death anniversary ( actually late by 2 days)
    Again a pair of pairs featuring a Talat song in each.
    1 a) Mohobbat hi na jo samajhe – Parchhai – Noor Lucknowi
    Usse to katl karke tadapana hi aata hai
    b) mohobbat aisi dhadkan hai – Anarkali – Hasarat
    Mere dil ne sajaye hai kec sajade aaj raho mein
    2 a) Meri yaad me tum na – Madhosh – Raja Mehdii Ali Khan
    b) Tum mijhe yun – Pagala kahi ka – Hasarat

  50. Akji,
    “Our philosophy is ‘Neti neti’ (neither this, nor this), therefore, we have peaceful co-existence of contrary views.”
    Sorry to bother you with another query. Your writings tickles back my decaying grey cells.

    “Neti,Neti” – Can it not be interpreted as gradual negation of all worldly things/ experiences until one reaches the ultimate truth? As Adi Shankara has elaborated in “Nirvana Shatakam” .
    Or is it another contrary view? Point to ponder!

  51. AKji, Rahulji,

    Pre-Independence days and post Independence years saw village folks, with hope and dream, migrating from their villages to nearby towns/cities like Calcutta in search of livelihood. Of late the scenario has changed. After Uttar Pradesh and Bihar, I believe, Bengal has the largest migrant labour force. Now the new destinations are Mumbai, Delhi, Punjab, Kerala etc. 15% of Kerala’s migrant labourers are from Bengal.

    Probably Bimal Roy’s Do Bigha Zamin was the first film to capture the agony of migrant labourers. It is about a farmer forced to move to Kolkata and operate a hand-pulled rickshaw to pay off his debt back home. There are other films too like the 1978 film Gaman. The song “Sine me jalan, aankho me tufaan sa kyun hai, is shahar me har shaks pareshan sa kyun hai” reflects their plight. I remember another film, Bhojpuri film, Bidesiya. Bhookh na jaane baasi bhat, neend na jaane tooti khat, preet na jaane jaat kujaat (Hunger knows no stale rice, sleep knows no broken cot, love knows no barriers of caste). Those were the famous dialogue from Bidesiya, (1963).

    Saeed Mirza’s Albert Pinto Ko Gussa Kyun Aata Hai (1980) is about a Mumbai family, but one extraordinary scene pays tribute to the migrant contribution to the city’s workforce. Albert (Naseeruddin Shah) approaches a group of mill workers on strike and asks one of them his name and where he’s from. He replies, and his companions do the same, addressing the camera. They are from Madhya Pradesh, Kerala, Rajasthan, Tamil Nadu, and Bihar. Each one is regarded separately, in close-up, as if to remind the viewer this isn’t a faceless mass but individuals with hopes and dreams.

    There are many Hindi film songs which can be used as mirror(s) to reflect the many contrasting situations and mood of those rural and small town folks.

    Hum Toh Chale Pardes:; This song rendered by Md.Rafi depicts the pangs of those leaving their villages.
    Sargam (1979), Anand Bakshi, Laxmikant-Pyarelal
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iRZl8E4ofF8

    Although the next song cannot be exactly termed as a contra song, yet I am posting it because it creates a sequence, a continuity. It expresses a request, an underlying hope of return. And the commentary preceding the song adds an appropriate lead up to the song and the situation. It seems this is a cover song (of Mukesh), but the rendition is impressive. Shailendra and S D Burman combines to produce another gem.
    O Jane Wale Ho Sake to Laut Ke Aana, Bandini (1963)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8_ivLj7dH-Y

    Now the contra song. The Ghar Wapsi happens. The situation in the film is different but we can draw parallels with the scenario and the feeling-” Apna ghar phir apna ghar hai”. And it is no different for the migrant workers. The feeling of comfort in their homes, in their native places make them trek for miles with no money, no food.

    Aa ab laut chale
    Aa ab laut chale
    Nain bichaye baahe pasare
    Tujhko pukare desh tera

    Aankh hamari manzil par hai
    Dil me khushi ki masti ki lahar hai
    Lakh lubhaye mahal paraye

    Shailendra together with SJ
    Jis Desh Mein Ganga Behti Hai (1961)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H8Fu_O7y-dg

    to be continued……….

  52. Venkataramanji @65,
    I take ‘Neti Neti‘ as न+इति, न+इति. That is, the Supreme Being is ‘Neither this, nor this’. I will have to discuss with some scholar if it is meant in the sense you have suggested.

    But for the sake of discussion it can surely mean what you are saying. Not exactly a contrary view, but एको सत् विप्राः बहुधा वदन्ति.

    @66,
    The suffering and dilemma of the migrant labour we are seeing from our eyes now. It is starker and more real than what we read in literature. Now there is tremendous confusion. In desperation they started on foot, and are now stranded in droves at different places back of beyond. Then there is now talk of opening up of the economy. Should they go back to their workplaces in the hope of resuming their jobs, or carry on towards their villages where the people might have enforced their own lockdown to stop these unwelcome people. Plus there are hardly commensurate economic opportunities there.

    You have given excellent songs.

  53. Continued from @66
    Even if the Ghar Wapsi is for a few days, see the joy it evokes, the spring in the feet.
    Aajaan and Pt.Ravi Shaknkar come together to produce another masterpiece, in the voice of Md.Rafi
    Pipra ke Patwa Sareekhe Dole Manwa, Godaan (1963)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6T0QiUiMNuw

    Among the new destinations, Bombay the Maya Nagai, holds an attraction for many for varied reasons.
    Presenting another contrasting situation

    Ye Haseen Bambai Apne Ko To Jam Gayi, Mahendra Kapoor & Mukesh,
    Holiday in Bombay (1963), lyrics Anjaan, music N Dutta
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJ1WcF_sut4

    But all are not that fortunate, like our protagonist in Gaman. Many of them stuck at their place of work. And even those returning during unusual times know they have no recourse other than returning again to their life of drudgery. They try to find solace in social mixing and dancing to their satirical songs.

    Bambai Bambai Bam, Disha (1990), lyrics Sai Paranjpe, music Anand Modak
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q0IaLXmALv8

  54. Venkatramanji @ 66
    You have opened a new vista of gharwapasi & pardes with a poignant writ up.
    I remember Sidharth Bhatia ( in Navketan The modern cinema) arguing. That Navketan was pioneer in breaking the stranglehold of * City- dirty, village- pure” themes in hindi cinema.
    In the context of contrast to
    Seene me jalan – – – – is shahar mein har shaks pareshan sa kun hai
    The following. Song fits bin to Bhatiya’s dichotomy
    Gori Tera gaon bada pyara – Chitchor
    Note also that there is a perfect contrast between the characters one is forced to migrate & faces severe uncertainties & other untold miseries while the other has a secure government job, unrelated family takingb good care, boss who is a friend & a heroine who falls for him.
    Regarding yourv sequence of pardes & lautna how about a song for those who perhaps want to return but are compelled by circumstances to stay put
    Bade dino ke baad hum bewatanoko yaad vatan ki mitti aayi hai or
    Aye mere pyaare watan.

  55. AK Ji and Rahul Ji,
    Many thanks for this treasure hunting post, which is really an absolute brain teaser, finding songs with contrasting colours and emotions.
    I’ve tried to take a call, ‘Chand’ and it’s synonyms being the focus.

    O chanda, aaj ki raat na dhalna by Lata Mangeshkar and Mahendra Kapoor from Mahabharat composed by Chitragupta

    https://youtu.be/dg-eoDV5KmI

    Dhire dhire dhal re chanda by Aarti Mukherjee from Angulimaal composed by Anil Biswas

    https://youtu.be/l-Rtzx9p13U

    Jagmag jagmag karta nikla
    Chand poonam ka pyara
    Meri chandni bichhad gayi
    Mere ghar me hua andhiyara

    https://youtu.be/KiG5UeS91aE

    Chand mera baadlon me kho gaya
    Meri duniya me andhera ho gaya by Talat Mahmood from Pathan composed by Aish Kanwal

    https://youtu.be/kzLF6R31T7k

    Will be back if approval granted

  56. Arvinder Sharmaji @74,
    These are surely pair of opposite songs. Please carry on, but if you could find pairs having some general contrasting ideas that would fit more. In any case a short explanation of the contrast would be most welcome.

  57. Rahulji @ 72,
    Thank you for the response.
    You have pointed out the contrast between the characters in Gaman and Chitchor well.

    You have further extended my sequence on Pardes and Ghar Wapsi. Both the songs “Bade dino ke baad hum bewatanoko yaad vatan ki mitti aayi hai” and “Aye mere pyaare watan” will fit the sequence.

    With reference to Sahir, the song “Main Zindagi ke saath nibhaata chala gaya” could have been a contrasting song for “ Kabhi Khud pe Khabi halat pe rona aaya”
    Over to you for the further comments.

    Another thought;
    No doubt, both S D Burman and Jaidev gave excellent music for Pyaasa and HumDono respectively. Yet I feel that the songs were lifted to a different plain due to Sahir Ludhyanvi’s lyrics. Sahir Ludhyanvi should score at least a point more than the MDs of the respective films.

  58. AKji @ 67,
    Your learned words are enough for me.
    You have given a very poignant view on the situation of migrant labour.
    Thanks for the answer.

  59. Arvinderji @74,

    Aap to Poonam ka chand se ab Eid ka chand ho gaye ho Arvinderji.
    Have you ever heard of “Amavasya mein chand ka uday”?

    Thanks for the songs.

  60. Venkatramanji,
    At @66, you quoted some famous dialogue from Bhojpuri film Bidesia. I invite your attention to a song from this film. This one song has two opposite views.
    Similarly, the song ‘Hai aag hamaare Seene Mein’ from Jis Desh Mein Ganga Bahti Hai is a musical debate contrasting two different viewpoints.
    1. Isk kare oo jiski jeb mein maal baa re balmu. Bidesia. Manna Dey and Mahendra Kapoor. 1963. MD- S. N. Tripathi, Lyrics- Ram Murti Chaturvedi.
    2. Hai aag hamaare seen mein. Jis desh mein ganga bahati hai. 1961. Shailendra, SJ. Manna Dey, Mahendra Kapoor, Geeta Dutt, Lata, Mukesh and chorus.
    May I request you and AKji to please give the links. I think I must learn about obtaining links.
    Thanks for the creative post.

  61. This is really a nice topic. You have explained contrast in various aspects of life very well. There are lots and lots of contrasting songs and I agree with Mumbaikar8 that this should be kept for longer period. Muliji has spoken for many of us, because contrast is part of life. ,jaki rahi bhawna jaisi, is a very relevant saying. Every situation brings contrasting emotions and results for various people. In our films there has been endless contrasting situations. Some of them have been highlighted in the write up and many more by friends.

    I would like to post some songs on these themes as I have many of them in my mind. But, first I would like to mention another one. God has been invoked in our films in I dont know in how many situations. He is called for changing our taqdeer or changing our paas/door situation or in any of the situations mentioned. In many films his existence has been challenged. Shiv Bhakta which came in 1955 was one such film. I give here two songs from that film. First is ‘humko tera naam lene se wasta’
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VU_kSMfF8u4

    In this he is all for the god, but in the other one he challenges god. This second song is a duet in which the hero’s wife is giving the opposite view.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=16xN-X2BuB0

    There was another film Janam Janam Ke Phere in which the hero is a nastik and all are after him to make him a believer. Soon the situation changes when he becomes a bhakt, he even leaves his wife for finding god and as it always happens in the end a compromising situation is reached. There are two songs from the film, one when he was a nastik and the other when he seeks god and the wife seeks him. First is a triad ‘tu hai ya nahin bhagwan’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q2s2KaSLZKs

    The second one is a duet in which the husband is after god and wife is after him. ‘zara samne to aa o chhaliye’
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vtX8KCqGp7Q

  62. Venkataramanji@24
    “The saying, ‘You are never too old to learn’, is Ok with us, but the adage ‘You cannot teach an old dog new tricks’, perhaps applies to the canine crowd only, and not the senior citizens.”

    I am not so sure about that or perhaps I belong to canine crowd In the long journey of life we gain experience but tend to drain out physically emotionally, mentally and even financially depending upon the card we are dealt by destiny. Learning anything and everything is not even worth trying because one might now even have enough time to utilize newly gained knowledge. Unless the journey of learning itself is very exciting.

    Venkataramanji@80
    Venkataramanji you have cited very good example of contrasting songs from the same movie lyric by nonother than Sahir

    Anup came close to it earlier in comment # 5 Kala bazaar songs another great Shailendra

    “Another thought;
    No doubt, both S D Burman and Jaidev gave excellent music for Pyaasa and HumDono respectively. Yet I feel that the songs were lifted to a different plain due to Sahir Ludhyanvi’s lyrics. Sahir Ludhyanvi should score at least a point more than the MDs of the respective films.”

    Don’t you thing some credit of “plain” it reached should go to the singer too.

    AK,
    Time for some songs
    Tum jo mil gaye to jahan mil gaye
    https://youtu.be/3GYp_B2J_hI
    Contrasting Yeh duniya gar mil bhi jaye to kya hai.
    https://youtu.be/7Z6Lr0JYAro

    Here Sahir lauding desh
    Yeh Desh Hai Veer Jawanon Kaa Naya daur

    https://youtu.be/EWnPJY_o7tw

    Other Truth
    Pyasa Jinhe naaz par hai hind par
    https://youtu.be/3ta4BmumQKc

    Ravish watchers will go with the later and Arnav’s fan for earlier.

  63. Mr Joseph @50, 75, 76,
    The contrast was not clear to me.

    @69,
    In the first case the lovers are in blissful togetherness, in the other the hero still yearns for that situation, but from the expression of the heroine there seems to be some misunderstanding between them. We can interpret it as contrasting pair.

    @70, 71,
    Can fit with a little stretch.

    @73, 77, 78,
    Very nice set of contrasts.

  64. Dr Shetty @60, 61,
    The contrast is not very clear to me. That is why I requested for explanation of ideas and lyrics which many readers have done.

    @63,
    Very nice contrast between desire for owning a ghar and detachment about it.

    Thanks a lot for your contributions.

  65. Hans ji @ 84
    Thanks for your kind words. you have touched upon very thought provoking aspects of contrast & with assurance of more to come from your rich reportorie .
    On the subject of God here is what Comes to my mind
    Two films separated by more than 25 years featuring legends one of them belonged to twilight period of one legend while the other came from the period of purple patch of that legend
    Both the films however had a common backdrop of British Raj .
    Sagina has Dilip Kumar singing
    Uparwala dukhiyon ki nahi sunata re where Majrooh sounds almost Sahirsque ( bit milder though) when he. Writes
    Bhole bhale lalwa khaye ja roti basi
    Bada hoke banega chaprasi
    Khel khel khel mati me Holi khel
    Gaal mein gulal hai na zulfo me tel
    Essentially he does accept that there is a god but he does not exist for the downtrodden
    Where as more than 25 years later in Lagaan Javed Akhtar in o palan hare nirgun o nyare not only advocates that there is palanhar but he does care for nirbals & poorest of poor

    A) uparwala dukhiyo ki
    https://youtu.be/SVLoxdUWqdY
    B) o palanhare
    https://youtu.be/inwE3j28DJw

  66. Venkataramanji @65, 81
    Not to labour the point about न+इति, न+इति, but it just occurred to me that the way it is interpreted it can also mean that the Supreme Being is इति च, इति च (He is this too, He is that too, such as (व्यक्त/अव्यक्त, साकार/निराकार, सगुण/निर्गुण). Sounded my scholar friend on this. He agreed that yes, it can mean this. Now just think of it, we were talking about a pair of contrasting ideas, songs. Can you think of any aphorism which contains its exact opposite too within itself? Another manifestation of the Supreme Reality? This makes me wonder why they described Him in Negation. One positive I can see in this negative is that it led to Adi Shankaracharya expanding its meaning to negation of worldly attractions.

    Migrants plight would pain even the most insensitive. Incidentally one Yaksh Prashna was, Who was happy? Yudhishthir replied that Happy is the one who, among other things, is अप्रवासी.

  67. Shachindra Prasadji @83, Venkataramanji @84,

    Ishq kare u jiski jeb mein maal baa re balamu is an excellent find. Nice Bhojpuri/folk muqabala qawwali. One party says romancing can be the pastime of only the rich, and the other party comes up with a riposte that one has to be a dilwala for ishq. A wealthy man without dil can be a total idiot in romance. I think every muqabala qawwali has two contrasting ideas. Think of Teri mehfil mein kismat aazama kar hum bhi dekhenge, Tere kadamon mein sar apna jhuka kar hum bhi dekheneg. This is also about two views of love.

  68. Hans @85,
    Thanks a lot or your appreciation. Since God is the cause of whatever happens on the earth, Bollywood is right in blaming Him when He plays the dice unfairly. Why should He play the dice at all, when He knows what is right and wrong, and accordingly reward and punish? Thanks a lot for giving many shades of God-songs.

    Mr Muli @92,
    Thanks for expanding the shades of God songs. I only hope He follows Bollywood and does not cause unexpected mass sufferings like the one the world is going through at present. By all means punish those who cause stampede at liquor shops, but why the innocents, why the desperate migrant labour?

  69. Manoj @86,
    At the current stage of the graph and the numbers everyone is looking for new statistical parameters to discover a +ve. The Covid19 has swamped the distinction between Commies, Liberals and all kinds of labels.

  70. Mumbaikar8 @87, Mr Muli @89,
    Mumbaikar8, your Arnab-Ravish pair by Sahir is brilliant. It is difficult to find such a perfect fit. It has to be about Desh/Deshbhakt and enemies of Desh. But if we stretch a little can this be a Arnab-Ravish pair?

    Le jayenge le jayenge, dilwaale dulhaniya le jayeneg
    &
    Mubarak ho sabko saman ye suhana/Main khsuh hun mere aansuon pe na jana/Main to deewana deewana deewana

    If you approve this, then:
    Arnab: Tujhko mirchi lagi to main kya karun
    Think of Ravish.

  71. Subodh @88,
    Nice pairs. Not only from the same film, but also one derived from the other in the same meter.

  72. Single song with contrasting emotions allowed?

    TRISHUL
    KK, LM, KJJ; Sahir ,Khayyam.

    Mohabbat bade kaam ki cheez hai…

    Yahi ek Araam ki cheez hai
    ×
    Ye bekaar bedaam ki cheez hai.
    ×
    Ye Kudrat ki inaam ki cheez hai
    ×
    Ye bas naam hi naam ki cheez hai
    ….

  73. AAR PAAR, 1954.

    Sun Sun Sun sun zalima
    Pyar humko tumse ho gaya…

    Jaa jaa jaa bewafa
    Kaise pyar kaisi preet re..

    Rafi, Geeta Dutt.

    A ched chad song with contrasting views, yes. The heroine is relenting.

    But,

    Jaa jaa jaa bewafa…
    Geeta Dutt solo is seriously contrasting.

  74. AK ji ,

    @50 , ‘ Choti si yeh duniya…’

    Vyjayantimala’s body language speaks how broken she is when her love has left her for good and that it is a hopeless case . But the contrast is that she is still hoping that she may atleast be able to meet him somewhere someday .

    @75 , ‘Yeh hai Bombay …’

    All through Johnny Walker says ‘…hai mushkil jeena yahaan…’ but in the end the lady says… ‘ … hai aasan jeena yahaan…’ , which is a clear contrast .

    @76 , ‘Gori chalo na …’

    Mehmood is continuously warning Shubha Khote about the lurking dangers in the world of love but she is fearless and ready to fight anything and anyone for love . She gives a loud message…love is not for the chicken hearted.

  75. Dr Shetty @99, 100,
    Single songs having contrasting emotions are very interesting. Your examples are perfect fit.

  76. Mr Joseph @101,
    Thanks a lot for the explanations. Without this it was very difficult what contrasts you were referring.

    103,
    Thanks a lot for the addition of such nice songs.

  77. Mr Muli @102,
    It is very gratifying that you gave a thought to the plight of sharabis. You could make out from the stampede, melee, and sometimes police lathis on their back, that they are in a more miserable condition than the migrant labour. Soon artificial limits were imposed, less than needed for survival. Then the shops were shut suddenly. The least they deserved was to be treated with dignity in their misery. I hope home delivery addresses these problems. Thanks for remembering this deprived section, and thanks for posting two interesting songs. Corona is a great leveller. From the videos it didn’t appear that anyone was an occasional drinker.

  78. AK ji @ 106
    In fact Dev is vmore hardened drinker in Sharabi than Rajesh in Prem Nagar
    But I wrote it in the context of the lyrics.
    Sawan ke mahine me
    The hero puts 2 conditions
    1 sawan ka mahina 2 & aag seene me
    Therefore I called him contingent drinker
    While in premnagar hero talks about wine as if it is an appendage

  79. @ 102 & 106
    Hungama hai kyun barpa
    Thodi si jo pee li hai
    Daka to nahi dala
    Tijori to Bhar di hai

  80. Rahulji, @ 102
    “So I thought that bringing that issue here may be in order .
    Binge Drinker V/S Contingent drinker”
    Adding “c” category to your drinker or perhaps “d” for Devdas?
    Haath Ki Safai 1974 Peene walo ko pineka bahana
    https://youtu.be/Wd9IobPCveA

  81. Venkataramanji @109
    Tijori to bhar di hai‘: I am impressed, you have seriously studied the thesis of a famous economist at the WhatsApp Univerity. When a sharabi falls down no one lifts him up, but when the economy collapses only he lifts it up. When the government treasuries go bankrupt, not even able to pay their employees’ salary, sharabi is there at the forefront to contribute even at the risk of infection and police lathis. ऐसे महान देशभक्तों को नमन!

    @Mr Muli, Mumbaikar 8,
    Thanks for remembering these selfless deshbhakts. Temples, mosques closed, liquor shops open. Harivansh Rai Bachchan had the foresight:
    बैर कराते मंदिर मस्ज़िद
    मेल कराती मधुशाला

  82. Mr Joseph @111,
    Nice contrast of songs on ‘pyar’. I particularly disliked c) in the movie. It seemed to be forced, and picturisation seemed clumsy. In the context of the present theme, if one has to eulogise love you don’t do it with the threat of capital punishment 🙂 .

  83. AKji

    I think I still have not grasped the idea behind this concept in full. An abstract idea has been expanded like the expanding universe we live in and presented in a delightful manner. I would dab the post avant garde. No doubt you reign supreme in your world of blogmaster. Cuius regio eius religio.
    I am expounding my muddled thinking on the post with the following two songs from the same film – Ek Gaon ki Kahani (1957) both by Talat Mahmood and well known fitting into the theme of horse cart songs. Music was by Salil Chowdhury
    Jhoomere neela ambar jhoome-
    https://youtu.be/tkUctZEXoyY?t=2
    Raat ne kya kya quab dikhayi
    https://youtu.be/iD5pNcyQdGU

    In the first song Talat Mahmood as a doctor is arriving at the village in a happy mood to serve in that capacity.
    In the second song he is leaving the village fully disillusioned at the turn of events with a tearful Mala Sinha watching from the house.

    Would this qualify in this post as one of contrast.

  84. A. Can’t live without you.
    versus
    B. Can’t care less!

    A.

    Hum tere bin jee na sakenge sanam…
    JOURNAIL SINGH.

    Tere bina zindagi se koi shikwa toh nahin
    ….
    Tere bina zindagi bhi lekin zindagi toh nahin…
    AANDHI

    Tere bina jiya jaye na..
    GHAR

    Hame aur jeene ki chahat na hoti
    AGAR TUM NA HOTE

    Jiye toh jiye kaise ..
    SAJAN

    B.

    Ab tere bin jee lenge hum
    Zehar zindagi ka pee lenge hum.. .
    AASHIQUI

  85. Mr Rangan @114,
    I would not be so presumptuous as to explain to you the idea behind the concept. However, I would not include the pair of songs from Raat ne kya kya khwab dikhaye. My focus was on two opposites – proverbs, aphorisms, ideas – which are both truths. The discussions have widened to include songs of similar lyrics or similar phrases but talking of contrasting emotions. Waiting for your comeback.

  86. Muli ji @107
    You said in Sharabi Dev puts two conditions. There is a saying सावन के अंधे को हरा ही हरा दिखाई देता है. दारूबाज ka bhi hardam sawan rehta hai. I would have cited the ‘peenewalon ko’ for this but that has been mentioned by Mumbaikar8. So far as the other condition is concerned, when the appointed hour cometh the दारूबाज always feels this aag si seene men. You must have heard the song
    याद आयी आधी रात को कल रात की तौबा
    दिल पूछता है झूमके किस बात की तौबा
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3YMD0I3e91Y

    My father used to mention a sher
    शाम को पी ली सुबह को तौबा कर ली
    रिन्द के रिन्द रहे हाथ से जन्नत न गयी

    I think this ‘seene ki aag’ is utilised by the govt – as suggested by AK – to improve our economy as well as the economy of our great police force, whose greatness is being recognised by throwing flower petals by the modern devtas (armed forces) in this COVID opportunity.

  87. In 1964 there were two films ‘aaya toofan’ and ‘aayi milan ki bela’, which discussed the kamsin nature of the fair sex. One said ‘abhi kamsin ho nadaan ho janejana, kya karogi mera dil tod dogi mera dil pehle seekho dil lagana’. The other said ‘tum kamsin ho nadaan ho najuk ho’. The second one was replied in the film as ‘ main kamsin hoon’, though it cannot be strictly called a contra song. Link to the first one is given here.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xbHxjMhPQew
    This song is lip synced by Manohar Deepak, who has to his credit some of the great songs filmed on him. ‘Ki main jhooth boliya’ and ‘hujoorewala’ come to mind. In the song ‘huzoorewala jo ho ijazat’ Helen and Madhumati are addressing the song to him and he keeps mum. As he had already told Madhumati and her dancer friend that they are kamsin, so he thought it better to be silent in 1966. Link to the Ye Raat phir na aayegi song. I think this is a fit contra song pair.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-6ym4uOOtEo

    There is one more pair of songs on the same theme.
    Gore hathon par na zulm karo from film Pyar Kiye Ja
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JVL05WlA3c0

    Here the hero is talking about ‘nazuk’ ladies. But in Vaasna the hero is reprimanding her for the same thing.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RuMfBo17vgk

  88. Tera jalwa jisne dekha wo tera ho gaya – Ujala
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KVLvnK4VlGc

    This one talks about the jalwa in a positive sense. Then comes the song from Mere Huzoor ‘rukh se jara nakab utha do mere huzoor, jalwa phir ek baar dikha do mere huzoor’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MTwtrF243kY

    Now, look at this song from Dil Ne Phir Yaad Kiya, ‘Humne jalwa dikhaya to jal jaoge’. Is this not a contra song of the two above.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4JFrb7L3tAg

  89. AKji
    @94. You spoke of very popular muqabla kawwali songs with contrasting ideas. That reminds me of a poular song, of course a muqabla song, with a difference. I consider this song rather offbeat with respect to the core concept and wavelength of this post. Yet, the aphoristic lyrics of great Shailendra convincingly qualify it for inclusion here. The hero and the heroine are on collage stage posing questions to each other that are clearly answered through counter questions. Harmony and contradiction coexist in every stanza.
    Lata and Rafi have sweetly sung under Shankar Jaykishan.
    Please link it up if you think it fits the bill. Please listen it on you tube.
    ‘Ek sawal main karoon, ek sawal tum karo’, Sasural, 1961.

  90. Hans @125,
    Very interesting analysis of ‘kamsin’. this took me back to classic commercials of Amul Chocolate. You would remember this centred around internal contradiction, such as
    1. ‘I am too old for balloons, too young to miss cartoons/ But I think you are just right for Amul Chocolates’
    2. ‘I am too old for uniform, too young to be reformed/ But I think you are just right for Amul Chocolates’

    ‘Kamsin’ seems something like that, she may be too old for frocks, too young to understand politics, but she is just right for ishq.

    @126,
    Interesting ‘jalwa’ contrast. But our philosophy is synthesis of different views. There must be a way to harmonise them.

  91. Shachindraji @127,
    Nice song fitting the theme perfectly. Every stanza has an inner contradiction and its resolution. Here is the song:

    Ek sawal main karun ek sawal tum karo by Rafi and Lata Mangeshkar from Sasural, lyrics Shailendra, music Shankar-Jaikishan

  92. If there were to be a grading system for contrast songs this pair would definitely qualify for A +++
    A Duniya mein hum aaye hai to jeena hi padega – Mother India – Shakeel
    B is duniya me jeena hai to –
    Gumnam – Hasarat
    Contrast in these 2 songs starts from the first line & runs all through 2 antaras.
    The first one talks of jeher peena while the second talks of living with gay abandon.
    Nargis is professing about musibate, aag pe chalana while Helen is hell bent on hasana , gaana, zulf, ghata & even Aish.
    Continuing their respective stances in the second antara Nargis presents woman as pativrata with laaj ka dharam and Helen portrays herself as albeli Chingari inviting everybody to take lessons from her .

  93. A song of internal contrasts . It repeatedly emphasises the nature of life that… you shall have some sad situations and some happy situations.

    ‘ Yeh jeevan hai… /PIYA KA GHAR / 1972 / LP / Kishore Kr

    https://youtu.be/IEcYHmAbznE

  94. In this song you hear internal contrast all through . After mentioning of ups and downs of life the line … ‘ udasi bhare din kabhi toh dhalenge ‘ is repeated . The song repeats … dark times shall always end which means good times are sure to follow.

    ‘ Kahan tak ye… ‘ / BATON BATON MEIN / 1979 / Rajesh Roshan / Kishore Kr

    https://youtu.be/Hz_19oNVX1A

  95. Mr Muli @130,
    This is superb. I don’t know whether this would get A+++, but on one hand you have,

    Khullam khulla pyar karenge hum dono. Here both declare,
    दोनों प्यार हम करते हैं चोरी नहीं/
    हम वो करेंगे जो दिल कहे हमको ज़माने से क्या/
    जिनको ये अजी ये खज़ाना मिले देख के उनको दुनिया जले
    They also do not refrain from mocking others who are not so unabashed,
    देख वो इश्क़ चुपके से फरमा रहे हैं
    है क्या मज़ा दिल ही दिल में घबरा रहे हैं

    Contrast this with Pyaas kuchh aur bhI bhadaka di jhalak dikhala ke, tujhko parda rukh-e-roshan se hatana hoga. And this is what Shyama (Asha Bhosle) replies to the desperate pleading of Talat Mahmood (actor-singer),
    चांद आईना मेरा तारे मेरे नक़्श-ए-कदम
    ग़ैर को आंख मिलाने की तमन्ना क्यों है/
    हमने अच्छा किया घबरा के मुंह फेर लिया
    इससे कम दिल के तड़पने की सज़ा क्या होगी

    If this passes muster then new-age love songs and old soft, romantic songs would present a perfect contrast.

  96. AKji @ 130
    Thanks for appreciation
    Actually I had khullam khulla in my list pitted against
    Main tujhse milne aayi mandir jane ke bahane from Heera but your choice is far better.
    As regards contrast between old age & new age love , we often tend to put new age love in physical rather than platonic compartment. But here is a contrast to that contrast
    a) where old age love is yearning for physical presence in the form of a wailing lament
    Laut ke aa – Rani Roopmati –
    – Bharat Vyas
    b) new age hero philosophically accepting the absence ( may be he is a businessman therefore converts problem into opportunity)
    Tera na hona hi – Jab We Met – Iqbal Kamil
    Mr Joseph has mentioned laut ke aa earlier but with other song.

  97. Muli ji @ 122
    I mentioned the songs in a lighter vein only, though I agree with AK that there not much contrast in the two song situations.

    @ 130
    You have a great expertise in searching contrast in the songs. You also study lyrics very closely. Since you are on duniya, l would also like to post a few songs though with a different turn. In most of the golden era films the leading pair were faced with the wrath of general public. There is a great song by Sahir in Bahu Begum ‘duniya kare sawal to hum kya jawab den’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YHqdKJMoEoE

    I have two different counters to this. First, KK from Amar Prem ‘kuchh to log kahenge’
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=95UdAo4JdJI
    But in the secong Asha Bhonsle is very crude when she says ‘aji hum aur tum hon sath sath aur mast raat, duniya ko maar do bum’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRNx3Tj-dsM

  98. Hansji @139
    Simply brilliant choice of contrast ( duniya kare sawal & kuch to log ) . Both the songs are very high my favorite list. Th third one by Asha , I do not recall & will have to listen
    Thanks for kind words. Though a die hard SD fan I believe that lyrics are equally important at least for the song to remain relevant even after 50- 60 years . For short term success even khatiyas & kabutars can serve the purpose.

  99. AK, Rahulji, Hans,
    Getting very interesting .
    Rahulji @130″ Duniya mein hum aaye hai to jeena hi padega” has absolutely different truth and contra from mine.
    I had thought about but it but got lazy to post.
    My truth and contra for Duniya me hum aaye to jeena hi padenga was on “ have and have nots”
    For haves the song that came to my mind was
    Jab dil hi toot gaya hum jeek kya karnege,Shahjahan
    https://youtu.be/7lZLePeN7BA
    And for have nots duniyame hum aaye to jeena hi padenga.
    Yesterday watching migrant’s plight Mother India’s shots come alive.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RjYhUk6M0iM

    Back to fiddling.
    Contra ghunghat songs
    Hata de ghunghat from Fareb.
    https://youtu.be/OZHt4wHp4ts
    Ghunghat to zara odho Teen deviyan
    https://youtu.be/M9oQZQvCQqE

  100. Mumbaikar8,
    Ghunghat offers many possibilities. It is a barrier to achieving the reality, but on the way the lady can be playful:
    Ghunghat nahin kholun re sainya tore aage.

    One who has understood the truth is matter of fact:
    Ghunghat ke pat khol re tohe piya milenge

    But if someone gets distracted by illusions, improper desires, there might be kalank:
    Mora dheere se ghunghat hataye piya mohe chandrakalanki bataye piya
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_rwZbu64VZM

  101. Akji, Mumbaikarji,

    The songs presented here or the write-up may not be exactly related to the theme of the post, contra songs. But linking it to the comments of Mumbaikarji @ 141, I am taking the liberty to give a touch of contradiction. I hope you would excuse me for this transgression.

    @141,
    ‘ ”Duniya mein hum aaye hai to jeena hi padega” has absolutely different truth and contra from mine.
    I had thought about but it but got lazy to post.
    My truth and contra for Duniya me hum aaye to jeena hi padenga was on “ have and have nots”.

    Serious thought and reflections do occur during trifling times. And there will be lighter moments during darker times, too. That reminds me of a saying by a German playwright and poet.

    “In the dark times
    Will there also be singing?
    Yes, there will also be singing
    About the dark times.”

    Hindi cinema has songs expressing every possible human impulse, fun, romantic and sad songs. Lyricists like Sahir Ludhyanvi, Shailendra, Gulzar have railed against injustice and rallied for the cause of have-nots/ downtrodden. Chali Kaunse Desh Gujariya Too Saj Dhaj Ke, Mehnat Kash Insan Jaag Utha, Haal Chaal Theek Thaak Hai, Yeh Mahalon Yeh Takhton, Yeh Tajon Ki Duniya etc etc.

    Sahir Ludhianvi presents some bitter home truths about the lives of the poor and the homeless with an intense satire. Most of will know the background of the lyrics and the satire aimed at. I am not going into those details.

    Chin-o-arab hamara, hindostan hamara
    Rahane ko ghar nahi hai, sara jahan hamara
    Hindostan hamara

    In the end he presents a glimmer of hope.

    Patala hai hal-e-apana, lekin lahu hai gadha
    Phaulad se bana hai, har naujavan hamara
    Mil-julake is vatan ko, aisa sajayege ham
    Hairat se munh takega sara jahan hamara

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SoIQxfTQ1sE

    But it is not despondency alone; there are songs of optimism, hope and positive vibes, reminding us not to slip into despair as we battle our own dark times.

    Borrowing a few lines from poet Faiz Ahmed Faiz.
    “Dil Na Umeed To Nahi Nakam Hi To Hai,
    Lambi Hai Gham Ki Shaam Magar Shaam Hi To Hai”

    “The heart isn’t hope-less, after all…it is only helpless
    the night of despair is (admittedly) long; but it is only a night…after all!”

    Echoing the above sentiments Sahir Ludhyanvi wrote,
    Woh Subah Kabhi To Aayegi, Mukesh & Asha Bhosle, Khayyam, Phir Subah Aayegi (1958)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ue-hEmMyMvc

    Almost 60 years later producers of Begum Jaan (2017) found the song still relevant.
    Woh Subah Hami Se Aayegi, Arijit Singh and Shreya Ghoshal
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qLFpx-24ENw

  102. On Ghoonghat there are numerous songs .

    Here the lady is being told not hide in the ghoonghat

    ‘ Gori ghoonghat mein…’ / GHOONGHAT / 1960 / Ravi / Asha

    https://youtu.be/JGnbXSCdGsw

    But in these two songs the lady is persuaded to cover / covering herself in the ghoonghat

    b ) ‘ Ghoonghat hata na …’ / SAPAN SUHAANE / 1961 / Salil Choudhary / Lata & chorus

    https://youtu.be/iWXj57A4kZ0

    c) ‘ Ghoonghat nahi kholoongi…/ MOTHER INDIA / 1957 / Naushad / Lata

    https://youtu.be/HgxzXkuHfu0

  103. AK ji
    Parada is a variant of ghungat.
    There were 2 films featuring Sanjay Khan having a song each on parda hatana
    A) ye parada hata do – Prem Dhawan
    A sophisticated request by Sanjay Khan to Sadhana
    https://youtu.be/IgaxVsCd-I0

    B) parda hata de , mukhada dikha de – Madhavi – Anand Bakshi
    https://youtu.be/hDugodyk8H0

    A more rustic one by Mehmood to Aruna
    It is a forgotten & forgettable film in which One Deepa made her first & perhaps the last appearance. But I had seen it & remember it more for another song saanjh savere adharo pe mere by Lata
    And counter to both is given by Asha Parekh in a more famous number
    C) parde me Rahane do – Shikar – Hasarat
    https://youtu.be/lthlT_CWzmo

  104. I am shifting focus back to god.
    Phir subah hogi & chandan both were released in 1958.
    Song from phir subah hogi is typically Sahir’s with sarcasm & black humor where he says
    Aaj kal wo kisiko rokaya nahi
    Chahe kuch bhi kijiye tokta nahi
    Ho Rahi hai loot pat phat rahe hai bum
    Aasma pe hai khuda aur jamee pe hum
    Aaj kal wo is taraf dekhta hai
    Kum
    This is countered by Rajinder Krishan in Chandan
    Chup chup koi daka dale
    Ya kare khun
    Ho jaye usko automatic telephone
    Are chobis ghante jage
    Uski aankh kabhi na lage
    Bachke rahana dekh raha
    Hai sab kuch Uparwala

  105. Here again there is internal countering . Kishore Kumar is confident but Nargis says in matters of the heart nothing can be said .

    ‘ Chaand raat tum… ‘ / HALF TICKET / 1961 / Salil Choudhary / Kishore , Lata

    https://youtu.be/zFO9QvDV3JI

  106. In previous post please read Madhubala for Nargis . It is a big mistake though unintentional error . Sorry for the mistake.

  107. AK @ 128
    This Amul oldie was telecast alongwith Ramayan etc in the beginning, when there were less ads. Felt nice with nostalgia.

    Actually you have covered examples from many fields of life in your write up. The themes presented and others mentioned by friends are bringing a storm of songs to my mind. I am trying to limit them by connecting them with words and phrases and looking for contrasts. Here is another word ‘uljhan’. The first song is ‘uljhan suljhe na’ from Dhund, with beautiful use of both the words taqdeer and tadbeer in the last antra.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SI9oPHDbn38&t=140s
    The second is ‘apne jeevan ki uljhan ko’ from Uljhan 1975
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I2KiWyjAZ1k
    The third is ‘ye zindagi ki uljhanen’ from Gharana – lyrics by Shakeel.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ppVkl1LDCog

    The contra song is from Nartaki. ‘Zindagi ki uljhanon ko bhoolkar’ again written by Shakeel. Was he writing it as a counter to the gharana song, because the song is a mujra song.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-5y2ajPvGCM

    @142
    This ghoonghat debate brought to mind what Harivanshrai Bachchan wrote in his autobiography. He told there that his friend’s wife was always in parda whenever they met him. Bachchan was always curious how she looked. Once she appeared without parda and he was shocked to find her very ugly. He commented there ‘isko to ghunghat men hi rahna chahiye tha’ or some such words. So is the song ‘parde men rahne do parda na uthao, parda jo uth gaya to bhed khul jayega’ not fit for the situation. 🙂

    This song has been posted by Muli ji @147.

  108. Muli ji
    I am posting contra songs on addressed to Ram. Normally we find more songs addressed to Krishan.

    Hey rom rom men basne wale Ram main tujhse kya mangu. Here Waheeda is reluctant in asking for favours though she herself is in big trouble.
    https://youtu.be/Vh2eHuYlOH0

    Duniya men tera hai bada naam from Loafer. Here Om Prakash threatens ‘kar doonga sare jag men tujhe badnam’ asking for recovery of Dharmendtra.
    https://youtu.be/evUaRzK-I9c

  109. Mumbaikar8 & AK
    Though this is not a ghunghat song but his confident claim makes it appear like that. ‘Nazar bachakar chale gaye wo warna ghayal kar deta’.
    https://youtu.be/b-jmQqyJC6Y

    In the above song Shammi Kapoor seeks a meeting of the eyes. But OP Ralhan wishes to avoid the nazar which is haunting him. ‘Mere dil ke andar chalati hai khanjar, bacha lo mujhe is nazar se bacha lo’ from Phool Aur Patthar.

    https://youtu.be/XYuh0ng4t_w

  110. Venkataramanji @144
    “But it is not despondency alone; there are songs of optimism, hope and positive vibes, reminding us not to slip into despair as we battle our own dark times.”
    Absolutely Jan Nisar Akhtar has done it beautifully in this song.
    Gham ki andheri raat mein Sushila
    https://youtu.be/gK1GfgrPkFY

    Hans, AK,
    The Uljhan created by you led me to qarar.
    Contrasting songs for Qarar
    Bekarar Karke Hume Yun Na Jaiye | Hemant Kumar | Bees Saal Baad

    https://youtu.be/xpIJQri622A

    mera qarar leja mujhe beqarar kar ja…Talat

    https://youtu.be/2i4AHBDz_mQ

    And now to a topic that is # 1 in whatsapp forward. Particulary male groups.
    SHAADI

    mubarak ho dulha dulhan ko ye shaadi rafi pak daman

    https://youtu.be/T3o-TqxcV5k

    Hum Tum Jise Kahta Hai – Johny Walker, Mohammed Rafi, Kaagaz Ke Phool

    https://youtu.be/ugWDrzDVq8Y

  111. Mumbaikar8 ji @158
    Now qurar leads to Chain
    Two beautiful songs which in mukhada express more or less similar feeling of bechaini but the contrast lies in antaras of the songs
    A) Perhaps the swan song of OP – Asha combo exit of which was not recorded onscreen
    Chain se humko Kabhi – Pran Jaye par- SH bihari
    The second antara
    Aapka gam jo is dil mein din raat agar hoga
    Sochke ye dam ghutata hai
    Fir kaise basar hoga
    Kaash na aati apni judai aut hi aa jati
    Koi bahane chain hamari
    Ruh to pa jaati
    Ek pal hasana kabhi
    Dil ki lagi ne na diya
    B) & how beautifully MM – Lata combo deal with
    Hum pyar me jalanewalo ko – Jailer- Rajinder Krishan
    The first antara of which goes
    Bahalaye gar dil na bahale
    To aise bahalaye
    Gam hi to hai pyar ki daulat
    Ye kah kar samjhaye
    Apna man chalane walo ko
    Chain kahan aaram kahan
    Note also reference to jeher in chain se as opposed to pyar. Ki daulat in hum pyar me.

  112. Mumbaikar8, Hans, Mr Muli, Venkataramanji,
    Mr Muli gave me a task which I thought I performed well. Now you have created so much uljhan that I have lost all my qaraar.
    अब जायें तो जायें कहां?

    I really envy the guy who has no such dilemma.
    मैं जहां चला जाऊं बहार चली आये महक जाये राहों के फूल
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HgHjUMQzVaU

    Then Swami Venkataraman comes in and says, सब जगत मिथ्या है. Get rid of all the illusions, follow one path and that will take you to the Supreme Being.
    अलग अलग पथ बतलाते सब पर मैं ये बतलाता हूं
    राह पकड़ तू एक चला चल पा जायेगा मधुशाला

    I am willing to try even that though I am a teetotaller, but the police lathis deter me. I salute the deshbhakts who braved all that to contribute to the empty state coffers. But this filled me with shame at myself, and I asked friends for guidance, is there a way for the non-sharabis to become deshbhakt? Their advice brought me to square one – buy liquor, you may not drink but we would.

    Now,
    जाऊं कहां बता ऐ दिल दुनिया बड़ी है संगदिल
    चांदनी आई घर जलाने सूझे ना कोई मंजिल

    How is manzil so clear to some?
    मंज़िल वही है प्यार के राही बदल गये

    But we know the perils of pyar.
    हम प्यार में जलनेवालों को चैन कहां आराम कहां
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IXQY5otyhJ8

    But when her heart is singing in fire there is no dearth of preachers who would counsel her, अब पछताये होत क्या जब चिड़िया चुग गई खेत? Is that so simple? I have to sometimes tell my wife, it is no use crying over spilt milk – after all the loss is so trivial. And every time she blows her top, hits the ceiling and flies off the handle – all at once.

    Yet, there are times when you have to lock the stable after the horses have bolted. At least keep those remaining inside. But in spite of promises of food, shelter and monthly cash doles in their accounts, the shramiks forced open some gates and escaped helter-skelter. There was a period of confusion whether to lock or open, until Shramik Specials were organised. But there are thousands stranded all over, hundreds of miles away from either their देस or परदेस.

    Now the Racecourses have to open to keep the wheels of economy running. But where are the horses? Would they come back? There is a talk of taking Racecourses local, at Bareilly, Balia, Buxar?, Raipur, Ratlam, Rae Bareilly?

    My mind is reeling.
    उलझन सुलझे ना रस्ता सूझे ना
    जाऊं कहां मैं, जाऊं कहां

    Oh, no! I am getting sucked into the same circularity. Please help me get out of this भूल भुलैया. 🙂

  113. AK ji @ 159
    IT is a tribute to your concentration & patience apart from vast repertoire that you are holding the fort for sob long & in the face of consistent bambarding from us analysing the things rationally – despite being a teatotaller.
    Had I been in your place I would have thrown in the towel saying
    Main thak gaya hoon mujhe sone do – Musafir – Gulzar
    To all those who are saying
    Na soyenge na sone denge – Mr Romeo – Anand Bakshi

  114. Mr Muli,
    Thanks a lot but I know you perfectly understand my plight. I am waiting to hear from the other suspects.

  115. Akji @150,

    First of all let me compliment you for an excellent rhetoric.
    I do not have the techniques or the skill to express my views in a subtle manner. I will leave the task to the other accomplished members to whom you have also addressed your comments.

    You have singularly chosen me to bestow the privilege of “Swami”. There are diverse hues of Swamis and Swamys around and abound. But I have only one Paramahamsa to guide me through.

  116. AK ji,
    Arre! Aap aur unresolved uljhane!
    Here is another teetotaler in the group, but not singing
    Apne jeevan ke uljhan ko kaise main suljhaaoon…..
    Instead, he sings….
    Jeevan hai ek sapna
    Madhur suhana sapna….

    Yes, you can take a teetotaler to the bar/ party with you, but can’t make him/ her drink. Oh! Isn’t it something originally said about the horses!

    Let us be forewarned…. Gamesters and Race horses don’t last long! So, I shall better ride an ass than a horse that will throw me down!

    Swami Venkataraman ji ,in an earlier post, hinted at he being my Genie and me his Aqa/ Swami! In reality, he is the Swami ( Master) of everything he surveys!

  117. Dr Shetty,
    Any medical professional is also a psychiatrist. I am Ek and the brains trying to break free of the Lockdown are Anek. Therefore, you would appreciate my plight.

    Welcome to the ‘Useless Club’, if you are a vegetarian too, you would be upgraded to the ‘Most Useless Club‘. Fortunately, we are so minuscule that the world is in safe hands with the socially useful people.

    They know you can only take the horse to the bar but you can’t make him drink, but now this Truth has been amended to, “Take the ass to the bar, if he does not drink, he pays for it“.

  118. AK,

    Belated congratulations on a very topical and interesting post. Here’s a contra-pair from my side:

    Suraiyya and Shyam sing
    ‘Saath hi jeena, saath hi marna
    Ulfat ki hai reet haan’
    in ‘Tu mera chaand, main teri chaandni’ written by Shakeel Badayuni and tuned by Naushad for ‘Dillagi’ (1949)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cgHhmQUXQLk

    Rafi sings
    ‘Janam maran ka mel hai hai sapna, yeh sapna bisra de
    Koi na sang mare’
    in ‘Man re tu kaahe na dheer dhare’ written by Sahir Ludhianvi and tuned by Roshan for ‘Chitralekha’ (1964)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uA2FhgF6VY4

  119. Ashwin,
    Thanks a lot for your appreciation. Nice pair of contra-songs. Another very befitting song for part A of the pair is:
    Marana teri gali mein, jeena teri gali mein – Lata Mangeshkar, Shabab.

  120. Oh! So obvious …

    Mera jeevan kora kagaz
    Kora hi reh gaya…

    KORA KAGAZ.

    Mera jeevan kuch kaam na aaya
    Jaise sookhe ped ki saaya….

    MERA JEEVAN.

    Contrasting….

    Kora kagaz tha ye man mera
    Likh liya naam ispe tera.

    Soona angan tha jeevan mera
    Bas gaya pyar ispe tera…

    ARADHANA.

  121. AK
    First let me relate a story. In the early 90s during a Departmental training we went on a study tour to Udaipur. On the way went to see Aamer Fort which has a भूल भुलैय्याँ . One of our colleagues who was from Orissa slipped into that unknown to us despite warning on the placard and also by his friend from the same Ministry. We had to wait for around one hour before the attendant brought him. It was early January and he was sweating.

    This was just a story. But a भूल भुलैय्याँ with everything you need and internet connection to boot should be welcome. Although you do not have the bottle but the intoxication of SOY and old songs is enough. You must have heard नशा शराब में होता तो नाचती बोतल or किसी को हरे हरे नोट का नशा है। You also have recourse to
    हम और तुम और ये समां क्या नशा नशा सा है

    In fact you have slipped into this state on your own because suggestions were made to get out of the uljhan. But you you chose to lose your करार।

    You know I am in the ‘most useless club’ but sometimes very useful ideas come in my useless mind or may be in my useless mind I consider them as useful. It came into mind that Buxar Ballia etc you suggested for local racecourses might as well seek a local PM. What would happen then.

    Though I have no solace for you but I will give song and contra song on bhulna.

    Mujhe bhool jana agar ho sake from Taqdeer
    https://youtu.be/mMW1DkYkpcY

    And ‘tum mujhe yun bhula na paoge’ from Pagla Kahin Ka
    https://youtu.be/vLxa-UBw-YQ

  122. Hans,
    Thanks a lot for your very inspiring words. You have proved that the Most Useless People also get useful ideas. In fact I had already started getting out of my uljhan, and I got a very useful idea how to contribute to the National अर्थव्यवस्था without being a sharabi and without the risk of police lathis. I have asked my friends to keep all the invoices of the liquor they buy during the Lockdown period, and I would reimburse them for the taxes. I hope they don’t wake up that all their पुण्य will be transferred to me.

  123. Mumbaikar8
    Very nice songs and perfect contra songs. There are a number of such songs on Shaadi, but this मेरा करार लेजा is really unique for bekaraari songs. Here are some shaadi songs.

    Mera yaar bana hai dulha from Chaudhvin ka Chand
    https://youtu.be/NHwEMEvwOWU

    Gori ho kali ho ya nakhrewali ho from Biwi O Biwi
    https://youtu.be/PkRfUFa_GQ0

    CONTRA

    Johny Walker specials
    ‘Haseenon ki ankhon ka’ from Pyar ka Sapna
    https://youtu.be/JV6SrBLnJzc
    ‘Hum bhi kash kunware hote’
    https://youtu.be/zuvGVqR8jNs

  124. AK ji @ 173
    From Ashwin ji @ 167 seems like second wave in the offing.
    Hans ji @ 173
    Here is another perfect pair of shadi contrast
    A): Shaadi ke liye Rajamand kar li – Devi – Anand Bakshi
    During those days we use to think that Sanjeev Kumar had got his leave sanctioned for shaadi
    B) wo pari kaha se lau – Pehchan -Varma mallik

  125. Many of us here are nearing or already crossed 60. I think everybody knows ‘main ka karun raam’. In this song Raj Kapoor is very agitated. That was a film, but even if somebody calls us Buddha we may feel it. I may tell here that in Haryana rural areas, old husband wife call each other budha and budhia in lighter vein. Question is was there a perfect contra song for ‘main ka karun raam’. It may seem impossible but it is not. Here it is
    समझा मैं किस्मत खुल गयी
    मुझको राम बुढ़िया मिल गयी
    Lo! Even raam is there.
    https://youtu.be/UUatdxXAShs
    The film is 5 Dushman. Lyrics Majrooh and music RDB. I am not posting link to the Sangam song.

    There is another song which can be considered contra song
    ‘Mere budhape ko tu cash kar le’ from Apna Khoon.
    https://youtu.be/Eaj8byjEyic

  126. AK, Venkataramanji, Hans,
    All the gyanis and master have lost hope मुझ नाचीज़ की क्या हिम्मत.
    High teetotaler is a gone case.

    Let us do our mazdoori of posting songs.

    Nain ladana aur nain milana.
    Nain Lad Jaihein To Manva Ma Kasak Hoibe Kari – Gunga Jumna
    https://youtu.be/ya5h0g39UvI

    Main to tum sang nain mila ke..Lata
    https://youtu.be/XQonGT4CbUo

    Kantoon se Rishta
    Kaanton Se Kheench Ke Ye Aanchal.. Guide
    https://youtu.be/hCmOGikiNoQ

    Mile Na Phool To Anokhi Raat
    https://youtu.be/7xIfJdD4AIU

    Hans thanks for encouraging words.

  127. Hansji @ 171
    Everybody likes a good story and if there is moral to the story.
    I remember the quote “Don’t treat anyone as a useless person in life because a stopped watch gives accurate time twice a day.”

    Posting another pair of contra
    Chal Akela Chal Akela, Mukesh, Sambandh (1969),lyrics Kavi Pradeep, music O P Nayyar
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGev-Qkz1zE

    Chale The Saath Milke, Md.Rafi, Haseena Maan Jayegi (1968), lyrics Akhtar Romani, music Kalyanji-Anandji
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hqrcz5WSQo8

  128. Akji @172,

    Glad to note that you have started getting out of your “Uljhan”.
    Par aap Doodsron ko liye nayi “uljhan” utpann na Kare.
    I appreciate your concern for “Sharabis”. Benevolent Feudalism! But why do you want to deprive them of some redemption by way of paying taxes. Let them also earn some Punnya. Poor souls “Unhe chain se peene dijiye, aur na satayiye”.

    Please lend an ear to their prayer.
    Manzil apni hai, aatma apni hai
    matwale hai hum, nikal lenge, dhoond lenge
    aur uljhan ko suljha bhi lenge
    Aakhir uljhan hi to hai sulajh jayegi.

    BTW, you can donate the sum to the PM’s Care Fund. That will provide more liquidity.

    Time for contra;

    Teri Duniya Main Dil Lagta Nahin, Mukesh, Bhawre Nain (1950), lyics Kedar Sharma, music Roshan
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8XWK2Fgggik

    Jeena Yahan Marna Yahan, Mukesh, Mera Naam Joker (1970), lyrics Shaily Shailendra, music Shankar-Jaikishan
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ifUaUqN1sbA

  129. Mumbaikarji, Akji, Hansji, Rahulji,

    While on the subject of Shaddi, here are my pair of tuppence !
    Shaadi Shaadi, Qisamat Ki Baat Hai, Maalik Ke Haath Hai, Kishore Kumar, Ladki (1953)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tya2ViAqh64

    Yaar Tum Shaadi Mat Karna, Kishore Kumar, Parivaar (1956)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZUBUSEhlRuI

    Kabhi Shaadi Na Karo, Kishore Kumar, Man Pasand (1980)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pOKWWR83VpM

    Zindagani Ka Maza Shadi Mein Hai, G. M. Durrani, Apradhi (1949)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JENCnf62-8k

  130. Would this pair qualify? In one, the heroine is the moonlight to the hero’s moon but in the other, she is only the dust on the earth:

    ‘Tu mera chaand, main teri chaandni’ by Suraiyya and Shyam, from Dillagi (1949), MD – Naushad, Lyricist -Shakeel Badayuni

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cgHhmQUXQLk

    ‘Tum gagan ke chandrama ho, main dhara ki dhool hun’, by Lata and Manna Dey, from Sati Savitri (1964), MD – Laxmikant-Pyarelal, Lyricist – Bharat Vyas

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mBbd53FtxWA

  131. A K ji,
    Useless, yes. Most useless,no!

    On the day the locks of the Madhushalas / Maikhanas opened amidst the ongoing lockdown, I saw many people singing…

    Jhoom barabar jhoom sharabi….

    Chad gayi chad gayi chad gayi angoor ki beti chad gayi…

    A gentleman from N Venkatraman ji’s part of the world ( in B& W) mumbled..
    Kaun kambakht hai jo bardasht karne ke liye peeta hai? Main toh peeta hoon ke bas sans le sakoon!

    Another similar gentleman, this time in colour, said the same thing. But, with his handsome friend, also energetically sang…
    Sheeshe se sheesha takraye..

    Chalak chalak jaaye re..

    One, who seemed to have upped/ downed just a few drops sang..
    Thodi si jo pee lee hai
    Chori toh nahin kee hai..!

    A lady surprised me with her..
    Haan ji haan maine sharab pee hai
    ( that too) Thodi si nahin, behisaab pee hai..

    Her friend went farther..
    Kaise rahoon chup ke maine pee hi kya hai
    Hosh abhi bhi hai baaki
    Aur zara si dede saqi …

    A busybody when asked about the current affairs, sang..

    Abhi toh haath mein jaam hai
    Toba kitne kaam hai
    Kabhi mile fursat toh dekha jaayega
    Duniya ke baare mein phir socha jaayega…

    Met this ( till then) Sharif, honhaar, charitravan , punyatma Kumar who, to drown his dukh , learnt to down a few sips..
    Maine peena seekh liya
    ..
    Paap kaho ya punya kaho
    Maine jeena seekh liya..

    And, changing some words from an Inder’s song..
    Gam uthane ke liye main toh piye jaoonga..
    ( Inspite of a lady, perhaps not the one who had broken his heart , insisting..
    Gam ki dawa toh pyaar hai
    Gam ki dawa sharab nahin)

    But, contrastingly, yet to meet someone who sang…
    Jab se sarkar ne razamandi tod dee,
    Mano ya na mano humne peeni chod di..

  132. Hans @175, 176,
    Perfect contra pair. ‘Buddha’ discovery is very novel. ‘Buddha hoga tera baap probably alludes to this contradiction. In aphorisms also we see this opposite truths: Age is only a number, you are as old or young as you feel/ You must gracefully accept your age, you are not going to grow younger.

  133. Mumbaikar8 @177,
    Perfect contra songs. Do you remember काँटों को मुरझाने का खौफ नहीं होता?

  134. Venkataramanji @179, 180,
    If I have got rid of my uljhans I have to immensely thank you for all the gyan. After reading your advice I transparently told my friends about the transfer of redemption from their account to mine, but they don’t care. And you would not believe, now they say I should not insist on invoices but accept their self-declaration. You are an accounts man, you can guide me whether this is permissible in the present case. It is not a very old transaction, and to my knowledge it is always with a bill.

    They started sending me WA messages and videos of the sharabis’ contribution to the national अर्थव्यवस्था in spite of knowing that I have made decent contributions to the PM’s Fund (as well as CM’s Fund).

    Nice contra songs.

  135. Ashwin @181,
    Perfect contra pair.

    @182,
    I had initially some doubts, but after reading your explanation I am convinced it fits well.

  136. Dr Shetty @183,
    Amazing you are so spirited without the spirit. Nice sharabi songs. They have been objects of ridicule, only now we realise their importance in the national economy. Government would never dissuade them. Some states which mistakenly imposed prohibition are now the most miserable for having deprived themselves of this generous section of selfless donors.

  137. AK
    As Venkataraman ji liked the story, I am relating another one.

    Maybe I have earlier told this story in one of our meetings, but there is no harm in repeating it for our other friends here. In my college days, one summer evening we found an old man lying in the street ‘naali’ in full nasha condition. We picked him up and brought in our house and by common manoeuvres like sprinkling lot of water and making him drink chhaachh brought him to his senses. When we asked him to be careful and drink less in future, he said ‘peene ka fayda hi kya jab tak naali men na giren’. At that time we got enraged and pushed him out of our house. So moral of the story, our economy is in safe hands.

    You can derive your own lessons from the story. And dont worry about the ‘punya’ part and always remember Gita’ Karma theory.

    We can only say ‘zindagi mujhko dikha de raasta’
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3GvPEAxRWnQ
    But we dont know ‘taqdeer kahan le jayegi’
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cVHv5HdXMUQ
    And we may end up saying ‘nikale the kahan jane ke liye’
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QraImBLgIBs

  138. Hans@ 173
    I selected that pair of Shadi songs in quest of knowing the truth
    शादी आबादी या बर्बादी 🙂

    AK, @ 186
    “काँटों को मुरझाने का खौफ नहीं होता?”
    काँटों को काँटों की characteristics समझा रहें हो

    Ashwin’s comment @ 132 inspired me to think ……..
    Many songs we may find women deprecating themselves very few examples of their assertion.
    Presenting one such sher of assertion that I love and have mentioned before.
    Raja Mehndi Ali Khan doing both.
    Self-depracation
    Aaki nazron ne samjha Anpadh
    https://youtu.be/8txT8UGTCto

    And now the assertion whenever I listen to it I feel ‘यह हुई न बात’

    To make it easy, जी भर के देख लीजिये हमको करीब से
    फिर आपके नसीब में यह बात हो न हो
    Starts here in song lag ja gale Woh kaun thi.
    https://youtu.be/TFr6G5zveS8?t=114

  139. Hans, Venkataramanji,
    Bollywood has engaged itself with serious discussions on paap-punya too.
    ये पाप है क्या, ये पुण्य है क्या, रीतों पर धर्म की मोहरें हैं

    In the same song there is a strong rebuttal of Vedant too:
    हम कहते हैं ये जग अपना है, तुम कहते हो झूठा सपना है
    हम जनम बिताकर जायेंगे, तुम जनम गँवाकर जाओगे

    संसार से भागे फिरते हो..

    If there was any doubt, they described someone as पवित्र पापी. Something like Shareef Badmash. or Pyara Dushman. With so much gyan with Bollywood now no one needs to go to any Guru or the caves of Himalayas for enlightenment.

  140. Mumbaikar8 @192,
    I have never seen a काँटा so threatening 🙂 .

    The examples of self-deprecating women are many as you have rightly observed. This has to do with long conditioning across cultures. Let me give you a good example of an assertive woman:
    Main hun gori nagin dekhungi rasiya, kaise aaj nahin baaje teri been re.

    This one may also be an assertive woman who is commanding the snake-charmer to play his been:
    Sapera been baja, been baja, naachungi

    We can relate this to the cultural notion of the woman being an enticer, a snake that has to be subdued, hence the विषकन्या and the sapera who captures her and removes her out of harm’s way. The aforesaid songs may not aim to cleanse that stereotype, but they make a statement by giving agency to the woman.

  141. Raat obviously has been one of the favourite subject of hindi songs both happy & sad.
    However whether happy or sad , raat always has been described in positive term like Suhani Raat Dhal chuki, itni Hassen itni jawa raat, rangbirangi. There are very few exceptions & one that immediately comes to mind is
    Jin raato ki bhor nahi
    Another perennial favourite of poets ( & related to raat) is Chand. We grew up listening story of Rama, Chand & mirror. And in the golden era it is very difficult to find a movie not having a song mentioning chand. In fact Gulzar alluded to the number in Ijajaat when he wrote
    Ek sau solah chand ki raate
    But Gulzar also used exceptional imagery for raat & chand in the following song – the kind of which not used in any other.
    Roj akeli aaye – Mere apne -Gulzar
    We know how akeli raat can be tantalising as in Jewel thief.
    But here it is bhikharan with chand as begging bowl.
    The contrast song for this can be any with bheegi bheegi raat
    I choose
    Taaro ki juba par hai mohobbat ki kahani
    – Nausherwan-e-adil
    – Parvez Shamsi

  142. Mr Muli,
    I guess there should be as many sad ‘raat’ songs as happy ones. These sound as sad songs:

    ‘Raaton ko chori chori bole mera kangana’
    ‘Raat ne kya kya khwab dikhaye’

  143. AK, @ 194
    “काँटों को काँटों की characteristics समझा रहें हो”
    I had a smiley after this sentence but your WordPress, seems, picks and discards smileys at your discretion 🙂

    “This one may also be an assertive woman who is commanding the snake-charmer to play his been:
    Sapera been baja, been baja, naachungi”

    I fail to see any assertion in this one, she is saying “ I will dance to your tune” where is assertion here.
    Assertion would be you play the been if it enchants me I will dance

    Yesterday I thought about Raat songs but got lazy and Mr Muli posted it. “Second times coincidence”
    My songs are different though.
    Contra Raat songs from same movie.
    Same Raat ko 9.00 P M Arnab’s Show
    Gulaabi Raat Gulaabi – Upkar (1967)
    https://youtu.be/ae-1V3QyJU8
    Ravish’s Prime Time
    Upkaar Yeh Kaali Raat Kaali Mohd Rafi
    https://youtu.be/2d-0OYyemo8?t=27

  144. Mumbaikar8,
    You mean ..at ‘its’ discretion? With Smileys I think the punctuation mark should not be adjacent to it, but after a space. Or is it because काँटों के सामने smiley की क्या बिसात है?

    You agree that the other sapera song – Main hun gori nagin – is of an assertive woman?

  145. Dr Shetty @ 183
    Such a nice flowing story of the Economy Caring Group but without a link you will also remain as PUNYAHEEN as AK in without a drink. Venkataraman ji mostly takes advantage of your Punya.

  146. Mumbaikar8
    Did you find out शादी आबादी या बर्बादी।
    May I help you.
    ‘Meri patni mujhe satati hai’ from Pati Patni.
    https://youtu.be/S0olsI5cDkU
    ‘Kamata hoon bahut kuchh’ from Adhikar.
    https://youtu.be/z-F0JIUUH5c
    ‘Har aadmi ko biwi ka gulam hona chahiye’ from Hirasat.
    https://youtu.be/LoZUKmFBakk
    ‘Mujhe meri biwi se bachaao’ from Aaj Ki Taaja Khabar.
    https://youtu.be/tLoguu21pYs

    Now look at this Haryanvi song sung by a child
    लांबी बहू आगी तो उंचे बूट मंगा ल्युन्गा
    छोटे कद की आगी तो मैं गोदी ठा ल्युन्गा
    I think you will understand the song because Haryanvi is very close to Hindi. This is a funny song. The last antara says
    मैने नहीं देखी मेरे पापा की शादी
    पापा कहते हैं शादी होती है बर्बादी
    शादी का लड्डू जैसा भी हो मैं खा ल्युन्गा
    दुनिया खाके पछ्तायी मैं भी पछता ल्युन्गा
    This alludes to the saying शादी का लड्डू ऐसा है जो खाए वो भी पछताए और जो ना खाए वो भी पछताए।
    https://youtu.be/Q-BkC8kWFS4

  147. AK @ 198
    Thanks for the clarification about the smiley.
    Dhh me did not know (notice) it.

    “You agree that the other sapera song – Main hun gori nagin – is of an assertive woman?”

    Women asserting over her “gorapan” is repulsive.

    I find a very subtle assertion in the otherwise very submissive song,
    Majhi mere qismat ke jee chahen jahan le chal.
    Would like to know opinion.
    The subtle assertion starts here.
    https://youtu.be/P_nHtNFe6XY?t=217

    Hans @ 201
    I was expecting this reaction after my comment # 158
    Chalo der aye durust aaye

  148. Mumbaikar8,
    Manjhi meri qismat ke assertive woman? This is a Pativrata Naari handing over her entire fate to her swami:
    तू ही मेरे दिल की मंज़िल तू ही मेरा हमसफर
    ज़िंदगी से बढ़के मुझको तेरी एक मीठी नज़र
    The entire song is in the same vein.

    Am I missing something? Hans has given more convincing assertive woman songs @200.

    Hans @200,
    Nice songs. I have to understand Mumbaikar’s choices, she seems to be on a different wavelength.

  149. AK
    तू ही मेरे दिल की मंज़िल तू ही मेरा हमसफर
    ज़िंदगी से बढ़के मुझको तेरी एक मीठी नज़र
    The subtlety I noticed begins just after that
    तेरी आँखों में रहूंगी तू मेरे दिल में रहें
    उम्र भर प्यार की यह नाव ऐसे ही बहे

    Hans assertive women is totally different creature

  150. AK,
    I tried using smiley as per your directions, for Han’s comment, it didn’t work.

  151. Mumbaikar8 @204,
    Too subtle for me.

    @205,
    Colon followed by closed small bracket “:)” should work. If not, and it has started behaving erratically recently, I have no clue. Perhaps your Operating SystemUpdates have done some changes. Mr Google might help.

  152. Mumbaikar8
    I also learned the smiley through trial and error. I think you have to put a full stop at the end of the sentence, then give a space and then colon or semi colon followed by the small closed bracket.

    Now look at the two songs from Babar ‘tum ek baar muhabbat ka imtihan to lo’ on Humayun emperor Babar’s son and ‘payam-e-ishq muhabbat humen pasand nahin on the daughter of a courtier of Babar. Which one is assertive.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JSmeq0fqA50
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jNdGPBIhm6E

    Now, ‘tadpaoge tadpa lo’ from Barkha seems to be a submissive song, but in fact the character singing is vamp. She is teasing the hero and then plays her usual role of a vamp.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qQFz0EN3wLM

    In Bheegi Raat, Shashikala sings ‘tu mera jo nahin’ and does her part in accordance with the song in the film jeopardising the relationship between Pradeep Kumar and Meena Kumari.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=anZG995itZ8

    So what you derive from songs. They are just in accordance with the situation. In the song posted by Ashwin there is nothing submissive. This is a simple song in which both characters are showing modesty by praising the other and being simple for the self. It is just that the first line is sung by the female so it becomes submissive song in your eye. But Manna Dey is also using words in the same vein. In Anpadh, Dharmendra is highly educated and Mala Sinha is married to him posing as educated. So when she is found anpadh, they naturally feel cheated and she is subjected to bad treatment. Later Dharmendra realises her goodness through her actions, so he starts loving her. In such a situation the song ‘aapki nazron ne’ is a perfect song. Similarly in Wo Kaun Thi, Manoj has some justifiable misunderstanding about Sadhna and when he wants her to go from his house, she sings the song knowing that he will repent and she may even lose her life. Raja Mehndi Ali was a great lyricist and because of that Madan Mohan used him a lot as also Rajender Krishan. Both of them remained far from the propaganda, but their work speaks for them. We should enjoy the great lyrics instead of getting caught in the quagmire of anti-women/pro-men or vice versa. In fact there are a lot of extremely submissive male songs, but men dont feel bad about them. There are tons of songs where females are praised by men and a horde of songs where females call men anadi, beimaan and other such things just as a routine matter. These are also enjoyed by people.

  153. Now a few songs about mulaqat.

    First, ‘janewale se mulaqat na hone payi’ from Amar.
    https://youtu.be/ZPJa89BvnX0

    Then Suni Dutt gets happy on mulaqat with Meena Kumari. ‘Dil khush hai aaj unse mulaqat ho gayi’ – Gazal
    https://youtu.be/lMtWJdH3gsc

    But he gets sad on meeting Mala Sinha. ‘Aap aaye to khayale dile nashad aaya’ – Gumrah.
    https://youtu.be/Gmlm2Brlmms

    On the other hand Dharmendra discovers he has a heart, when he meets Rajshri. ‘Tumhari mulaqat se mujhko pata ye chala’ – Muhabbat Zindagi Hai.
    https://youtu.be/YAtfRDGB44w

  154. When we look for songs with the word जोगी in the mukhda, we instantly remember Lata Mangeshkar classicals ‘jogi jabse tu aaya mere dware’ – Bandini and ‘jao re jogi tum jao re’ – Amrapali. But there was a sweet song in the patriotic film Shaheed, ‘jogi hum to lut gaye tere pyar men jane tujhko khabar kab hogi’.
    https://youtu.be/efK0O7T6dds

    Jogi listens and comes singing a song ‘tera jogi aaya’ – Mera Jeevan.
    https://youtu.be/zgw6W2jOGFU

    But then she gets shy and wants to shoo him away offering some sona chandi. ‘Sona lai ja re’ – Mera Gaon Mera Desh.
    https://youtu.be/D6nrrMyRpOU

    But the jogi is hell bent. ‘Na mange ye sona chandi mange darshan devi tere dwar khada ek jogi’ – Nagin.
    https://youtu.be/mUQTUliOq_g

  155. Hans, @ 207
    Smileys get erratic (which cannot be true ) I can import it with my document to my comment window but at times gets dropped in uploading.
    I completely agree with you the songs are written for the characters and the situation. I do not blame lyric writer for writing such lyrics I gave the examples of Raja Mehndi Ali Khan writing brilliantly for both occasions. Very few female characters then (things are changing now) would assert.
    Tons of songs praising women are about their beauty, women are much more beyond their beauty or for that matter ugliness.
    @ 209
    The classic song attempting to stopJogi from going.
    Mat Ja Mat Ja Jogi – Jogan
    https://youtu.be/UZrur80wYaw

  156. Muli ji
    Yes in common language both words have almost the same meaning. But otherwise both are separate castes in India. Jogi is a caste which is included in backward castes in Haryana and some states.

    The song ‘jogi mat ja’ mentioned by Mumbaikar8 could be a contra song for ‘tu na mili to hum’ posted by you. There is another song ‘chhod de sari duniya kisi ke liye’ from Saraswatichandra, which starts with alaap ‘kahan chala ae mere jogi jeevan se tun bhaag ke, kisi ek dil ke karan yun sari duniya tyaag ke’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FFW6dBHPcTo

    The song ‘suno re suno ek baat sunaun’ has Dilip Kumar and Saira Bano singing and dancing and both using the word bairaagi and bairagan. None of them is serious as bairagi or bairagan.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FfJb8SHVj4w

    So far as jogan is concerned in Shabaab Nutan first threatened ‘jogan ban jaungi saiyan tore karan’ and later declared ‘jogan ban aayi hun’
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hqufC51Vh2Y
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i1eJJA7WqOk

    Though Bharat Bhushan took this seriously, but Jitendra in Jawaab laughed it off and sang ‘kis karan jogan jog liya’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4GVm1thWk-U

  157. Mumbaikar8,
    तुम इतना जो मुस्कुरा रहे हो
    क्या ग़म है जिसको छिपा रहे हो

    Kaifi Azmi is superb. Perfect auto-contra song. Anand Bakshi said something similar in a pedestrian way:
    हज़ारों तरह के ये होते हैं आँसू
    अगर दिल में ग़म हो तो रोते हैं आँसू
    इन्हें जान सकता नहीं ये ज़माना
    मैं खुश हूँ मेरे आँसुओं पे न जाना
    मैं तो दीवाना दीवाना दीवाना

    Nice addition to the theme – another dimension of contra songs which stand without a pair.

  158. AK,
    Kaifi Azmi is indeed superb in this song.
    I like this antara the best.
    रेखाओं का खेल है मुक़द्दर
    रेखाओं से मात खा रही हो

  159. I am glad that the theme is still unfolding with superlative additions by Hans ji , Mumbaikar 8 and obviously AKji
    AKji can this be considered as an auto contrast song
    kashti ka khamosh safar
    The hero starts with a firm resolve of saying what he wants to say but ends with the conclusion chhodo ab kya kahana hai
    In between also there are several flip flops , if not outright contrasts ; like when he says
    kahate huye darsa lagata hai
    Kahkar baat na kho baithu
    And at the end
    Aaj nahi to kal hi kahenge
    Ab to sath hi rahana hai
    So all in the span of 2 antaras the doubt evaporates, what a journey ?
    Further there is marked contrast between his feelings & those of his love .
    While he is skeptical about whether they will remain humsafar
    & She is eagarly waiting to welcome him with
    Kabse tumhare raste me phool bichaye baithi hoon

    https://youtu.be/PzaqgXpGjrs
    Kashti ka khamosh safar – Girl friend – Sahir

  160. Mr Muli,
    I didn’t realise your theme had so many possibilities. You have made some very perceptive analysis of Kashti ka khamosh safar ho. The hero’s change from resolve to doubt to denial is interesting. This may perhaps go as auto-contrast. But I am not convinced that the two lovers show contrasting feelings for each other. The man’s wavering in between is also born out of love – “I should not carelessly say something which hurts the relationship.” His final decision not to say anything is because now there is no hurry, “Ab to saath hi rahna hai.”

    Mumbaikar8’s example was more obvious.

  161. Mumbaikar8, AK
    On these aansoo/khushi contrast songs a few songs came to mind.

    Hamrahi – 1963 had two songs one each sung by hero and heroine.
    ये आंसू मेरे दिल की जुबान हैं
    मैं रौऊं तो रोदें आंसू मैं हंस दूं हंस दें आंसू
    https://youtu.be/VaiNjBR57qI
    मन रे तू ही बता क्या गाऊं
    कह दूं अपने दिल के दुखड़े या आंसू पी जाऊँ
    https://youtu.be/xKJefA9bfWs

    There is another very touching song by Lata Mangeshkar and lipsynced by Mumtaz when Pran playing her father asks her to sing a song when he was about to die. The film Jheel Ke Us Paar was based on a Gulshan Nanda novel and was one of the rare films of Dharmendra in those days which did not do well. The song is ‘babul tere bagan di main bulbul, tujhe kaun sa geet sunaun, main roun ya muskaun’.
    https://youtu.be/kfks5yHr_qU

    Mukesh has always a mastery over such songs one of which was mentioned by AK. There is a song in Dharti Kahe Pukar Ke ‘khushi ki wo raat aa gayi koi geet jagne do’. This song has these lines
    आज हंसू मैं इतना के मेरी आंख लगे रोने
    आज मैं गाऊं इतना के दिल में दर्द लगे होने
    https://youtu.be/JcFjTFLJEj4

  162. Continuing with contra songs
    हौंसला and हिम्मत contra बेबसी and बेक़सी
    हौंसला film Dor Ye Honsla Kaise Jhuke
    https://youtu.be/d8me1GXijJA
    हिम्मत Himmat Badi Hae.. Jal pari
    https://youtu.be/cccLarBrpFw
    बेबसी ALIF LAILA – KHADA HOON DER SE UMEEDVAR DEKH TO LE
    https://youtu.be/qt8AjCHo1t0
    बेक़सी beqasi had-se jab guzar jaye..Asha Bhosle
    https://youtu.be/LUjnQ08qljo
    And contradicting it third view.
    Be basi jurm hai hosla jurm hai Jagjit Singh
    https://youtu.be/IlNecAcCBvY

  163. Mumbaikar8
    Really good topics. The subtle difference between ‘haunsla’ and ‘himmat’ and ‘bekas’ and ‘bebas’ and the alternate words used in our songs kept coming in mind.

    There are a number of question answer songs. ‘Hum aapki ankhon men’ was also an example of sawaal ka jawab sawal se. Suraiya asked a question in ‘wo paas rahen ya door rahen’. But here she asks a question and her soul or inner self answers it. A unique thing.
    ‘Iska kya matlab hai’ – Suraiyya in Sanam.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aDNaRvyUzOM

    Sawali means fariyadi or one who prays. If it is a bekas then the song becomes ‘bekas pe karam kijiye sarkar-e-madina’. And if Rishi Kapoor goes to Shirdi wale sai baba then the film is Amar Akbar Anthony.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aPKNPvtw4-I

    In bekas, bebas, majboor situations there have been a lot of songs of various hues both positive and negative. But I like the song ‘zindagi zulm sahi zabar sahi’ from Shagoon. This song talks about everything, current situation, past happiness and future hope. In other words a complete dose of practical philosophy. And what a choice of words. Must listen.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fd0d52WW2mQ

  164. Hans ji,

    I am in a slow mode but enjoying comments and observations of inputs from your side ….and all the readers ..like mumbaikar, muli ji ….and many others. All seems to be in pro active mode….and why not , this blog seems to be most sought after…thanks to AK ji.

    Yes many singular songs are contra too. First sasural song then dhool ka phool song ….but this OPN song from …ek musafir ek hasina beats them all…..tumehen mohabbat hai hum se batoa is ka sabut kya hai..

  165. Here is link to song @ 222

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jGzDO8rh8ks

    OPN this movie was a great come back for him . Its a unique production. Producer just went on listening to already composed with romantic lyrics ….selected the songs and made a story out of it and start shooting….as per mathematical AP progression…and was a musical hit of that time.

  166. Mumbaikarji, Hansji, & Bhatiaji,
    I can understand Hindi and even mange to comprehend to an extent the discussion and the variations in contra songs presented by you. But I am still far away from getting engaged in the discussion. Enjoying the discussion and songs from the side lines.

  167. Venkataraman ji
    We know you are a multi-lingual expert and we also know that you at times are very busy. Bhatia ji also seems to be having bad back or computer trouble. So who ever can keep the ball rolling should do that. I was also awfully busy in the last few months. Thanks for the care you take of SOY and its members. Your posts are always a storehouse of information.

  168. Bhatia ji
    Surprised to see you joining after 200 posts. Most of the times you come in very early. From some hints I thought your computer was giving trouble. But, from your post in the twins article it appears you are having back trouble again. Hoping my guess is wrong and you are fully fit.

    Ek Musafir Ek Hasina is my favourite movie. Its music is supreme and I just adore Sadhana and there is something attractive in Joy Mukherjee. The film came in 1962. the year in which two Bengalis hit starhood the other being Biswajit. Both have some great songs from Rafi.

    And now here are some songs of different colours on the word Mehfil to celebrate your joining the Mehfil.
    Dil ki mehfil saji hai chale aaiye from Saaz aur Awaz
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5dqJ15C2B0o

    But the shama is sad and says ‘mehfil men jal uthi shama’ – Nirala
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pa_STkt5RcI

    Shama’s response puts the parwana off and he also looks forlorn. ‘Hum aapki mehfil men bhoole se chale aaye’ – Jab se tumhen dekha hai.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nOhVLzj1fVk

    But, this parwana does not care even when he is laughed at. ‘Jahan jayenge deewane wahin mehfil bana lenge’ – Isi Ka Naam Duniya Hai.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cpOCeOGJxiA

  169. Hans,
    In my very first comment on this post, I had said that, this post has potential to go a very long way, but AK with his OCD of posting two tothree post a month has strangled it.
    I am so thankful to you for helping me in keeping it alive.
    I hope our stalwarts, Bhatiaji, Venkataramanji and Pradeepji की थोड़ी तवज्जो मिल जाये
    It can start breathing again.
    Thanks for taking fariyad and bebasi further.
    Bhool ne wale was discussed earlier but I remembered a song that is such a contrast of a song posted by Venkataramanji @ 137 bhool ne wale yaad na aa.
    https://youtu.be/VAhOAuPRTQc
    This is Sahir’s response to bhoolne wale
    Tum mujhe bhool bhi jao to haq hai tumko.
    Meri baat aur hai maine to mohabaat ki hai.
    https://youtu.be/42EMUa7KC4k

    I saw comments @ 222 through 226 after I had written my comment. Seems दुआ रंग ला रहीं है

  170. Mumbaikar ji ,

    I entirely agree with you. Some of the posts are short lived and some….yeh dil mange more. Such posts are very interesting.

  171. Hans ji,

    This time it was not computer….there were multiple health issues. Thank god i landed in hospital at right time. Stayed in medanta hospital for 12 days and now i was back to my house on 24th May to celebrate my birthday on 25th May. To say i have taken my step into platinum year . Slowly recovering now with baby steps. The main cocern was heart for which i had to go angiography, endoscopy and colonoscopy. The water retention swelling in feets and legs were the issues and it had to be stopped.

    Iam not going into details further and will write short paras only to return back to rest.

    I am really enjoing rendum picks of comments. Very informative rich in content. Venkatraman, yourself and mumbaikar…and dr. Shetty, joseph ji….all made it most rich following.

    Yes ek musafir ek hasina dance numbers were great with sadhna doing best of steps that pleased us all.

  172. Hansji @ Mumbaikar ji @
    You are proving to be Laxman – Dravid pair.
    I can’t resist adding few mehfil songs of different hues
    1 Raat ki Mehfil suni suni – Noorjahan – Shakeel- Roshan
    Yet another delicately melodious creation of Roshan
    https://youtu.be/zU7SA7sYSy0
    2 Sajati hai yuhi mehfil – Kudarat- Majrooh- RDB
    https://youtu.be/vKgMNGUe9ik
    3 Mehfil me meri kaun ye – Albela- Rajinder Krishan – C Ramchandra
    https://youtu.be/gZPP6Kg7-Fk
    In the first song Meenakumari is “bebas ” and Shakeel uses all that goes with bebasi like puranam aankhe, nakaam dil, tuta jam, tuta jam & obviously suni mehfil.
    While there is saaj-e- tamanna, jashn-e-mohobbat muradoki sham & -Sajati mehfil in the second.
    In the third song the heroine is anything but bebas , laced with khanjar she asks diwane tujhko maut ka bhi dar nahi
    Also it is interesting to note that Meena Kumari & Geeta bali are normally associated with contrasting images.

  173. Rahul Muli ji,

    Liked your analysis and comments. After bebasi ….i was thinking of bekasi . The only song that is coming in my mind is ….bekasi haad se jab guzar jaaye..
    .OPN ‘s classical touch . On mobile i am unable to post link. Do we have anyother song on bekasi?

  174. Hansjii @225,
    Thank You for your nice words. It is the culture of solidarity in us that keeps SoY going.

    Mumbaikar @227,
    It almost a month now and this post is going strong and in fact it is the third highest grosser of this year till now. The next two posts have attracted not even 25% of the comments posted in “Songs and Contra Songs”. The post is very much alive and kicking. The late entry of Bhatiaji might have impacted the number to an extent. I won’t be surprised if AKji suggest CBT for you.
    Bhool ne wale yaad na aa and Tum mujhe bhool bhi jao to haq hai tumko, nice contra songs.

  175. Bhatiyaji @ 231
    Thanks for appreciation
    Venkatramanji has posted master piece of a song on bequasi
    Here is another though not strictly bequasi it uses a variation bequas
    Bequas pe karam kijiye
    – Mughal – e- Azam
    Shakeel – Naushad

  176. Venkatraman ji, dr. Shetty ji, Muli ji,

    Thanks for reminding beautiful….bekasi…songs. How could i miss these ?

    There is one by kishore….kabhi bekasi ne mara….from colour era film…alag alag. I usually prefer to remain in domain of black and white era. The real gems lies in dark.

  177. Rahulji @ 235,
    Thank you for mentioning Beqas pe Karam Keejiye.
    Hansi said @ 221
    “Sawali means fariyadi or one who prays. If it is a bekas then the song becomes ‘bekas pe karam kijiye sarkar-e-madina’.”

    In “Anarkali” (1953), Hasrat Jaipuri uses ‘Bebas” in the song for a similar situation, whereas Saqeel Badyuni use “Beqas”. Is there a subtle difference between Fariyadi and Shikhwa? Needs confirmation from experts.

    Presenting both the songs,
    Ai mere mushkilakushaa, fariyaad hai, fariyaad hai
    Aapake hote hue duniya meri barabaad hai
    Bekas pe karam keejiye, sarkaar-e-madeena
    Bekas pe karam keejiye
    Mughal-e-Azam, Lata Mangeshkar, Saqeel Badayuni, Naushad
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DaeiwBG_DbE

    Zindagi bebas hu_i hai beqasi ka sath hai
    ek ham hai is qafas me ya khuda ki zat hai

    O asaman wale shikawa hai zindagi ka
    sun dastan gam ki afasana bebasi ka
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mN1958imdwU&feature=emb_title

  178. Hansji @221,
    You wrote,
    ‘The subtle difference between ‘haunsla’ and ‘himmat’ and ‘bekas’ and ‘bebas’ and the alternate words used in our songs kept coming in mind.’
    I understand Bebasi and Beqasi are similar but not the same.
    Bebasi can be interpreted as compulsion (Majboori), and Beqasi is without friends or resources hence loneliness/ helplessness.

    Posting a song,
    Kabhi Beqasi Ne Maara, Aur Kabhi Bebasi Ne Maara,
    Gila Maut Se Nahin Hai, Mujhe Zindagi Ne Maara”
    Film Alag Alag (1985), lyrics ANand Bakshi, music R D Burman
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RDZABOl2ZMw

    Ujaalon Se Veshat Mujhe Ho Gayi Hai
    What is the meaning of Veshat?

  179. Venkataramanji,
    Let me try to come in your discussion about some words. Bebas/bekasBebas is a very common usage for helplessness. When the helplessness aggravates to extreme sorrow, the poets are more likely to use bekasi. This situation would make the supplicant to completely surrender before the Almighty. The fariyadi becomes raham talabBekas pe karam kijiye, “I have not come with a petition, I just seek Your mercy (raham-o-karam)”. Sawaali/Fariyadi comes with a sense of grievance and accuses the Almighty for his unfair treatment meted out to the person – Kya mil gaya Bhagwan tujhe dil ko dukha ke?

    Vahshat – I checked up an Urdu-Hindi dictionary. It gives two very distinct meanings. One is a derivative of vahshi, meaning frenzied, ‘दीवानगी’. Probably Ghalib meant it in this sense: Ishq mujhko nahin vahashat hi sahi. The other meaning of vahshat is ‘fear’, ‘nervousness’. This seems to be the meaning in Ujaalon se vahshat mujhe ho gayi hai.

  180. Mumbaikar8 @227, Venkataramanji @232,
    Mumbaikar 8, I noticed your OCD about me – again!. But I dare not accept Venkataramanji’s suggestion of CBT. I have accepted your serious charges of even culpable homicide and submitted myself as a bebas fariyadi before the Almighty Accuser-Prosecutor-Judge for any verdict. I have never been a sawaali before you. You as a reader can eat your cake and have it too – ‘चित भी मेरी पट भी मेरी’. I as a blogger have to be careful – Kuchh kahane pe toofan utha leti hai duniya/Apni ti ye aadat hai ki hum kuchh nahin kahate. I have to stop here, because Kuchh bolega to bologe ki bolta hai

  181. AKji,
    SoY is also good learning platform for me. Expressing my understanding on unknown or lesser known subjects or languages furthers my learning. Initially I was trying to understand from the sidelines. Encouragement from Hansji made me shed my inhibition and jump into the pool. One cannot learn swimming from the banks. One has to take plunge knowing that there are people around to extend a helping hand.

    Thank you Akji for the clarifications.
    Then can I conclude that the song “O asaman wale shikawa hai zindagi ka as ” Sawaali/ Faryadi and not Raham-o-karam?

  182. Venkataramanji,
    You are welcome. We are all learning from everyone.

    O aasmanwaale shikwa hai zindagi ka is a unique song. It starts with a recital prelude in which both बेबस and बेकस are used:
    ज़िन्दगी बेबस हुई है बेकसी का साथ है
    एक हम हैं इस ख़फस में या ख़ुदा की ज़ात है .
    ( Here I am in this captivity, or is this the character of God?)

    This complaint tinged with sadness continues throughout the song:
    Tu dekhata rahe aur duniya humein saza de
    Kya zurm hai mohabbat itana zara bata de
    Manzil pe kyun luta hai har kaarwan khushi ka
    ?

    This is a sawali asking some tough questions of God though the tone is plaintive. Such remonstrations may range from this to admonishment to shaming to scolding. Amitabh Bachchan in “Tum aaj khush to bahut hoge” goes through the entire gamut, but in reverse order – scolding to shaming Him to surrendering to His रहमो करम.

  183. Not as an authority but just my personal thinking on these two words from the context ,
    ‘ bebas ‘ and ‘ beqas ‘ …

    ‘ bebas ‘ can be split into two words ‘ be ‘ and ‘bas ‘ . So ‘ bebas ‘ here certainly means ‘ helpless ‘ .

    One song from ‘ SONE KI CHIDIYA ‘ (1958), I am reminded of… where the word ‘ bas ‘ has been used and means ‘ control ‘ …

    https://youtu.be/dYchgFUtmgo

    In like manner ‘ beqas ‘ perhaps could be split into two words ‘ be ‘ and ‘ qas ‘ where ‘ qas ‘ may perhaps be related to ‘ qasoor ‘ ( fault ) and so whether ‘ beqas ‘ stands for ‘ beqasoor ‘
    ( faultless )

  184. Hans is absent. His महफ़िल is सजीं हुई .

    Venkataramanji
    “The next two posts have attracted not even 25% of the comments posted in “Songs and Contra Songs”. The post is very much alive and kicking. The late entry of Bhatiaji might have impacted the number to an extent.”
    One cannot compare apple and oranges. Bhatiaji at @228 agrees.
    This post was on ventilator named ( Mumbaikar8, Hans) 30th May onwards. Recuperating Bhatiaji came and pulled it out.
    As I mentioned in my comment, I saw it just when I was posting it and took the decision to go ahead with it.
    Seeing the Mehfil I am glad I did.

    “ I won’t be surprised if AKji suggest CBT for you. “
    Seems the suggestion is coming from you 🙂

    AK @ 240
    I agree that OCD was a stretch, I could have gone with OCA that would have been more appropriate.
    Honestly , don’t you get anxious if you cannot make two to three posts in a month?

    I even agree that you as a blogger have to be more careful, but I do not agree with your ‘चित भी मेरी पट भी मेरी”
    चित मेरी if I call for चित and पट मेरी if I call for पट its not like last time I called for चित so this time also I have to settle with चित.

    Venkataramanji, S Joseph,
    In my very first post on bequs I made a mistake it is bekas . I looked for it on Rekhta, it explains किस as who, and कस is the individual.
    so bekas is helplessness and) (or) of loneliness.
    And now back to to contrasting songs.
    On Mulakat
    It ne door ay huzoor prhir kaise mulakat ho
    https://youtu.be/rdRditLxovM

    And Aaj ki mulakat bas itni
    https://youtu.be/oYCxua2S0HY?list=TLPQMDUwNjIwMjAv_P-aXbrEnQ

  185. Mumbaikar ji Continuing with mehfil songs.
    The first pair is not of contrast songs but I find an intersting relationship between them
    In 1972 Rajesh Khanna gave an invitation through
    Ye Mera dil bhi ek mehfil hai
    Tum bhi kabhi aao na
    – Mere Jeevan Saathi- Majrooh- RDB
    https://youtu.be/qyUW_M59koU
    Which , going back full 12 years , had been already accepted by not one by two ladies – Madhubala & Nigar Sultana
    Teri mehfil me kismat aajma kar hum bhi dekhege – Mughal-E-Azam- Shakeel- Naushad
    https://youtu.be/Il1V0UGq4RY
    Now a contrast of 3 mehfils
    First one though in villain’s den is gulabi gulabi
    Helen enticing Madan Puri & for once Ajit is at the receiving end .
    Ye rangeen mehfil – Shikari- Farooq Kaiser- GS Nepali
    https://youtu.be/E10VEyv23mk
    Second one is inextricably associated with Radio Ceylon
    Ye mehfil sitaroon ki – Arab ka Saudagar – Ravi- Hemantkumar
    https://youtu.be/UzU36SK_–g
    And Hansji you will be pleased with this as it is penned by Ravi.
    It also features a relatively less common pair of Hemant kumar & Asha Bhosle .
    As a contrast to these two I choose a landmark marathi song from Jabbar Patel’s Umbaratha (threshold)
    Which talks about lonely mehfil
    Sunya sunya maifilit majhya tujhech mi geet gaat ahe
    – Umbartha – Suresh bhat – Hridaynath Mangeshkar
    https://youtu.be/-VkzoYNp3GI
    A rather amature attempt to translate it in hindi
    Is suni suni mehfil me
    Hum tere hi geet gaate hai
    lagta hai is nakaam Dil ko
    Abhi bhi wohi chaand raate hai

  186. AK ji,

    ….tu dekhta rahe aur duniya hamen saja de…. sad song that is pleasure to listen. I rate this as best song among the rest of this film. One can not part away with realities of life. One has to struggle in this life….to make the two end meets…..or compress yourself to button your shirt.

    AK ji i am on slow mode and will write small paras only. I am enjoying rich comments by pro active club of four.

  187. Venkatraman ji, Hans ji, Mumbaikar8 ji, Muli ji, joseph ji ,

    I am richened by rich observations and comments. To futher move here is a couple of mehfil sons

    Deewana parwana….from Albela.

    Mehfil mein jal uthi shama…..from Nirala

  188. Mumbaikar8 @227, 244 & AK 240
    I had in my comment 85 agreed with your view in this regard.

    In this OCD episode, I would have looked for some soothing balm for AK if I had not known he can defend himself. His response was as expected and Mumbaikar8 gave a good repartee for the ‘chit-pat’. But I was surprised to find Venkataramanji playing a doctor. 🙂 AK has to meet some pre-set schedules and posting of new topic does not stop us to continue with the old topic. But still I agree with Mumbaikar8 that the new topic always diverts attention of most of the readers and as an active reader she and all others have the right to have their say. From AK’s side I would explain OCD as Organised Calender Discipline.

    Regarding bhoolna songs, there are so many of them. I had given two in comment 171. In the song ‘mujhe bhool jana agar ho sake’ posted there, there was a condition .agar ho sake’. But, Suraiyya says clearly ‘tum mujhko bhool jao ab hum na mil sakenge’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cpVAEqCnzY8

    Hero responds ‘teri yaad dil se bhulane chala hoon’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BtqJbZIBIVw

    But the heroine has second thoughts. ‘Wo dil kahan se laun teri yaad jo bhula de’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dc36_4LGdWI

  189. These two songs are about rememberance of departed soul. Both are composed by Madan Mohan within a time frame of one year. In the first song from film Rishte Naate, Raj Kumar goes and looks at the photo of his dead wife Sandhya on her first death anniversary. In his imagination she starts singing the song. Nutan, who was married to him for the sake of the girl child looks on. The song is ‘mujhe yaad karne wale’.
    https://youtu.be/1nFmZVgZXd8

    The second song is ‘aapke pehloo men aakar ro diye’ from Mera Saya, where Sunil Dutt goes to Sadhana’s photo and sings the song.
    https://youtu.be/SDcAVpfg13A

  190. Bhatiaji,
    Glad to see coming back to almost normalcy.
    Uploading your songs
    1st
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_xUooIAgWk
    2nd
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pa_STkt5RcI

    Hans @ 248
    You have hit the nail on the head with “Organised Calender Discipline”.
    The discipline inculcated through generations have made us all obsessive in some way or the other.

    Hans @ 248, 249.
    Combining bhoolna and yaad aane of departed souls
    Rajender Kumar remembering
    Jo chal gaya use bhool ja Saathi
    https://youtu.be/WG6TRahCahw
    Rajender Kumar being remembered.
    Jane wale kabhi nahin aate jaane wale ki yaad aati hai. Dil ek Mandir
    https://youtu.be/yQxI0DW9JJ4

    AK, Bhatiaji, Hans, Venkataramanji, Mr. Rahul,
    Moving on, with sheeshe aur paththar
    Sheesha E Dil Itna Na Uchhaalo Dil apna aur preet parayi
    https://youtu.be/q2RqDBMNy6Q
    Sheeshe Ka Ho Ya Patthar Ka Dil Baat ek raat ki
    https://youtu.be/ugODzUFLiWI
    Here Sahir incites Patthar ki murat to respond
    Kisi Patthar Ki Moorat Se | Hamraaz (1967)
    https://youtu.be/mptpLw-ESv0
    Jagjit Singh has his own logic
    Sar Jhukaoge To Patthar Devta Ho Jaayega
    https://youtu.be/sj8K2v1LsU0

  191. Mumbaikar ji
    I will come to Sheesha & Patthar later on since I had this almost ready before you hit the wall.
    Koocha is a sparingly used word in hindi film songs, its more fortunate sibling gali has far better representation. It maybe because of the phonetic effect ( another example that comes to mind readily is qwatra qwatra made famous by both Ijazaat & dil se).
    So finding contrast songs involving koocha would be quite a task.
    Let me find whether
    AKji approves the following as a proper pair of contrast songs
    1 The first one is sad song from Roshan’s melodious repertoire and filmed on one of the intense actress,Suchitra Sen .
    Rahate the kabhi – Mamta – Majrooh
    The song also has number of internal contrasts like jinke dil me jaanse bhi pyaro ki tarah &
    Baithe hai unhi ke kucheme hum aaj gunahgaro ki tarah
    Or asko ke chhetein & Barase bhi to angaaron ki tarah
    And daawa tha jinhe hamdardi ka
    Mehfil mein bulaya hai hamko hasne ko sitamgaro ki tarah
    Second one is an expression of a legendary lover on realising that he has lost his dil
    Tere kuchemein tera diwana aaj dil kho baitha
    Heer Ranjha – Kaifi Aazmi – Madan Mohan
    This was overshadowed by more popular ye duniya & milo na tum to but is still capable of holding on to its own .
    Apart from the word koocha both the songs use the word gunahgaar in contasting context .
    In rahate the kabhi it is used to depict her fall from grace, as if she is a banished convict standing in a corner of koocha.
    But in tere kooche mein he is alluding to equal partnership in the ” crime” of falling in love.
    The only other song using the word koocha that I can recall is the heavenly gazal from Teen Deviyan
    Kahi Bekhayal hokar
    ( Kabhi is pari ka koocha kabhi us hasi ki mehfil)
    The links for all 3 songs
    1 Rahate the kabhi https://youtu.be/x2plQQ80x3k
    2 Tere kooche me tera
    https://youtu.be/Q36w-AsXDRs
    3 kahi bekhayal hokar
    https://youtu.be/w4xi3KVpIjI

  192. Rahulji,
    You beat me twice . I had mentioned both the times.
    Will wait for you Sheesha patththar series.
    Regarding Koocha you forgot the other heavenly ghazal.
    I had used in Ravish Arnab contrast.
    Jinhen Naaz Hai Hind Par – Guru Dutt, Mohammed Rafi, Pyaasa
    https://youtu.be/3ta4BmumQKc

  193. Rahul Muli ji, Mumbaikar8 ji,

    Great going with kuccha and sheesha pathar songs.

    I rember one more song with kuuccha…

    Yehi armaan leke aaj tere kuchhe se hum nikle….a master soul full rendition by Rafi sahib and melody par excellence by Naushad sahib.

  194. Mumbaikarji @ 244
    One cannot compare apple and oranges.”
    Absolutely right. And I was not comparing apples to oranges. I should have elaborated. My question is that did the two posts that followed seriously affect the post on “Songs and contra-songs”. I am sure the two following posts did not press its knees on the neck of the said post, it was more of a knee jerk reaction. Yet, I would try to do a fair analysis and address this issue in the anniversary post.

    I also agree with Bhatiaji’s comment, “Some of the posts are short lived and some….yeh dil mange more. Such posts are very interesting.”
    But that cannot be taken as an endorsement of your comments on constriction.

    “This post was on ventilator named ( Mumbaikar8, Hans) 30th May onwards. Recuperating Bhatiaji came and pulled it out.
    As I mentioned in my comment, I saw it just when I was posting it and took the decision to go ahead with it.
    Seeing the Mehfil I am glad I did.”

    I cannot deny you contribution SoY through your comments. They are not just the run-of the mill types and add a lot of value. I fully appreciate you initiative and efforts along with Hansji in boosting this post to second position. Bu this post was never in need of a ventilator since it was progressively healthy mare in SoY’s stable racing away to the top. Yes Bhatiaji’s absence was felt. His contribution would have made a difference.

    ‘ “I won’t be surprised if AKji suggest CBT for you. “ Seems the suggestion is coming from you’

    Yes, I said I won’t be surprised. It seems Akji in the back of his mind was not averse to the idea but he declared “I dare not accept the suggestion”. And I understand he had his reasonstoo.

    BTW, Will you tell me how to put a “simile” in one’s comment(s).

    Thank for the clarification on bekas. And the nice contrasting songs on “Mulakat”

  195. Hansji @ 249
    There were 2 songs in Sanjog on bhoolna
    1 Wo bhuli dastan lo phir yaad aa gai
    &
    2 Bhuli hui yaado
    Both penned by Rajinder Krishan
    Both regarding pain suffered by respective characters so excruciating that in the first only dil- e -barbaad hona baki hai & in the second there is a request filled with anguish “mere paas na aao”
    3 And in Anand Yogesh has a contrasting yaad
    Chhoti chhoti baato ki hai yaade badi
    Bhule nahi beeti hui ek chhoti ghadi.

  196. There was an observation that the two subsequent posts after this have not even got 25% comments when compared to this post . My view is that this post on contra songs has infinite scope . Almost every song should be having a contra somewhere as there are around say 30, 000 songs in the 1940 – 1970 period alone . Further , the same song can pair as contra again for some other point . But the contra songs cannot be located easily as I am sure no one can be familiar with all these estimated 30,000 songs and locating the contra songs in this ocean requires considerable time and efforts. Luckily , at SOY all posts are always open forever for comments. But as pointed out , the attention is always diverted to the latest post .

    Perhaps this pair may contrast under ‘ Roothna ‘

    a ) ‘ Tum roothi raho… ‘/ AAS KA PANCHHI / SJ / 1960 / Mukesh , Lata

    https://youtu.be/Xbnj55AUtXE

    b ) ‘ Yun rootho na … ‘/ NEEND HAMARE KHWAB TUMHARE / 1966 / MM / Rafi

    https://youtu.be/AmBFWMayCWk

  197. Mr Muli, Mumbaikar8, Giriji, KS Bhatiaji, Hans Jakhar, Venkataramanji, Mr Joseph, Dr Shetty,
    You have been firing on all cylinders. Good to see KS Bhatiaji back in form – congratulations and best wishes. I have lost count of dissections of words and themes, all very fascinating and perceptive. Some of the most interesting:
    Bekas/bebas/Sawal/Fariyad
    Aansoo/Khushi
    Shaadi/Barbaadi
    Mulaqat
    Mehfil
    Jogi
    Hausla/Himmat
    God songs
    Vahashat
    Koocha/Gali
    Yaad aana/Bhulana
    Shessha/Pathar

    The list is endless and our talented readers can search innumerable jewels. This post was born during Lockdown. An important activity I did, or was made to do, courtesy DD was binge-watching mythological serials. Parallel to the great churning on the SoY I was watching Samudra-manthan. In the Samudra-manthan there were complications of Dev-Daanav rivalry, and along with the amrit, venom also came out. But the SoY-manthan is delivering unalloyed jewels.

    Venkataramanji @178,
    You mentioned some utility of a useless person because a stopped watch gives accurate time twice a day. Someone also mentioned another utility: “No man is completely useless; he can always serve as a bad example.”

    Sheesha/Pathar: Shesha is brittle – “Jinke ghar sheeshe ke bane hote hain wo doosron par patthar nahin phenkte“, and in our films dil is very prone to breaking. Therefore, the comparison becomes very apt – sheesha-e-dil. But is there any scope for contrast in this? Perhaps toughened, unbreakable glass was not discovered then.

    Koocha: The first song that came to my mind is: ‘Tere kooche mein armaanon ki duniya le ke aya hun‘. There is optimism, but sung in a plaintive style. Naushad magic, he must have composed it looking at the entire theme of the film.

    Mr Joseph @243,
    It is now established that the word is not ‘beqas’, but ‘bekas’. Therefore, your etymology with ‘qasoor’ does not work. But it is now even better. कसकर or कसना implies ‘tightly’ or ‘strength’/’strongly’. Therefore, बेकस should mean ‘sapped of strength’, ‘limp’, ‘lifeless’. That takes us to, ‘Bekas pe karam kijiye sarkar-e-Madina
    @258, 259,
    Very nice contrast in wafa/bewafa; roothana/manana

    Mr Muli @245,
    Your translation of the Marathi song from Umbratha is very poetic. Good to have another poet on the SoY. Perhaps you need to add a word in the last line to make it clear.
    @255,
    In Jalte hain jiske liye his geet was even more delicate than glass:
    Geet naazuk hai mera shheshe se bhi toote na kahin
    Gungunaaungaa wohi geet main tere liye

    Would I be right in suggesting that dil breaks not by sheesha, but ‘like’ sheesha?

    Dear all,
    There has been some general discussion about the number of comments in a post, and new posts affecting activity on old posts where the theme has great potential. I should make some observations. I don’t focus too much on the number of comments, nor do I do anything special to garner comments. The blog is lucky that it attracts so many intense and involved readers. Mr Joseph has rightly observed that this theme has infinite possibilities, and it is proven that the appearance of a new post does not come in the way of life of an old post. So keep on going full-steam, but do look at the later posts too.

  198. AK ji and all others ;

    Thanks to all of you for uplift and encouraging me to come to the terms and platform where I was .

    I am on a trail to retrieve memories to repair……. moods and memories of myself. I am on sad, happy , or neutral mood induction…..and rating their effective responses to the memories. Consistent with mood-congruent triangle of course happiness is riding the apex . Some details in life may look insignificant …as mood suggest…. but later appears magnificent. So I am keeping myself with go ahead attitude.

    Turning back to the theme which has further been expanded now….and as Joseph ji observed ….this theme is in infinite zone. A few of songs that are coming into my both sides of my mind….

    Tum chand ke saath chale aao ……..Aashiana…MM

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JwcWuLdiH3s

    ja ja re chanda ja re..Lata_Prem Dhawan_D Dilip

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hZw8VjWyKI

    …to be contd.

  199. Hansji @248,
    “But I was surprised to find Venkatramanji playing a doctor.”
    Did I ? I wrote that I will not be surprised if the patient (?) suggested a CBT to the doctor who diagnosed the OCD. My comment was that of an innocuous observer.

    Flattered by your nice words @ 225 I took the plunge in posting a few songs and cut a sorry figure. Now I pray I do not end up with a noose around my neck for poking my nose.

    Presenting a contra on Akele chalna and Saath chalna
    Akela ye Raasta Zindagi ka, Kahin bhi koi nahi kisi ka, Kishore Kumar
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5jAveTl4QR0

    Chal Chal Mere Sang Chal, Sukhwinder Singh
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fKwB1wRUP2s

  200. There has been a discussion on some words bebas, bekas, wahshat etc. I also want to say something which may be useful to some. Meaning of these words have been given by Venkataramanji, which appears correct. Josephji’s mention that कस may be the short form of कसूर has given me the reason to explain this. कस is a total hindi word having its roots in sanskrit. बेकस has come into hindi from persian. There are various uses of the word कस the most common being कस के मारना, कस के गांठ बांधना, कसना, कसौटी पर कसना etc. There is a famous song नजरों के तीर मारे कस कस कस, एक नहीं दो नहीं आठ नौ दस.

    Some songs on bekas has been posted but this one from Aab-e-hayat has not been posted. मैं गरीबों का दिल हूं वतन की जुबां, बेकसों के लिये प्यार का आस्माँ is the favourite of many including AK.
    https://youtu.be/p46HblFw5Pg

  201. Venkataramanji
    Why cant you be a doctor when Mumbaikar8 can. In fact Indians from our Pradhan Mantri to the smallest Santri are always willing to offer advice on each and every subject. You are more qualified than most of them. In fact from your reply to Mumbaikar8 at 256 to me you have staked the claim as an advocate, which title was being given to me by AK.

    I put a smiley in my comment, but even if that was not written lightly, we would not have even touched your nose, which you poked, leave alone the noose around the neck you are so precious to us. 😉

    Since you have posted the akela song contrast, I would not leave you akela.
    Here is ‘akela hoon main is duniya men koi sathi hai to mera saya’.
    https://youtu.be/dQVQ2C-B6ms

    And here is the contra. ‘Akele hi akele chala hai kahan’ from Gopi.
    https://youtu.be/qAav-7EoY4E

  202. Venkataramanji,
    Let me first respond to your BTW question
    “Will you tell me how to put a “simile” in one’s comment(s).”
    Ak Hans and I have discussed it before.
    I don’t remember when, probably, you were absent at that time
    I had made a complaint to AK that Similes have their own mind, it is accepted or rejected erratically while posting.
    Otherwise you would have seen a simile beside “OCD” in my comment.
    Next
    “I am sure the two following posts did not press its knees on the neck of the said post, it was more of a knee jerk reaction.
    “Bu this post was never in need of a ventilator since it was progressively healthy mare in SoY’s stable racing away to the top.”

    This takes us back to the core of this post. “Truths and contra-truths.
    The truth of glass half full and half empty.
    It is said, for the pessimistic is half empty and optimistic half full.
    For me it depends upon the need and the expectations.
    A person who has had number of drinks and has no capacity for any more would see it as half full. but the person who has walked miles in the chilling sun, thirsty and wanting to drink a pot of water would find it half empty.
    That was my perception, this is yours. You are most welcome.
    I am glad you came up with yours, and expect you to do it in future as well. As you know I never hesitate to speak similarly want and appreciate others speaking too.

    AK @ 260
    Thanks for appreciating our effort.

    Now time for today’s topic.

    Badi Der Bhayi Badi Der Bhayi – Mohammed Rafi – Basant Bahar
    https://youtu.be/nQ-YLt_31co

    Aana Hai To Aa Rahabw Naya Dour 1957
    https://youtu.be/JpHDzsgmcPI

    Geeta Dutt :Thehro zara si der toh : Film – Savera (1958)
    https://youtu.be/9YInr7KePpQ

    Itni Jaldi Na Karo
    https://youtu.be/lEQymHoSE-g

    Ruk Jao Na Ji Aisi Kya Jaldi | Chalti Ka Naam Gaadi
    https://youtu.be/-rnFf6nFZpw

    पापा जल्दी आ जाना..Taqdeer 1967_
    https://youtu.be/wqByT7BeAbE

  203. Mumbaikar8, Hans, Venkataramanji,
    Your discussion about smileys. Just to tell you that disclaimer is not necessary on this blog. My preference is not to use smileys, that seems I take my readers not intelligent enough to understand/take a joke. So don’t worry. If someone is offended, you can explain smiley was hidden. Just imagine how odd it would look if a stand-up comedian has to show every few minutes a placard “Now you should laugh”, or another one, “No offence is meant to anyone”. That would still not protect Kunal Kamra from the perpetually offended mob.

  204. There is a clarification to my comment 264. I re-read Mumbaikar8 comment 244. She has given the meaning of कस in urdu as individual which is correct and this कस has come from persian. Hindi कस is different and there is no conflict of meaning between that given by Mumbaikar8 and me. किस which she mentioned along with कस has come from sanskrit.

  205. Here we have the word ‘ INTEZAR ‘ .

    In the first song they are ready to wait till ‘ qayamat ‘ ; in the other song they do not want to wait .

    This pair may fit as contra . Someone may find a better pair of contra for these same songs .

    a ) ‘ Hum intezar karenge … ‘ / BAHU BEGUM / 1966 / Roshan / Rafi , Asha

    https://youtu.be/iPx5cZOjIvE

    &

    b) ‘ Aaja ke intezar… ‘/ HALAKU / 1956 / SJ / Rafi , Lata

    https://youtu.be/_4GPMKgizpU

  206. Ms.Mumbaikar ji, Joseph ji ,

    Nice songs both of you have added.

    Last song reminds me of one of the duet of rafi and geeta dutt.

    Aag daman mein laga di tere diwane ne..
    ..a melody of iqbal qureshi. He was really a good composer….but was given less chance . I like to listen more songs whenever they invade my mind. Just now i am thinkig of his big hit….love in shimla.

  207. Hansj @ 264, 265,
    Thanks for further clarifications, reassurances and the smiley too. I love to be advocate rather than a doctor.

    Main garibon ka dil hoon watan ki zabaan, Bekason ke liye pyar kaa asmaan is nice song. Saat chalne ki liye Dhanyavad.

    Posting another contra on Akela chalna and Saat Chalna.
    Akela Hoon Main-Kishore Kumar
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iJE8tCIwVtY

    Yunhi Kat Jaayega Safar Saath Chalne Se
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gydQicNmT4o

  208. Mumbaikarji @ 266,
    Thank you for the explanation on smiley. As I have said earlier I would try to address your second part in the anniversary post. Thanks for the nice contra songs on Der…

    Hansji’s and your efforts have boosted the post to the top spot. Congratulations

    A pair of contra Aanewala and Janewale

    Aaj koi hai aane wala, kaun ye kyu batlau, Suraiya
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1CAOfV6r1-8&feature=emb_title

    Jaane Vaale Se Mulaqat Na Hone Paai, Lata Mangeshkar
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FtlIB_uo9VA

  209. Here is a song where you see the two who cannot reach an understanding due to cultural differences . May fit in under the category of internal contra songs .

    ‘ Mein Bangali Chokra … ‘/ RAAGINI / 1958 / OPN / Kishore , Asha

    https://youtu.be/8x2MqmcymRg

  210. Mumbaikar8 ‘ji @277;

    Thanks for posting song from PANCHAYAT . Some time we just struck happy notes when such songs crops up and take you there where one belongs to in that era . Bathroom…nay…Gusalkhana…as we call them in 1958 ….were the best place to hum and sing such melodious songs. We tried echo sounds too when singing near the corners of the walls.

    Yes those were the days when every MD gave their best. Those who wish to sing always find a song and place to sing. Music and rhythm finds their own ways to please your mind and soul .

    Geeta Dutt was a great soul herself. Her each notes lift the melodies to greater heights ….be it slow or fast number .

    Zinda zindagi. Zindagi Hai Zinda….I am hearing for the first time . Ameeta , a less known actress then …used to be handy singing such songs. Song from Baadban is of course all time great .

    Here are two songs that is subject to s

    aye mere dil kahi aur chal..Talat_Lata_Shailendra_Shankar jaikishan

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_aFqiq7yHI8

    Jaoon Kahan Bata Aye Dil – – Chhoti Bahen…mukesh…SJ

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R15OyGa6Q50

    ……to be contd…..

  211. Bhatiaji,
    Ameeta was lucky for struggling actors. If I am right she worked with three struggling actors. Shammi Kapoor in Tumsa nahin dekha, Rajender Kumar and yesterday I saw Manoj Kumar in Panchayat all of them gained popularity and became big star in their own way but for Ameeta it was हम है वहीँ हम थे जहाँ.
    Adding to your songs two contra Musafir songs, both by Shailendra.

    Wahan kuan hai tere Guide
    https://youtu.be/QCsdHLTf0cI

    And chal chal re musafir chal Pooja
    https://youtu.be/iJmkC3fAltQ

  212. It is still fluttering thanks to
    Mr Josheoh, Mumbaikar ji , Bhatiya ji , Venkatraman ji
    Here are few lighter lines
    1 jodi humari jamega kaise
    – Aulad – Majrooh – Chitragupt
    This song was a regular feature of Aap hi ke geet on Ceylon ( kab tak hujoor was a very good Lata number )
    2 Hum bane tum bane
    Ek duje ke liye – Anand Bakshi – LP

  213. Muliji
    @230
    ‘Raat ki mehfil sooni’ is my favourite. The Kudrat song I heard for the first time. Mukhda was good but antara was just tolerable. Majrooh was perhaps running out of ideas by then and RDB had since long composing interest in mukhdas only. So many great ‘mehfil’ songs are coming to mind, but I would post ‘mehfil se uth jane walo tum logo par kya ilzam’ from Dooj Ka Chand. Roshan was just sublime and Sahir in his inimitable style puts all the ilzams despite saying the opposite in the mukhda. And surpassed himself in doing sharaabi songs.

  214. Josephji @ 259
    Great roothna-manana songs. These roothna manana songs mostly have the same direction, one doing roothna and the other manana, the only difference is in style characters and lyrics. But, here is a song ‘jana hai to jao manayenge nahin’ from Bandhan, in which both hero and heroine are going at each other.
    Hero – Jana hai to jao manayenge nahin, nakhre kisi ke uthayenge nahin.
    Heroine – Aana hai to aao bulange nahin, kadmon pe sar ko jhukayenge nahin.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CoYPIgRrPd8

  215. This is a song on ‘ Raaz ‘ which may fit under ‘ internal contra songs ‘ as Dev is hiding some secrets but at the same time his secrets cannot be hidden as it is exposed by his facial expressions.

    ‘ Lakh chhupao chhup … ‘/ ASLI NAQLI / 1962 / SJ / Lata

    https://youtu.be/Vyav2kQicYQ

  216. Mumbaikar8 @ 280
    You are right Ameeta was unlucky and despite the success of Tumsa Nahin Dekha and Goonj Uthi Shehnai could not go very far and soon had to settle for smaller roles. In Goonj Uthi Shehnai she had joint share with Anita Guha, but in Tumsa Nahin Dekha she played perfect foil to Shammi in the songs which made the film a success. But, in the film Panchayat she was not there. The heroine singing the song is Jabeen.

    About zindagi songs you or others can revert to them again and again, because there are a number of them. Even the songs with first word as zindagi are many. I am giving here ‘zindagi kya hai gam ka dariya hai’ from Pyar Kiya to Darna Kya.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TqgrigwS7Do

    The counter is ‘zindagi ek safar hai suhana’ from Andaz.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jBspOUwBHRg

  217. And now a new topic ‘bhanwra’ and ‘kali’. As always I have made a series, but I have kept out songs with bhanwra and phool.

    First, the kali is calling.bhanwra a nadan. Well known song from Sahib Bibi aur Gulam.
    https://youtu.be/DHyRikMZXqw

    After teasing the bhanwra, she concludes that this bhanwra is bairaagi. So she sings
    ओ मेरे बैरागी भंवरा मुझे तडपाओ ना
    कली के प्यासे दिल को ठेस लगाओ ना
    आओ ना
    This masterpiece from SDB is a lesser known song from Ishq Par Zor Nahin.
    https://youtu.be/afciUS3ZWCw

    Then she complains, though playfully that ‘baag men kali khili bhanwra nahin aaya’ – film Chand Aur Suraj.
    https://youtu.be/PjPHKLORVGU

    Now the bhanwra arrives with all pomp and show but she moves away and he has to sing
    ओ मनचली कहां चली -2
    देख-3 मुझसे ना शर्मा, देख-3 मैं हूं इक भंवरा और तू कली
    https://youtu.be/ccHWrviuMpk

    And now the kali puts blame on the bhanwra for being beiman. So he from being a nadan becomes beimaan without any thing achieved. Listen to ‘kali kali choome’ again from Manchali.
    https://youtu.be/UsJ0rBK1ez8

  218. Venkataramanji @ 61
    Hans @ 66 has said it all.
    “you know more about the blog than the blogger himself”

    Thanks that is all I can say.

    Your analysis of AK getting more comments than rest of his guests writers, is because none of the guest writers can close to the promptness of AK in responding, that is one of the reasons why he has
    that many (regular) visitors.

    Like AK I do not much care about number of comments ,
    They can be misleading. Today Hans shot six comments, this is quite normal has happened many times.
    I look for traffic.
    Once again thanks, appreciate your effort.

    Hans @ 290.
    Thanks for drawing my attention, I should have done better.
    To make me feel better I checked whether Ameeta had worked with Manoj or not.
    Actually she did.
    I can post a song from that movie, found a contra, because it is very much like “ Zindagi”
    Movie is Maa Beta and song Tumse humen pyar hai.
    https://youtu.be/XYAyaeeQeig
    Mujhe tumse nahin hai Gharonda
    https://youtu.be/AZXSBVWQ8wo

    Hans @ 284
    The song mehfil se uth jane walon had personal angle like Chalo ek baar phir se.
    It is mentioned here in this Rajya Sabha program on Amrita Preetam.
    https://youtu.be/jyng88pcU7g?t=2046

  219. Consider now naam Here Mumtaj is wearing & chanting his name like Radha did, “Jaise raadha ne mala Japi shyam ki
    Maine odhi chunariya tere naam ki”
    & Look how Pradip Kumar vows not to utter her name with a very noble intention of not damaging her character,
    “Tera Naam hi lena chhod diya”
    1 Jaise Radha ne – Tere Mere Sapne – Neeraj- SDB
    https://youtu.be/ROPIDnr8cJM
    2 Jis dil me basa tha – Saheli – Indeevar- KA
    https://youtu.be/YU7LuDbHQgw

  220. AKji:

    I thought that I should wait and be the one to bring up the triple century! But then that would not be cricket given the work Mumbaikar ji, Hans ji, Venkatraman ji, Rahul Muli ji, Bhatia ji, and all the other more prolific scorers have put in. Still, here is one single from me coming in the form of ‘Main shaayar to nahin’ – internal contrast (Shailendra Singh in Bobby; MD: LP):

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmeMg-gm1Us

  221. We hear a song where the bride is telling that for making a new bonding of love in marriage , she has to painfully break all her very dear lifelong bonds with friends and family . Today things are different to a large extent .

    This may song may fit in under internal contra .

    ‘ Ek pyar ke bandhan…’/ PYAR KA BANDHAN / 1963 / Ravi / Asha

    https://youtu.be/yvYjJqRNY2o

  222. He says that her anklets are much better than him as it continuously touches her body intimately . Vyjayantimala does not agree and maintains that he is touching her intimately with his eyes constantly . The two have different opinions on the same issue and so this song may fit in as an internal contra .

    ‘ Humse toh achhi …’ / GANWAR / 1970 / Naushad / Rafi , Asha

    https://youtu.be/PlEBN9JpNSc

  223. ‘ Dard ‘ related songs have figured frequently in HFM.

    Here we see contrast songs where ‘ Dard ‘ cause pain for some but can be pleasant for others.

    a ) ‘ Mujhe dard e dil … ‘ / AAKASH DEEP / 1965 / Chitragupt / Rafi

    https://youtu.be/wKHr4q-uA_s

    and two contra songs

    b ) ‘ Dard e dil jeene ka … ‘ / APRADHI / 1992 / LP / Alka Yagnik , Mohammed Aziz

    https://youtu.be/c6mXd1z_cvs

    c ) ‘ Pyar ka dard … ‘ / DARD /Khayyam / 1981 / Kishore , Asha

    https://youtu.be/BYsNBclR4nQ

  224. Congratulations everybody and a special thanks to Josephji.
    Josephji was the most appropriate person to be the one to bring up the triple century.

  225. Congratulations to all who made it to cross this milestone . I hope joseph ji, hans ji and others will make it to even 400 score beating the pankaj roy and umrigar partnership. The captain…venkatraman ji…truly made this happened. From ladies cricket bench …mumbaikar did a good score keeping the score card moving ….but who is on opponent side ? …no one knows.

    Remember shailendra line from shree 420 movie…..aaye gaaye manziloan ke nishan , lehra ke jhooma jhooka aasman…leken rukega na yeh carvan….mud mud ke na dekh mud ke.

  226. Bhatiaji,
    Your presence makes all the difference.
    आप के आनेसे चहल पहल लगी रहती हैं

    Rahulji @ 297
    What is the intention of Raj Kapoor here ?
    Bol Radha bol sangam hoga ki nahin
    https://youtu.be/9a-ONy8iGNQ

    Canasyaji @ 298 Mr Joseph @ 301
    This song is common in both the categories.
    Dard e dil dard e Jigar dil Main Jagaya aapne – Karz
    https://youtu.be/G_yCwBhPnDc

  227. Basant bahar was a veritable feast very delicately delivered by SJ. As an album it should rank as one of the top from SJ stable.
    Manna Dey sings
    Sur na saje kya gaau main?
    Now there perhaps can be no better paradox than this .
    He begins with the lament that Sur na saje but then goes on to deliver a performance which is faultless.
    However if we accept that he cannot sing as sur saje nahi hai then also we have a contrast in the form of Nargis who in almost the same situation exhorts herself to sing , sing & sing in a film dominated by Asha
    ” Ga mere man ga
    Ga mere man ga
    Yunhi bitaye ja din zindagi ke”
    1 Sur na saje – Basant bahar
    – Shailendra – SJ
    https://youtu.be/MI4OCBV78nM
    2 Ga mere man ga – Lajvanti – Majrooh – SDB
    https://youtu.be/Sgm0HkCduYk

  228. Ms. Mumbaikar 8 ;

    Thanks for your kind words . Sitting on bench, platform or pavilion maters little as long as one is enjoying blog and comments , contributions and observations.

    a little more of observation on Ameeta and some more budding heroins knocking the doors of stardom. Yes if one care to see the clips of chorus songs of Mughal E Azam one can easily recognise the faces of Ameeta , Vijay Chowdhry etc. One more thing….Johney walker also had a small role in that movie….and it has never been discussed at any platform.

    Now more of Ameeta song and other one related to theme.

    Kisika Nahi Rahi, Abhiman, Manna Dey, Abhiman.[1957]..Anil Biswas

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_72H2oMq64

    Re Murakh Tu Kya Jane Tune Sab Kuch Aaj Gavaya || Old Classic Song Movie Amanat – 1955

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SkgCv3x_1TM

    Murli Wale Murli Baja (HD) – Dillagi Songs – Shyam – Suraiya

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rU-75EyFZYc

    Mohan Ki Muraliya Baje – Shamshad Begum – Mela

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wEEkD5FixE8

    ….to be contd…

  229. ‘ Hamsafar ‘ is another common word in HFM and there could be many contra songs .

    I have observed earlier also that the same songs may get better paired with another song as I know only a few out of the so many.

    These two songs may pair…

    ‘ Humsafar saath chhod … ‘/ AAKHRI DAO / 1953 / MM / Rafi , Asha

    https://youtu.be/OIZaLYIfPXg

    and the contra…

    ‘ Tum jo huwe… ‘ / 12 ‘ O CLOCK / 1958 / OPN / Rafi , Geeta

    https://youtu.be/c60uJHdP1Tk

  230. Paradox in another Manna Dey classic song?
    इक पल जैसे एक युग बीता
    युग बीतें मोहे नींद न आई .

    Neend na aai led to sona
    सोजा. सजन ख्वाब में आएंगे
    So ja Rajkumari
    https://youtu.be/opsmm66GLH0
    सोना ना ………सजन से मिलना है तो खवांबों के अँधेरे मत रहना. जागते रहना
    Sona Na Sitaron Ka Hai Kehna
    https://youtu.be/p-UPtKXMqz0

  231. Songs around ‘ Teer ‘ are numerous in HFM .

    Perhaps this one fits under ‘ internal contra ‘

    Listening to the song movement initially you feel that the lady would go on suffering injustice …

    ‘ teer khaate jaaenge, aansu bahaate jaayenge o teer chalaanevaale ‘

    But towards the end the lady says that for his cruelty he will have to pay one day …

    ‘ beasar hote nahi aansu kisi naakaam ke , tujhko bhi ronaa padegaa ek din dil thaam ke ‘

    ‘ Teer khaate jaayenge… ‘ / DEEWANA /1952 / Naushad / Lata

    https://youtu.be/UYqT1q4KHnE

  232. AKji there is such a deluge that it looks like 26/7 is going to be repeated on SOY.
    And only on Ameeta there is a torrent.
    I add my own bit
    Kaise kahu
    Tum hame pyar karo ya na karo hum tumhe pyar kiye jayenge is what Nanda said to Vishwajeet. Somehow I find the composition very UnSDB , though I like it immensely.
    Contrast this with
    Goonj Uthi Shenai
    Where Rajendra kumar is pleading to public at large
    Kah do koi na kare yahan pyar.
    I haven’t seen Kaise kahoo & Gunj uthi is very faint in memory .
    But it seems that in both the songs situation is more or less same ( imminent heart break) but in one case the spurned lover is resolute and will continue to love himb whether he reciprocates or not . But in the second case
    Rajendra kumar is banishing the word love from the dictionary of everybody.
    1 Tum hame pyar karo ya na karo – Kaise Kahoo- Shakeel – SDB
    https://youtu.be/yEuvjaX6uGI
    2 Kah do koi na kare yaha pyar – Goonj Uthi Shehnai – Pt Bharat Vyas – Vasant Desai
    https://youtu.be/uAie5OAt4Y4

  233. Rahulji and other members of SoY,
    It is a real deluge, and a welcome endless deluge.
    And I was waiting for this momentous occasion.
    Congratulations every body for crossing another land mark.

    Till today Subodhji’s article “Best film songs based on classical ragas” had 311 comments against it. That was the highest in the 10 years of SoY. The honour of taking this article beyond that land mark goes to Josephji. A special word of thanks to Hansji, Rahulji, Bhatiaji and above all Mumbaikaji for the motivation and leading from the front.
    Anything do with “contra”, there will be Nari Shakti’s involvement.

    Thanks also to the author of the article AKji and once again to Rahulji
    for the idea.

  234. Dev Anand in two contrasting moods,
    And a contrasting situation…….

    Aye dil kaha teri manzil
    na koi deepak hai na koi tara hai
    gum hai zamin dur asmaan
    aye dil kaha teri manzil …….
    Dwijen Mukherjee, Lata Mangeshkar & Chorus, Maya (1961), lyrics Majrooh Sultanpuri, music Salil Chowdhury
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S199DH_hDfU&feature=emb_title

    Aye Kash Chalte Milke
    chand or mai or tu
    aye kash chalte mil le
    ye teen rahi dil ke
    Asha Bhosle, Manna Dey, Manzil (1960), lyrics Majrooh Sultanpuri, music S D Burman
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UG5Tqe7zTAY

  235. Mumbaikar8 @296
    I think you wanted to post the upper part in the post on completion of 10 years. I would comment on this aspect in that post.

    Regarding Ameeta-Manoj, there was also a film Piya Milan Ki Aas in which there was the famous song ‘man ki gagaria men tu chamka’.

    Yes, quite a few of songs by Sahir come from his life experiences. Even Amrita Preetam wrote many poems indicating her love life. She has a unique style and I like her poems and novels. I think women should read her poetry. Her poems spur one to believe in oneself rather than play the victim card.

  236. Hans ji ;

    There is one more movie….Abe Hayat….which starred Shashikala , Ameeta and premnath. I enjoyed this movie in my youth days as it was full of action and beautiful songs. I saw it in chandni chownk old movie theater …Excelsior …..with interval calls of…aaye chhaiye pepsi…delivered on your seat with chips of old fantastic tastes that burns the ears of nearby audience. I really miss that old charm .To recall here are two songs with common chorus interludes.

    Jhuk Jhuk Jaye – Geeta Dutt, Abe Hayat….Sardar Malik

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hQ1uAlwW-3Q

    Main Garibon Ka Dil – Hemant Kumar, , Abe Hayat

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vOt2Ng9CXRA

    Melodies live for ever…thanks to recall button.

  237. Muliji @ 297
    There was a song ‘chahunga main tujhe sanjh savere, phir bhi kabhi ab naam ko tere awaz main na doonga’. Then came the contrast ‘mera to jo bhi kadam hai wo teri raah men hai’. Links to both songs.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C1CLFK9T028
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tP0D6ZJll1M

    And there is ‘tere naam ka deewana tere ghar ko dhoondta hai’ from Suraj Aur Chanda’.

    @ 305
    ‘Aaj ga lo muskura lo mehfilen saja lo, kya jane kal koi sathi chhoot jaye’ from Lalkar, caters to both gana and mehfil. And there is a contrasting sad version too. Breathtaking picturisation.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sl376im79Bw
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QySHI7cLDyg

    @213
    There is a song on similar lines in Rani Rupmati ‘phul bagia men bulbul bole’ with internal contrast too like ‘muhabbat karlo jee bharlo’ from Aar Paar.
    The song runs thus.
    Heroine
    फूल बगिया में बुलबुल बोले डाल पे बोले कोयलिया
    प्यार करो रुत प्यार की आई रे भँवरे से कहती हैं कलियाँ
    Hero
    प्यार तो है तलवार की धार जी प्यार की मुश्किल हैं गलियां
    प्यार में राधा बावरी बन गयी रटते रटते सांवलिया
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QrZ19q0kpRQ

  238. Perhaps this song fits under internal contra.

    These two though have been meeting for so long yet they feel as if they are meeting for the first time.

    Good to check if we in the same situation .

    ‘ Umr hui tumse … ‘ / BAHURANI / 1963 / CR / Lata , Hemant

    https://youtu.be/PIUtQ30EaAw

  239. Josephji @ 307

    Here are two songs ‘humsafar ab ye safar kat jayega’ from Juaari and ‘kisi raah men kisi mod par’ from Mere Humsafar.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fNQ5MGomiYY
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kv0DBfaeEsc
    In the first one both talk about their past sorrows and in the second one they are worried about any impending mis-happening.

    Now look at ‘jab tum ho mere humsafar khoobsoorat’ from Aan Baan. What kind of humsafar both of them are.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zl2EZAfDUmM

  240. Mumbaikar8 @ 306 & Bhatiaji
    You must have similar experiences as in the following two songs.
    ‘Jab jaag uthe armaan’ from Bin Badal Barsaat, where he loses sleep because there is हसीं मेहमान in the house.
    https://youtu.be/34jn_qf0yII

    or

    ‘Neend na mujhko aaye’ from Post Box 999, where both are blaming each other for the lost sleep. Hemant magic in both songs.
    https://youtu.be/Z0ylZMYJ1Uo

  241. Hans ji,

    There is one more song on neend….

    Neend kabhi rehti thi aankhoan mein ab rehte hain sawaria . This song of lata was picturised on mala sinha and was composed by madan mohan….film ..?

  242. Hans ji @318
    In the list of contrast songs I had mailed to AKji chahunga mai tujhe was included but I pitted it against
    1 Main to har mode par tujhko dunga sada – Chetna – Naqsh Layalpuri- Sapan Jagmohan
    https://youtu.be/Sxgco9wmZqM
    Or
    2 Mallika-e tarranum’s iconic
    Awaaj de kaha hai – Anmol Ghadi – Tanveer Naqui – Naushad
    https://youtu.be/ANptt7VMxXU
    I have a mehfil song against the one quoted by you which I also heard for the first time
    Ye mehfil yun hi sajegi – Aaj ki Radha
    – Kishor kumar – Indeevar – Sapan Jagmohan
    https://youtu.be/nX06AJP0uPM

  243. Now a new topic ‘dhoondhna’.
    Akela hoon main humsafar dhoondhta hoon – Jaal
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jpDeUsUZaGE

    Now this one is sure he will be successful. Jab dekh liya to chhupenge kahan unhen dhoondh hi lenge kahin na kahin – Chirag.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ElXyN1T7tw

    Now two contra qwaalis.
    Dhoondh ke laun kahan se main – Bahu Begum.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cg_olS7baxA

    Hum tujhe dhoondh lenge – Mahal.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cuRSO6QJeeM

  244. There are so many songs relating to ‘bahaar’ that it is difficult to choose. But, I will try to make a series with different colours. Hope it would be liked.

    She is invoking ‘baharo mera jeewan bhi sanwaro’ (Aakhri Khat), but her sanwaria is lurking.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S4MQ5QbDkuA

    He is more direct to a specific subject, but another one is mistaken. ‘Ae jane baharan jane karam’ – Jahan Pyar Mile.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HDH7T2ZJ984

    And now the contra songs.
    Bahar ban ke wo muskuraye – Apne Hue Paraye.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=goS766qWmH0

    Aaye bahar ban ke lubha kar chale gaye – Rajhath.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9WTFX75Z4fM

    And now ‘baharon ne mera chaman loot kar’ from Devar.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EO8M-Tz69WA

  245. Some of the frequently used words like KASME , VAADE , PYAR , WAFA also have songs with several possibilities of contra pairs .

    Perhaps these songs may qualify as contra …
    ( Hope not a repeat )

    a) ‘ Ae Sanam aaj … ‘ / JAHANARA / 1966 / Roshan / Talat , Lata

    https://youtu.be/DXuXftyzqCw

    b) ‘ Tere pyar ka … ‘ / DHOOL KA PHOOL / 1958 / N Dutta / Lata , Mahendra Kapoor

    https://youtu.be/9urIZUwblKg

    c) ‘ Yeh mera Prem… ‘/ SANGAM / 1964 / SJ / Rafi , Lata

    https://youtu.be/En2P2vhVna8

    & the contra song

    ‘ Kasme Vaade Pyar… ‘ / UPKAR / 1967 / Kalyanji Anandji / MannaDey

    https://youtu.be/oIiHAKDfksk

  246. Mumbaikar ji @ 329
    In chhotisi ye duniya both versions the characters are hopeful of meeting again sometime
    While in zindagi ke safar me gujar jate hai Rajesh Khanna is absolutely sure that they will not meet again
    Kuch log jo safar me bichad jaate hai wo hajaro ke aane se milte nahi.

  247. Mr Rangan,
    Fits perfectly. In ‘Akela hun main’ Dev Anand is happy with his single status (not a very good translation, but). In Akeli mat jaiyo the loner status is not commended.

  248. AKji,
    Woh Kuch Bhoole hue Afsane lekar, Kahan se Phir Chale Aaye,
    Lo Chalo Mein Bhi Sang Doon, Jab Tak Aur Musafir Aaye

    Mumbaikarji,
    Gulab, Khwab, Dawa, Zahar, Jaam Kya Kya hai
    Mein Aa Gaya Hoon Bata Intezam kya Kya hai.

  249. NV @ 335
    Gulab, Khwab, Dawa, Zahar, Jaam Kya Kya hai
    Mein Aa Gaya Hoon Bata Intezam kya Kya hai.
    बस इतनी फरमाइशें ?
    फ़कीरीं है आप में

    AK @ 333 NV @ 336
    Can this be answer to your songs?
    Zahar Deta Hai Mujhe Koi
    https://youtu.be/uDH-c6gfGRg

    Moving on from dava and zahar to
    Do rangi pyar ki rut.
    Holi and savaan how it is described in this Apni Izzat song and contrary to that two different songs.

    Pyar Ki Rut Dorangi Sajan.
    I notice a mild tremble in Madhubala Jhaveri ‘s voice as well.
    https://youtu.be/XHskAplZOU4

    Contra to Holi ki aag to Holi ke rang in that evergreen Mother India song Holi aayi re kanhai
    https://youtu.be/XCxl-wguiKU

    Saavan ki jhadi to rhimjhim saavan
    Rim Jhim Gire Saavan | Manzil
    https://youtu.be/ksLEOryXtlM

  250. Mumbaikarji @337,
    ‘बस इतनी फरमाइशें ?
    फ़कीरीं है आप में’

    ‘Phakiri mein maza jisko
    Amiri kya bichari hai’

    While on Phakiri, let us listen to Sant Meera’s Phakiri
    ‘Karana Phakiri phir kya dilgiri’, Vani Jayram, Pt. Ravi Shankar
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rUZJfzBD5Mo

    Now let us listen to what Sant Kabir has to say on Phakiri and Ameeri
    ‘Mann Laago Phakiri Mein’ by Kaluram Bamaniya
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KrgqkHUJtsg

    And now a nice composition from Chitragupt.
    ‘Mile Amiri Ya Phakiri Mujhe Darr Kya’, Asha Bhosle, Shiv Bhakt (1955), Gopal Singh Nepali
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xL8hBcWDo

    A beautiful song from Krishna Sudama (1957), Md.Rafi, Madhubala Zaveri, Pt.Radheshayam, Husnlal-Bhagatram
    ‘Ratan hai anmol do hamare….. Idhar garibi udhar amiri, Chupi hai dono taraf Phakiri’
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ksgkgozYeo0

    Main to Inezaam ki Baat kah di, Bahut kuch Maang li aap se, Gustaki maaf.
    Aap Phakiri ki Chadar pehana ke, mujhe sharmimda kardiye.

    Is Kabir ki Rachana se Abida Parveen Phakiri ki asli swaroop dikha rahi hai.
    ‘Man laago yaar Phakiri me, man laago yaar Phakiri me, Abida Parveen
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CB2TCCowHpA

  251. Mumbaikarji @337,
    ‘Can this be answer to your songs?
    Zahar Deta Hai Mujhe Koi’.
    This gives another dimension to the subject.
    A good composition by Jaidev and Naqsh Lyalpuri.
    There is another version by Bhupinder Singh. The mukhda is the same , but the antaras are different.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FmHku7gykng

  252. Mumbaikar8, Venkataramanji,
    Your exploration of layers of meanings in words is wonderful. I am leaning a lot.

    Amiri – Garibi/Fakiri
    Hindi films have generally made a very simplistic binary of amiri-garibi. One evil, the other good. Mehboob Khan’s celebrated Roti (1942) I found too black and white. May be there was some deep allegory which I missed. But if you take Kabir’s fakiri the meaning itself changes fundamentally. It is not being poor or deprived; it is the ultimate contentment borne out of self-realisation. I guess a man with ample possessions, too, can reach the state of ‘fakiri’.

    Zahar – Dawa/Dua presents many nuances. In ‘Jo dawa ke naam pe zahar de‘ the lady is herself looking for a healer who can give her poison in place of medicine. But in ‘Zahar deta hai mujhe koi’ there is no voluntary request for poison. There is a lament that whether someone gives poison or medicine, it only aggravates her pain. The underlying meaning may be the same – of ultimate dejection and hopelessness, expressed in different ways.

  253. Mr Rangan,
    I find that in both the songs there is negation of ‘मानना’. There must be many songs in which the lady happily reconciles and accepts.

  254. Pukaro is another way of awaj do & the following pair is a near perfect contra
    1 Here the guy is so ruthless ( nithur) that he refuses to listen / pretends not to listen
    Jane kitni baar hriday se maine use pukara
    Nithur Piya ke kano tak
    Lekin meri awwaj na pahunchi
    Written by Mangal BN ( perhaps the only film to his credit ) composed by Jaidev
    https://youtu.be/25yWNcUzpv0
    2 And now the guy is so obliging that he risks his life to respond to her Pukar
    Tumne pukara aur ham chale aaye
    Rajkumar – Hasrat- SJ
    https://youtu.be/DbMYEcoNGOM

  255. AKji,
    An internal conflict; the lady hopes that the protagonist will atleast look back, if not return.
    O Janewale Mudke Zara Dekhte, Shree 420 (1955)
    Lata Mangeshkar
    Hasrat Jaipuri, Shankar-Jaikishan
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NeXOsG4_JIs

    An atmosphereic song, here the lady request her love to come back. But he is unconvinced.
    O Janewale Balamwa Laut Ke Aa, Rattan (1944)
    Amirbai Karnataki, Shyam Kumar
    D. N. Madhok, Naushad
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jUAYL3TSSSU

    Contrary to above two here both of them are sure Aanewale Ko Aana Hoga Janewale ko Jana Hoga,
    Sohini Mahiwal(1958)
    Lata Mangeshkar, Md. Rafi,
    Shaqeel Badayuni, Naushad
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xufwDfreSzU

  256. Akji, Mumbaikarji,

    Saathi Na Koii Manzil Diya Hai Na Koi Mahafil
    Chalaa Mujhe Leke Ai Dil Akelaa Kahaan

    Mohd Rafi, Bombai Ka Babu (1960),
    lyrics Majrooh Sultanpuri, music S D Burman
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0GrqxZCSEH0

    Can this be the reply?
    Ae Humsafar Bata De Manzil Teri Kidhar Hai
    Jiski Nahi Hai Manzil Ye Ishk Wo Safar Hai

    Lata Mangeshkar, Md.Rafi, Mohar (1959),
    lyrics Rajinder krishan, music Madan Mohan
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1fSutZNfgfE

  257. It’s like a string of crackers ( पटाखोंकी लडी) .
    After initial burst at a feverish pace when one feels that aatishbazi is over & there is silence suddenly a single burst occurs & then another one .
    Here is one such .
    A contrast about papeehe ki taane
    1 Sakhi ri sun bole – Miss Mary – Rajinder Krishan- Hemant kumar
    https://youtu.be/zS4b3WlymvE
    Where both the sisters are extolling Papeeha ( perhaps wanting him to sing more)
    Bolat aisi meethi boli
    Chede man ke tar & then
    Bairi aisi boli bole
    Sun sun manwa dole
    Kano me Amritras ghole
    Rah rah madhur Pukar
    While in
    2 Jiya le gayo ji – Raja mehendi Ali Khan – Madan Mohan
    https://youtu.be/-JB2tjjzfOg

    He is being admonished .
    Ja re diwane mar na taane
    Piya ki sun jaake basuriya
    & Now he is being advised
    3 ghadi ghadi mera dil – Shailendra – Salil Chowdhury
    Aaj papeehe tu chup rahana
    Main bhi hun chup chap
    https://youtu.be/0JRJHtk-ZkI

  258. Mr Muli,
    In song #2 and 3, the lady is more enamoured of her lover’s melody. Therefore, more than admonition there is friendly advice to the papiha not to gloat about itself, but listen to her lover’s sweet music.

    There are clearer contrasts to song #1 in which the bairi papiha is firmly told to stop her chirping which only aggravates the lady’s pain of separation. Here is a combined link of two songs:
    Paapi papiha re pi pi na bol bairi pi pi na bol by Suraiya from Parwana (1947), music Khurshid Anwar
    Na bol more angana pi pi panchi ja re ja by Shamshad Begum from Dulari (1949), music Naushad
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=icnzZmhh2NA

    (In the second song I am taking the panchhi to be a papiha)

  259. Venkataramanji @346,
    O janewale mud ke zara dekhate jana: Very subtle observation. Shree 420 also had its perfect counterpart: Mud mud ke na dekh mud mud ke.

    O janewale balamawa laut ke aa laut ke aa: You probably mean ‘Surrogate song’, referring to Karan Dewan and Swarnlata in the audience, and not the dancers on the stage. You have hit upon its perfect contra song.

    @347,
    I agree with Mumbaikar8 that Q&A songs are another string different from contra songs. The two songs are good reply songs. There is also intra question and answer in Ae humsafar bata de. This is a typical Question & Answer song, which would have to be by definition a duet. That leads to another interesting exploration: Are there solos in which the protagonist is himself/herself asking a question and providing the answer?

    Mumbaikar8 @348,
    I have answered your first part.

    You are a Master of lyrics. But to my mind, in Man dheere dheere gaye re maloom nahin kyun the focus is on an involuntary urge to sing, and I was expecting a song of reluctance to sing (because of frustration in love?). You are also a Master Explorer, and I am sure you would discover a song of that type. And that would also be an addition to classic mathematical paradoxes. Someone too depressed to sing a song, singing songs to express his dejection!

  260. I had earlier posted this pair but somehow it did not appear.
    1 Ek khabar aayi suno- pyar ki kahani – AB – RDB
    2 GangRam Kawara rah gaya
    Jeevandhara – AB- LP
    I hope that it fits the bill.

  261. On the post of dream songs there were countless sapno ki rani / raja songs
    One of them was
    Mere sapno ki rani tum nahi ho – Jawwa mohobbat
    Consider this as a contrast
    Tu hi wo haseen hai – Khwab
    C& b Ravindra Jain
    Rafi must have given play back for Mithun very few times ( unees bees was another movie perhaps)
    On you tube there is a comment saying that this reminds him ankhiyoke kharoke se
    However I recall Mehbooba teri tasveer whenever I listen it.
    https://youtu.be/cEnZgpapJ2w

  262. “And that would also be an addition to classic mathematical paradoxes. Someone too depressed to sing a song, singing songs to express his dejection!”
    AK,
    Thanks I was looking for the other contra, maloom hai aur maloom nahin.
    You gave me a new outlook.
    Do you think this would fit the bill?
    Tu ga mere man ga
    https://youtu.be/ksECojZdPMo

  263. Rahulji @353
    Seems Tu hi wo haseen recalls Mehbooba teri tasveer because of proximity of its lyrics.

  264. Mumbaikar8 @354,
    Ga mere man ga is a very nice song of dejection when her beena is broken, payal is lost, her song is injured, melody is wounded, yet she had to goad herself to show joy and sing.

    I thought of some more, I don’t know how close they are.

    1. Geet kitne ga chuki hun is sukhi jag ke liye, Asha Bhosle
    गीत कितने गा चुकी हूँ इस सुखी जग के लिए
    आज रोने दो मुझे पल एक अपने भी लिए

    रो रही थी बीन और सुनकर सुखी संसार था
    नाचती थीं उंगलियां और कांपता हर तार था
    आज टूटा तार मेरा का आघात से
    आज कुम्हलाया कुसुम मेरा अधिक बरसात से
    साज़ धोने दो नयन के अश्रु खोने दो मुझे
    कल सुनाऊँगी मधुर कुछ आज रोने दो मुझे
    पल एक अपने भी लिए

    There can’t be a more desperate pleading to spare her today; today she just wants to cry for herself, she might think of singing something tomorrow.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-1m1XAWdOg

    2. Sur na saje kya gaaun mein by Manna Dey from Basant Bahar
    दोनों जहां मुझसे रूठे
    तेरे बिना ये गीत भी झूठे
    सुर ना सजे क्या गाऊँ मैं

    3. Tang aa chuke hain kashamakah-e-zindagi se hum by Rafi from Pyasa
    The audience starts clamouring:
    अजी जनाब, ख़ुशी के मौके पर क्या बेदिली का राग छेड़ा है. कोई ख़ुशी का गीत सुनाइए.

    And the poet starts in Sahir’s great nazm:
    हम ग़मज़दा हैं लायें कहाँ से ख़ुशी के गीत
    देंगे वही जो पाएँगे इस ज़िन्दगी से हम

    4. Aise toote taar ki mere geet adhure rah gaye by Talat Mahmood from Gawaiya
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=htHrG3MhW_A

    There must be many good examples.

  265. Mumbaikar8 @360,
    Your second song had gone viral post-Covid19. It was regarded as the ultimate song of social-distancing. The YT link comments are full of Corona. I decided not to use this song. But thanks for posting it. I had not heard it until 2020.
    दूर से, दूर दूर दूर से
    पास नहीं आइए हाथ ना लगाइए
    कीजिए इशारा दूर दूर से

  266. AKji

    I do not know whether I am interpreting this song in the right spirit. It seems to me it carries contradictory ideas in song itself. Hero says he is not a ‘shayar’, but after seeing his love he has learnt ‘shayari’. The song is from Bobby – music Laxmikant Pyarelal, lyrics Anand Bakshi

    Mein shayar to nahin – https://youtu.be/jmeMg-gm1Us

    Can I dub this as a solo but contradictory song.

  267. Another one for duri- nazdeeki
    Here he is helplessly going far away – teri duniya se dur chale hoke majboor. & she can offer solace to him only – jao kahi bhi sanam – – – – hame yaad rakhana
    & In this case he has come
    From far away – dur se tera diwana. & she is more than accomodating, in fact accomodating in her eyes- aa sajan meri aankho mein
    1 teri duniya se dur – Zabak – Prem Dhawan -Chitragupt
    https://youtu.be/hGuHno7cHFk
    2 dur se tera diwana – Raaton ka Raja – Majrooh – RDB

  268. Mr Rangan @363,
    I think you are spot on. The hero is not a poet, but after seeing his beloved he has learnt to write poetry. It could be termed a song with internal contra, though the reason for the transformation has been explained.

  269. AK ji @ 365
    It’s very befitting that you get the honour of equalling Sir Garfield Sobers .
    Ranganji @ 363
    Before Bobby there was yet another song expressing a similar contrast
    Main kahi kavi na ban jaau- Pyar hi Pyar – Hasarat – SJ
    Only thing that in Bobby’ song the contrast reverberates all through like
    Main aashiq to nahi
    Main dushman to nahi
    https://youtu.be/ClNxYSahjZk

  270. Mr Muli @366,
    You too deserve the credit for hitting upon this idea. Now we see that for every word we can have contra songs.

    Mumbaikar8 @367,
    It is difficult to recreate the magic of Lag ja gale ki phir ye haseen raat ho na ho. Such songs are not composed, they happen by some divine will. There is a difference between MM and LP. Sadhana as a bar room dancer does not fit with the iconic MM composition.

    Mumbaikar8 @368, Mr Muli @369,
    I also have the same doubt. My criteria is very simple. There should be no need for a complex reasoning to relate a song to a theme.

  271. AK ji
    Can we consider
    Main Shayar badnam as a contrast to
    Main Shayar to nahi ?
    In Bobby, newly born ( cinematically that is) Rishi Kapoor has become a Shayar instantaneously after seeing Dimple . Backdrop is a party with all glitter almost a page 3 party ( though that phrase might not have been coined then).
    In Namakharam the Shayar is dying & is lamenting his failures Personal as well as social . The back drop is his shanty with very few close friends in grief . His love makes the last entry before his exit.

  272. Mr Muli,
    I am not sure. In Bobby, too, Rishi Kapoor becomes a shayar, inspired by his love. But I guess that is the usual way one becomes a poet. He also becomes badnaam leading to a manhunt for him through a pictorial notice in newspapers.

  273. Rahulji @368
    Let me give a disclaimer in the beginning.
    Pandit Narendta Sharma is no lyric writer, he is a poet, understanding his poem is not easy.
    One needs a teacher for that.
    Explaining something (particularly in monologue) is a humongous task for me.
    I will try to explain, what I have or have not understood.

    Mukhda
    naina deewaane ik nahin maane
    kare manmaani maane naa

    Meaning “ Naina” is doing its “ Manmani” is not listening

    First antara or extended mukhda?
    huye ye paraaye mann haar aaye
    mann kaa maram jaane naa,
    maane naa, maane naa
    “naina” siding with them lost my mann without any consideration of my mann

    Second antara
    jaanaa na jaanaa mann hi na jaanaa
    chitwan ka mann banta nishaanaa

    Here it is the “mann” that has not understood
    It can become a target by appearance.

    kaisaa nishaanaa kaisaa nishaanaa
    mann hi pahchaane naa
    maane naa maane naa

    How it can become a target“mann” does not recognize .

    In this antara mann is the culprit of “loss”
    Initial antara “Naina” is the culprit (sweet of course)
    later it is the Mann
    This is my understanding.
    Looking for some some expert opinion from the pundits around.

  274. AK, @ 370
    “Now we see that for every word we can have contra songs.”
    Mr Jospeph said this @ 259
    “My view is that this post on contra songs has infinite scope . Almost every song should be having a contra somewhere as there are around say 30, 000 songs in the 1940 – 1970 period alone . Further , the same song can pair as contra again for some other point . But the contra songs cannot be located easily as I am sure no one can be familiar with all these estimated 30,000 songs and locating the contra songs in this ocean requires considerable time and efforts.”

    AK,@ 370/
    It is difficult to recreate the magic of Lag ja gale ki phir ye haseen raat ho na ho. Such songs are not composed, they happen by some divine will.
    Agree with you, they just happen.
    I will go a step further and say, it is not difficult but impossible to create that magic.

    Mumbaikar8 @368, Mr Muli @369,
    “I also have the same doubt. My criteria is very simple. There should be no need for a complex reasoning to relate a song to a theme.”

    There is not complex reasoning, to relate the song to a theme.
    Contra theme is in the back of my mind.
    While listening to nain diwana I felt the contradiction and as the subject is live here thought about bringing it to this platform to discuss.
    I can explain my confusion if you don’t agree, you’ll can outright reject it like Hans did.
    Great I get my answer and I concede.

  275. Mumbaikar8,
    Thanks for refreshing my memory of Mr Joseph’s comment. He has said it in a very lucid way.
    I sense some irritation in your tone at the end 🙂 . ‘Doubt’ is never an outright rejection, this is a seeker who is seeking more clarification. Please do explain. You have always explained subtleties of lyrics and we have all gained by that. You might have noticed I have often requested Mr Joseph and other readers that if they post a song in which the theme is not obvious from the song title, to also write a few lines explaining the connection.

  276. AKji

    If a lyric is capable of a wrong interpretation by what it alleges to how it should be viewed logically, can it be a case of contrast song on the ground it is against accepted norms. For example if something permanent is dubbed as fleeting in nature and that which is momentary is claimed to prevail for all time to come, how will such a song be viewed. On hearing from you I will present the song.

  277. Mumbaikar ji @,373
    As you have said, it is not easy to understand poems of Pt Narendra Sharma .
    Indeed it is still not very clear to me but the position is better than what it was before your explanation.
    But here I tend to agree with AK ji when he says that there should not be complex reasoning required to relate a song to the theme ( which itself is a contrast in case of erudite readers of this blog)

  278. AK ji , Mumbaikar ji
    I partially agree with Mr Joseph’s view.
    There can be number of songs which can be considered as contra songs for a given song & it is difficult to locate the contra song are the points on which there should not be any disagreement.
    But I believe that there are songs for which there is no contra or at least it is impractical to find a contra
    EG
    Aana meri jaan meri jaan Sunday ke Sunday
    Mr John ya ho baba Khan
    Phul gendawa na maro
    Mere saamne wali khidki me
    Orv even such philosophical ones
    Sun mere Bandhu re
    Safal hogi teri

  279. Mr Rangan,
    It is clear you have hit upon a unique song for its meaning. If I get you correctly, you are referring to a song whose surface meaning is opposite of some widely-accepted truth. Surely such songs would fit in some specific category of sarcasm, cynicism? I am curious to know of your choices.

  280. AKji
    Thanks for your prompt response. I will give a link to a song from Sharth (1954), Music Hemant Kumar and singer same

    Na ye chand hoga na tara rahenge magar hum hamesha tumare rahenge
    https://youtu.be/ZMqAUUfgwFA?t=43

    Moon and stars will outlast human beings by several billion years and the love he is singing about is but for a fleeting moment, may be in nano seconds when weighed in cosmic scale. It is an apparent contradiction of facts. Can this be included here.

  281. Mr Rangan,
    It would not occur to me as a contra song. It only shows you are a solid mathematician. I would treat is as a normal figure of speech: exaggeration, अतिशयोक्ति. A normal idiomatic way of saying, Main tunhaare liye chaand taare tod ke la sakta hun. Or his glory was brighter than the sun, and so on.

  282. AKji,
    In the first song, Bharat Bhushan responds to the call of the lady Nimmi ‘Akele Akele Kahan Jaa Rahe ho, Mujhe saath lelo’

    Tumhaare Sang Main Bhi Chaloongi Piya Jaise Patang Peeche Door
    Lata Mangeshkar, Sohini Mahiwal (1958), Shqeel Badayuni, Naushad
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5jt2A8V-IFc

    ANd here, Sharmila is not at all impressed by the overtures made by Shammi Kapoor and in the end she is happy to ward off her stalker.

    Akele Akele Kahan Ja Rahe Ho, Humein saath lelo jahan ja rahe ho
    Mohammad Rafi , An Evening in Paris (1967), Hasrat Jaipuri, Shankar Jaikishan
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2BGshnzIbp0

    Can this be a contra song

  283. Mumbaikarji, AKji,
    A few more on Dard and Dawa;

    Hoke Majboor Mujhe Usne Bhulaya Hoga
    Zahar Chupke Se Dawa Jaanke Khaya Hoga.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5l97Ul5X2A0

    Dilshad Begum sings-
    Mere dard-e-dil ki duniya mein dawa koi nahi
    Main wo bekash hu jiska aasra koi nahi
    Sari duniya chhod kar maine diya tha dil tujhe
    Bewafa iske siwa meri khata koi nahi
    Birhan (1948)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V9fE-NF4PJY&feature=emb_err_woyt

    Naseem Banu advices her friend Nihar Sultana,
    ‘Zeher Khana Magar Dil Lagana Nahi
    Husnwalo ki galiyo me jana nahi
    Shamshad Begum, Sheesh Mahal (1950)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ilI7kPbmWGI

  284. Venkataramanji @382,
    In Tumhaare sang main bi chalungi piya the lady herself declares her intention to go along with her lover. In Akele akele kahan ja rahe ho, the man is wooing the reluctant lady. A good contra pair.

    @383, 387,
    Dawa, dua, zahar, sharab is a very fertile field. Thanks for all these songs.

  285. This could be an internal contra song… the words/lyrics say … ‘ Sur na saje kya gaaoon … ‘

    But the music / singing perhaps is in perfect ‘ Sur ‘ and so I feel the music/singing is contra to the lyrics . The more knowledgeable could throw light on this .

    ‘ Sur na saje… ‘ / BASANT BAHAR / 1956 / SJ / Manna Dey

    https://youtu.be/MI4OCBV78nM

  286. Mr Joseph @384,
    Mujhi mein chhupkar mujhi se door: What a beautiful song! And yes, internal contra is apparent.

    @386,
    Tere kaanton se bhi pyar tere phoolon se bhi pyar: This too, and another fabulous song.

    @388,
    Humne jag ki ajab tasveer dekhi: Excellent song. One can say it has internal contra.

    @389,
    Hum tum se juda hoke mar jayenge ro ro ke: He is an absolute monogamist. Tu nahin aur sahi: The man is an open philanderer. Nice pair of contra songs.

    @393, Mr Muli @394,
    Sur na saje: I also mentioned this along with some other songs @361, and my explanation was somewhat different.

  287. This could be considered as an internal contra song as ‘ … insan ki aulad hai insaan banega … ‘ is not leaning towards any religion as opposed to the prevailing norms .

    ‘ Tu Hindu banega…’ / 1959 / DHOOL KA PHOOL / N Datta / Rafi

    https://youtu.be/AQLQ4eDf-OI

  288. AKji:

    Mumbaikarji and Hans ji had rightly predicted that this post would run a long race. And now we are at the cusp of a new milestone. Let me add one song with internal contrast:

    ‘Zindagi, ae zindagi, tere hain do roop’ (SDB in Zindagi Zindagi; MD: SDB)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LzCPxgBcGjE

    And two more contrasting songs from the SDB stable:

    ‘Piya maine kya kiya’ (Manna Dey in Us Paar; MD: SDB)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EeWCAsIFKEs

    ‘Piya tune kya kiya re’ (SDB in Zindagi Zindagi; MD: SDB)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JzOCe-_MjC0

    Interestingly, this last song ends with the words: ‘Piya maine kya kiya re, piya tune kya kiya re … .’

  289. Canasya @399,
    I didn’t realise when I wrote this post that this theme has such infinite possibilities. All credit to the readers who have explored it beyond imagination.

    Zindagi ae zindagi tere hain do roop is a wonderful song. Its mukhada itself proclaims that life is full of contrasts: good-bad, happy-sad, sunny-grizzly. Wonderful song composed and sung by SD Burman.

    Piya maine kya kiya/ Piya tune kya kiya re is an excellent pair with deep philosophy. In the first one, which is an atmospheric song conveying the man’s feelings, there is a lament that his beloved is leaving, but is somewhat short of full remorse that he too may have been responsible. In the second song when SDB converges the two sides in the last line, there is a self-realisation that it may not be entirely the other party’s fault. A poet, I think Nida Fazli, said it beautifully:
    बेवफ़ा तो न वो थे न हम
    बस हुआ यूँ कि हम जुदा हो गए

    At a deeper level this can mean unity between the lover and the beloved. Could we stretch it to mean the unity between the self and the soul?

  290. Mr Joseph @398,
    Tu Hindu banega na Musalman banega can be stretched to mean internal contra.

    @400,
    In the first song the lovers declare that they have taken their first steps in the world of love, but they are not going to be separated. In the second song the lover had handed over his heart to the lady for safekeeping, but she has burnt it. Probably she had carelessly kept it near the gas burner. The lady is writhing in guilt, but that cannot mitigate the pain of the lover. In the first song there is no such handing over-taking over of any object. I would not treat it as contra pair. Every film has happy songs when things were hunky-dory, and sad songs when there are misunderstandings, betrayal or exogenous obstacles.

  291. Mr Rangan @403,
    This pair is spot on. In one case the lady is asking the man to go, in the other she is demanding of him not to go.

    Mr Joseph @304,
    It is an interesting pair. On the surface it may appear as contra songs. But soon we realise that Tera jana dil ke armaanon ka lut jana talks of heartbreak due to the parting, and the entire song proceeds in the same vein:
    Tera gham teri khushi, mera gham meri khushi
    Tujhse hi thi zindagi

    Jab jab chanda aayega, teri yaad dilayega..

    Therefore, the two songs seem to be saying the same thing. Chale ja chale ja chale ja jahan pyar mile is exact opposite of Chale jana nahin. Thanks a lot for forcing us to think below the upper layer.

  292. For too long I am vexed with the following issue
    In chehera hai ya chaand khila hai there is this line
    Is duniya mein koi nahi ho
    Hum dono hi akele ho
    & Before that
    In ek tera saath humko do bjahan se
    There is a line
    Hum akele hai shenaiya chup hai
    The issue is can two people together count as akele ?
    Or is this a contradiction ?
    Or are they considering themselves a single entity?
    Issue is open for debate ( la Arnab)

  293. Mr Muli @406,
    Two people considering themselves a single entity would be a trivial solution to your question. You are obviously not looking for this. You must have in mind something very deep. Not given to intellectual contemplation, I should not attempt to answer your question. But let me dare to say something which you can throw out of the window. There is a very common expression, ‘भीड़ के बीच अकेला’. Usually everyone in the crowd is a stranger to each other, so everyone is भीड़ के बीच अकेला. Since we do not find anything odd in this, why only two persons, a large gathering could also be a loner. ‘Is duniya mein koi nahin ho‘ is a contradiction in terms. The world comprises seven billion people, how can they all vanish? ‘भीड़ के बीच अकेला’ resolves the apparent contradiction.

    Think of a sentence – I am talking of pre-Corona days – ‘No one goes to restaurants these days, they are so crowded.’

    @407,
    Do rang duniya ke is a nice companion song to Zindagi ae zindagi, except that SDB’s singing belongs to another plane.

  294. AK @ 375
    “I sense some irritation in your tone at the end . ‘Doubt’ is never an outright rejection, this is a seeker who is seeking more clarification. Please do explain

    Your saw it right, what you sensed was self -disgust.

    I am seeker myself asking for clarification all the time.
    I am total believer of “ do unto others” how can I get irritated if I have to give clarification?
    I was mad because it took me very long to translate the lyrics.
    It is easy for me when it is Q & A session. Explaining in monologue is not my forte plus my impatience make it worse for me.
    It was all my frustration that trickled into my comment. I apologize for that.

    AK @ 375
    You have always explained subtleties of lyrics and we have all gained by that.”
    Mr. Muli @ 377
    Indeed it is still not very clear to me but the position is better than what it was before your explanation.
    Can the two of you be more elaborate in what you have understood and what not.

  295. Mumbaikar8 @409,
    Your last sentence smacks of a tough schoolteacher who has no patience with her dull students. But let me try to explain what I understood. I think we are talking about Nain deewane.

    The lady has lost her heart to someone. Her inebriated eyes are not amenable to any sane advice. The crazy eyes are behaving wayward as the lady has lost her soul to someone. Her life is on a swing, flowers have blossomed, her heart is singing like a nightingale. Time flows endlessly like a beautiful stream, and in her reverie she does not care what will happen tomorrow.

    I may be completely off, but couldn’t see contra. Now can you please end the suspense and elaborate your translation and meaning?

    @410,
    Patience/Impatience in ‘Raah takna is a wonderful pair.

  296. Akji,
    The first post to cross the four hundred mark. Congratulations everybody. Sorry I am late.
    Thank you AKji for presenting this article. And everybody will agree that only in SoY one will find such articles.
    A special word of thanks to Josephji, Rahulji, Mumbakarji and Hansji.
    Keep the ball rolling.

  297. Venkataramanji,
    Thanks a lot. It is not only the numbers, the comments expanded our horizon. Thanks to some very involved readers we got to go deep into intricate layers of many lyrics. I mentioned earlier that we have all become richer with this. This is one post I could not have imagined that it would open so many windows.

    While at this, you must have seen some unresolved tension on Nain deewane (@368, 369, 370, 373, 374, 375, 409, 411). You are an authority on this. A time comes when the Master has to step in to settle the dispute. I would accept your ruling without demur.

  298. Mr Muli,
    Now ‘khidki‘ itself opens many windows. The closed window troubles Vinod Khanna no end in ‘Main Tulsi Tere Aangan Ki’:
    Meri dushman hai ye meri uljhan hai ye
    Bada tadpaati hai, dil ko tarsaati hai
    Ye khidki khidki jo band rahtai hai

    In ‘Padosan‘ the two adjacent khidkis create immense fun. Here the khidkis are open:
    Mere saamnewali khidki mein ek chaand ka tukda rahta hai

    In ‘Rear Window‘ the wheelchair-bound James Stewart has nothing better to do than gaze through his window at the courtyard and other apartments. And as we can expect from Hitchcock, the voyeur becomes an unwitting witness to some twisted crimes and a great help to the police in solving it.

    Vinod Kumar Shukla’s one of the most acclaimed works is his novel ‘Deewar Mein Ek Khidki Rahti Thi‘. A blurb from its English translation on Amazon says about the book: “The adults who play their games must enter many worlds – the one that prevails and the ones that are possible. They mumble and ask questions, but time and again they realize that a single glance won’t take in the whole sky. In ‘The Windows in Our House Are Little Doors‘, Vinod Kumar Shukla unrolls dreamy wisdom and brocade-like moments that catch the light and dazzle“. This takes us to a dream world which we are separately enjoying on Ashwin’s post.

  299. AK ji,

    Brian Lara of SOY.
    416 , still at the crease!

    Absolutely amazing!
    Congratulations.

    Sorry for my miniscule, negligible, ‘blink your eyes and you miss them’ contributions! I know I fall short in the intelligence department, finding contrasting themes. Still, following religiously, enjoying thoroughlly.

  300. AKji@ 413, 415
    Your discourse on Khidki @415, brings in a whiff of fresh air. But as the saying goes if you keep the windows open to let the fresh air come in, few insects/mosquitoes too may enter. And I do not want to be the mosquito in this case.
    I feel, it is better to leave certain things unresolved.
    Moreover it will not be prudent to comment when Rathis and Maharathis are discussing and I am a small fry.
    And the final say is with you, since you are the grand master.

  301. Venkataramanji
    If you are a small fry them what about people like us – micro-fries?
    Any way let the window be slightly more open ( SOY has an inbuilt net which repeals the mosquitos & insects)
    1 Sham dhale khidki tale – Albela-Rajinder Krishan –
    C Ramchandra
    https://youtu.be/DO4M25EjDCM
    I saw Albela during its revival . At Aurangabad it must have been in 77-78 & witnessed people hurling coins at the screen.
    Here Geeta is being demur & advises him to stop aana jana in her gully.
    2 Kahi ho na mohalle me halla – Chowki no 11 – VK Sobety – Sonik Omi
    https://youtu.be/M7sLVcv4LZA
    I had seen this also around the same time remember the movie only for the rustic voice of Shobha Gurtu . But at that time I did not like it at all.
    But here the lady encourages her lover to come through a khidki curtains of which are open.

  302. Dr Shetty @416,
    Thanks a lot for you greetings. You are one of the most active contributors on all the posts. I hope you are able to crack how to post YT links of songs in your comments.

    Venkataramanji @417, Mr Muli @418,
    I just saw some new vistas from the window, and also imagined of many possibilities and anticipations for someone standing outside a window, open or closed. After the Masters have entered (your disclaimer borne out of modesty is not accepted), I have to withdraw. But my poser was for Nain deewane. If you are not willing to enter into the fray for strategic reasons, I will wait for the final verdict of our stern teacher with her baton.

  303. We have endless number of songs in which the heroine is eleveated to the status of Chaand . Occasionally the hero is fortunate to get that label ( Tum gagan ke Chandrama ho ) . But With a swift stroke of his pen Hasarat quashes all the moonrakers from chaudavi ka chaand ho to ye chaand sa Roshan chehera when he writes
    Tujhe main chaand kehata tha magar usme bhi daag hai
    1 Ye chaand sa Roshan
    https://youtu.be/4mZE_wJ6mmg
    2 Ye mera prempatra padhkar
    https://youtu.be/PuaFmVz3dr8

  304. AK @411
    “Your last sentence smacks of a tough schoolteacher who has no patience with her dull students.”

    It is the impatience of the anxious student waiting for the schoolteacher for the report card to know how badly she has flunked.

    This student was always in awe of teachers and nurses knowing very well what she could never do.

    Now to the business
    You understood
    “The lady has lost her heart to someone. Her inebriated eyes are not amenable to any sane advice. The crazy eyes are behaving wayward as the lady has lost her soul to someone. ( very nicely framed)

    My version
    I feel the lady is distancing herself from her nain and her mann ( like in sach hue sapne tere)
    Yes she has she lost her heart.
    Initially she blames he “naina for losing her heart.
    Later the blame moves on to the “mann. (contradicting self)

    Your interpretation.
    “Her life is on a swing, flowers have blossomed, her heart is singing like a nightingale. Time flows endlessly like a beautiful stream, and in her reverie she does not care what will happen tomorrow.”

    ( I did not cover this in comment@ 373)
    I think.
    I am on the same page until “beautiful stream” but I do not think she does not care.
    “ mann kya jaane kya hoga kal
    Dhaar samayy ki bahti Chanchal
    Jeevan Jeevan Chanchal din jaake phir aane na

    You think she does not care I think she is fearful “this will pass away” the fear perhaps is the reason of initial denial of losing the heart.

    AK @ 419
    “If you are not willing to enter into the fray for strategic reasons, I will wait for the final verdict of our stern teacher with her baton.”

    I have my points on the table, Venkataramanji and Mr Muli are not entering. Final verdict will be of the Maharathi.

  305. AK ji,

    Aap ne khidki bola,
    Mere deemag ke darwaza/ tala khola!
    * I know you are thinking band akal ka tala!☺

    Mere dushman hai ye
    Mere uljhan hai ye
    Bada tadpati hai..

    Ye khidki jo band rahti hai…
    MAIN TULSI TERE AANGAN KI

    Obviously, it is not the khidki, par se , his uljhan, but not being able to have a glimpse of his beloved.

    Contra would be..

    Ghar se nikalte hi
    Kuchh door chalte hi
    ….
    Baal banaati woh khidki mein
    Aayee Nazar.

    PAPA KEHTE HAIN.

    Beloved seen through the khidki.

  306. Mumbaikar8 @422,
    Thanks a lot for your detailed exposition. It can’t be done better. You are decoupling all the three – the lady, her eyes and her heart (मन). I, at one point, thought in terms of decoupling the eyes, because on the surface they were wayward, not listening to anything and generally on their own trip, oblivious of what the lady and her heart were going through. I find it difficult to decouple the lady’s heart from herself. Then I thought the whole thing has been brought upon by the eyes to start with, and the lady is now in deep love, with the birds, flowers, streams adding to the beauty. There is restlessness of having lost her heart to someone and apprehension what would happen tomorrow. This song is perhaps not an exact translation of its original Se din dujone, but it is quintessential Rabindrasangeet. Hats off to Pt. Narendra Sharma.

    I am afraid any further dissection will hamper our enjoyment of the poetry. Yet, I would like the Maharathi to come in; we know there is only one, and lest he pretends deniability, the one who lives in Kolkata.

    Mr Muli @420,
    Nice limerick, but if you leave the field lesser mortals like me would start blabbering on subtle songs like Nain deewane.

  307. Dr Shetty @423,
    Nice contra pair. If we treat darwaza/kiwadiya/window as one, Zara man ki kiwadiya khol, sainya tere dware khade fits nicely here.

  308. AK @ 424
    I would request Maharathi to clear the doubt.
    To my mind the lyrics Se din dujuno and nain diwane are completely different. Se din dujone is all about nostalgia, naina diwane is not.

  309. AK,
    No explanation needed for this obvious contrast

    Leja leja leja mere dil An evening in Paris
    https://youtu.be/-ySmtzDUZp8

    Dill eke na jana o mera dill eke na jana Goonj
    https://youtu.be/brpSqelC43U

    AK @ 408
    भीड़ के बीच अकेला
    I would consider Ravish Kumar as भीड़ के बीच अकेला in TV journalism.
    Would you agree there?

  310. Mr Muli @426,
    Darawaza khol do/band kar do is a nice companion to Khidki khol do/band ke do. The door is a more public entrance. Window mostly involves entry by stealth or complicity from inside, therefore, it has more romantic possibilities. Can we stretch it to Khul jaye band akal ka tala?

  311. Mumbaikar8 @427,
    I hope the Maharathi reads it, but let us not give him any cover. Please also address it directly to him.

    @428,
    Dil le ja le ja/ Dil leke na jana are perfect contrasting songs.

    I agree with you that Ravish Kumar is भीड़ के बीच अकेला, but I sense a laudatory tone in your voice which I am afraid I do not share. He does not scream like Arnab Goswami, but he is the other side of the coin. There are journalists in classic mould – Prannay Roy (who unfortunately seems to be out of circulation); Shekhar Gupta I would strongly recommend. I think he has left TV, but he is very active on YT, you should watch his videos, which is titled “Cut the clutter”.

  312. AK ji @429, Mumbaikarji @ 428
    Nikhil Wagle in Marathi is also bheed ke beech Akela in Marathi media ( now disowned by almost all the channels) plus he can give Arnab run for his money when it comes to raising the decible level .

  313. AKJi @429
    You have opened another window er– tala

    1 bada hi CID hai – Chandan – Rajinder Krishan – MM

    2 kabhi khole na tijori ka tala
    – Bidaai – AB- LP
    As Kaka had said in Souten sasura bhi to uparwale ka rup hai.
    Only thing vis that in the second he is absolutely unwilling to open the lock while in the first he may consider the same in case of fortunate few

  314. AKji:

    I am enjoying this highly entertaining race between this post and the one by Ashwin ji on ‘Fanciful ideas … ‘. Currently the score stands at 436 vs 438. So let me try to level the field a bit with a song with internal contrast:

    ‘Humne jafa na seekhi, unko wafa na aayi’ (Rafi in Zindagi; MD: SJ)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T0gQgfXBIY8

  315. To compare the two posts or to say that ‘ … the score stands at 436 vs 438 …’ is to compare two posts that involve different levels of efforts and time . My view is that one comment here may equal ten comments elsewhere.

  316. Canasyaji @ 437,

    I had no idea of the race till I got my laptop back this morning and got to see the comments on the sidebar of the homepage :). So let me give a point away to the competition by adding this comment – hopefully #439 – by drawing inspiration from Comment # 254 (by Hindi Chitrapat Gaanakosh Dr.Shetty) on my post and which I responded to just a few minutes ago in Comment # 441 (how close!). Here are the 2 songs:

    1. ‘Tumhe ho na ho’ by Runa Laila (MD – Jaidev, Lyricist – Naqsh Lyallpuri), from Gharaonda (1977)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AZXSBVWQ8wo

    2. ‘Humein tumse pyaar kitna’ by Parween Sultana (MD – RD Burman, Lyricist – Majrooh Sultanpuri), from Kudrat (1981)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bYyvN1xQvMw

    There is a double-contra in this pair. In the first song, the heroine says that she does not love the hero and that she knows it. In the 2nd song, the singer says that she loves her lover (the hero? I do not know the plot for I have not seen the movie) but that she does not know to what extent!

  317. Another one with Gazal – HFS
    Combo
    1 Tu kya jane bewafa
    Pyar karna tere bas ki baat nahi
    Kisi pe marna tere bas ki baat nah
    Haath ki safai-gulshan bawra- KA
    https://youtu.be/4852SdnESN0
    The prelude of the song was quite a rage during those days .
    2 zindagi mein to sabhi pyar kiya karte hai
    Main to mar kar bhi meri jaan tujhe chahunga
    Kateel Shifai- Mehedi Hasan
    https://youtu.be/Ag8JpA02WjY
    King at his best.
    Interestingly the composition is credited to Nashad for the film Azmat . Obviously film version would be different .

  318. Ashwin ji,

    Humein tumse pyar kitna … is , a straight expression of love .

    Koi jo daare tum pe nayanwa
    Dekha na jaaye mose sajanwa
    Jale mora manwa..
    ( Tumhe koi aur dekhe
    Toh jalta hai dil…In Kishore’s version.)

    Tumhe ho na ho… is made to look like she isn’t in love with him. But, she is!
    Listen to how Runa Laila is made to sing cutely…
    Mujhe pyar tumse nahin hai nahin HAI.
    That’s the speciality of the song.
    Ke kyon pyari lagti hai vaade tumhare
    Main kyon tumse milne ka doondoo bahana
    Kabhi maine chaha tumhe choo ke dekhoon
    Kabhi maine chaha tumhe paas laana..

    Someone not in love will not do this, Sir !

    So, I feel this pair does not fit in.
    Let AK ji, TWBM, decide.

    Btw, the song, very dear to me reminds me , always, another favorite ,
    Na jaane kyon hota hai..

    Almost similar feelings.

    KUDRAT was a hotchpotch of Reincarnation, love triangle / quadrangle, curse etc.

    Praveen Sultana won the FF best female playback singer award.

    Majrooh wrote the lyrics of all the songs except the title song
    Dukh sukh ki har maala
    Kudrat hi phiroti hai..
    By Qateel Shifai. Must be his only one with RDB.

    HCGk .. there are many others more deserving of the title. फिर भी, सुनने में अच्छा लगता है। धन्यवाद।

  319. Mr Muli @431,
    I googled about Nikhil Wagle. I have admiration for him. He has been fighting the Tiger in its den. Arnab has chosen a very soft target for his screaming.

    @432,
    Mere dimaag ka tala nahin khul raha hai 🙂 .

    @439,
    Nice one. I thought of Mughal-e-Azam. When Akbar commands Anarkali to declare that she never loved Salim, she replies, “Jo zaban pyar ka ikraar na kar saki wo inkaar kaise karegi“. Good point. The whole world knows that she loved Salim passionately, but if she could not proclaim it openly, how could she deny it? What was her official status in Facebook lingo: single, just friends, dating him, or in relationship? Hum bewafa could be this ambiguous status.

    @440,
    Nice contra pair.

    @442,
    Nice pair. Here is the film version of Zindagi mein sab pyar kiya karte hain
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4dcIvP8_sRk
    One obvious difference is that the film song fits in about 3 minutes, while his non-film performance is more relaxed going over 10 minutes. That is true of every famous ghazal which is used in a film situation. But terrific song. Thanks for posting it.

    @443,
    I can’t make out why WP put it in spam folder, there was no error in the name or the mail id. Now it is up at its place according to its time at posting @440. Again a nice pair of contra.

  320. KS Bhatiaji @435,
    What a beautiful pair of songs! heard Mera dil mujhe wapas kar do for the first time. I like Raj Kapoor’s tone in firmly demanding his ‘heart’ back. He must be aware of the pitfalls of being wishy-washy in the matters of giving some valuable thing to a third person for safekeeping. In Dil tujhe diya that rakhane ko, tune dil ko jalakar rakh diya the hero must have been complacent, and when he went to ask it back, he found that the heroine had burnt it due to gross negligence.

  321. Canasya @437,
    Nice song of internal contra. But there is no question of race, Ashwin’s post is scholarly and on a higher plane. We are lucky to have him with us.

    Mr Joseph @438, Ashwin @441,
    There can never be a race between two different posts. I am happy that my post has triggered many ideas for exploration. But Ashwin’s post is on a different footing.

    Ashwin, only you could discover a pair with double contra. Thanks a lot for your explanation.

  322. AKji @ 448:

    Both you and Ashwin ji are too modest. But in the end, we are the beneficiaries.

    Internal contradictions seem to form a genre by themselves. Lyricists have used this as a dialectic device to add variation and substance to an otherwise thoroughly beaten ‘je t’aime, tu m’aime’ theme in HFM. Rahul Muli ji @ 313 had mentioned ‘Tum hamein pyar karo ya na karo’ from Kaise Kahoon. Here is another one in the same vein:

    ‘Tu pyar kare ya thukraye, hum to hain tere deewanon mein’ (Lata in Dekh Kabira Roya; MD: MM)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XDOkpo05NqQ

  323. AK, @430
    “ He does not scream like Arnab Goswami, but he is the other side of the coin.”
    Arnab does many deadly things bedsides screaming.
    Prannay Roy is seen doing some funds raiser or some exclusive shows. He may not be as regular but Ravish is in circular because of Mr. Roy, Ravish knows it well, once he is out of NDTV there is no place for him, like the other bheed ke beech akeli Barkha Dutt.
    Look for your own space, finally she found one for herself.
    I admire Ravish for one thing he advocates “ askinf questions” and shows a spine by doing it himself.
    Shekhar Gupta’s show on YT “cut the clutter” I watch sometimes, I feel it does everything but “cut the clutter” perhaps my impatience is working there
    At times I feel about Shekhar Gupta is “जिन बातों को खुद नहीं समझे औरो को समझाया है”

    Mr. Muli @ 431
    I agree Nikhil Wagle is bheed ke beech akela in Marathi media. I follow him on social media.

  324. Mr. Muli @439
    That’s Anand Bakshi.
    I have given reason to Hans to get mad at me. (once again)

  325. Dr. Shetty @ 444
    You are known for giving detailed information.
    Here about the title song of Kudrat missed to mention that the back ground title track was in two version perhaps only of its kind.

  326. AK @ 448 and Canasyaji @ 449,

    I was referring to the race only in a light-hearted way @441. Also, I am very grateful that both of you think highly of me. That said, I definitely don’t think my article was scholarly – light-hearted in the first half – yes, serious in the second half – yes, but not scholarly. Come to think of it, it had a split personality! Which makes me offer, without any analysis or thought, the following song as a contra song at least from its context:

    ‘Raat aur din diya jale’ by Lata Mangeshkar (MD -Shankar Jaikishan, Lyricist – Hasrat Jaipuri ), from ‘Raat aur Din’ (1967)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i9sYzV8QTbM

  327. Dr Shetty @444,
    There are many songs in which the lady on the surface pretends she is not in love, but you can make out she is deeply in love. We can put all such songs as internal contra. And there can be perfect contra in two views – one holding there is no contra, and another saying there is contra. Now my head has started reeling. 🙂

  328. Canasya @449,
    Tum humein pyar karo ya na karo has a perfect companion is Tu pyar kare ya thukraye hum to hain tere deewanon mein. Thanks a lot for mentioning this. It would be interesting to compile a list of such songs. Would Jumma chumma de de/ Jumma chumma na de and finally both agreeing to the initial proposition, fit in this category?

  329. Mumbaikar8 @450,
    It is clear our views do not match 100% in certain things. But I am happy that we are friends.

    @453,
    Sahir might have his personal talkhiyan, but for film songs he had horses for courses. He also wrote, Main zindagi ka saath nibhata chala gaya.

  330. AK @ 455,

    I propose that all internal contra songs be termed as ‘intra-contra’ songs. The coining of new terminology for such songs that have internal contradictions does not contravene any rules, nor is it contrary to SoY traditions; also, the ‘in’ in ‘intra’ provides a nice contrast to the ‘on’ of ‘contra. Last but not least, the contrapositioning of ‘intra’ and ‘contra’ provides a nice contrast.

  331. If Shahrukh Khan’s character in ‘Swades’ were to read this post and my comment @ 460, and if he were to temporarily forget how to pronounce English words correctly, would he sing ‘Yeh tara, woh tara kaun tara’?

  332. Let me make it very clear. I don’t mean to contravene, nor am I looking for a controversy. Contrary to the prevailing perceptions, a doctor need not always be thinking about contraception/ contraceptives, or, particularly in my speciality, contracture. I firmly contradict those opinions. Music is no contra indication for a doctor, on contract or self employed.

    My contribution here is zilch, you say? No contrasting view from my side,as well. Contradistinction being the theme, I am not in control ! Neither do I want to contrive just for the heck of it !

    Prolific ‘ dreamer’ there, but, invisible here! Contrition for this fact.

    Are there any contraltos or contrapuntists among our musicians ?

    No, I don’t do contraband stuff. My raving and ranting may make A K ji, TWBM, the controller, to believe so. Today, with a reeling head, he has retired to the control tower. Just imagining the admonition I am about to get, my cardiac contractions are on a super speed mode ! Before all the members connive and converge with the sole intention of conducting a Reformation course for me, I shall conclude this conundrum. Congratulations, folks. You have won ! Promise I will conduct myself well and respect all the conditions of the group.

  333. Confluence
    I was in a quandary whether to post this pair here or in dream songs. A real ghoda -chatur moment.Like a queuing model does normally I have gone for FCFS .
    1 kaun aya mere man ke dware – Dekh kabira Roya – Rajinder Krishan – MM
    https://youtu.be/Vd2FnIFkiBw
    There is an unusual feature ( if not outright contra) where Anup Kumar gets such a serious song on screen.
    Pagal manawa soch me duba sapno ka sansar liye

    2 Koi nahi hai kahi hai kahi – Kinara -Gulzar – RDB
    https://youtu.be/lqEUqLGkhng
    There is unusual feature of this film ; Bhupinder getting 4 numbers , 2 solos & 2 duets ( I can recall only one other film where he had 4 songs)
    Gulzar’s love with sapna & khwab & then sapna again continues ( so now there are 3 such songs posted in these 2 posts)
    Sapno mein ku kho gayi ?
    Baat thi khwab ki
    khwab me bit chuki
    Note also the contrast
    He is waiting & she comes with Payal ki Zankar in dekh Kabira
    While in kinara she is waiting with Payal on & has to be told that the wait is futile.

  334. Mumbaikar8 @459,
    Contra or a complementary song? Both songs seem to be intra-contra (an apt term suggested by Ashwin @460). Both have in-built ‘Nahin nahin/Na na‘ which gives way to ‘yes, yes’.

  335. Ashwin @460,
    Agree entirely with you. I think at some point of time I did use intra, I should have stuck with intra-contra. Besides all the reasons you have stated, it is also etymologically correct.

    @461,
    Since he decided to become a swadeshi from being a NASA scientist, it is quite likely he would have started pronouncing ‘kaun tara’. I would not be surprised if this led to ‘katra katra’, because he often displayed his Urdu too, which he might have studied in school before he migrated to the US.

  336. Even when we cross say 40 comments I have unknowingly repeated songs posted by others . Now I am fearing if I have started repeating my own comments as we are nearing 500 comments . This could happen and now I feel the need even more for some inbuilt mechanism to check this .

    This may fit in as a song with intra contra as for every fear raised there is an answer…

    ‘ Chura le na … ‘ / 1963 / DIL HI TO HAI / Roshan / Suman , Mukesh

    https://youtu.be/DY2QawvQI5Y

  337. Dr Shetty @462,
    I completely concur with your contradiction of conventional compartmentalisation of clinicians. But have mercy on us. In these testing times we all look up to doctors not only for dawa but also dua. Please dream wherever you fancy. We have no intentions of disputing a doctor, but please don’t leave the field for conjurers coming up with claims to cure from cardiac conditions to cancer to, now, Corona.

  338. Dr.Shetty @ 444,

    I suspect that you do agree with me that the Runa Laila character is not in love with the Amol Palekar character in ‘Gharaonda’ and that the only reason that you are taking a contrarian stance is because you want to have a minor disagreement with me so that this will give you a chance to use the word ‘contretemps’, which means ‘minor disagreement’ and which is derived from French, the language that you are currently trying to master . I know this is a convoluted argument but do let me know if you concur with me.

  339. Mr Muli @463,
    You mentioned the unusual thing about Anup Kumar singing a serious song. The next song you posted from Kinara has the same unusual thing many times multiplied – Jeetendra singing a classical raga=based song with aalap etc. He started with mimicking ‘Yahoo’ in ‘Mast baharon ka main ashiq’, and I cannot get over his that image.

    Gulzar has something about ‘khwab/sapna’. He paid his tribute to Mehdi Hassan on his death with:

    Aankhon ko visa nahin lagta
    Sapnon ki sarhad hoti nahin
    Band aankhon se roz main sarhad paar chala jata hoon
    Milne Mehdi Hassan se
    !

  340. Mr Rangan @436, 469,
    Sorry, I missed your @436 in the flurry of posts on ‘dil’. This pair fits like a T.

  341. Mr Joseph @466,
    The term we have started using is intra-contra, thanks to Ashwin, which is technically a more correct word. Chura le na tumko ye mausam suhana is a beautiful song. One can say it has intra-contra, Raj Kapoor forbidding Nutan from venturing alone in those beautiful surroundings; but she finds these irresistible, and is confident that she can handle any situation herself.

  342. Contrast for foodies
    Many people must have tried their hands at different dishes ( I also did but only for tasting them ) during lockdown
    During 72 in the absence of You tube & other sources , hero was forced to rely on shudh desi bharta & other things
    Aloo ki bhaji , baigan ka bharata – Wafa – Rajinder Krishan – LP
    Foolka hai , kheer hai but surprisingly Bollywood’s perennial favourites gajar ka halwa, sarso ka saag & muli ka paratha are not mentioned .
    https://youtu.be/NlQVDNOz7vQ
    Next year same pair of lyricist & composer came together to deliver a more realistic version ( especially for extended lockdown )
    Ye samjho aur samajhao
    Thode me mauj manao
    Dal roti khao Prabhu ke gun gao
    jawar bhata
    https://youtu.be/uL3HYjmOXsI

  343. AKJi, Mumbaikarji, Rahulji,
    A few songs on Sawal-Jawab,

    Sonu Nigam sings
    Mera Dard Tum Na Samajh Sake
    Mujhe Sakht Iska Malala hai
    Jara Phir Samajhkar Jawab Do
    Meri Jindagi Ka Sawal Hai
    Bewafa Sanam (1995),
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q_lVKY8Wd98

    Kumar Sanu, Alka Yagnik both are of the same opinion in this song,
    Har Sawal ka jawab nahi mil Sakta
    Rang 1993, Sameer, Nadeem-Shravan
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VCmMl7k9Y-I

    Meena Kumari is worried,
    Duniya Kare Sawal To Hum Kya Jawab Den, Lata Mangeshkar, Bahu Begum (1967), Sahir Ludhianvi, Roshan
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Q1pA7OYbp0

    But Rajendra Kumar has a different view
    Ek sawal mai karu ek sawal tum karo
    Har sawal ka sawal hi jawab ho
    Mohammed Rafi & Lata Mangeshkar, Sasural (1961), Shailendra, Shankar Jaikishan
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0z-EUuIjRGQ

  344. Venkataramanji @474,
    Nice sawal-jawab songs.

    @475,
    Some sawals are laajawab, but I can answer this one. No credit to me. Because, Dilip Kumar had already answered this in the voice of Mukesh:
    ‘Tu kahe agar
    Tu kahe agar jeevan bhar main geet sunata jaaun, manbeen bajata jaaun’
    He is clear he wants to sing ‘geet’, and not ‘ghazal’, ‘dadra’, or ‘thumri’. And he wants to play the been, not violin or sitar.

    Kishore Kumar on the other hand wants to sing dadra and in barah matra. Dilip Kumar was absolutely courteous, he would sing only if the lady asks him to. Kishore Kumar, too, offers the lady to check out the samples:
    ‘Paanch rupaiya barah ana
    ……………
    Geet suna sakta hoon dadra
    Ginkar poore baara maatra
    Chaahe namoona dekh lo haaye
    Dheere se jana bagiyan mein
    Dheere se jana bagiyan mein re
    Bhanwra dheere se jana bagiyan mein
    Hoye lalla dheeng lalla
    Hoye lalla haaye‘

  345. Venkataraman ji @475
    AK ji @ 476
    Talat would give same answer as given by mukesh
    Dhoond laya hoon wohi geet main tere liye
    While Mahendra Kapoor’s reply would not be much too different
    Main yuhi mast nagme sunata rahoo
    Asha would give you a choice
    Geet sunoge hujoor ya main gazal gaau
    Lataji will not be able to decide
    Main kaunsa geet sunau kya gau
    But the best answer can be drawn, Venkataramanji, from Hemantayan
    Sun ja dil ki daastan

  346. AK @457 A
    Now I see some irritation in your evaluation.
    I would not agree here. There cannot be 100% match or mismatch.

    B Sahir’s talkhi I was talking only in context of the contra songs I presented.

    Franlkly I myself,do not agree with that philosophy of “Jeene ka dhang sikhaye ja kanton ki nok par khada muskuraye ja”
    कांटे फूलों के रक्षक होते है भक्षक नहीं.

    Talking about Sahir’s range.
    In Mujhe jeene do mother’s apprehension that her son will have face the Kadi dhoop and much more

    Tere bachpan ko dua
    https://youtu.be/4VuXq5lSEJM

    In Trishul she is preparing him to face that Kadi dhoop for a cause.
    Tumere saath rahenga
    https://youtu.be/TpXJ2iKKOGE

  347. NV @ 474
    My question in form of is request is pending for some time now.
    Instead “ appane humen sawaal jawab ke uljan me phansa diya”
    AK and Mr. Muli have answered answered your question.
    Can I please get an answer to my simple question @ 427
    For your convenience. Repeating the query.
    Is there any similarity between the lyrics of Se din dujone and nain deewane?

  348. AK, @ 470
    “Jeetendra singing a classical raga=based song with aalap etc. He started with mimicking ‘Yahoo’ in ‘Mast baharon ka main ashiq’, and I cannot get over his that image.”
    Jeetendra was a very smart man, to get over with that image he approached Gulzar to direct him in Parichay and Khusboo when Gulzar was struggling to find producers.

    Shailendra’s and Gulzar’s chand

    Dam bhar jo udha intruder (or) multiple roles
    https://youtu.be/i0J4IE7DkuQ

    Chand churake laya hoon facilitator
    https://youtu.be/Qs4lWVCEb0A

  349. Intra-contra
    Sawan jo agan lagaye use kaun bujhaye
    Jo baag bahar me ujade use kaun khilaye
    Peete to jinda hai
    Na peete to mar jaate
    Amar Prem – AB
    In many lists this song is generally ranked above
    Kuch to log
    But my personal choice is kuch to
    It also has intra – contra
    Humko jo taane dete hai
    – – – – -aate dekha rangraliyome
    In fact The film itself is full of contras.
    By the way a query for Mumbaikarji
    Just like Mithun was called as Poor man’s Amitabh , can we call AB as common man’s
    – – – ?

  350. As an afterthought
    Kuch tolog kahenge
    Can be an answer to Joseph ji’ s sawal
    Chori chori – – – – log kya kahenge
    However I feei that if we continue giving jawans to sawaals ( which is a separate theme altogether) the getting out of this post will become a poseidon adventure.

  351. This could be an intra contra song…

    ‘ badi mushkil se dil ki bekaraari ko karaar aaya
    … ke jis jaalim ne tadpaaya usi par mujh ko pyaar aaya …’

    Someone who was dumped has found acceptance … travelled from one end to the other .

    ‘ Badi mushkil se …’/ 1953 / NAGHMA / Nashad / Shamshad

    https://youtu.be/NYkZJ_APUsI

  352. This could be a contra pair…

    All about ‘ Aankhen ‘ .

    Set out to trap someone in the eyes …

    ‘ …ham mund ke palko ko is dil ko sazaa de to…’

    ‘ Hum aapki aankhon…’/ 1957 PYASA / Rafi , Lata

    https://youtu.be/vBTcsTd2kF0

    Has instead been punished for trapping someone in her eyes …

    ‘… meri aankho me bas gaya koi re
    mohe nind na aaye main ka karu…’

    ‘ Meri aankhon mein …’/ 1949 / BARSAT / SJ / Lata

    https://youtu.be/cIwjDF1MLoY

  353. Venkataramanji@475
    AKji @476
    Myself @477
    On closer scrutiny of sawal tujhe Kya sunau Mai? We find that jawabs given by both Me & AKji are inappropriate. However I will wait for your confirmation (both or either of you)

  354. Mumbaikarji @480,

    ‘My question in form of is request is pending for some time now.’
    I thought it was addressed to our Maharathi.

    ‘Can I please get an answer to my simple question @ 427
    For your convenience. Repeating the query.
    Is there any similarity between the lyrics of Se din dujone and nain deewane?’

    You have already provided the answer
    ‘To my mind the lyrics Se din dujuno and nain diwane are completely different. Se din dujone is all about nostalgia, naina diwane is not.’
    Since you have ordered me to provide an answer,
    My simple answer in one word would be NO.

    Now let me add a few lines about the song.

    In October 1927, Rabindranth Thakur visited Siam (Thailand). The shared culture that Siam shared with India had impressed the poet, he wrote two poems ‘To Siam’ & ‘Farewell to Siam’and dedicated them to Siam.

    ‘Sei din dujone’ was penned by Rabindranth on 17th October 1927 while traveling by train from Bangkok to Penang.

    Whether it was on the remembrance of the shared culture between the two countries or any reminiscence from his past life, we can only guess. Later in 1931 the song was included in the dance drama ‘Shapmochan, bestowing a nostalgic/ romantic element to the song.
    Now it is for our humble Maharathi (he may refuse to accept it) and Rathi to take it forward, if needed.

  355. Ak ji,

    One contra song….from mother india….

    Na mein bhagwan hun na mein shhitan hun ….

    Beautiful philosophy.

  356. Another swal jawab song sung by mukesh and lata ji from banarsi thug….ek baat poochta hun gar bura na mano…..filmed on manoj and vikay chowdhary.

    Vijay chowdhary was the actress that emerged first as first row song lineup ….mughal e azam qawallis , then side heroin and later heroin in main leads….well for b and c grade movies mostly like dara singh movies.

  357. AKji @ 476, Rahulji @ 477
    It seems you were waiting with the ‘Jawabs’ for the ‘Sawal’ to be posed.
    Akji, what a varied approach, suiting the personalities of Dilip Kumar & Kishore Kumar.
    Rahulji, and you have come with five options.
    I cannot reject outright your Jawabs.

    But let us look at the situation from a different angle. See the Haal/ plight of the lovers, and Nutan is thunderstuck. Her look says it all. What will be her answer when she comes back to senses?

  358. Venkataramanji
    Your sawal @ 475 is
    Tujhe kya sunau main?
    The question is addressed to let us say B. Further let A be the person posing the question. Then naturally the answer should be given by B & it should be roughly of the type tum geet sunao or gazal sunao etc
    While our answers are from A’s perspective like main geet sunata jau, main mast nagme gata rahu.
    This the person posing the question (A) is answering it without waiting for B’s reply.

  359. Rahulji @ 503,
    Yes, you are right; the question is ‘Tujhe kyaa sunaau ai dilarubaa’.
    And Sekhar (A) is further explaining his plight/position. And Nutan (B) is awestruck or love struck.
    And an answer is expected from Nutan’s angle.
    That is what I have tried to say @ 500.
    Will search or wait for the Jawab.
    And it should be a contra.

  360. AKji,
    The following two songs where you can notice intra-songs contrasts
    And the two songs can be contra songs too.

    Door nahi ja sakti tujhse, Paas bhi main na aaungi
    Rahungi main najro ke samne, Phir bhi najar na aaungi
    lata Mangeshakr, Hisaab Khoon Ka (1989)

    Bahut door mujhe chale jana hai, Bahut najdik mujhe aana hai
    Teri bahon me mujhe aaj mar jana hai, Bahut dur mujhe chale jana hai
    Kisi ko is jagah pe nahi aana hai, Kisi ko is jagah pe nahi aana hai
    Heera Panna (1974), Lata Mangeshkar , Kishore Kumar

  361. Learn to smile even as you cry:

    ‘Rote rote hasna seekho’ by Kishore Kumar (MD – Laxmikant Pyarelal, Lyricist – Anand Bakshi), from ‘Andha Kanoon’ (1983)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SHb3cp5WrR8

    versus

    Do not cry ever:

    ‘Rona rona kabhi nahi rona’ by Kishore Kumar (MD – RD Burman, Lyricist – Anand Bakshi), from ‘Apna Desh’ (1972)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O3M2svfz_WA

    But the 2nd song also conveys the same message as the 1st in its antara:

    ‘Dukh sukh ki kya baat hai
    Kya din hai kya raat hai
    Aansoo bhi muskaan bane
    Yeh to apna haath hai
    Ashaaon ki dori mein sada
    Tum man ke phool pirona’

    So can we term this pair a Faux Contra?

    Now let me hurry over to the Dreams post to share the first song since it has an occurrence of sapna! The 2nd song has already been cited there.

  362. AKji,
    Can this be a intra-contra song?
    Chahe Raho Door Chahe Raho Pas, Sun Lo Magar Ek Baat
    Ek Dor Se Bandhogi Sanam Kisi Din Hamare Sath

    Chahe Raho Door Chahe Raho Pas, Sun Lo Magar Ek Baat
    Tum Iss Gali Toh Mai Us Gali Ki Aau Kabhi Na Hath
    Lata Mangeshkar, Kishore Kumar, DO Chor (1972), Majrooh Sultanpuri, R D Burman
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0apLCEFjHCM

  363. Akji,
    A few more on Khwaab-Haqeekat
    Dev Anand questions,
    Khwaab Ho Tum Yaa Koi Haqikat
    Kaun Ho Tum Batalaao

    Kishore Kumar, Teen Deviyaan (1965), Majrooh Sultanpuri, music S D Burman
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jw4wLVnFJ-E

    Hariharan says through this beautiful Ghazal,
    Tum Haqikat Ho Koi Khwaab Dikha Na Mujhe
    Mujhko Hi Na Tarsa Sata Na Mujhe
    lyrics Kamal Ahmed Siddiqui, music Akbar Khan
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8W9-1LHqYqY

    Here what has Javed Ali got to say,
    Tu Hi Haqiqat Khwaab Tu,
    Dariya Tu Hi Pyaas Tu, Javed Ali, Tum Mile (2009),
    Sayeed Quadri, Pritam Chakraborty
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BKbnmLH8UAo

  364. Mr Muli @473,
    Excellent food songs. I am not adding any songs from my side as it is fit for another from my side.

    @482,
    Kya baat hai! Saawan jo again lagaye use kaun bujhaye is a perfect intra-contra songs.

    @483,
    Chori chori jo tumse mili to contains its own answer: Ise pyar kahenge. There is no need to look for an ambiguous answer in Kuchh to log kahenge.

    @484,
    Yes, Kal tak jo begaane the janmon ke meet hain is a perfect intra-contra songs.

    @491,
    Yes, it is very close to perfect 10.

    @477, 493, 503, 507, Venkataramanji @504,
    After coming up with perfect replies, Mr Muli, you have self-doubts and you have got Venkataramanji too entangled. I have no self-doubts. Venkataramanji asked for an appropriate ‘jawab’ to ‘Tujhe kya sunaaun main dilruba’. This can only be given by a third person, and Venkataramanji rightly asked me. Now my and Mr Muli’s answers were unambiguous about ‘what’ to sing. When Arjun had self-doubts at the battlefield, Lord Krishna clarified his confusions.

    This post is becoming an unending web; let us all try to get out of it.

  365. Mr Joseph @478,
    Chori chori jo tumse mili is a perfect sawal-jawab song.

    @485,
    Ye kaun hai jiske aane se: This is a very interesting sawal-jawab song in which the answer is also framed as a question.

    @486,
    Ke jis zalim ne tadpaya usi pe mujhko pyar aya: is an excellent intra-contra song.

    @487,
    The contra pair is not very clear to me, but let that pass.

    @488,
    Chhup gaye saare nazaare oye kya baat ho gayi: It is a perfect sawal-jawab sog.

    @489,
    Tum hi tum ho mere jeevan mein,
    Tum bin jaaun kahan:
    Both songs seem to me to be saying the same thing. The pair is inseparable from each other.

    @490,
    Ek haseen shaam ko dil mera kho gaya – One beautiful evening I lost my heart to someone. If you take its obvious poetic meaning I don’t see any contra. Unless you are dissecting science – the heart is an organ which cannot be lost to another person without transplant; in that case the first person would not be alive to sing this song.

    @492,
    Tumhari nazar kyon khafa ho gayi is a very good sawal-jawab song.

    @498,
    Dil ki nazar se is a very good sawal-jawab song.

    @501, 502, 505,
    Intra-contra is not very clear to me.

  366. Mumbaikar8 @479,
    Your first sentence is not correct. Rest I have no comments.

    @481,
    You have mentioned Parichay. A very good make-over song for Jeetendra is Musafir hun yaaro/ Na ghar hai na thikana/ Mujhe chalte jana hai.

  367. Venkataramanji @ 495,
    It seems that in all the confusion Mumbaikar8 posed a trivial question to you @480. There never was a doubt that Se din dujone does not mean Nain deewane. The real question for which the Master’s ruling was needed was the meaning of Nain deewane and whether there is an intra-contra in this. There was some difference between us as you can see @368, 369, 373, 374, 411, 413, 419, 422, 424. But we have squandered a chance and I would not like to bother you more on this. But thanks a lot for the additional information about Se din dujone.

    @500,
    Haal kaisa janab ka: I think the song itself contains answer tot he question asked.
    Haal kya hai dilon ka na poochho sanam: Even though the songs is framed in interrogation, I don’t think it is looking for an answer.

    @508,
    This is an excellent find. Two intra-contra songs are mutual contra to each other!

    @510,
    Chaahe raho door chaahe raho paas: It can be treated as an intra-contra song.

    @511, 512,
    Very nice intra-contra pair. How can something be both khwab and haqeeqat. I hope physicists on the group do not start talking quantum mechanics, Heisenberg’s Uncertainty Principle and Schrodinger’s Cat etc.

  368. Canasya @494,
    I saw Ashwin’s reaching the glorious mark and now he has decided to breathe easy. Let us try to wrap this up too. Bhala karnewale bhalai kiye ja is nice intra-contra song.

  369. Ks Bhatiaji @496,
    Na main bhagwan hun, na main shaitan hun,…Main to insan hun: Nice intra-contra song. Is this an example of thesis, anti-thesis and synthesis?

    @497,
    Ek baat poochhata hun gar tum bura na maano is a nice sawal-jawab song.

  370. Mr Rangan @506,
    Zindagi hai zinda wo zindagi se khele is about living life to the full. In Zindagi khwab hai there is some disillusionment about life. A very good contra pair.

  371. Ashwin @509,
    ‘Faux contra’: Nice term and so apt. Thanks a lot. Let us now both breathe easy having reached some sort of landmark.

  372. AK @ 516
    At times your comments are more complex than Gulzar’s lyrics.

    “It seems that in all the confusion Mumbaikar8 posed a trivial question to you @480. There never was a doubt that Se din dujone does not mean Nain deewane. “

    Let us go by chronology

    Your comment @ 424
    “This song is perhaps not an exact translation of its original Se din dujone, but it is quintessential Rabindrasangeet. Hats off to Pt. Narendra Sharma.
    I am afraid any further dissection will hamper our enjoyment of the poetry. Yet, I would like the Maharathi to come in; we know there is only one, and lest he pretends deniability, the one who lives in Kolkata.”

    @ 427
    Not dissecting further, I made a formal request, to clear my doubt, and clearly wrote what my doubt was.
    “I would request Maharathi to clear the doubt.
    To my mind the lyrics Se din dujuno and nain diwane are completely different. Se din dujone is all about nostalgia, naina diwane is not.”

    Your response @ 430 to my comment @ 427
    “I hope the Maharathi reads it, but let us not give him any cover. Please also address it directly to him.”

    No reference of confusion

    I waited for some time as Venkataramanji was not as active.

    My comment @ 480 was a repeat of @427 at your behest.

  373. Mumbaikar8,
    Are you satisfied that this was the doubt? In deference to your brilliant cross-examination let me accept that I am responsible for the confusion. But let us accept that the substantive query was about Nain deewane, whether it has intra-contra or not. I have already mentioned a series of comments where this persisted. Yet I would not like to bother Venkataramanji now.

  374. Ak ji,

    The song …na mein bhagwan hoon…from mother india is on a scale between 0 to infinity. Insaan occupies a dot on this scale. …cleaner you are sharp is your position. For clever people there are cluster of dots at various places. Graphs seldom are false but manipulaters struggles to make them right to fit into their fancy worlds.

    Here is one of my favourite intra song….

    Ganga aaye kahan se ganga jaaye kahan re … link .?…kabuliwala.

  375. Ak ji, venkatraman ji, Mumbaikar8 ji,

    Here is one of beautiful intra shabad from gurubani….sung by manna dey…from nanak naam jahaj hai…

    Hum mailyey tu ujjal karte , hum moorakh tu daata…

    A must listen for all.

  376. AK
    I accept the initial query was to get closure on the extensive discussion we were having, but your comment

    “This song is perhaps not an exact translation of its original Se din dujone, but it is quintessential Rabindrasangeet. ”

    put me off the track. I did not remember what the lyrics of se din dujone were. My understanding was that you found some similarity between them, I listened to that song and found it totally different from Nain Deewane, as it is .
    Venkataramanji was not ready to dabble in Hindi lyrics, he would not go for anything that he wasn’t 100% sure of.
    Knowing he would be sure about Se din dujone I asked him about this.
    Cross- examination was essential for self-defense.

  377. AKji
    If I am correct all of your posts have a never ending continum. Why make an exception here. Venkataramanji will probably will be able to give his expert dissertation as to why comment numbers are quantum jumping to dizzying heights. I consider both yours and Ashwinji’s posts as a pair of rails on which the iconic SOY steam engine is chugging along. Let it not derail.
    So far all the contra songs I have mentioned are all from my memory. I am so addicted to this post, I am constantly raking up my mind to discover new ones.
    You have accepted a new category – sawal-jaab pair. Here is one from Sasural – Shailendra/Shankar Jaikishan – Rafi and Lata Mangeshkar. Both of them conclude question is itself an answer. Can you throw some light on this preposition.

    Ek sawal mein karoon – https://youtu.be/Nq6dc-NwqjA?t=36

  378. Akji @ 516,
    When Mumbaikarki posted the song @ 368 and posed the question to you and Rahulji, she had no doubt in her mind that NV was not the right person, since his limitations in the language will be a deterrent in understanding the poetic language of Pandit Narendra Sharma and she had qualified her belief with statement,

    ‘Pandit Narendta Sharma is no lyric writer; he is a poet, understanding his poem is not easy. One needs a teacher for that.’
    And in the end Mumbaikarji, reiterated her firm belief that I was not the right person to dabble in Hindi lyrics.

    It made me happy that AKji you found me the fit person to resolve the tension. But I proclaimed my unworthiness for the task, with an add-on ‘I feel, it is better to leave certain things unresolved.’
    If I have disappointed you, I am sorry for that.

  379. Mr DP Rangan @526,
    You are right, there is no end date for any post. For example, yesterday a reader commented on my post on Devdas written four years ago. This post too is going to remain available forever. I just meant to slow down the overheated engine. As I look back on comments, they add not only songs, but also a lot of knowledge about lyrics and ideas. I feel bad that, in between, several comments which were not specifically addressed to me have gone unanswered. It is now awkward to respond to the older comments. But readers are always welcome to add comments which open new vistas.

    Ek sawal main karun, ek sawal tum karo has been discussed earlier. It is a nice sawal-jawab song in which each reply is also framed in the form of a question.

  380. Venkataramanji @527,
    Now you know the source of confusion. We finally ended up asking the wrong question, but let that pass.

  381. NV @ 527
    Now you are twisting my comment.

    # 368 I posed question to AK and Mr. Muli because three of us were in discussion last couple of days, you were missing in action.
    Never ever I felt or said that you were not the right person.

    @ 525 Venkataramanji was not ready to dabble in Hindi lyrics, he would not go for anything that he wasn’t 100% sure of.
    Knowing he would be sure about Se din dujone I asked him about this.

    There was no belief that, you are not the right person, to reiterated.

    I said and meant that you would not enter the fray unless you are 100% sure , unlike me who is ready to stick her neck out more often.
    That does not at all mean that I did not find you fit to resolve.

  382. Mr. Rangan @ 526
    “I am so addicted to this post, I am constantly raking up my mind to discover new ones.”
    I think all of us were feeling the same when AK tried to shut the door.
    Thank you so much for getting the window open.
    Now we can all sneak in. 🙂

    The bhajan shyam nikas gaye from Satyam Shivam Sundaram was posted by Mr. Muli in khidki kuli band contra.
    I like this non filmy version by Asha more.
    Shyam Nikas Gaye Na Mein Ladi Thi
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4W6peYFgsio
    Ksbhatiaji .
    Thanks for the meaningful Shabd.

  383. Canasya,
    Mahal/kutiya is a nice contra theme. The theme is quite common in classic tales, but we don’t seem to have enough songs in films. In Raja Aur Rank the prince and the pauper swap their places voluntarily. In Kach-Devyani-Sharmishtha-Yayati legend the princess is cursed to be living as a maid in the outhouse. I had hopes on Mahalon ka raja mila ki rani beti raaj karegi, but it stops short. Kaahe ko byahi bides too starts promisingly with Bhaiya ko deeno mahal dumahale, but Amir Khusro had perhaps not heard intra-contra.

  384. AKji
    Batsmen are refusing to leave the field even when Dada declared the innings!
    A classic Dravid – Tendulkar episode ( Sachin left in that case though)
    As regards palace – kutiya
    There is a beautiful poem in Marathi by Sant Tukdoji maharaj (a reformist saint from Vidharbha) . I had listened this being sung as a Lori by many marathi mother’s.
    It goes like this
    राजास जी महाली,
    सौख्ये कधी मिळाली.
    ती सर्व प्राप्त झाली.
    या झोपडीत माझ्या .
    ( All the comforts relished
    By a king in his palace ,
    I have also enjoyed
    In this little hut of mine)
    पहारे आणि तिजोरया,
    त्यातुनही होती चोरया.
    दारास नाही दोरया ,
    या झोपडीत माझ्या
    ( Vault and armed sentry
    Can’t stop thief’s entry
    Doors are always open in my hut
    But nobody has stolen anything yet .)
    There are few more stanzas each containing a beautiful contrast but it is beyond my
    Ability to translate them.
    This is in the voice of Ajit kadkade .
    https://youtu.be/qfT3b_J9Vjk

  385. Mumbaikarji @ 531
    I accept your argument. Even if you had meant it, I would not have minded since I myself proclaimed my unworthiness for the task. Ok you did not mean it. Accepted. And as Akji has said let that pass. And call a truce.
    Let me add, the entire episode of extended exchange was in line with theme of the post.
    Let us take fresh guards and gear up for another………. another… round of contrasting songs, contradictions, etc.etc.

    How about Inqaar/ Iqraar/ Izhaar
    Husn chala kuchh aisi chaal, diwane ka puchh na haal
    pyar ki kasam kamaal ho gaya, haay pyar ki kasam kamaal ho gaya
    dil ko abb tak hai inkaar, aankhe kar baithi ikraar
    pyar ki kasam kamaal ho gaya, haay pyar ki kasam kamaal ho gaya
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=869p3UISAgU

    I think there is a definite contradiction between the Dil and Aankh here.

  386. AKji:

    Venkataraman ji @ 337 has posted Kabir’s ‘Mann laago phakiri mein’ and Rahul Muli ji @ 539 has posted a poem by Sant Tukdoji Maharaj. ‘Ankhiyon ke jharokhon se’ had a medley of Rahim and Kabir couplets, some of which may fit the bill here:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IVNgOAS2M00

    The ultimate in intra-contra probably occurs in some Hindi poems with Yamak alankaar, such as in Bihari’s ‘Kanak kanakte sau guni …’, and this famous poem by Bhushan:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSExwFi-hJY

    I can’t recall good examples of Yamak from HFM. Couple of those that come to mind are pedestrian by comparison, for instance, Sajna hai mujhe sajna ke liye (Asha in Saudagar; MD: Ravindra Jain)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uS95DwKZuH0

    and ‘Ke jann chali jaaye jiya nahin jaaye, jiya jaaye to phir jiya nahin jaaye’ (Rafi, Suman in Anjaana; MD: LP):

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O_S9e0Dc0F0

  387. Canasya ji,

    One song that remains ever favourite for me….

    Khuli palak mein jhoota gussa band palak mein pyar….beautiful song of beautiful movie. …Professor. Rafi and SJ at their very best.

    I am still on the lookout of some songs of forties.

  388. Mr S Joseph @534,
    Mahlon mein rahnewale humein tere dar se kay is a nice intra-contra song. Someone without any possessions does not covet any material thing, but looks only for love.

    @536,
    Chaandi ki deewar na todi is a nice song on dhanwaan/nirdhan. We can stretch it to mean intra-contra.

    Similarly, @537 is a nice raat/din song, but is it a good intra-contra song?

    @540, Bharam teri wafaon ka is a nice Talat song of sadness due to betrayal in love, but it would not occur to me as intra-contra song.

  389. Mr Rangan @541,
    This is nice contra pair on dosti; in the first song it has been broken, in the second the friends are sure it is unbreakable.

  390. Mr Muli @539,
    I am not a passionate fan of cricket, but by ‘Dada’ probably you mean the Bengal Tiger. If I remember correctly, the captain then was the Little Master, and he declared when the Wall was on 194. There was no prior consultation. The Wall was also human, but to his credit he did not let anything go out of the locker room. In the present case we were all together past 500.

    But let the people’s wish prevail. The Marathi song is very good. There are a large number of songs by saint poets across languages spurning the royal invitation from the King.

    A very well-known reply by Kumbhandas to Akbar is as follows:
    संतन को कहा सीकरी सों काम?
    आवत जात पनहियाँ टूटी, बिसरि गयो हरि नाम।।
    जिनको मुख देखे दुख उपजत, तिनको करिबे परी सलाम।।
    कुंभनदास लाल गिरिधर बिनु, और सबै बेकाम।।

    (What is there for a saint in Fatehpur Sikri?
    My shoes will be torn in going there to and fro, and I would forget to chant the name of God
    Besides, I will have to salute those whose sight gives me pain.
    Kumbhandas says, everything is worthless without my Giridhar Lal.
    )

  391. Canasya @538,
    Nice intra-contra song.

    @544,
    It is difficult to get good examples of Yamak in HFM. You have been able to dig out some of the best that might be there. I thought of some examples, which are quite trite:
    Ek raat mein do do chaand khile
    Ek ghoonghat mein ek badali mein

    Kaisi haseen raat.
    Ek chaand aasmaan mein hai, ek mere paas hai

  392. NV@ 542
    Agree the exchange was in line with the theme.
    I am very much impressed by your second round.
    @ 512 with Khwab and haqeeqat.
    @ 542 with Iqrar and Inkar you have hit the nail with the contradiction of dil and aankh.

    “since I myself proclaimed my unworthiness for the task”

    AK knew better than you when he placed the ball in your court.

    Two examples of Poor Aankh against Dil/ Mai/
    Mahal song haye mera dil
    https://youtu.be/CnX21ynyLbQ?t=233
    Tarana tu bola papihe bol
    https://youtu.be/f37YIJhLcw0?t=57

  393. Ak ji @ 548
    Obviously I meant Saurav. Dada & Didi can come from WB only
    However the particular episode happened when Wall was Captained & Little master was on 194 ( contra to what you have stated& apt for this theme)

  394. Venkatraman ji @ 542/ 543
    Intra contra & iquraar mixed with sitam & julm
    1 gairo pe sitam –
    https://youtu.be/f_SJ2MPDAZI

    Ravi for his favourite producer DG
    Hum bhi to tere mazur-e- nazar
    Dil chahe to ab iqraar na kar
    2 kitne bhi to karle sitam
    https://youtu.be/tqofPln6aG4
    RD for FF winning Sanam Teri Kasam ( his first but on his own admission average score)
    Kuch hai aankho ka rishta
    Gussa iquraar ka hai ye
    Can we treat the pair as a contra
    Since in the first Mala sinha has given up ( mar jayenge hum mit jayenge hum)
    But in the second Kamal Haasan is absolutely confident of getting his love back
    Jo aarjoo aaj hai meri ek din teri aarjoo hogi .

  395. Mr Muli @552,
    Nice examples. Even your trite at #3 has many possibilities. You can think of Govinda singing:
    Mujhe sone ka dil karta hai re baba.
    (A wrong guy sang another similar song.)

    Ajit had a good sense of Yamak when he said, “Mujhe teen cheezein pasand hain: Mona, Sona aur Mona ke sath sona.”

    Comparatively, my examples at @550 are not even trite. They are good songs, but they are not Yamak, they should be trashed.

    This is a goldmine for our great talent Ashwin. In your #1, the lady, when she gets married with the hero, might sing an antara pointing to her mangalsutra, Baandh liya hai tumne is chain se/ Ye chain nahin toote dua kijiye.

    @553,
    Thanks for correcting my memory. Since characters are reversed I uncontra my ending: The LM didn’t hide his disappointment that he was prevented from achieving another milestone.

  396. AK ji;

    In continuation a few more of contra songs…

    Dekh Liya Maine Kismat Ka Tamasha – Lata Rafi…
    – Deedar…Naushad

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=285VsJ4L7nE

    Dekh liya tune gham ka tamasha… S D Batish….Betab

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c8jgsAYWhfQ

    and…

    Betaab Hai Dil Bechain Nazar Talat Mahmood Behram Daku (1959) Sadat Khan

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=10M0W-A3w_E

    BECHAIN NAZAR BETAAB JIGAR – TALAT….Yasmeen….CR

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zOrm2s2VJls

    Bechain Hai Betab Hai Geeta Dutt Mubarak Begum Film Haar Jeet Music SD Batish Lyrics Aziz Kashmiri

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IOdJKoFMsNQ

    to be contd.

  397. AKji:

    The scope of this post has been expanded couple of times in the past, for instance, to include songs in the nature of ‘sawal-jawab’. I am not sure if one could stretch it to also include songs involving ‘double entendre’. Of course, many such songs, such as ‘Balma sipahiya’, have got a bad press. But there are also a few that are universally enjoyable. For instance:

    Apni to har aah ek toofan hai, kya karen wo jaan kar anjaan hai, upar walaa jaan kar anjaan hai’ (Rafi in Kala Bazaar; MD: SDB)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1qjTd4FR1X4

  398. KS Bhatiaji @556,
    Congratulations for your computer coming alive. And you make a gorgeous start with an excellent contra pair. I had not heard the second song, Binati karat hun main tori ma tu shadi kara de. The lyrics are crazily comic.

    @557,
    Excellent set of contra songs.

    @558,
    Muqaddar ke hatho jahan ghoomta hai/ Zameen to zameen aasman ghoomta hai..Dhoop chhaon hai duniya: It is a beautiful Shamshad Begum song and every line speaks of contra truths. Thanks for posting it.

  399. Mr S Joseph @559,
    Dekho rootha na karo, baat nazaron ki karo/Hum na bolenge kabhi tum sataya na karo

    @560,
    Tere ghar ke saamne ek ghar banaaunga, duniya basaaunga

    @561,
    Likha hai teri aankhon mein kska afasana/Agar ise samajh sako mhjhe bhi samjhana

    @562,
    Ye kisne geet chheda, dil mera naache thirak thirak /Ye kisnki zulf bikhari, jag sara gaya mahak mahak

    @563
    Bahut haseen hain tumhari aankhen, kaho to main inse pyar kar lun

    @564,
    Tumhein dil se chaha tumhein dil diya hai, ye wada karo ki bhula to na doge/Tumhin tum ho meri nigaahon mein lekin, nigaahon se mujhko gira to na doge

    @565,
    Ye mausam rangeen sama thahar zara o jaan-e-jaan, tera mera pyar hai to phir kaisa sharmana

    @566,
    Thahariye hosh mein aa lun to chale jaiyega/Aapko dil mein bitha lun to chale jaiyega

    @567,
    Jogi O jogi are pyar mein kya hoga/ Har din suhana hoga, har raat suhani hogi

    @568,
    Zara sambhaliye adaayein aapki, ki mere hath se mera jaane laga/Na aise rokiye nigaahein pyar ki zindagi mein kuchh nasha ab aane laga

    @569,
    Humse nain milana BA pass kar ke, humse preet lagan BA pass kar ke

    @570,
    Ye kahmoshiyan ye tanhaiyan mohabbt ki duniya hai kitni jawan

    @571,
    Tum jispe nazar daalo us dil ka khuda hafiz

    @572,
    Jaan-e-jaan paas aao

    @573
    Ye raastein hain pyar ke chalna sambhal sambhal ke

    Most of these songs are my great favourites as they must be of the other readers. I have quoted long mukhada of these songs in which intra-contra is not obvious to me. But you must have listened to them more keenly than I did. I accept what you say, but when next you post such songs in which the theme is not apparent my request to you is to post your reasoning.

  400. Canasya @574,
    ‘Double entendre’ songs are best left, though some of them are enormously popular, such as Khaaye gori ka yaar balam tarase, rang barase or Saat saheliyan khadi khadi.

    Apani to har aah ek toofan hai, uparwala jaan kar anjaan hai has nice intra-contra at multiple levels. ‘Aah’ is just a sigh, it can’t be a ‘toofan’, but we have common usage such as ‘deafening silence’. ‘Jaan kar anjaan’ is also an excellent intra-contra. This is similar to a common expression: It is easy to wake up a sleeping person, but जगे को जगाना मुश्किल है. An alternative title for this post could be ‘Oxymoron songs’?

  401. Mr. Muli @ 482
    “By the way a query for Mumbaikarji
    Just like Mithun was called as Poor man’s Amitabh , can we call AB as common man’s”
    Apology for the late response.
    I would call AB comman man’s Shailendra.

  402. AKji
    My take on variations is that as far as possible we should remain faithful to the original theme. In recent posts from firmament songs onwards wehave witnessed this phenomenon.
    If it continues we soon will end up being BJP
    Also there is imminent danger of these subsidiaries, associates& joint ventures may control the parent.

  403. Mumbaikar8 @579,
    “Roiye zaar zaar kya, kijiye haye haye kya”: It seems Ghalib speaks of futility of lamenting. ‘Ye zindag ke mele duniya mein kam na hoge’: This also celebrates many colours of life. They don’t seem to be very contra to each other. Am I on a wrong track?

  404. Mr Muli @580,
    That is the ideal situation. Interesting variations, such as intra-contra, relating to the main theme are most welcome. Main value of the adda is that the discussions are insightful and makes us all more aware. Now another new post has come up. That will now draw more attention, therefore, the threat of hostile take-over will recede.

  405. Mr S Joseph @581,
    Badli badli duniya hai meri, jaadu hai ye kya tere nainan ka‘: My world seems so changed to me, I don’t know what magic your eyes have cast.
    Duniya badal gayi mari duniya badal gayi‘: My world has changed.

    On the surface both the songs mean the same thing. But one is in a happy sense, and the other is of sadness. The world of the lovers has become topsy-turvy. If you mean in this sense, then yes, it is a contra pair.

  406. AK,
    You have overlooked first line of the sher and second line of the song.
    Ghalib does not speak of futility of lamenting.
    He says why would one lament for an insignificant man whose absence will not create any vacuum.
    While in zindagi ke mele .
    The idea is the same. Celebrations of many colors life will carry on after he is gone, but he is mourning about it.

  407. Mumbaikar8 @585,
    Thanks a lot for your explanation. Therefore, I think we both agree that Ghalib’s sher may not be very contra to ‘Ye zindagi ke mele’, and this song is very contra to ‘Rahe na rahe hum’.

  408. KS Bhatiaji @587, 588,
    Of the two songs you have posted, contra is very obvious in Apni kaho kuchh meri suno kya dil ka lagan bhool gaye‘. Sandhya is trying different means to make Shantaram overcome his gloom, such as Kaali raatein beet gayin, ab chaandni raatein ayi hain, but he is still in Dil mein nahin ujiyara mere, gham ki ghataayein chhayin hai. He has truly forgotten ‘dil ka lagana’ because Bhoola hua hai raah musafir, bichhada hua hai manzil se. Thanks a lot.

  409. First article in SoY to cross the 600 mark.
    Congratulations to all the members of SoY and AKji in particular.

    Continuing the trend…
    I think this should fit in the intra Contra cataegory.
    Kyun Zindagi Ki Raah Mein Majboor Ho Gaye
    Itne Hue Kareeb Ke Hum Door Ho Gaye
    Saath Saath (1982), Chitra Singh, Javed Akhtar, Kuldeep Singh
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JyXSPgFaioM

    The ‘Dream’ post was running very close. But now the gap has widened.
    Itne Kareeb Hote hue bhi door ho gaye…..
    Hope, will catch up soon

  410. AKji
    What a landmark achieved. Looks like modern day one day cricket when scores of more than 300 are par and there was a solitary instance two innings of more than 400 in South Africa-Australia. In T20 scores of 200 are easily achieved. It must be because people are chained to their house and can devote lot of time.

    Here is an intra contra song on tasveer.
    Tasveer banatha hoon magar tasveer nahi banthi – Talat Mahmood, Baradari, Music – Nashad
    https://youtu.be/eOnw5V1SPVs?t=3
    If you do not concur here is his opposite
    Tasveer banata hoom teri khoone jigar se – Moahammad Rafi, Deewana 1952, Shakeel Badauni, Naushad
    https://youtu.be/VYqZoFJW480?t=98

  411. The first 2 lines of the limerick below are meant for AK and the last three are in response to Venkataramanji @ 602 🙂

    To thee I solemnly bow
    For getting to the mark of ‘chhe sou’
    I am progressing @ a slow pace
    Because this is not a race
    I will dream my way to the milestone somehow

  412. ‘600’ brought to mind Tennyson’s ‘The Charge of the Light Brigade’ which the late Shrimati Buch, my Geography teacher in the 6th and later, my English teacher in the 7th , had explained to us by giving details of the history and geography of the event that the poem is all about. I have paraphrased the most famous lines of the poem, with due apologies to Tennyson, to depict the feverish state of mind of SoYers as the milestone got nearer and nearer:

    Their’s only to make reply
    Without being mute passers-by
    And thereby to experience a high
    Let’s march to 600
    A milestone that hitherto has never been met

  413. Ashwinji,

    Trying to mimic,
    By way of limerick,
    That you may call a ‘mimeric’;
    Yet a poor imitation,
    That shows my limitation.

    And here we have two ace (s),
    Never to be on a chase,
    Showing plenty of grace,
    Agreed, both of you are not in a race
    But it is the readers who set the pace.

    The two posts of exhilaration,
    One, the songs of contra-diction,
    The other, on dreams and fiction,
    With plenty of pun and fun,
    Are here for a marathon run.

  414. Venkataramanji @ 606
    You are are known to revel in analytics
    But now you seem to be having a lot of fun
    With rhyming verse and witty pun
    Aren’t you missing the statistics?

  415. Ashwinji,
    Yes I do a little of analytics,
    But I also dabble in Dialectics!
    And prattle in poetics
    Also venerate vital statistics!
    But in the end I am back to basics.

    What does that mean, would you care to hear,
    I am here nor there, everywhere again nowhere,
    I am an infliction, like the covid19 infection,
    I am a colossus of contradiction, enough to create confusion
    To relieve from this affliction, I will seek your permission.

  416. Please permit one last infliction
    Of what you call an affliction
    Going forward, I will actively resist
    And sincerely desist
    From giving in to this addiction

  417. Mr S Joseph @592,
    Maine kuchh khoya hai, maine kuchh paya hai is a very good intra-contra song.

    @593,
    Nazar uthane se pahle hi utha leti hai: Heard for the first time. Nice intra-contra song. Thanks a lot.

    @594,
    Kabhi inkaar karte ho, kabhi ikraar karte ho: It is a very good intra-contra song.

    @595,
    Jiyo to aise jiyo, maro to aise maro: It is a very good intra-contra song. I remembered Marna teri gali mein, jeena teri gali mein from Shabab which is a perfect intra-contra song.

    @596,
    Sab mein shamil ho sabse juda lagati ho is a nice intra-contra song. This reminded me of Roshan-Rafi’s Maine shayad tumhein pahle bhi kahin dekha hai which had excellent intra-contra lines: Ajanabi si ho magar gair nahin lagati ho/ Vaham se bhi ho nazuk wo yakeen lagati ho.

    @597,
    Dil humne diya, kyun tumne liya: If she voluntarily gives away her ‘dil’, does she have a right to complain why he accepted it? That is a natural consequence of her giving away the gift. I would not include it in intra-contra.

    @598,
    Ye maana meri jaan mohabbat saza hai, maza ismein itana magar kis liye hai is a perfect intro-contra song.

    @599,
    Jo dil mein khushi bankar aaye, wo dard basakar chale gaye/ Jo shama jalaane aaye the, wo shama bujhakar chale gaye is a perfect intro contra song.

    @600,
    Bhagwan teri duniya mein insaan nahin hain is a weak intra-contra song than the above example.

  418. Mr Rangan @603,
    The pair is a perfect contra set. The landmark is not my achievement, it has been propelled by the readers, but thanks a lot for your compliments.

  419. Ashwin @604, 605, 607, 609,
    Venkataramanji @606, 608,
    Mr Muli @610,

    Pushed by all on to the stage, I take a bow
    For your compliments on reaching my chhe sau
    That is the limit of my mimicry
    In the face of the charge of your cavalry
    Hence I retreat to my bunker’s chhaon

  420. AK
    I am here to surprise today.
    Going back to your comment # 430, I want to retract from what I said @ 450.
    As I have said earlier I watch Shekhar Gupta’s cut the clutter on and off, I happened to see it today.
    I want to confess I was wrong then, but would you agree with me that he is not consistent and seems lost some (if not most of the) times. 🙂

    Today is my day of appreciation I was highly impressed by you for not shying away from asking questions.

    I wanted to ask that “ father and son question” but you beat me to it.

    Now the formality of congratulating you for you fastest 600, let me be honest here, had Ashwin not behaved like the hare of hare and tortoise story he would have beaten you.

  421. Mr. Muli @ 616
    That was indeed very clever. Congarts.
    I gave my reply @ 578 to you query @ 482, now I am asking you the same question can you give your opinion on that?

  422. Mumbaikar ji @618
    I had the same answer in my mind.
    Here is a contrast on bandhan by the pair under discussion
    1 Kanto se kheech ke ye aanchal- Guide – SDB
    https://youtu.be/98d40_ix7P8
    Todake bandhan bandhi payal
    2 Bandhan toote na – Mom ki Gudiya – LP
    https://youtu.be/i3x7wgA1TeQ
    Nothing new can be written about 1
    Bandhan toote na may not be in the same league but is a very good song & my personal favourite
    I have a lurking doubt that LP rehashed this for meri saanso ko jo mahaka rahi hai

  423. One of the things that makes me happy is the loyalty I have for the songs close to my heart . I can close my eyes not wanting to see the things around me but can’t close my heart to the songs I want to feel .

    Now whisper along this intra contra song from classic movie Devdas….

    Manzil Ki Chaah Mai (HD)….Rafi….SDB

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GtcnkjlduDw

  424. Can the third segment (which is in Raga Jogiya) of Anil Biswas’s version of the Four Seasons from ‘Humdard’ (1953) be termed as an intra-contra song since it has the following lines (which refer to the visual impairment of the hero)?

    Auron ki to rain andheri
    Par hai mera din bhi andhera

    On a related note, it is so frustrating that the song is not available in its entirety on YouTube – only a fragment of the last segment (in Raga Bahar) can be heard.

    ‘Ritu aaye, ritu jaaye sakhi ri’ by Manna De & Lata Mangeshkar (MD – Anil Biswas, Lyricist – Prem Dhawan), from ‘Humdard’ (1953)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UPVAR6eQ9BI

  425. ‘Kaanton se kheench ke yeh aanchal’ has been cited as the contra-counterpart in 2 contexts – (a) caanton se rishta and (b) bandhan. But I would like to posit that it is an intra-contra song for doesn’t it pose the following life-and-death in its refrain?

    Aaj phir jeene ki tamanna hai
    Aaj phir marne ka irada hai

  426. Please read ‘life-and-death question’ in place of ‘life-and-death’ in Comment # 625.

    Here is a lori and an anti-lori:

    ‘Aa ja ri aa, nindiya tu aa’ by Lata Mangeshkar (MD – Salil Chowdhury, Lyricist – Shailendra), from ‘De Beegha Zameen’ (1953)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HuNCbL38eUw

    ‘Ja ri ja ja, nindiya ja’ by Lata Mangeshkar & Madhubala Zaveri (MD – C.Ramchandra, Lyricist – Rajendra Krishan), from ‘Jhanjhar’ (1953)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ys5JwqejFc0

  427. Ashwinji
    You are truly great. Despite being involved in a close fight to overtake, you post more comments here to widen the gap. It deserves a reward. I am posting a very poor limerick in your honour.

    Ashwin were you born a Knight
    In incarnation aeons back by divine right
    Losing lead in tight fight
    Noble soul thou art despite your plight

  428. Mumbaikar8 @618,
    Was this your first retraction in life? If you are either a hater or a bhakt you would be always consistent. But if you are objective you will be appreciating some things and critising some other things. That may appear inconsistent, but in this avatar he is good.

    The last point. I have already felicitated Ashwin for touching the tape first. Thereafter, one may do हवा में तलवारबाज़ी, but that is not counted.

    @620,
    Saare chirag gul kar do is a nice contra to Diya jallao, jagmag jagmag diya jalaao.

    @621,
    The ‘afsana’ has become ‘haqeeqat’ for the other lady? Nice contra pair in the same film.

  429. Ranganji @ 627,

    This ‘race’ is the last thing on my mind
    So there is no question of being left behind
    AK is a good friend (though still a virtual ‘dost’)
    So all the more reason to contribute to his post
    That said, my thanks for your words so kind

    AK,

    Would you be OK if I expanded the scope of this post to cover songs in contra-ragas? By contra ragas, I am referring to ragas that are complimentary wrt their scales, for eg, Yaman and Bhairavi. To prevent the implementation of this expansion in scope from becoming too unwieldy, we can lay down the ground rules that only 1 song pair per contra raga pair can be posted. Come to think of it, this exercise will result in only a handful of such raga-pairs for Hindustani Music but many, many more for Carnatic Music.

  430. mumbaikar8 @ 618,

    I do not much care
    That you have likened me to a hare
    But by doing so quite knowingly
    You have likened AK to a tortoise unwittingly
    To a man of his calibre, this is not fair

  431. Ashwin @624,
    This link has longer and clearer Raga Bahar in the end:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=snu9-3Ickw0

    The key is check out the audio links if the video link is not good. This cover version is also very good.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kukG1K-Y3cs

    Now about your question ‘Auron ki rain andheri/ Par hai mera din bhi andhera‘. Since his vision is impaired it will be dark for him day and night. Had the poet thought of ‘dark outside, but shining inside’, something like visual impairment enhancing his inner faculties, that would be a clearer contra according to me.

    @625,
    So Kaanoton se kheench ke ye aanchal is double intra-contra song? And what about ‘Apne hi bas mein hanin main/ Dil hai kahin to hun kahin main‘? Dr Shetty can confirm, it is not possible to have the person live somewhere and send away her dil somewhere else. Should we create a new category of ‘Impossible songs’? Let us put it as a hat-trick infra-contra song.

    @626,
    Nice pair of lori and anti-lori.

  432. AK @ 628
    First retraction in life.
    I consider myself right until “proven” otherwise.
    Do you think this is the first time I have been proved wrong?
    At this age?
    Hypothetically, if it was first time, I would have sent you a quiet personal email and retracted wouldn’t have done so in public.
    AK you have good knack of explaining I am atrocious.
    I did not mean his political inclination when I said inconsistent, I meant the quality of his shows.

  433. Ashwin@630
    You can refer to AK @ 267 why I avoid smileys with comments.
    I would put it as “lack of ability” on my part to explain things .
    Let me make it simple. It was a joke.
    Ak knows, understands and tolerates (you can pick your choice of verb) me.
    He was kind to me even before we had met, having met
    few times now, he understands me better.
    You are not the first one to feel that I am unfair to Ak, there have many instances before and probably there will many more if AK doesn’t lose his patience and blocks me out.

  434. Ashwin @630,
    Could contra-raga also mean, say, vaadi, samvaadi exchanged, other notes remaining the same? A perfect example would be Bhopali/Deshkar, but they are explained as similar, almost indistinguishable ragas. Or ragas of very contra moods, such as Marwa and Kafi? But this would be appreciated by only the four music scholars on the group.

    However, it is a nice theme for an independent series on classical music by you and Subodh. Both of you have the knack to present it in a manner accessible to lay readers.

  435. Ashwin @ 630,

    I am disappointed that you have used ‘complimentary’ when you should have used ‘complementary’. I thought you knew the difference.

    AK @ 631,

    Thanks a ton for the audio link! As for the Ramabhadrans’ cover version, I simply love it but I had not included it because I usually refrain from citing cover versions, however good they are. I agree with your verdict on ‘auron ki to rain andheri/par hai mera din bhi andhera’. But would ‘deep jalaaye, deep bujhaaye’ of the Bahar portion qualify as intra-contra?

    Great suggestion wrt ‘Impossible’ songs. Maybe ‘SoY Believe It or Not’ on the lines of ‘Ripley’s Believe It or Not’ would be a better choice. It has the ring of ‘SaReGaMa TVS’ to it, too!

    AK @ 634,

    Yes, your 1st idea makes sense. Moods can be very subjective and arbitrary even, so I would not venture there.

  436. Ashwin @ 635,

    This is from the Ashwin who wrote @ 629. Your 630 @ 635 should have been 629. Looks like you went blindly by the Comment # referred to by AK @ 634. Please verify and validate before you write something.

    mumbaikar8 @ 633,

    Reading your response made me rue the fact that I had not attached a 🙂 at the end of my limerick @ 630.

    AK,

    You must be wondering why Ashwin is writing to Ashwin (like ‘Karthik calling Karthik’). It is just that I am conversing with my alter ego. This is a device that is popular in Hindi movies. Will songs in which one is addressing oneself count as contra songs?

  437. Ashwin,
    Firstly you are unfair in chastising Ashwin. All the electronic devices have become so smart that they auto-correct, prompt words, making the wrong word the default choice. Blame the device which has become too intelligent. Earlier we were told that computers are idiots, I think they are better that way. If you are into AI, this is a warning for you; make classical music your full-time profession.

    Your last query. I am aware of only Sab kuchh luta ke hosh mein aye to kya hua. I think I had given some nomenclature for such songs in my post on ‘Surrogate song’. But a better name would be ‘Ashwin chastising Ashwin Songs’.

  438. Ashwin you make feel like an idiot now.
    I should have known better.
    @ 615 when AK retreated to his bunker’s chhaon
    I thought disengagement will be followed by all.
    Now I know I was wrong

  439. Contrast on Vada

    1 gajab kiya tere vaade pe aitbaar kiya – Rafi – KhayyAm
    https://youtu.be/ZkQYUh9RLr8
    2 gajab kiya tere Wade pe – Mehdi Hasan
    https://youtu.be/gRvAN3e9JBg

    These two are contrasts in terms of compositions
    Rafi’s version is a delicate expression of disappointment while Mehendi Hasan’s is an aggressive anger
    & In terms of lyrics the contrast to this gazal is
    O mere raja – JNM-Rajinder Krishan- KA
    https://youtu.be/StJ2pbZkyDI
    Where stunning Hema pleads with Charming Dev
    Der se aayi, dur se vaayi
    Phir bhi maine wada to nibhyaya
    While in Daag’s gazal the Shayar waited for eternity
    Tamam umra bhar
    Kayamat ka intejar kiya

  440. Mr S Joseph @639, 640, 641, 642, 643,
    In these songs intra-contra is clear.

    @644,
    Samajhanewaale samajh gaye, na smajhe wo anadi hai – The intra-contra is a little week. Had it been the same set of people understanding or not understanding depending on the context, it would have been an unambiguous intra-contra.

  441. Mumbaikar8 @645,
    Tasveer teri dil mein jis din se utari hai is a clear celebration of joy at installing her ‘tasveer’ in his ‘dil’. Ae dil meri aahon mein also has the same value for ‘tasveer’ and the hero prays for such power in his sighs that his beloved’s ‘tasveer’ is sighted. I would not put it as a contra song.

  442. Mr Muli @646,
    I must say I am impressed by your higher order analysis. I focus more on the first order fits.

  443. ‘…insaf tera dekha ai saqi -e- maykhana ham baithe rahe pyase chhalka kiya chhalka kiya paimana…’ ; may fit in as intra contra…

    ‘ Insaaf tera dekha…’/1961 / SHAMA / Ghulam Mohammad / Suman

    https://youtu.be/ysQXvRJER_g

  444. Mr.S Joseph @ 654 , AKji, Venkatraman ji, Ashwin ji ;

    Thanks for reminding this beautiful raag based song ….‘ Dhadakte dil ki…’/ 1961 / SHAMA .

    In Gurubani shabad kirtan I have in store a beautiful shabad which is based on same raag and is intra contra too .

    Bhai Dalbir singh ji Darash Tere Ki Pyas Man Laggi…Bhai Dalbir Singh

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pVXcgKBKczA

  445. AKji, Venkatraman ji, Ashwin ji ;

    Some intra contra songs…oldies are melodies…

    Kya Mil Gaya Hai Kya Kho Gaya | Mohammed Rafi, Lata Mangeshkar | Sasural 1961…SJ

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9QYS_MZK58M

    Kal Ki Daulat Aaj Ki – Dev Anand – Asli Naqli – Rafi – Shankar Jaikishan

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iuyi-5NbIoE

    KABHI RAAT DIN HUM DOOR THAY – AAMNE SAAMNE 1967 – LATA & RAFI…KA

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4QnDemS73gs

    …to be contd.

  446. Mr. Joseph @ 654 , AKji, Venkatraman ji, Ashwin ji ;

    Thanks for posting of beautiful raag based song…Dhadakte dil ki…’/ 1961 / SHAMA .

    In Gurubani shabad kirtan , I have in store one beautiful intra contra shabad by Bhai Dalbir Singh ji based on same raag . Just listen and get blessed…

    Bhai Dalbir singh ji ……..Darash Tere Ki Pyas Man Laggi…

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pVXcgKBKczA

  447. What a shame. Once I was hailed as co-reviver of this post and now I am posting after more than a month. I last posted on June 15, comment 327. I have never so forgotten one of my favourite topics, unless I got wholly busy and disappeared like RaGa.

    On my return, I would first tackle the skirmish on ‘Nain diwane’.
    ‘There should be no need for a complex reasoning to relate a song to a theme.’ (370), said AK and at 377 Muliji endorsed him. Till then Mumbaikar8 had not given even a reasoning, leave alone complex. She gave her reasons at 373, and I wholly agree that song fits the intra-contra situation.

    On seeing this an incident came to my mind, when I was working in Deptt of Official Languages. A friend of mine who was for more than 3 years in the same room and knew I used to do noting in English, came to visit me and finding me working in Hindi asked me how could I do that. I said this is our mother tongue. He replied that Hindi was tough language. I said it has become habit for us to go for dictionary when finding a tough word in English, but as soon as we find a tough word in Hindi, we exclaim ‘kitni mushkil bhasha hai’ without trying to learn it.

    The same thing is being repeated here. Muliji at 390 posted a Shakeel ghazal sung by Begum Akhtar as an intra contra. The wording use there is no less tough. But Urdu is propagated as an ornamental language and it is our sacred duty to look in dictionary the meanings of tough words. Here I may tell that I love Urdu and as my father was an Urdu scholar, I have learnt to understand a lot of this language without recourse to dictionary, but still I keep a dictionary. I know for sure that AK has a love for Hindi literature and can understand very tough Hindi poetry. But, from his comment 424 I gather he has not listened to the song with proper attention. At 411 he just explained the situation of the sing. The song is all about the mann and there are no birds or flowers in it. If they are mentioned, they are as similes. This song is very close to my heart. I can not praise it more except say that this song is a feather in the cap of the lyricist, the composer and the singer. Narender Sharma has depicted beautifully the state of the heart which is in love, without using any eloquent wording. The song has, for me, more than one intra contra points, much clearer than some of the songs for which intra-contra situation has been accepted by AK.

  448. Now I will post three contra songs on ‘takrana’, which have been haunting my mind since long time. I rarely post intr-contra songs, because a lyrics buff like me can take something intra-contra in almost every song. To make others understand my intra-contra would create situation like ‘nain deewane’. All the songs are written by Shakeel and composed by Naushad.

    First is ‘jab dil se dil takrata hai’ by Rafi from Sunghursh. I like listening to the audio of this song, because the video forces me to think ‘jab budha dil jawaan dil se takrata hai’ and the beauty of the lyrics is likely to be lessened.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbqyf75dES0

    In the second song the situation is reversed. Dilip Kumar is young and is singing love songs to a heroine, whom hardly anyone would call beautiful and to make matters worse she is torturing him so he has to sing ‘takra gaya tumse dil hi to hai’. Singer is Rafi, film is Aan.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DC75s39i91g

    In the third song the singer is hoping that ‘kabhi dil dil se takrata to hoga’. Singer is Mukesh and film is Anokhi Ada.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8j9Yyg_ilxM

  449. There were contra songs on ‘khidki’ but nobody mentioned ‘thandi thandi sawan ki fuhar’ by Asha – film Jaagte Raho. The song is picturised on Sumitra Devi, one of the most perfect and beautiful faces in hfm, for whom nobody wrote any article.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2xoafD9iKrY

    Another song on khidki ‘aa meri jaan laga le mujhko gale, varna de dunga jaan teri khidki tale’. Was she asking for the khidki to be closed for the fear of this lover.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TqLyBaW9kZI

  450. Hans ji @ 662
    If my understanding is right ordinarily a person should do something & then say tauba but occasionally there are persons who do tauba & then perform the tauba act( humne bhi unko chup chup ke aate dekha in galiyo me)
    But considering that it is jaani I would presume that aaj is darza would have come first especially he would be hoping that ilzaam kisi aur ke sir jayega

  451. AK, 648
    dil ke ā.īne meñ hai tasvīr-e-yār
    jab zarā gardan jhukā.ī dekh lī
    This sher is the basic idea of the song of Tasverr teri dil me.
    Even it was a long distant song it would be full of joy while the other song the hero sighs for his beloved’s tasveer .
    That is the contrast.
    “jab zarā gardan jhukā.ī dekh lī”
    Just like, a devotee in this time of corona sighing away “oh I cannot visit temples to get darshan”, while
    the other would close eyes and get saksat darshan.
    One “dil ke ā.īne meñ hai tasvīr-e-yār “ type song from Fareb
    more man me sama
    https://youtu.be/9mcp6osdHhk

  452. Tasveer teri dil mein jis din se utari hai – Is this a long distance song? In the video link Dev Anand and Mala Sinha are looking at each other and coming nearer. However, I can see your philosophical reading in the last part. I have to accept it, especially after powerful of Hans for your Nain deewane.

  453. Muliji @ 663
    Jaani would say to both of us, “Jaani, tum hamen badnaam karne ki koshish kar rahe ho. Par chalo sharaabi bata kar bhi tumne hamen yaad to kiya”.

    @ 646
    Though songs with words like ‘gazab kiya tera wade pe aitbaar kiya’ hardly have the possibility of getting an exact contra song, but there is one. ‘Ye na thi hamari kismat ke visale yaar hota’ does have the lines
    Tere wade par jiye hum to ye jaan jhooth jana,
    ke khushi se mar na jaate agar aitbaar hota.’
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4hw6tKjEk_8

    And there was also a ‘seedha saada banda’ who was ‘maara gaya’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=azgIsRAInVw

  454. Mumbaikar8
    ‘more man men sama gaye aise piya
    jahan nain jhuke wahin dekh liya’

    Well connected. What a sweet song.
    Though Dev Anand was satisfied with tasveer of Mala Sinha, for Sadhana he wanted to make a ‘but’ and for Nutan he even made a ghar just opposite her ghar.

  455. Hans ji
    Ye na thi hamari kismat is a perfect contra for gazab Kiya in the context of the lines quoted by you.
    But in vaada Tera vaada, Kaka knows her inside out . In the opening lines itself he says jhutha hai Tera vaada & then goes on to submit vaade pe tere mara gaya. Intra-contra as well as harakiri.

  456. I wanted to post two songs, but just clicked submit by mistake.

    There was this buddy who refused to give a tasveer and his friend joined him in refusing. Perhaps he was also a votary of seeing the ‘tasveer gardan jhuka ke’.
    ‘Meri tasveer lekar kya karoge’ – Rafi, Balbir, Asha – Samundar.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNYwneo08xQ

    These two have only seen the tasveer and can not make out what kind of person the other would be. ‘Ye zulf kaisi hai’ – Rafi and Lata from Piya Ka Ghar.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ekKboaSX8tE

  457. Mr Joseph @650,
    Mast aankhon mein sharaarat kabhi aisi to na thi – ‘Shama’ (1961) – ‘The wayward eyes were never so naughty‘. Naughtiness is a characteristic of wayward eyes. Explanation needed for intra-contra.
    @651,
    Dil gham se jal raha hai phir bhi dhuan na ho – Shama – Very nice intra-contra song.
    @652,
    Ek jurm karke humne…Marne na de mohabbat jeene na de zamana – Shama – Beautiful song by Suman Kalyanpur and very nice contra.
    @653,
    Mere mehboob tujhe..pyar karun ya na karun – Shama – The lady is conflicted what to do. Nice intra-contra.
    @654,
    Dhadakate dil ki tamannaon..Mujhe qaraar nahin jab se beqaraar hai tu – Shama – Both are beqaraar. Though opposite words are used, one is with a negative. Is this an intra-contra song.
    @655,
    Insaaf tera dekha ae saaqi-e=maikhana/Hum baithe rahe pyase chhalka kiya paimana – Beautiful mujra song by Suman Kalyanpur and a very nice intra-contra song. Heard for the first time. Thanks for posting it. You have churned nectar thoroughly from Shama (1961). Great effort.

    @664,
    Do chamakati aankhon min kal khwab sunahra tha jitna/ Haye zindagi teri raahon mein aaj andhera hai utna – ‘Detective’ (1958). Nice intra-contra song.

  458. KS Bhatiaji @656, 658,
    Daras tere ki pyas man mein laagi is beautiful shabad. It has uncanny similarity with Dhadakate dil ki tamannaon. Since Guru Granth Sahib also mentions ragas for each Gurubani, this has to be an older composition than the film song from Shama (1961). Experts may please throw light on this.

  459. @Hans 659,
    You have made a powerful re-entry. On Nain deewane, after the stalwarts have entered the arena I have nothing more to say.

    @660,
    I liked your explanation of the subtle difference between three songs on takrana.

    @661,
    If you include Shaam dhale khidki tale tum seeti bajana chhod do, it is a perfect contra to ..De dungi jaan khidki tale.

  460. There are a number of songs praising the motherland. But a song praising a foreign country may be rare. But Biswajeet is doing the same in ‘jee lagta nahin apna in desi nazaron men’ from Pyar Ka Sapna.
    https://youtu.be/gepFh89Mf48

    As a contra I present a song from Prithvi Vallabh. ‘Panchhi ud chal apne desh’ sung by Menaka and Rafiq Ghaznavi.
    https://youtu.be/WIRVKmhWt6w

  461. Hans @ 667
    Yeh nathi hamari qismat is perfect contra of ghazab kiya tere vaade pe aitbaar kiya

    Mr. Muli @ 46 AK @ 408
    You are vexed about do akele and hum akele and AK was discussing bhhed ke beech akela what would say to this “do dilon ka caravan”

    Apart from that this Manna Dey Anil Biswas beauty was hidden from me. I just checked Jignesh had posted it , but I somehow missed it.
    Do Sitare-1951-Manna Dey-Ik Do Dilon Ka Kafila
    https://youtu.be/LOBlK_MxqDU

  462. Hans ji @674;

    Both …‘jee lagta nahin apna in desi nazaron men’ from Pyar Ka Sapna and

    ‘Panchhi ud chal apne desh’ from Prithvi Vallabh are new to me and are contra feeling songs …..a great listening . One more song contra to Pyar Ka Sapna song could be ….

    Yun Nind Se Vo Jaan E Chaman | Kishore Kumar | Dard Ka Rishta | Rahul Dev Burman | Anand Bakshi…

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VmcHnVC2H8c

  463. AK ji @672 ;

    Yourself…..

    …….Since Guru Granth Sahib also mentions ragas for each Gurubani, this has to be an older composition than the film song from Shama (1961). ……

    Very true . The raag is specifically indicated before Shabad gurubani in Granth Sahib . However depending upon the season some reciters choose other raags and that seems to be OK .

    Some composers Like Jagjit Singh have their own tunes for certain shabad kirtans . For this particular Shabad ….Daras tere ki pyaas…here is his version…

    Daras Tere Ki Pyaas Mann Laagi with Lyrics |दरस तेरे की प्यास मन्न लागी|Jagjit Singh|Guru Nanak

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=69NUPhr5y4Q&t=164s

  464. Hans @662,
    Lat me try to answer your chicken and egg question. In Aaj is darja pila de the barmaid complies with the customer’s demand as far as possible. But she is also a responsible person, and at some stage she tries to persuade Raj Kumar that this endless drinking will destroy him, and finally puts a full stop. Raj Kumar is cognizant of his problem and sings the second song, Jitni likhi thi muqaddar mein hum utni pi chuke.

    @674,
    Chal ud ja re panchhi ki ab ye desh hua begana seems to be a perfect contra to Panchhi ud chal apne desh

  465. Mr Joseph @675,
    Kisi na kisi se kahin na kahin kabhi na kabhi dil lagana padega: Shammi Kapoor is on top of the world, for him ‘dil ka lagana’ is an inevitability. Is duniya mein ae dilwaalo dil ka lagana khel nahin: In this song Shyam must have suffered some setback in the ‘khel’ of ‘dil ka lagana’ and sings this song in a pensive mood as a warning to others. Nice contra pair.

  466. Mumbaikar8 @679,
    Ek do dilon ka kafila: How many you need to make a ‘kafila’? If you try to define precisely anything more than one is a ‘kafila’.

  467. AK ji, Hans ji, Mumbaikar Ji, Venkatraman ji :

    Some time happiness has to be balanced by sadness . If darkness is a measure of sadness then Happiness is largely a measure of Brightness…which is largely by choice.

    Contra songs makes me think twice ….how I am going to orient my self to sadness when I am too happy!!

    dil mein sama gaye sajan..Lata_Rajinder K_Sajjad Hussain_Sangdil1952

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WyJBkxQKQPA

    Hyderabad Ki Nazneen – Nazron Mein Samane Se…Raj Kumari…Vasant Desai….

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SOzVnq2wtmA

  468. KS Bhatiaji @682,
    Thanks for the clarification and Jagjit Singh’s link for the same Shabad. I must say Bhai Dalbir Singh’s singing more.

    @686,
    Nazron mein samaane se qaraar aa na sakega: Beautiful song, heard for the first time, and perfect contra to Dil mei sama gaye sajan. Thanks for posting it.

  469. Would this pair qualify, atleast based on the contrasting mukhdas ?

    “Chhodo kal ki baatein’ by Mukesh (MD – Usha Khanna, Lyricist – Prem Dhawan), from ‘Hum Hindustani’ (1960)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZJ71CWqgvdY

    ‘Kal ke sapne aaj bhi aana’ by Lata Mangeshkar (MD – Naushad, Lyricist – Shakeel Badayuni), from ‘Aadmi’ (1968)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QbRkEAueb24

    The back-up candidate for Song #2 is

    ‘Kal ke sapne aaj bhi aana’ by Suman Kalyanpur (MD -Bulo C.Rani, Lyricist – ??), from Shri Ganesh (1962)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iolY8h_RAR4

    BTW, I think this song compares to the ‘Shabistan’ song in Ranganji’s post on Naseem Banu in that it has a voice that has not been credited and I think the voice belongs to Kamal Barot.

  470. Muliji @ 669
    Truck driver and tawaif are both slippery people, so they both know each other well. There the driver in the august company forgot to put brakes while drinking and when he went on the road, forgot putting brakes on his vehicle.

  471. AK @ 673
    Sham dhale khidki tale was mentioned by someone earlier, but in the matter of contra songs that should not be a bar, because one song can be contra to others too. So this is a perfect contra.

  472. Josephji @ 675
    Perfect contra. In ‘is duniya men’ the hero was speaking from his own experience, while in ‘kisi na kisi se’ he was raw and full of energy. But, the character in Kashmir Ki Kali stayed positive in adversity and sang ‘ye duniya usiki zamana usika’. This in fact can also be a contra to ‘is duniya men’.

    Many thanks for posting so many of my favourites during my absence. It appears our preferences are a lot similar.

  473. Mumbaikar8 @ 678
    You are still putting up rarities. This Fariyadi song I heard long time back when I made a list of Rafi songs for this year and I had almost forgotten. Pramodini Desai was given a lot of songs in this film. The rare category lyricist Muzaffar Orakjai wrote good lyrics in some songs. The Rafi solo in that film ‘jal jal ke shama ki tarah fariyad na karna, main yaad bhi aaun to mujhe yaad na karna’ can serve as a contra for some yaad rakhna songs.

    @ 679
    I dont know how but this ‘do dilon ka kafila’ brought to mind two duets.
    ‘In baharon men akele na firo’ from Mamta. Here she boasts ‘mujhko ye kali ghata rokegi kya.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vXOj7KdXGBs
    Then comes ‘tum akele to kabhi baag men jaya na karo’ from Aao Pyar Karen. And the response, she is neither boastful like nor teasing like ‘bikhra ke zulfen chaman men na jana’, but straight confronts him with the same line.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VIVZMaAolzA
    Bikhra ke zulfen from Nazrana.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C99Sw0yGQbI

    Now about ‘do dil’ and ‘duniya’.
    Ab do dilon ki muskil aasaan ho gayi hai
    duniya ko muhabbat ki pehchan ho gayi hai – Pooja Ke Phool
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VXBL2BzrsgM

    How mistaken they were. Came the duniyawalon ka badla and she was singing
    do dil toote do dil haare, duniyawalo sadke tumhare
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iRZ3OFfSPTU

  474. AK @ 685
    “If you try to define precisely anything more than one is a ‘kafila’.”
    Did you forget to use a smiley there?
    To carry it even further I would say why more than one.
    हमारे जैसों का, एक का भी काफिला होता है

  475. Bhatiaji @680
    You said it right Nazraon se nazar ka takrane is listener delight, glad I found it at the right time to post it here.
    @ 686

    Nazron ke Samane by Raj Kumari is one too.
    Would you agree with me if I say this song is a female expression of
    Tasveer teri dil mera bahla na sakengi
    https://youtu.be/D5P2iJh-Lqk

  476. Hans @ 692
    Fariyadi song just fell into my lap (literally) I was searching something and to my surprise it popped upon my laptop.
    Big Brother was Meherbaan.
    In baharon me akele na
    In fact, last few weeks I was debating with self whether In baharon me akele, can be a contra song to
    Yeh wadiyan ye fizayen bula rahi hai tumhe.
    You know how strict AK is in giving green light to my contra songs, I was reluctant.
    Now is the time to do it to take the debate to the floor.
    https://youtu.be/M1l52x3wXYw

  477. Bhatiaji @ 681
    Yes, perfect fit as AK would say it and a nice song. RDB produced very few compositions like this after SDB’s death.

    We saw this film in a cinema hall, because Sunil Dutt is a favourite of my wife and the subject was also dear to her heart, because my mother-in-law died of cancer. In fact almost all of Ajanta Arts films are watchable.

  478. AK ji;

    Congratulations on achieving another milestone . This goes to all the members who contributed untiringly . Expectations are still high for achieving maxima .

  479. Hans ji @701;

    Both Kishore and RDB deserved awards for the song from …Dard Ka Rishta . This raag based composition is amazing . In the past Asha ji sang a song based on same raag and got the filmfare award. The song….Hone lagi hai raat jawaan jagte raho…from Naina composed by Shankar Jaikishan .

  480. AK @ 683
    The situation described by you is fit. But, the sharaabis are so sensitive that if they brought a quarter and that is finished without quenching his thirst and no further quota is in ready supply, they can invoke muqaddar even for that. In fact, I had noted down this pair when the discussion on sharaabis and their contribution to our economy was going on as a result of opening of liquor shops. At that time I put ‘jitni likhi thi’ for lockdown position and the other after opening of shops. Actually, when Bansi Lal imposed darubandi in Haryana, many daruwalas had the same question ‘jitni likhi thi’ in mind when they asked ‘ab hamara kya hoga’. But soon the problem was solved when home delivery a la Gujrat started. When Bansi Lal saw police revenue has increased manifold as Govt revenue went down, he reversed his decision.

    ‘Chal ud ja re panchhi’ fits perfectly. In fact, that is the beauty of the topic. One song fits as contra to many and the searching exercise is fun and provides satisfaction too.

  481. Hans ji , AK ji ;

    Your Truck driving episode reminds me to look for Taxi Driver songs. This navketan ‘s movie had a number of beautiful and lots of variety of songs which are as fresh to dates .

    An intra contra song from Taxi Driver….

    Taxi Driver – Jaaye To Jaaye Kahan-Male version…Talat…Sahir…SDB

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0nfxxCtp6Q8

  482. AK ji,

    A few intra contra songs….hoping they are not repeats….

    दुखी मन मेरे सुन मेरा कहना #Dukhi mann mere # film FUNTOOSH…Kishore SDB

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EO5p467Yix8

    Zindagi Aaj Mere Naam Se….Rafi…. Son Of India….Naushad

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_pZA2b1mMSc&t=85s

    Na Milta Gham Toh Barbadi | Amar…Lata…Naushad

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWF1LTWEUV8

    Jawab – 1955 – Aaj Gam Kal Kushi…Rafi…Nashad

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hux2gvFVow0

  483. AK @ 685, Mumbaikar8 @ 693
    One man army was an old phrase, but for us Hindi movie fans, the ambulance accompanier AB was this. He spoke the line ‘hum jahan khade ho jate hain line wahin se shuru ho jati hai’. He would close the exit door and then beat the scum out of whatever number of people were inside. It is a different matter that one punch by Puneet Issar of Mahabharat fame landed him in hospital. Another single haddi one man army Anil Kapoor fractured his leg when he jumped from a two feet high wall during shooting. He perhaps refused the double seeing the wall was just two feet high.

    But SOY is a different matter. Look at our one man army for this post S Joseph. His recent runs 592-600, 639-644, 650-655. We are well aware of what our other claimants of one man army title KS Bhatia and Dr Shetty can achieve.

  484. Bhatiaji @ 686, Mumbaikar8 694
    Rajkumari song is great. I rate her so high for songs like this. I agree with Mumbaikar8 that this is female version of ‘tasveer teri’. Sahir used the same idea in another tasveer song ‘jo baat tujhmen hai’ from Taj Mahal. Look at the difference in the luck of the Raj Kumari song and Rafi song.

    This luck or naseeb reminded me of another 3 songs with ‘naseeb’.
    Dilip Kumar sang ‘naseeb dar pe tere’ in Deedar.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GQuDCrbsLvc

    Ajit and Manoj kumar also tried their ‘naseeb’. Let us see what they got.
    Ajit – Main khushnaseeb hoon in Tower House
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JGZ1Oj99So
    Manoj Kumar – Naseeb men jiske jo likha tha in Do Badan.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AoJ-iiWsLJA

  485. Dil ka lagana – good for some but not good for some …

    A possible contra pair…

    Here you see the happiness and merrymaking in one case and in the contra you see the heart broken …

    ‘ Hai dil laga…’ / 1971 / PREETAM / SJ / Lata

    https://youtu.be/v_tBGUzrANg

    & the possible contra

    ‘ Muft huwe Badnam…’/ 1960 / BARAAT / Chitragupt / Mukesh

    https://youtu.be/JtYiroPAOSg

  486. A possible pair in … Dil ka lagana …

    Here she says ‘ Dil na lagana ‘ as you would regret later but in the other case she says ‘…Dil lagake dekh …’ –

    ‘ Dil na lagaana dil ka lagana bahut bura … ‘/ 1954 / MISS MALA / Chitragupt / Shamshad

    https://youtu.be/B3spMuPpSOg

    & the possible contra

    (c) ‘ Thodasa dil lagake …’/ 1955 / MUSAFIRKHANA / OPN / Rafi , Shamshad

    https://youtu.be/QvH5ns1XHpE

    ( I read elsewhere that this is the only song where Mohammad Rafi did not have to say a single word in a song )

  487. Ashwin @688,
    Chhodo kal ki baatein talks of moving beyond past to a new era. Kal ke sapne aaj bhi aana from Aadmi (1968) is still nostalgic about the past. Perfect contra. Its back up with the same mukhada I heard for the first time, thanks a lot.

  488. AK @ 715,

    Thanks for the approval of my contra entry!!! As for the back-up song, it had been shared by KS Bhatiaji in a comment on the Dreams post and that was when I got to hear it first.

  489. AK,

    Congratulations on the 700 milestone!
    I say that with an admiring tone
    Since you do not appear to be intimidated
    By the flood of comments which continues unabated
    Unlike me who to fatigue is prone

  490. Mumbaikar8 @ 695
    The reluctance on your part was unnecessary. One is calling her to go to nature and other is cautioning her, so it is easily a contra song.

    After posting ‘do dil’ contra I searched songs of Do Dil again. There is an old favourite of mine which could explain why the hero was stropping the heroine from going to the baag. When she went to the baag was caught by something which created this song ‘kanton men phansa anchal’ and the hero also suffered because he lost his dil.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NRGABMaxGtU

  491. AKji
    Will this qualify as a contra.
    Two extremely contrasting levels of confidence
    1 Wo na aayege palatkar unhe lakh hum manaye – Devdas- Mubarak begum – Sahir – SDB
    https://youtu.be/vnabuaQy2qE

    2 tere Sur aur mere geet- Goonj Uthi Shenai-Bharat Vyas- Vasant Desai
    Mujhko agar bhool jaoge tum
    Mujhse agar rooth jaaoge tum
    Meri mohobat me tasir hai
    To khhechke mere pas aaoge tum
    https://youtu.be/ljG6atDKyxo

  492. First to reach the 700 mark.
    Congartulations Akj.
    Posting a pair of contra ,
    Bahut shukriya badee meherbanee
    Meree jindagee me hujur aap aaye
    Kadam chum lu ya ke aankhe bicha du
    Karun kya yeh meree samaj me na aaye
    Ek Musafir Ek Hasina (1962)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uHKt5GX7Am4
    Mujhe Dard-e-Dil Ka Pata Na Tha
    Mujhe Aap Kis Liye Mil Gaye
    Main Akele Yun Hi Maje Mein Tha
    Mujhe Aap Kis Liye Mil Gaye
    Aakash Deep (1965)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r98PY_lPeR4

  493. Mumbaikar8 @693,
    I defined ‘kafila’ as more than one in a matter-of-fact manner. It is possible that an enlightened soul sees the entire universe within himself/herself. So you deserve a salute, not a smiley! Hans has endorsed you without going to metaphysical plane, and in a very practical manner – ‘One man army’ which is itself a perfect contra to ‘भीड़ के बीच अकेला’

    @695,
    Ye wadiyan ye fizayen bula rahI hain humein‘ the vista is beckoning you. In In bahaaron mei akele na phiro is an advisory against venturing there (due to the dangers). Perfect contra. A contra is a contra whoever posts it. 🙂

  494. Mr S Joseph @696,
    Mujhe tumse mohabbat hai magar main kah nahin sakta: We have accepted ‘To be or not to be’ as intra-contra songs.

    @697,
    Tujhe kho diya humne paane ke baad, tere jaane ke baad teri yaad ayi: This is a beautiful Naushad composition and a perfect intra-contra song.

    @698,
    Tumhare pyar mein humbeqaraar ho ke chale/ Shikar karne ko aye shikar ho ke chale: Perfect intra-contra song.

    @699,
    Do din ki mohabbat mein humne kuchh khoya hai kuchh paya hai: Nice intra-contra song.

    @708,
    Kabhi hai gham kabhi khushiyan: Perfect intra-contra. Other lines too are intra-contra.

    @712,
    Haye dil laga to aisa laga, charcha gali gali: We presume by Mumtaz’s exuberance that the charcha is not slanderous. Thus Muft huye badnaam becomes a perfect contra song.

    @713,
    Di na lagana bahut bura and Thoda sa dil laga ke dekh is a nice contra pair. Rafi’s yodelling is excellent. There are many duets in which one singer only hums, I am not sure if this is Rafi’s only one of the kind.

    @714,
    Dil lagakar aapse pachhataya may be considered a weak intra-contra. Because every song of failure in love would fall in this category.

  495. Joseph ji ;

    Thanks for the melody….Haye dil laga to aisa laga, charcha gali gali….. This song we used to play during our college days. Three students of our institute were perfect in playing Piano accordion , Harmonica and Guitar . A bunch of students perfected their skills in playing Drums, Bongos , flutes etc . The Music club was fantastic and we used to bring 90 percent of trophies and prizes . I I T delhi had some great auditoriums , both open and closed, to perform with right acoustics . The above melody took me back to old golden days.

  496. Ms. mumbaikar 8 @ 723;

    The song …Dil Ka Na Karna Aitbar Koi – Halaku…is again a perfect one ; needless to say it is my favorite song of my favorite film . Pran was fantastic in his make up very close to Halaku character . This song makes a good contra song with …Dil Ne Ye Kaha Hai Dil Se (Dhadkan).

    I am working on another song contra to Halaku song…will post when found.

  497. AK ji;

    One man Army ! Well I am of the opinion …we should declare Five man Army or Gang of Four .

    The contributions have never been like this. …and still it is going on . The graph is like Parabola refusing its touch down on X axis .

  498. After ‘duniya’ and ‘do dil’ we go to ‘duniya’ and ‘deewar’. Two high grade songs from low grade films picturised on heroines of such films Sonia Sahni and Helen.

    ‘Ban gayi deewar duniya aa nahin sakte,
    pake tera pyar tujhko pa nahin sakte.’ – Lata – Johar in Kashmir.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x6RVgPtr5Jg&t=73s
    ‘Hum pyar kiye jayenge koi rok sake to rok le,
    chahe ye duniya deewar bane, ya maut gale ka haar bane
    hum phir bhi unhen chahenge koi rok sake to rok le.’ – Aaya Toofan – Lata.
    The idea behind the song and its picturisation reminds me of ‘pyar kiya to darna kya’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8or3FQIGEr0

  499. Continuing with dushman.
    ‘Mere dushman tu meri dosti ko tarse’ is a well known song. He is summarily cursing his lover.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ClOyNlOzBRQ

    ‘Ae dushman e jaan chal diya kahan’ is the call Mumtaz is giving to Manoj kumar in Patthar Ke Sanam.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWyi9HWEAyE

    There was a dosti and dushmani relationship, though in jest, between Mehmood and Shobha Khote with funny picturisation in Bharosa.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GWx8gSFV9fg

    And here Mumtaz calls Rajesh Khanna a ‘dushman jo doston se pyara hai’
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LIkkKBhtvCY

  500. ‘ ye sach hai ae jaha waalo humein jina nahi aaya, mare ham sau baar jite ji magar marna nahi aaya…’

    This may fit under intra contra songs

    ‘ Yeh sachh hai…’/ 1959 / KAL HAMARA HAI / Chitragupt / Rafi

    https://youtu.be/ORxxLYTHT_g

  501. Ashwin @717,
    Thanks for your compliments. If it is a milestone, the credit goes to MR Joseph and other readers. Now readers will decide when to stop. Nice limerick (I will not make my poor attempt).

  502. Mr Muli @719,
    Wo na ayenge palat kar unhein laakh hum bulayein – He will not come back however I may call him.
    There is so much power in my love that he would come drawn towards me.
    A perfect contra pair.

  503. Venkataramanji @720,
    I am grateful that you came to my life. The second song says, I was so happy with myself, why did you have to come across me? Perfect contra pair.

    Thanks for your compliments. The readers do not seem to be relenting. There must be several more contra songs.

  504. Mumbaikar8 @723,
    You have rightly mentioned Mr Joseph for pushing this one. So congratulations to him. Your two songs are very good contra pair.

  505. KS Bhatiaji @727,
    The Gang of Four or the Five Men Army must be feeling very happy at their success. My compliments too to everyone.

  506. Bhatiaji @726
    Halaku had good music, I have not seen the movie. I think I should start seeing some black and white movies.
    I am curious now. Are you looking for another contra of the same song or other song from Halaku?

    Hans @730
    In Mere dushman he is cursing lover by calling her “dushman” but here blatantly he is saying
    Awaaz hai yeh pyar ki tadponge ko muskaonga, tadpa hoon to tadpaonga.
    Yeh kaisa pyar hai?
    Andhakar~1955~Awaaz Hai Ye Pyar Ki Tadpoge To Muskaoonga~Mukesh
    It has khwab in antara, but I do not want to burden Ashwin with new comments. He is working very hard to clear the backlog
    https://youtu.be/egAAUxQ33b0

  507. Ms. mumbaikar @ 744;

    Yes. Contra to Halaku song….Dil ka na karna aitbaar koyi…could be….

    Dil to Hai Dil Dil Ka Aitbaar Kya Kijiye – Maqadar Ka Sikandar…Lata..

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ikOjyS3ghr0

    My catchment area for classic movies are surely of B & W era. I am not tired of Watching such movies unless they belong to musicals of colour era too. Last week I enjoyed a masterfully directed Oscar winner of 1941 movie…How green was my valley… a must watch for down to art movie goers.

  508. In the first song she asks him to say everything to her . In the second he says it all to her …

    Perhaps a possible contra pair …

    (There may be better pairing songs)

    ‘ Agar mujhse mohabbat…’/ 1964 / AAP KI PARCHHAIYAN / MM / Lata

    https://youtu.be/gfDf-IrA5oQ

    & the possible contra

    ‘ Tujhe kya sunaoon…’/ 1958 / AAKHRI DAO / MM / Rafi

    https://youtu.be/xERzvRZVK3M

  509. This song also refers to Sapna .

    Here the two who are travelling together do not agree with each other .

    A possible intra contra …

    ‘ Duniya yeh kahati…’/ 1957 / MISS BOMBAY / Hansraj Behl / Rafi , Suman

    https://youtu.be/oNIT0nK9iDw

  510. Meena Kumari playing a ‘kaali ladki’ opposite Dharmendra, sings this classic song which is natural in the situation. ‘Krishna o kale krishna’ from Main Bhi Ladki Hoon.
    https://youtu.be/DH9YfoQk_RI

    Mehmood is carefree about his colour in Gumnaam flaunting his quality of ‘dilwala’ to balance. ‘Hum kale hain to kya hua’.
    https://youtu.be/ILgrhR9rjyM

    But what has happened to Nutan. She is ready to exchange her gora ang with shyam rang. ‘Mora gora ang lai lai’ from Bandini.
    https://youtu.be/G_kC682uats

  511. Hans @728,
    I am sorry I am catching up with your comments after two days. In the first song there is resigned acceptance of the wall created by the world. In the second song, The lady does not care whether the world becomes a wall or a death necklace. Perfect contra.

    @729,
    In the first song the lover seeks mitigation for love’s enemy by wishing for him a loving heart. In the second song, he does not care if the world is enemy of love. A good contra pair.

    @730,
    Your explanation of the lyrics of all the songs is superb.

    @731,
    Gham ka fasana ban gaya achcha: You have connected it superbly to Samjhauta ghamon se kar lo and Gham uthane ke liye main to jiye jaaunga.

    @732,
    In Pyar ki dastan tum suno to kahein, there is a fear how he will take it and, therefore, she is seeking his prior consent. In Jo humne daastan apni sunayi aap kyun royein the deed is already done with some unexpected result. Is this a contra or convergence somewhere that narrating the story of her love may not lead to happy consequences?

    @733,
    Mohabbat zinda rahti hai/ Guzre hain aaj ishq mein is a nice contra pair.

    @750,
    Very nice set of songs and excellent explanation of the underlying contra.

  512. Mr S Joseph @ 734,
    Le chala jidhar.. Jo saath waqt ke chala wo mard hai, jo rah gaya wo raaste ki gard hai: One who moves with time is brave, one who stays put becomes dust of the road. Nice intra-contra.

    @735,
    Nice description of contradictions of Bombay city. I think most Bombay songs show this character of the city, the most hard-hitting being the iconic, Ye hai Bambai meri jaan.

    @736,
    Zindagi mein pyar karna seekh le, jisko jeena hai wo marna seekh le: This is a copybook intra-contra, learn to die if you want to live.

    @737,
    Nice intra-contra on the theme of jeena-marna.

    @738
    Aaj apna ho na ho kal hamara hai is a weak contra unlike Zindagi mein pyar karna seekh le, jisko jeena hai wo marna seekh le.

    @747,
    In the first song the lady asks him to give away all his sorrows to her, in the next song the hero does not consider it necessary, his condition is evident to her. Nice contra.

    @748,
    Paise ka kya yakeen, kabhi hai ye to kabhi nahin: You might stretch it to intra-contra.

    @749,
    Mere peechhe baithi hai: You can stretch to intra-contra.

  513. KS Bhatiaji @746,
    Perhaps you are referring to the interlude music and dance where Raj Kapoor and everybody is dancing joyously. We had thought of this theme in relation to lyrics. But I understand your point. Barsaat (1949) had similar happy-sad composition in Patli kamar hai tirchhi nazar hai.

  514. Akji @ 743,

    ‘The Gang of Four or the Five Men Army must be feeling very happy at their success. My compliments too to everyone.’

    I f you consider both the articles running in tandem, and exclude the authors contribution in the comments section, it is actually ‘Seven Super Heroes’. And two of them are relatively new comers.

    If at all any article can divert the attention from these chart-buster article, it should be on Md. Rafi. Or any other similar article is on the anvil?

  515. Neend, Karawate etc
    1 Yaad me teri jag jag ke hum – Mere Mehboob – Shakeel – Naushad
    He & she unable to sleep & so depressed that
    ab sitare bhi kam nikalte hai
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r0wc0IUJ5WY
    2 Karawate badalate rahe – Aap Ki Kasam – AB – RDB
    Same pinch as in 1 but he comforting her
    gam na karo din judai ke bahot hai kum
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G6pt7nij6WQ
    3 Umra Jalawo me basar ho – Khamosh Dehlavi – Jagjeet sing
    He does not care
    Neend to dard ke bistar pe bhi aa sakati hai
    unki aagosh me sar ho ye jarorri to nahi
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=58nVjj-pTR8

  516. Bhatiaji @ 703
    RDB and KK thought the awards they gave themselves as the best awards. BTW, RDB got the FF award for 1983 for Sanam Teri Kasam, despite Nikaah and Baazar being in the nominees.

    @704
    What a song it is. The song is in itself intra-contra. Look at this antara.
    ‘aag lage aisi aag ko haye,
    jiske dekhe se koi jal jaye,
    aisi shamma ka parwana na bane.’

    The second line of the mukhda of the song says ‘teere nazar ka nishana na bane’ and the first line has the word ‘deewana’. If we listen to the song ‘teer khate jayenge aansoo bahate jayenge’ from Deewana – 1952, it would appear that the title of the film was picked from the first line and the song mukhda was written as a perfect contra for the second line. And beauty is that both are sad songs.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6oiaSK0ukAY

    And again pops up a third sad song as contra to the part of the mukhda ‘aansoo bahate jayenge’ from the mukhda of the Deewana song. The singer would not let you shed tears. ‘Dil jalta hai to jalne de’ from Pehli Nazar.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sC8zsY5ywvk

    @706
    Dev Anand in Taxi Driver was confused where to go, but Shammi Kapoor is just indifferent in Bluff Master when he lip-syncs ‘ae dil ab kahin le ja’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=znNJoXP25BY

    When I was very young, I used to decipher the above song as ‘ae dil ab kahin na ja’. In accordance with that spirit Shammi Kapoor’s brother Shashi Kapoor says ‘tum bin jaun kahan’ even while singing the sad version.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PZwoyWODUtE

  517. Muliji @ 711
    The Do Raaste song is my favourite and I had it in mind, but I wanted to post just 3 like ‘takrana’ songs.

  518. Hans ji @761;

    Thanks for extension of these beautiful serial contra songs. Our hearts are really tuned to pick best of the songs in our memory banks. Whenever I listen to such songs my imagination goes to your friend and my real brother Inderjit Singh Bhatia….whom I miss a lot. He was the encyclopedia of sad songs. Whenever we listen to…Koi kisi ka dewana na bane….next on the list was…tum kya jaano tumahre pyar mein hum kitna roye.

    Those were the days when happy, sad and romantic songs had equal shares in class listening road . Though we have highways now but class is missing. Listening to instrumentals is a great relief today.

    Sanam Teri Kasam was the remake of the great Shammi Kapoor Asha Parekh movie…Dil Deke Dekho . Reena Roy I think produced the Sanam Teri Kasam . DDD was for ahead of this copy in entertainment and music.

  519. Ms.mumbaikar8 @759;

    Bahaye chand ne aansoo zamana chandni samjha….and…muskurati hui chandani albeli lala …..are perfect contra songs and are favorite of mine . Re visiting such songs brings more songs of those eras to your delighted bank of songs.

    I was thinking of one duet song …well of same era…but not connected to the theme.

    Bhare Hain Aankh Men Aansu | Sara Jahan Hamara…Asha, Mukesh….Babul

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lg98FbsARqk

  520. Josephji @ 712 to 714 has posted some great dil ka lagana songs and as usual all my favourite songs.

    The first song that came to my mind was ‘rasik balma’ from Chori Chori.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hMk-JSGH1AE

    Uma Devi sang ‘dil ko laga ke humne kuchh bhi na paya, chain ganwaya’ in Anokhi Ada.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FwqTs683lE8

    Raja Mehndi Ali Khan changed the mukhda of the above song as ‘preet laga ke maine ye phal paya, sudh budh khoyi chain ganwaya’. I am not posting that as that did not have dil ka lagana. But, in his first film Madan Mohan also sang the song which cautions ‘humse na dil ko lagana musafir’ with Shamshad.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BxQQoFgAxeU

  521. AK & AB @ 715 and 716
    The back up song posted by Bhatiaji is picturised on Malika, the sister of Mumtaz.

  522. Hansji @ 761
    I am still under the impression that it is Na Ja . In fact the lyrics site seem to be equally divided between le ja & na ja . However in the context of the situation le ja is more appropriate.
    By the way Against De anand’s confusion & Shammi’s indifference we have Manu Narang ( who the hell?) with Manjushree ( I suppose) in 5 dushman aka Daulat ke dushman leaving it open ended by singing Jana hai hame to jaha karar mile
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LWks8EDiPak
    – Majrooh – RDB

  523. …aisa lagta hai garibo ka jag me
    aaj rakhwala koi nahi
    aisa lagta hai dukhiyo ke aansu
    pochhne wala koi nahi
    o amiro ke parmeshwar
    hum garibo ki bhi le khabar…’

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ O ameeron ke…’/ 1959 / PAIGHAM / CR / Asha

    https://youtu.be/H1Q0THuBHNA

  524. Hans @756, 761, 765,768,
    We had learnt the word आशुकवि in school. For your talent in connecting lyrics instantly with a theme and its brilliant analysis, I was thinking of a word अशुविश्लेषक for you. Congratulations and I am enjoying thoroughly.

    @766,
    Thanks for the information.

  525. Venkataramanji @757,
    You must have prepared the list, I hope they are not the ‘usual suspects’ who are caught first thing on any crime. One doesn’t plan such articles, they happen. But there is something on Rafi which should interest the readers.

  526. Hans @761, Mr Muli @767,
    Till today I thought that the song was Ae dil ab kahin na ja, but I listened to it carefully and watched the video, I was convinced, it is Ae dil ab kahin le ja. Shammi Kapoor is so dejected with everything, he does not not care where his heart carries him. HFGK also writes it as ‘le’.

  527. Mumbaikar8 @758, 759, Mr Muli @774,
    You are fussing too much over hopeless subah, subah with bright light. Here is Kaifi Azmi, not caring even whether subah is there or not: Tera husn rahe, mera ishq rahe, to ye subah-o-shaaam rahe na rahe.

  528. AK and Muliji
    During college days I had this खुजली (Mumbaikar8 calls this OCD) of noting down the lyrics of my favourite songs. I would note down the lyrics on a scrap of paper and then fair it in a notebook. Later whenever the song was announced on radio I will search that page and recheck the lyrics. My parents used to say क्या फाल्तू काम कर्ता रह्ता है, but they allowed me because I was good in studies, sports and also helped them in the household.

    There is a story about this खुजली। A cousin of mine was a big fan of any film but huge fan of Dara Singh. He saw the film Lutera and the next day he told me the story and also sang the Lata song ‘kisi ko pata na chale baat ka’ as ‘kisi ko patana chale vasta’. I told him this cant be true. Though I was more than 10 years younger than him, yet he thought I may be correct, may be because he was just primary pass and also lived in village and I had cleared 8th class board exams. Later when I saw the film, I told him the lyrics. Since then I tried to get the correct lyrics.

  529. AK @751
    Actually I had thought it as a contra just because of the fact you point out that in one song the singer seeks approval before the song and in the other she is telling about her thinking on his reaction after she had told the dastan. The common thing is apni ‘dastan kahna’ which is done in two different and contrasting situations. But there is other contrast also in the first song. She perhaps wanted to say it personally, but she got shy and finally she told the ‘dastan’ in a radio song which is a public medium, though in the song she says ‘kya karega sun ke jamana’. The second song is for a situation where they are husband and wife, but due to circumstances he does not believe her. So she tells her story and the song is a result of his reaction. This song in itself has more than one intra-contra passages. So in my view both the songs are fit for the post.

  530. AK @ 776
    You know I am a movie and lyrics buff. So I may be able to connect them quickly due to that reason. And these days due to corona, it is a rigorous punishment to watch the news channels, so we watch the downloaded movies instead.

    @ 779
    What a coincidence. On watching Mumbaikar8’s post and other follow-up posts, this great favourite of mine came into mind and I noted some songs down to be clubbed with it. I will present them later.

  531. Venkataramanji @ 757 and AK @ 777

    There is a folk tale which says a family was crossing the river and a knowledgeable person among them was given the charge of counting after they crossed the river. He counted two-three times and then declared we are one short, because he did not count himself. The customary wailing, common in villagers, started. After some time a passerby came and set the matters right. I hope Venkataramanji has not repeated that mistake when counting seven. 😉

    Actually we should keep the list secret, because if we declare that then we may find ’12 more angry men’ from those who are left out. And their anger would be justified because each and every person is important, though we continue to name some outstanding performers. The case of Naseem Bano post is there to see. I may have posted more songs there, but actually the post was put on the right road by Arunji through his five comments.

  532. Venkataramanji @ 720
    Both of your songs are perfect contra. I would give you a live example. We can say ‘bahut shukriya badi meherbani, meri zindagi men huzur aap aaye’ to AK for providing us the SOY ‘adda’, but we can never say ‘mujhe aap kisliye mil gaye’. Hope most would agree with me.

  533. Hans JI @779
    I also had a friend who was straighter than a linear equation and who used to murder he lyrics by having his own versions, genuinely believing his versions to be the correct versions . He was a big Mukesh fan I quote below two of his gems without any further comments.
    1 Kisi aur ko shayad ” CHUM” hogi mujhe teri bahot jaroorat hai
    2 Ye mera diwanapan hai , ya mohobbat ks ” SASUR”

  534. ‘ Nayan milakar chayan churana kiska hai yeh kaam – hum se poochho hamko pata hai uss zalim ka naam…’

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ Nain milakar chayan …’/ 1967 / AAMNE SAAMNE / Kalyanji Anandji / Rafi

    https://youtu.be/_byxdWVWLDg

  535. AK and Mumbaikar8 @ 721
    I get pleasure out of practical sayings. Here is another ‘the kafila of SOY was triggered by one man’. Scientists say that there was big bang which issued forth countless galaxies i.e. a kafila of galaxies.

    Here I post a few songs which have indication of a kafila. Hope others would find such songs also. First ‘neel gagan par udte badal’ from Khandan which has the lines
    ‘hari bhari in khetiyon ki ram kare rakhwali,
    wo chahe to lakhon dane degi ik ik dali’
    (here lakhon dane is indicative of kafila).
    This song can also act as contra to many songs which ask the badal to go away. Like ‘jare kare badra balam ke gaon’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E3N-owdhUqA
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vowBg_1uxTk

    Second song ‘gareebon ki suno wo tumhari sunega’ from Dus Lakh, which contains the second line ‘tum ek paisa doge wo dus lakh dega’. This song can act as a contra to ‘o ameeron ke parmeshwar, kuchh gareebon ki bhi le khabar’ posted by Josephji at 772.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2GrlG-VheqE

    And here is a song from Ghar Ki Laaj ‘gham dene wale dene ko gham’ which asks god to give her a kafila (beshumar) of ghams but give her a thousand dils also to bear with them.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ACpI7EPv0pc

    Contra to this is a classic duet from Sargam by Lata and Saraswati Rane. ‘jab dil ko sataye tu chhed sakhi sargam’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8VBOFfEw60

  536. Mumbaikar8 @ 723
    I think you are right. This post is getting better and better. After the initial flurry, now songs are coming out of churning of minds.

    Aitbaar is a good word. At present I am giving a link to the song ‘ye kali jab talak phool ban ke khile’ which has a line ‘ye bahana magar aakhri hai sanam aitbaar aitbaar aitbaar karo’. She utters this word thrice to make him believe. Although such duets where both are taking a different line are in themselves always contra songs, this song should serve as contra to ‘dil ka na karna aitbaar koi’. The lyricist is Anand Bakshi. Can I convert you?

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UTJrtn5BWzc

  537. Hans JI @ 790
    The Kafila should eventually lead to Jaal , that iconic offering from Sahir-SDB-Hemant_Dev & Geeta combination
    Ye raat ye chandni
    where Dev is almost black mailing Geeta
    Ek Baar Chal Diye Gar Tujhe Pukarke
    Laut Ke Na Ayenge Ksfile Bahar Ke
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4GfUK9Urb6I
    A possible Contra Again from DEV -SDB but with Vaijayanti mala- Lata & Kishor
    Aasma Ke Neeche
    Where Vaijayanti mala spurns Dev’s offer
    Kah Do Baharo Se Aaye Idhar
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bbfQ32vgV0I
    Untak Uthkar Hum Nahi Jaanewale

  538. Mr Joseph @769,
    Jangal mein mor naacha kisi ne na dekha, ….sabne dekha: In the first part no one saw the peacock dancing in the forest, in the second part everyone saw when Johnny Walker drinks a little. Seeing-not seeing are intra-contra, but the objects are two different things. I would say it may would need a little stretching to describe it as intra-contra.

    @770,
    Taqdeer bani, bankar bigadi is a perfect intra-contra.

    @771,
    Tumhein zindagi ke ujaale mubarak, andhere humein aaj raas aa gaye hian is an excellent intra-contra song.

    @772,
    Aisa lagta hai garaabon ka is jag mein koi rakhwala koi nahin/ O ameeron ke Parmeshwar.. is a very nice intra-contra song.

    @786,
    Kabhi raat din hum door the, din raat ka ab saath hai is an obvious intra-contra song.

    @787,
    Nain milakar chain churana kis ka hai ye kaam hai: But that is the universal consequence ‘nain milana’ in our films – Nain ka chain churakar le gayi, kar gayi neend haram etc. It would be intra-contra if, first it soothes, and then makes one restless.

    @788,
    Mere bechain dil ko chain tu ne diya, shukriya, shukriya is a very good intra-contra song.

    @789,
    Badal jaaye duniya na badalenge hum is a nice intra-contra song.

    @793,
    Manmohan man mein ho tumhin, jano na jano: Not an obvious intra-contra to me.

    @794,
    Tum humein pyar karo ya na karo, hum tumhein pyar kiye jayenge is a very nice intra-contra song.

    @797,
    Denewale kisi ko garibi na de, maut de de badnasebi na de is a very intra-contra song.

  539. Following the Footsteps of Hansji on Aitbaar
    Main tumhi se poochati Hun
    -Black Cat- Jaa Nisar Akhtar- N Dutta
    https://youtu.be/OeboYkJRPNY
    Kabhi tum daga na Doge
    Aitbaar kun hai
    confidence is so unshakable !
    Wo would na rahe – Badalate Rishte – AB- LP
    https://youtu.be/sm4niilTvmg
    Accha hua toot gaya
    Zhoota Aitbaar

    Lyrics wise seems to be a good contra .
    But if remember correctly Rishi Kappor feigns this heartbreak song to ensure that Reena forgets him & starts to love Jeetendra.

  540. KS Bhatiaji @773,
    Kabhi tanhaiyon mein ek aisi bhi ghadi ayi/Bahut rone ki koshish ki magar phir bhi hansi ayi is a perfect intra-contra song. I hav ehard the song, but not very often. Excellent CR-Talat combination.

    @775,
    Guzra hua zamana aata nahin dobara: The time gone by does not come back again.
    Jo guzar gaya so guzar gaya: What is gone is gone, why cry over that. Don’t the two songs mean the same thing?

  541. Muliji
    You would not believe it. I had noted down ‘main tumhin se poochhti hoon’ on a bill 3 days back when we were returning from market and misplaced it. And now you post it. How similar our likes are.

  542. Hans @780,
    Thanks for sharing your memories.

    @781,
    After this explanation, who can doubt?

    @790,
    Nice interpretation of Neel gagan par udate baadal aa aa aa as a one-person kafila song. Its contra to ‘asking the cloud to go away’ is obvious.
    By now ‘gham’ has been dissected from all possible cross-sections. Result is fascinating if you look at all the ‘gham’ songs posted here.

    @795,
    Dil tune diya dil maine liya has been posted here. This sounds like stock hand over-take over with both the parties signing the stock register as a proof of verification and entrustment. If ‘dil’ is an item in the stores, is it capable of pulling someone wherever it wants?

    @798,
    Poochho na humein hum unke liye kya kya nazrane laye hain
    Ye dil lekar nazrana aa gaya tera deewana
    You mean the contra is about the lady bringing the gifts for her man in the first song, and in the other it is the man for the lady? But I enjoyed OP Nayyar using Mukesh for bhangra in Ye dil lekar nazrana, aa gaya tera deewana. OPN must have terribly missed Rafi.

    @799,
    Mummy main to seekhunga goli chalana
    Chhuri ban kaanta ban , O my son
    I could not see the connection between the two songs.

    @801,
    Aurat ne janam diya mardon ko, mardon ne use baazar diya. It tells of the nobles act of a woman, of motherhood, but the ungrateful man does not flinch in pushing her to flesh trade.
    Jawan ho ya budhiya..Kuchh bhi hai aurat zahar ki ye pudiya. The severe disparagement of the woman is supposed to be a comic song. Both may be seen as converging to the same point. But underlying spirit of the first song is highest respect for womanhood. Therefore, it is a good contra-song too.

  543. Mr Muli @802,
    Good man stooping to the lowest standards to repel the woman from love for him, so that she gets a better person, was a familiar trope in our films. So braking the ‘aitbaar’ can be due to misunderstanding, or deliberately induced by one party in the minds of the other party for the first party. That may lead to interesting situations of contra, intra-contra, misconceived intra-contra, abetted intra-contra but for altruistic reasons.

  544. Bhatiaji @ 763
    Yes I do remember my friend quite often. For siblings other siblings are do jism magar ek jaan and if they have so common traits as you had, then it is very hard life without them. And as we age ‘khoon ka rang gadhaa hota jata hai’. We can only say ‘jane kahan gaye wo din’.

    I have not seen Sanam Teri Kasam, but how can it compare with the super duper music of Usha Khanna. She just set the music industry on fire in her very first film.

  545. 759
    Hans @ 780 Mr. Muli @ 785
    I was known to be a murderer of lyrics and my brother though only two years older to me was the master with a cane.
    The two songs I remember distinctly that were my bismilwere.
    1 Zabak, Mehlon ne chhin liya bachpan ka pyar mere, my lyrics for “tum ho falak par mai hoon zamin par were tum ho palang par” 2 Mukesh song from Char Diwari, “Kaise manao piyawa, I thought it was “kaise mano tyohaar.”
    Now, I can relate both with “qatil and bismil”.
    Good topic for contra songs.

    Hans @784
    That Ak has reserved for me.

    Hans @ 791
    Anand Bakshi you are there for him, he doesn’t need my validation.
    One song of AB ‘s aitbar, shattered by nature?
    Mujhe Teri Mohabbat Ka Sahara | Aap Aye Bahaar Ayee
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qv1idZity_c

  546. AK,
    In continuance of @ 648 Ae dil meri aahon mein ,
    Can this dekh Kabira roya can also be contra to that one too.
    अश्कों से तेरी हमने तस्वीर बनाई है
    https://youtu.be/uVU1HWsyX9w
    AK, Bhatiaji, Hans
    Contrasting beholder
    Budtameez Haseen ho tum khuda nahin ho tumhara sajda nahin karenge.
    https://youtu.be/SCGybh32xas
    Rab ne banadi jodi. Beautiful song
    Tujh me rab dikhta hai yaran mai kya karoon sajde sar jhukta hai
    https://youtu.be/qoq8B8ThgEM

  547. Mr Joseph @800,
    O Lord, there is much injustice in your creation. Someone does not have even a loaf bread, while another person has heaps of pearl. A very good intro-contra song.

    @805,
    O dilwaalo dil ka lagana achchha hai par kabhi kabhi: Falling in love is generally good. There is a small caution that it should be ‘kabhi kabhi’. Can we call it a partial intra-contra song, like partial eclipse?

    @807,
    Aanewale ko ana hoga, janewale ko jana hoga: Nice intar-contra.

  548. Mumbaikar8 @812,
    Your response to Hans @784. Do you mean in the sense of Ek dushman jo doston se pyara hai?

    @813,
    Ashqon se teri humne tasveer banayi hai: Could be a contra to Ae dil meri aahon mein because this one takes the easy out to seek some metaphysical powers.

    You have added some nice contra songs about sajda.

  549. Mr Muli @814,
    Whether quality or quantity it should be in moderation. CR said it beautifully in O dilwaalo dil ka lagana achcha hai par kabhi kabhi. Please see my response to Mr Joseph at @815.

  550. Bhatiaji @ 773
    What a great song and outstanding lyrics by Rqajendra Krishan. This Meenar song came when CR was trying to fit the voice of Talat on Bharat Bhushan. He also used Talat on Bharat Bhushan in Kavi in the same year, but without success. Madan Mohan made this possible in Jahanara after 10 years, when he set Talat’s voice on Bharat Bhushan with success. Lyricist was again Rajendra Krishan. In ‘baad muddat ke ye ghadi aayi’ sung by Rafi and Suman, the words ‘ghadi aayi’ were again used, though it was not ‘tanhai’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MHsB1PnDGRM

  551. ‘ Kya kya nazare dikhati hai ankhiya , kabhi hasati hai kabhi rulati hai ankhiya… duniya mein rah kar duniya na dekhe ye kaisi majburi…. majbur aise bhi hain zindagi mein , jinko andhra mile roshni mein… ‘

    Possible multiple intra contra song…

    ‘ Kya kya nazaare…’/ 1960 / GHUNGHAT / Ravi / Asha , Mahendra Kapoor

    https://youtu.be/e30HuPe53RI

  552. A possible contra pair

    One says the eyes show us so many wonderful things … ‘ Kya kya nazaare dikhati hai ankhiya , … and in the other they say it is not possible to see any wonderful things of the world as the eyes are fixed only on the beauty of each other and that is all in the world for them… ‘ tere chehare se nazar nahi hatathi , nazaare hum kya dekhe…’

    Kya kya nazaare…’/ 1960 / GHUNGHAT / Ravi / Asha , Mahendra Kapoor

    https://youtu.be/e30HuPe53RI

    & the possiible contra…

    ‘Tere chehare se…’/ 1976 / KABHI KABHI / Khayyam / Kishore , Lata

    https://youtu.be/gejKrLu9N9c

  553. AK and Mumbaikar8 @ 784, 812 & 816

    I think Mumbaikar8 would sing ‘maar diya jaye ke chhod diya jaye’ and then get his liberty if AK is, by chance, caught in a situation like Dharmendra was in Mera Gaon Mera Desh. 😉

    As this song has a lot of intra-contra I am posting it here.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kug9txsXQws

  554. AK @ 808

    At 795 I posted two songs from Dil Hi To Hai and not the Banjarin song ‘dil tune diya dil maine liya’. I have checked again the links and they are of the right songs.

    The second line in ‘mummy main to seekhunga goli chalana is ‘leader na banunga pleader na banunga, mujhe fauji officer banana’. Om Prakash’s call in Jali note is
    ‘chhuri ban kanta ban o my son
    sab kuchh ban kisi ka chamcha nahin ban’

  555. Muliji

    Great connect.
    You may be right. If you look at the video, Mumtaz says ‘chhup gaye sare nazare oye kya baat ho gayi’ for the first time with her eyes closed. She perhaps directed Rajesh Khanna also to close his eyes and assume it was night. But, he got naughty and forced her to open her eyes by touching her with the blade of grass, and said what he thought fit. After all he was a born superstar and not a make shift hero like Feroze Khan.

    Another song that comes to mind when I listen to ‘tum din ko agar raat kaho’ is ‘tumhari zulf ke saye men sham kar doonga’. Rafi in Naunihal as written by Kaifi Azmi.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6zOPOhx_Zk

    But Talat Mehmood got bold with the support of Sahir in Joru Ka Bhai and said
    ‘teri zulfon se pyar kaun kare,
    subah ka intezar kaun kare.’
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vy3c6Ozk4M8

    But Rafi was again stuck with her ‘zulf’. Perhaps he could not refuse SJ and HJ. Teri zulfon se judai to nahin mangi thi’ – Jab Pyar Kisise Hota Hai.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=56P6Gwp0IO4

  556. In the past SOY had more frequent statistical (analysis) comments .

    On 29th July, it can be seen that all of the total comments no. 766 to 810 ..under the post… ‘ Fanciful ideas about breaching embankments ‘ , was given by 4 Hon’ble participants of SOY and at the same time under the post… ‘ Songs and Contra – Songs ‘ , all the comments on the same day from no. 758 to 809 was posted by a different set of 5 Hon’ble participants of SOY apart from myself.

  557. Bhatiaji @ 775

    Guzara hua zamana aata nahin dobara is philosophical and we immediately remember songs like ‘jane kahan gaye wo din’ and ‘wo din yaad karo’ or ‘yaad aa gayi wo nasheeli nigahen’. We should deal with such things boldly and not do what he did in this song. Zindagi guzarne ko sathi ek chahiye husn gar nahin sharaab hi sahi’ – Rafi in Ek Mahal Ho Sapnon Ka.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=39uGj-Fz1mA

    Because if he did that he would get drunk and will trouble others with his rant ‘mujhe le chalo aaj phir us gali men’ (Rafi in Sharaabi).
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N2yWXUhoNCY

  558. Hansji @ 783,

    I have not made the MISTAKE of leaving myself out, but I have consciously kept myself out of the list because I felt I have no business to be there. For example, this particular post requires the activation of one’s grey cells and flare for the language. I am handicapped in both the areas; yes, I concede I have some grey matter in my head, but all in the surface and not beneath.

    And I agree with you that each and every one in a team has a role to play and are important. But like in the game of Soccer it is the scorer who steals all the limelight. Hordes of misses are forgotten if the striker nets a couple. Yet it is a team game, and one single mistake or one single save by the goal keeper can make or mar a game. Similarly one good center or assist by a mid fielder or a vital goal line save by a defender too can decide the fate of a match. When the goal keeper is in the thick of things, then it is more often due to the failure of the defense and other players, that is when the Super Heroes fail. Besides we should not forget about the role of the coach/ manager, and the support staff. Well all this round about rhetoric is to say that I agree with you..

    I borrowed the term ‘Super Seven Heroes’ from the American Comic-strip characters; Superman, Batman, Aquaman, The Flash, Green Lantern, Cyborg and a female ‘hero’ known as Wonder Woman. As per your advice I have kept the list secret, but if somebody assumes or relates them to SoY members, I can’t help it.

    Well we are into the 9th century of comments. And we may complete a 1K soon. Congratulation and best wishes to all the active members and the support team.

    @784,
    I cannot but agree with you. That was a nice application/ live example of the contra songs.

  559. Josephji @ 828,
    You are right in pointing out that 97 comments where posted by 10 members/ participants (including yourself), which should be a record for a single day.
    And when the statisticians are out on the playing field, out of their boxes, it requires a Josephji to fill the gap.
    Thank you

  560. Hans @818, 819
    Tumhein zindgaki ke ujaale mubarak andhere humein aaj raas aa gaye hain: This song has beautiful intra-contra too in plenty. Just think of: तुम्हें पा के हम खुद से दूर हो गये थे, तुम्हें छोड़कर अपने पास आ गये हैं. This is beautiful lyrics by Gulzar, equally superb music by Kalyanji-Anandji, and Mukesh’s rendering, kya kahne! Thanks for reminding it and Mr Joseph’s first mentioning. The two contra songs you have posted are excellent.

    Hans @823,
    Maar diya jaye ya chhod diya jaye is perfect intra-contra song, but I am not in favour of giving powers of life and death to Mumbaikar8. 🙂

    Hans @826,
    I don’t remember how I mixed up. There has been some reference to Dil tune diya dil maine liya in the comments.

  561. Mr S Joseph @821,
    Kya kya nazare dikhati hai duniya: One knows from the mukhada of the song that it would be full of intra-contra.

    @822,
    Tere chehre se nazar nahin hatati: Contra to above, the hero can’t shift his eyes from the face of the heroine for a moment, what does he care for the sights and sound of the world.

  562. Mumbaikar ji @ 835/ 836
    Now dil as a substance !
    Normally hindi films have a clear dichotomy of dilwale- sheesha-e-dil & Patthar ka dil as regards lead pair( there are baddies with no dil also).
    But there is indifferent Waheeda in Baat Ek raat ki
    Sheesha-e dil itna na uchalo
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q2RqDBMNy6Q
    Agar dil hamara sheshee ke badle patthar ka hota
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AlamPr49JK8
    Sheshee ka ho ya patthar ka dil ,
    mohobbat karo dhadakne lage ( by the way why this lovely teasing tune did not click during its time? )

  563. This is the night when his heart will give out the secrets that it could not say … The brief scene of his downing his drink and then tossing the glass adds to the situation…

    A possible intra cotra

    ‘ Dil jo na …’/ 1965 /BHEEGI RAAT / Roshan / Rafi

    https://youtu.be/EvUsu76kl7E

  564. AK ji @754;

    Every stanza is contra to each other…this is the beauty of …Patli kamar hai teerchee nazar hai …song of Barsaat .

    Tum bin naino ki barsaatein rok na paaon lakh manaon…

    Mehn behete dariya ka paani kyi kinaroan se takraoan ruk na paoon naya nagar nit nayi dagar hai….

    Raj Kapoor Shailendra understanding of the situation …simply midas touch.

  565. Ak ji, Hans ji;

    Some intra contra songs to add on……

    Zinda Hoon Is Tarah Ke – Mukesh…- Aag….Ram Ganguli

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LHnSr82qQ34

    Zindagi Denewale Sun Teri Duniya Se Dil Bhar Gaya….Talat..Music: Ghulam Mohammad, Lyricist:Shakeel Badayuni
    Movie: Dil-E-Nadan, Year:1953.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-YR6XEO-BmY

    AYE DIL MACHAL MACHAL KE YUN -LATA – BUTARAM SHARMA-LACHHIRAM (MAIN SUHAAGAN HOON 1964)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dAj4fKkIb5c

    baithe hai rehguzar par..Asha Bhosle_kafi Azmi_Babul.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CWQYVk1QqjY

    beqasi had-se jab guzar jaye..Asha Bhosle_Jan Nisar Akhtar_O P Nayyar

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LUjnQ08qljo

    sambhal aye dil.. asha bhosle-mohd.rafi-sahir ludhianvi -n.dutta- sadhna

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6LaGzszImU0

    …to be contd….

  566. Some said it is physically not possible to ‘dil lena and dil dena’. Some told scientific facts and some went the philosofical way. Some would this is just word play or imagination. Before deciding anything on this dil business, kindly take into consideration the outlook of these two great ladies.

    First one, Saira Banu tells the Shagird gone haywire ‘dil vil pyar vyar main kya janu re’.
    https://youtu.be/oHADwPlnPgo

    Then this night club dancing Helen tells our Jaani Babu ‘dil ka lena dena humne chhoda’. And though overdrunk like Kaajal and not finding the setting fit enough for a serene gazal, loses his Maryada ( name of the film ) and mumbles his boastful statements ( tumhen ho jaye humse pyar ) tottering along.
    https://youtu.be/h7VBwHUn_Hg

  567. There was gem of a song ‘saaz e dil chhed de’ from film Passport.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9JE531uhdvg

    Different reactions from different singers.
    Kishore and Asha fight it out in Jawani Diwani starting with ‘agar saaz chheda tarane banenge’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hT6HrnRbNvQ

    Lata Mangeshkar tells that she is ‘geet tere saaz ka teri hi awaz hoon’ – Inteqam.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NbG_SAjLARU

    Now, Mohammad Rafi tries to balance it out and distributes the saaz and awaaz between both of them. ‘Saaz ho tum awaaz hoon main’ – Saaz aur Awaaz.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e6szCRfApKE

  568. Muliji @ 845

    I think you have got the answer. Helen of Maryada has taken the advice given in both of the songs posted by you and stopped the business of ‘dil ka lena dena’.

    I think AK would be happy with Helen because he had @ 808 raised serious objection at the ‘stock loke’ business in his fourth comment. And also with Saira Bano of Shagird who does not believe in these things and only believes in mutual relations.

  569. At this it is a difficult task to check if the songs are repeated so am just avoiding posting some of the songs .

    In this song hero and zero rhyme well . Putting on a neck-tie makes him a hero but he is big zero in studies .

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ Tie laga ke …’/ 1957 / BHABHI / Chitragupt / Lata

    https://youtu.be/ouRYOwc7yG8

  570. The children find that the reality in India is that people are not one which is contrary to what they have been taught . The teacher is trying to explain but the children are not accepting …

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ Humne suna thha ek…’/ 1959 / DIDI / N Datta / Asha , Rafi

    https://youtu.be/BOx6b-PhBkc

  571. Several lyricists have tried to measure that elusive attribute called “Pyar”
    Here is a humble attempt to decipher their words in mathematical terms
    1 Bahot pyar karate hai – Saajan – Sameer (n is large , statistically
    n >30)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jr_zaN1HWn8
    2 Humne tujhse pyar kiya hai jitna – Dulha Dulhan – Indeevar ( n > x)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MHDL2QCLI7M
    3 Mujhe kitna pyar hai tumse – Dil Ters Diwana – Shailendra ( n = ?. find yourself as an exercise)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7rKX_9IrdwI
    4 Itna hai tumse pyar mujhe – Suraj – Hasarat ( n tends to infinity)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OfX7qlOifvc
    5 Hame tumse pyar kitna – Kudarat – Majrooh
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T25GiGCspFg
    But contrary to all of the above Naksh after lot of dithereing comes to the following conclusion
    1 Tumhe ho na ho – Gharonda ( n = 0)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AZXSBVWQ8wo

  572. @ 853

    Look at this guy. He is ready to sit in exam so that she can see for herself कि वो कितने पानी में है।
    Tum ek baar mohabbat ka imtehan to lo – Rafi in Babar.
    https://youtu.be/JSmeq0fqA50

    In the context of ‘tumhen ho na ho’ we can safely say that she can get away by saying even that. But, it will be bravery if a male has to say that.

    Sun ae mahjabeen mujhe tujhse ishq nahin – Rafi in Dooj Ka Chand.
    https://youtu.be/SccZNfAEHq0

  573. Canasya @834,
    Hum unke paas aate hain, wo humse door jaate hain: If he is coming nearer to her, from the laws of motion the only way she can be getting further is if she is not stationary, but starts moving away from him at a faster speed. Excellent intro-contra.

  574. Mumbaikar8 @835,
    Dard ki ae raat guzar ja, ae dil-e-betaab thahar ja
    Ruk ja raat thahar ja re chandaa

    Excellent contrast songs. And each song also has intra-contra.

    @836,
    Mera dil dil dil la..dil lekar kidhar chala has a nice concept. Someone has taken away her ‘dil’ without proper authorisation, and she asks him to return it. But why she is still so cheerful? Let us overlook this. In Le ja le ja mera dil, she does not bother about her ‘dil’, does she think it is worthless? But it is her choice. Nice contrasting songs.

  575. He asks who she is that has entered his heart without his permission ; in the other song she does not disclose her name but gives hints and asks him to guess

    A possible contra pair…

    (a) ‘ yeh to kaho…’/ 1962 / AASHIQ / SJ / Mukesh & chorus

    https://youtu.be/5N-C-jIe0OQ

    & possible contra song…

    (b) ‘ Bujh mera kya…’/ 1956 / CID / OPN / Shamshad & chorus

    https://youtu.be/gss5sIpouJg

  576. I have always like ‘insaf wala jo bhagwan hota’ from Suhag Sindoor. But, when I was searching for Rafi, Manna Dey songs of Chitragupta, it struck me that it is a contra song to ‘insaaf ka mandir hai ye’ from Amar.

    I am posting both the video and audio version for the reasons cited in Chitragupta post.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oXk8-LeMY1s
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKlfeG4FBs0

    Insaf ka mandir hai ye link is also here for those who want to listen to it again.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iy3xp1lQ6Sg

  577. I remembered this song when Venkataramanji posted the song from unreleased film ‘Sorry Madam’ in the Chitragupta post. The mukhda of that song is parody of ‘uthegi tumhari nazar dheere dheere’ Lata gem from Ek Raaz. Lyrics Majrooh.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NUvbO7Bws10

    In the first song she is saying he would come around slowly. But look at ‘dheere dheere machal ae dil e bekaraar koi aata hai’. Here she wants her heart to slow down. Anupama – Lata – Hemant Kumar – Kaifi Azmi.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3RiMIAZ1vY

  578. Here is a series about ‘phool’ and ‘kante’ in which a variety of songs are produced by various lyricists to fit in varied situations.

    First, Shailendra tells us about a happy situation from Ek Dil Sau Afsane. ‘Tum hi tum ho mere jeevan men, phool hi phool hon jaise chaman men’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ag2XtqWZ5jE

    Then, Bharat Vyas takes up the case of those who are not so fortunate, showing some envy for those who get ‘phool’ in theri jeevan. ‘Wo phoole phoole firte hain jinki kismat ko phool mile’ – Amar Jyoti.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OvgK43fuOXE

    Then Kaifi Azmi steps in asks him to cool down and make some adjustment saying ‘mile na phool to kanton se dosti kar li’ – Anokhi Raat.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7xIfJdD4AIU

    That was for a male, but what to do if a female gets the ‘kanta’ especially when she also has the child to bear with. So Pradeep our bhakt type poet asks her to take refuge in the age old philosophy and go to god.
    Tere phoolon se bhi pyar tere kanton se bhi pyar – Nastik.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=18CI719CKmQ

    As there was a tinge of sadness in Lata’s voice in the above song, Rajendra Krishan gave an alternative solution in Duniya Jhukti Hai with complete bliss being his goal. ‘Phoolon se dosti hai kanton se yaari hai’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EETPlQTe8Fo

  579. AKji:

    Ghalib has been mentioned several times in the comments above by Mumbaikar ji, you, and others. Mumbaikar ji @ 331 has even linked his ghazal on ‘dawa’ from ‘Mirza Ghalib’. Here is one his famous intra-contra ghazals—‘Ishrat-e-qatra hai dariya mein fana ho jana, dard ka hudh se guzarna hai dawa ho jana’ in the voice of MS Subbalakhsmi:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_EbIESRjc2I

  580. He repeatedly asks her to name her beloved but she goes on giving various hints and asks him to guess the name of her beloved and she never names her beloved …

    ‘ Bol gori bol…’/ 1967 / MILAN / LP / Mukesh , Lata

    https://youtu.be/aoKdcOj6KRs

  581. Muliji @ 785 and Mumbaikar8 @ 812

    Very funny instances told by you both. But if you want to enjoy the nostalgia of those days, you can visit some lyrics site and read lyrics of old songs. The oldest of them would make you laugh more and more. These sites make so many mistakes and they all claim perfection. Once I saw the lyrics of some song and for ‘gar ye bhi’ it was written ‘pardesi’ or something like that. However, sometimes I still visit these sites. If used diligently by matching your own listening observation with them might solve some riddles.

  582. Muliji @ 792

    That was a great find so deep in the song.

    Your idea of measuring love @ 814 and 853 was so innovative.

  583. Venkataramanji @ 830

    I was tickled a lot on seeing the first para of your comment. I would come to that para later. You have beautifully described usefulness of team members citing football as an example. I think you are still connected with soccer either as a referee or an organiser. In the third para you with same beauty handled my comment in light vein about ’12 angry men’ and I enjoyed your comment.

    Now on the first para. I can not comment on the grey cell part and AK would be a better person to answer you with some mathematical theory. But if you mean you have any problem in understanding the language or are deficient in any other way, then I would take it as your ‘angdai’ and would say ‘angdai teri hai bahana’ like Manju said in Rattan. 😉 Let us have a poll among the regular members of SOY and if any one agrees with what you say, then
    I would unconditionally apologise and would declare that it was not a bahana. I think you the the equivalent of Vishwakarma, who built cities in the time one takes to blink. As a proof I cite your performance at Ashwin’s post on 29th July. There you made 14 (from 787 to 800) detailed comments from 9.15 to 10.0 pm, which also included 8 comments in just 9 minutes from 792 to 798. Which means you single handedly won the battle with this post. I dont know whether you used grey or white or red or any coloured cells, but it is true I can never do that. I dont know whether you borrowed hands from Durga Maa herself or did some Bengali Kala Jadu. 😉

    All said you are the no.2 in SOY and I would request you not to try proving otherwise. And thanks for all that you said.

    @ 831
    On that day SOY posted more than 100 comments, because there were some on Madan Mohan post and on Naseem Bano post also there were 2 comments. Whether this was a record or not is only in your invisible powersto tell, because you know more about the blog than the blogmaster.

  584. Mr S Joseph @838,
    Din dhal jaye haye raat na jaye is a very nice intra-contra song.

    @839,
    Yes, Din raat badalate hain is a nice contra song.

    @840, 841, are nice contra songs.

    @851,
    This person thinks himself to be a hero just by wearing a tie, but he is zero in intellect. Perfect intra-contra.

    @852,
    Humne suna hai ek hai Bharat: These kids are mature speakers, they can mouth the contradictions between the ideal India taught in the school and the reality around them. Nice intra-contra song, but our films very rarely depicted children as children.

    @857,
    Requires a little stretch to see contra in Ye to kaho, kaun ho tum and Boojh mera kya naam re

    @858,
    Mohabbat zinda rahti hai, mohabat mar nahin sakti: I thought the song has a consistent message about the immortality of love. Is there really contra in it?

    @864,
    Quite a stretch to see intra-contra.

  585. Hans @858,
    Insaf wala jo Bhagwan hota, to saare garibon ka chaalan hota: Heard for the first time. Satirising the injustice of God in a comical style. Insaaf ka mandir hai ye Bhagwan ka ghar hai: Whether late or early, God’s abode delivers justice. Nice contra pair.

    @859,
    Mera naam hai Chameli/ Mera naam Chin Chin Choo: Thanks, a perfect counter to Ye to kaho kaun ho tum.

    @860,
    The mukhada of the song from Sorry Madam is not a parody of Uthegi tumhari nazar dheere dheere, because the latter song’s second line is Mohabbat karegi asar dheere dheere

    @861,
    Wo phole phoole firte hain jinki kismat ko phool mile: This is a good addition to our search of Yamak in songs which was mentioned eralier by Canasya and other readers. We were struggling to find appropriate songs.

    You have mentioned some absolutely outstanding phool-kaante songs of intra-contra.

    @868,
    We have seen enough of Venkaramanji’s prowess with language – Hindi-Urdu, too, in addition to his numerous first languages. I am with you on overriding his modest protestations. And I don’t go only by numbers.

  586. Canasya@863,
    Ghalib was a master of intra-contra, a classic is Mushkilen mujh par padin itni ki aasan ho gayin. But with due respects, did MS have to try her hand at ghazal?

  587. Hans @ 858
    Good contra on Bhagwan Ka Insaaf.
    Best part is atheist Shahir is on the other side.

    Mr. Muli @ 792
    That was excellent.

    Shailendra had this ability of telling a story in one line
    Kahdoo bahron se aye ishar untak uth kar humnahin is one such example.

    One more contra on Shilendra’s one line masterstroke.

    To Bhaat Vyas’s – Been Baja Mere Mast Sapere – Naag Champa.(S. N Tripathi has recycled his old tune of phool baghiye me bulbul bole from Rani Roopmati)
    https://youtu.be/xXC0KpqKghM

    Shailendra’s question says it all “Kyun Nache Sapera”.
    Wahan Kaun Hai Tera Musafir Jayega Kahan – GUIDE
    https://youtu.be/QCsdHLTf0cI?t=236

  588. In the first song he is totally broken after being in love with her but in the second he is very happy after being in love with her…

    A possible contra pair…

    ‘ Hum tujhse Mohabbat …’/ 1951 / AAWARA / Naushad / Mukesh

    https://youtu.be/1lHlfBGBMN4

    & the possible contra song…

    ‘ Hum tujhse Mohabbat…’ / 1967 / WAHAN KE LOG / CR / Mukesh

    https://youtu.be/lvZ7w_wL5Jo

  589. Mumbaikar8

    You forgot to post the link to the first song. I am giving it here.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JaDCw3ySbGw

    You are right. There are different reactions recorded in film songs about dekhna.
    This one is blunt. ‘Mohabbat se dekha khafa ho gaye hain’ – Rafi in Bheegi Raat.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VYB5dF495EI

    And this one what would you call it. Putting the whole blame even of his bekaari on her. ‘Rekha o rekha jabse tumhe dekha, khana peena sona dushwar ho gaya, main aadmi tha kaam ka bekar ho gaya’. Rafi again in Adhikar. Song picturised on lesser actors Brahmachari and Shabnam.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JnSRyB8NEmY

  590. Two contrasting ways suggested for living in this world — In the first song he says you have to keep working and fold your hands and bow before others humbly , and … but in the second she says one must forget all worries and have fun , keep smiling , and…

    ‘Duniya mein rehana…’/ 1971 / HAATHI MERE SAATHI / LP / Kishore

    https://youtu.be/IwvkJPr_zls

    & the possible contra song …

    ‘ Iss duniya mein…’ / 1965 / GUMNAAM / SJ / Lata

    https://youtu.be/tKodgq-1TgY

  591. AK @ 871

    Ist line of the Sorry Madam is slightly changed, but the second line is the same. I called it a parody song not just for the mukhda, but due to the fact that in the antaras too there are lines based on tunes of other songs. If you listen it again, it will be clear to you. Chitragupta had earlier also used multiple song parody in Main Chup Rahungi.

    There are so many remixes made on this tune. There is a bhajan type of song on the tune of ‘uthegi tumhari nazar dheere dheere’ which I am posting here.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h9BooC9u1hU

    You can go on the other side and find funny songs also.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qwo1PWIycOA

    In fact, there are so many songs which are played in our temples which have been based on popular filmi tunes.

  592. ‘…The cruel hunter traps the bird and smiles at the helpless bird in the cage …

    The condition of the dancer who has come under compulsion …

    ‘…kaisi hai dunia kaisi reet hai
    aanhko me aasu hotho pe geet hai…’

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ Qaid mein hai …’/ 1959 / BEDARD ZAMANA KYA JANE / Kalyanji Virji Shah / Lata

    https://youtu.be/Tk7HLrcGaWc

  593. Do not fall into the ways of the heart which is deceptive by nature…

    ‘ dil ke dhokhe me na aana dil ki jhuthi jaat hai , aji dil ki jhuthi jaat hai ; raat ko ye din kah de aur din ko kah de raat hai….

    ‘…of what use is the heart that does not have someone’s love ? …

    ek maje ki bat batau suno kaleja tham ke aji suno kaleja tham ke , jin me kisi ka pyar nahi hai wo dil bhi kis kam ke aji wo dil bhi kis kam ke
    mano ya na mano lekin bade pate ki bat hai…’

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ Dil ke dhoke…’/ 1950 / SHAAN / Hansraj Bahal / Suraiya , Rafi

    https://youtu.be/U-vgEhvMxoE

    https://youtu.be/mjuBAl5MBwk

  594. Canasya @ 863 and AK @ 872

    I was about to say what is said by AK. Indian films have used the simpler ghazals of Ghalib. Even they have lot of intra-contra. Ghalib wrote this about himself too. Kahte hain ke ghalib ka hai andag e bayan aur. He said a similar thing in the other gazal ‘zikr us pariwash ka’. Look for intra-contra there.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=km0sfouDZ2M&t=150s

  595. AK @ 871

    I think ‘ye to kaho kaun ho tum’ and ‘boojh mera kya naam re’ are clearly contra. He asks about her and she asks a counter question and ask her to guess who she is. Even in the song itself you will find contra points. Similarly, ‘bol gori bol’ is having sawal jawab which has already been accepted as contra. Otherwise also their are contra points galore in the song. If my guess is correct, Josephji posted this song after my songs as a similar song to ‘ye to kabo kaun ho tum’. About ‘mohabbat zinda rehti hai’ you are correct that this is all about mohabbat, but the situation in the song is tricky. Prem Nath is captured and bound and Beena Rai is on death bed and he sings the song for invoking magical powers of love. There are words like ‘meri roohe mohabbat mujhse pehle mar nahin sakti’ and ‘tu mujhse door ho ulfat ganwara kar nahin sakti[‘. So in these conditions, I would go with Josephji, though I can not say you are wrong if you stick to your view after this explanation.

  596. Mumbaikar8 @ 873

    Your mention of sapera songs brought to mind two contrast sapera songs. There are others too but these seem to me to be perfect contra.

    Tera jadu na chalega o sapere, kahe mare meri galiyon ke phere’ Lata in Guest House. The jadu of sapera may not work, but Chitragupta’s jadu will always.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w0WoZPP-O-c

    ‘Sapera been baja been baja nachungi’ – Lata in Bhai Bhai for SJ.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2KdlgwZvDM0

  597. Now some songs on various situations using the word ‘siwa’.

    He is sure that there is nobody for her.
    Yahan koi nahin tera mere siva – Rafi in Dil Ek Mandir for SJ.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4MmcPvttGXg

    He says there should not be anyone except him. Very Angry.
    Tumhara chahne wala khuda ki duniya men – Mahendra Kapoor and Asha in Kahin Din Kahin Raat. OPN badgered MK despite producing such great songs.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nspiSdUFoNg

    He is sceptic about her other lovers.
    Hamare siva tumhare aur kitne diwane hain – Lata/Kishore in Apradh.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FgYVJu6LOU8

    He is so worried that he has resorted to ‘kasmen khilana’.
    Tum meri ho mere siwa kisi ki nahin khati ho kasam – Lata/Rafi in Aan Baan.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hCfidlYn2G0

  598. …here the people twist facts and cook up stories ; they even make a good person mad …

    ‘ …Log to baat ka afsana bana dete hain…Achhe achhon ko ye deewana bana dete hain….’

    ‘ Log to baat ka…’/ 1962 / SHAADI / Chitragupt / Rafi

    https://youtu.be/UKJwtw1ZK4o

  599. Mr S Joseph @875,
    Hum tujhse mohabbat karke sanam hansate bhi rohe rote bhi rahe: Love has cause him so much misery.
    Hum tujhse mohabbat karke sanam, duniya ka fasana bhool gaye Love has already brought him bliss. Nice contra.

    @877,
    Duniya mein rahna hai tokaam karo pyare: Very serious message from a hard taskmaster.
    Is duniya mein rahna ho to sun lo meri baat, gham chhod ke manao rangreli: Don’t worry about anything, make merry. Very opposite message. Nice.

    @879,
    Qaid mein hai bulbul sainyad muskuraye. Nice intra-contra.

    @880,
    Thanks for the detailed explanation of Dil ke dhoke mein na ana. Nice intra-contra.

    @886, 887,
    I agree theses could be possible intra-contra songs.

    But, @888,
    Koi bura kahe ya bhala, main to shadi karne chala: This is just a common expression, is there contra in it?

    Similarly, @889,
    Jais kiya hai tune vaisa hi tu bharega: I am not sure we can stretch that much.

  600. Hans @878,
    I may be missing something. I heard the song again. I could not recognise any familiar tune, though the words and phrases might be familiar.

    @881,
    De vo is kadar zillat hum hansin mein taalenege is a nice inra-contra in the ghazal.

    @882,
    Mohabat zinda rahti hai, mohabbat mar nahin sakti: Let Mr S Joseph say if he had this explanation in my mind.

  601. Had Deb Mukharjee addressed
    Savere ka suraj tumhare liye hai
    To Dheeraj Kumar , he would have answered with the following contra
    Mere liye aati hai sham
    Further Deb calls himself bujhata diya
    While Dheeraj is Raato ka Raaja
    We also find contrast in composer – Singer pair
    OPN liberally using KK- who was normally shunned by him
    And RDB who in his later years always preferred KK , used Rafi in this film .
    Savere ka suraj- ek bar muskura do
    https://youtu.be/ggKs-fdFvsM
    Mere liye aati hai sham – Raton ka Raja
    https://youtu.be/pzAuW6vRqlo

  602. Muliji @ 895

    Great connect. And why it should not be, you are the originator of the idea. This film has some intra-contra songs for our ‘intra-contra champion’ Josephji to exploit.

    I liked your real life contra about OPN and RDB. There are some real life things which are contras. Take the example of Dilip Kumar. In 1957 Vyjyantimala told about him that ‘uden jab jab zulfen teri kanwariyon ka dil machale’, but he had to wait till he was 44 to attract some kanwari after about 20 years in films where a lot of kanwaris came in contact with him. And in Sanghursh, he was still dreaming ‘har kanwari dil tham le apna aisa lagaun thumka’ though his cheeks were trying to drop below his chin. 😉

    I also got a contra with mention of this film.
    Parai hoon parai meri aaraoo na kar – Lata – Khandan
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fyRefEVPYxA

    Tu hamari thi jan se pyari thi tere liye maine duniya sanwari thi,
    tu auron ki kyun ho gayi – Kishore Kumar – EBMD.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwgq6y_lA5Q

  603. Mumbaikar8 once posted two songs with ‘sajda’. I had a few songs in mind, but forgot to post.
    Main chali main chali peechhe peechhe jahan ………
    Sajde men husn ke jhuk gaya aasman…… – Professor.
    Shammi Kapoor was taken to be the jahaan, because he was the only one following her.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xomPMEUi7aE

    This word was coined for a sajda to god, but this is being again and again used for the beloved. Is there a song which tells about sajda to god.
    Sajde men hai sar tujhpe hai nazar – Mirza Ghalib. A surrogate song involving Suraiyya and Nigar Sultana.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r1Jd9KuXLJI&t=68s

  604. Hansji @ 895
    It is largely due to your , Joseph ji & Mumbaikar ji’s posts followed by AK ji ‘s responses interest in this theme is not waning.
    Your real life contra about Dilip Kumar is amazing. Can we strech is further till gopi where becuse of his dropping chin he had to come ban than ke & present himself as a gentleman to Saira? ( or were they already married by that time?)

  605. Mumbaikar8 @ 868

    One day some haseena songs came in mind when I was trying to sleep. I forgot to note down. Your post brought them again to mind.

    Pradeep Kumar initially was scared of haseenas in Ustadon Ke Ustad. So he said ‘haseenon se to bas sahab salamat door ki achhi’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YHm5y5EyzJQ

    And Johny Walker was so fed up that he thought of taking sanyas.
    ‘Haseenon sambhalo apni ye duniya’ – Khota Paisa.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8jviMD-GBAg

    But Joy Mukherjee has found some formula to deal with the haseena.
    Pehle aankh ladaiye, phir aage badh jaiye’ from Ye Zindagi Kitni Haseen Hai.
    I have never seen such a long mukhda to arrive at the name of the title of the film. You have to listen to the song to get the formula.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPUEeUoofmE

    And Joy Mukherjee is not only applying this formula himself, he appears to have done some Phd on the subject and even advising his guru IS Johar, who is ‘bade mian’ and he is his Shagird. Guru gud reh gaya, chela shakkar ho gaya.
    ‘O bade miyan deewane aise na bano, haseena kya chahe humse suno’.

    And the coincidence is that all these four songs, as well as those posted by you has Rafi. How many contra songs he would provide us.

  606. Muliji

    Thanks for the kind words. But, you have also posted a lot of contra songs.

    Dilip Kumar married in 1966. The song in Sangharsh was his post marriage dream.

    By Gopi’s time he had started remembering what Ram Chandra had said to his Siya and he had already started for introspection of his life through songs like ‘sukh ke sab sathi, dukh men na koi’.

  607. ..do not go to a place where it is impossible to settle but he wants her to join him…

    sambhal ai dil tadapane aur tadapaane se kya hoga
    jaha basana nahee mumkin, vaha jaane se kya hoga , sambhal ai dil

    chale aao chale aao ke abb munh
    pherake jaane se kya hoga ,
    jo tum par mit chuka iss dil ko tarasaane se kya hoga
    chale aao

    hame sansaar me apna banaana kaun chaahega, yeh masale phul se joban sajaana kaun chaahega ,
    tamannaao ko jhuthe kvaab dikhalaane se kya hoga
    jaha basana nahee mumakin vaha jaane se kya hoga , sambhal ai dil,

    chale aao
    tumhe dekha tumhe chaaha tumhe puja hai iss dil ne , jo sach puchho toh pahalee baar kuchh maanga hai iss dil ne ,
    samajhate bujhate anajaan ban jaane se kya hoga
    chale aao

    sambhal ai dil…

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ Sambhal ae dil …’/ 1958 / SADHNA / N Datta / Lata , Rafi

    https://youtu.be/6LaGzszImU0

  608. ( SAD part is also given)

    Shall fall in love only once and shall stay loyal forever and fearlessly , whatever happens till death…

    A possible intra contra song…

    …ham pyaar ka sauda karte hain ek baar…chaahe mit jaaye chaahe mar jaaye…

    ishq tera aag hai to isme jalte jaayenge , maut ho ya zindagi ham saath chalte jaayenge, ham vo nahi hain pyaar ke raahi jo duniya se dar jaaye , ham pyaar ka sauda karte hain ek baar
    chaahe mit jaaye chaahe mar jaaye…’

    ‘ Hum pyar ka…’/ 1964 / ZINDAGI / SJ / Lata

    https://youtu.be/-CYU3mhTeDk

    ( SAD PART )

    shikwa hai tujhse pyar ka e malike jahan , kyo laye unch nich ki diwar darmiyan , kya mujhko haq nahi hai mohabbat ka pyar ka ?

    kuch to jawab de mere dil ki pukar ka ,
    deta nahi jawab to humse jawab le…

    dil se na pyar jayega chahe chita jale

    hum pyar ka sauda karte hain ek baar
    hum pyar ka sauda karte hain ek baar
    chaahe mit jaaye chaahe mar jaaye
    chaahe mit jaaye chaahe mar jaaye
    hum pyar ka sauda karte hain ek baar

    ‘ Shikwa hai tujhse…/ 1964 / ZINDAGI / SJ / Lata

    https://youtu.be/tQIiTJDN4Yk

  609. Litmus test of pyar according to many lyricists is to take over the hardships of the other person.
    So Shailendra in Gudie has Dev comforting Waheeda with
    “Tere Dukh ab mere ” ( It is another matter that within 2 songs he is regretting ” Apne kabhi the ab hai paraye” & one song later he is fuming ” Kya se kay ho gaya”)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ngch5NKgPh8
    Another instance is Kateel Shifai ‘s ” Ye mojaza bhi mohobbat” where he says
    “Ke sang tujh pe gire aur Zakhm aaye mujhe”
    But in the same gazal he adds
    Wohi to sabse jyada hai Nukta chin mera
    Jo muskura ke hamesha gale lagaye mujhe”
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ybph1SRS8rs
    And then folklore has Laila bearing the burnt of stone pelting but keeps on singing
    “Husn hajir hai”
    https://i.ytimg.com/vi/8fijSmoqVnQ/hqdefault.jpg?sqp=-oaymwEZCPYBEIoBSFXyq4qpAwsIARUAAIhCGAFwAQ==&rs=AOn4CLA41rhpBhMAeIf5dUG3qM89ibTE8Q
    However all of them are brought down to earth by Kaifi Azmi when in Anupama he writes
    “Kya dard Kisika Lega Koi”
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=poXBa76JNKk

  610. Congratulation to Akji and all the participants for achieving another land mark.
    Ninth century and still going strong.
    Special credit to Josephji for leading the team from the front.
    Rahulji the intiator of the theme and Hansji , making a late surge, had made the target look simple.
    Mumbaikrji and Bhatiaji have made effective and timely contributions.
    Mumbaikarji has donned the role of cheer leader of the team. Hats off to all of you.
    And last but not the least Akji’s prompt responses has kept the interest in this theme alive.
    In short a grand team effort.

    As Canasyaji has said the team is moving toward the highest test score of 952 (by Srilanka in 1997).
    Besides the four figure mark the two highest scores in first class cricket 1059 and 1107 (by Victoria) is in the waiting too.

    Best wishes to all.

  611. Venkataramanji
    Thanks for the words of inspiration. In fact it is you, as no2, who are an inspiration to us. For Mumbaikar8 I have another title. She is the head of our ‘grievances cell’ for taking our cases to the admin and it is because of her that these records are being broken in both the posts.

    Regarding further targets, I would tell a haryanvi saying which means we look up at the fire on the mountain but fail to notice that which is raging near us. So dont show us the mountain top of 1107. उसके चक्कर में हम कहीं खाई में जा गिरेंगे.

    You are right that it is a teamwork and a topic like this can not survive so long without it. I would give you an example. I have noted down a list of around 50 contra pairs. I have not counted but there are certainly more than 40. But, you have seen that I have posted many songs based on the inspiration I got from songs posted by other friends. The story that is happening with me is that, if I use 2 from my list by the evening I add 4 to that list and the booster dose is growing. Looking at that list and the regular participation of other friends, I can say that we can reach 1000. But, if friends vanish, the inspiration vanishes. That is why I was trying to keep you rooted to this post. I would ask you again to listen to this request
    कभी कभी हमारी गली आया करो
    चाय पियो पान वान खाया करो. 😉

    Here is a film song for this occasion. You must be remembering there was a similar song in film Kundan sung by SD Batish and Sudha Malhotra and picturised on the pair which gave us ‘teri patli kamar teri bali umar’ which tickled us no end. Here also Om Prakash and Manorama are doing the same thing they did in Dus Lakh. You can see Shakeel’s wonders never end and the great tune is by the greatest ‘badnaseeb’ composer Ghulam Muhammad.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=70k5FCtzJjE

  612. Hans @893,
    Phool tumhein bheja hai khat mein, phool nahin mera dil hai: The flower is the symbol of love, now universally accepted.
    Mujhe ye phool na de tujhko dilbari ki kasam: I thought the guy had allergy to flowers, many people do have. But I watched the video, that was not the case. Sunil Dutt’s only point was that the flowers were nothing compared to the freshness of Meena Kumari’s lips. Are there any songs of real allergy?

    @894,
    Nice contra. In one case the pathway is the place for expectant waiting. In the other, no one is there on the old pathways sympathetic to our dejected hero.

    @897,
    But Shammi Kapoor was also at times dismissive of ‘haseens’: Haseen ho tum khuda nahin ho tumhara sajda nahin karenge (he pronounces ‘sizda’).

    @904,
    The lovers realised the perils of ‘nain milana’ – Nain so nain naahi milaao. But in Nainowali ne dil mera loota, Sadhana knew that she had completely bewitched her husband, and was singing for his feelings.

  613. Mr Muli @895,
    Nice additions. Deb Mukherjee is the dying lamp of the night, whereas Dheeraj is the monarch of the night. Perfect contra.

    @903,
    The person who take over someone’s hardship in love shows some agency: Tum apna ranj-o-gham apni pareshani mujhe de do. But in Main to pyar se tere piya maan sajaungi the lady wants nothing but to spend her entire life in the angana of her husband, install his idol in his heart, and bow her head in his temple-home.

  614. Venkataramanji @ 905,
    This post is now on auto-pilot. It is now in the readers’ hands where and how to safe-land it, it is also in their hands how far it goes. Thanks a lot for your best wishes.

  615. AK, NV,

    I, with my blinders on, am focused only on contra lyrics but Mr Muli @ 895 and Hans @ 896 are turning it into multi-dimensional.
    Getting interesting day by day.

  616. Mr Muli @ 903
    However all of them are brought down to earth by Kaifi Azmi when in Anupama he writes
    “Kya dard Kisika Lega Koi
    How about Sahir’s cynicism?
    Kaun rota hai kis aur ki khatir ay dost sab ko apni hi kisi baat pe rona aaya
    https://youtu.be/KcZ3GSHpJ3s?t=162

  617. Hansji @ 869,
    As per your directive I would not try proving anything. I would strictly adhere to your directive. And thanks for all that you said.

    Coming to the last part; yes, the total comments for the day must have crossed 100 and I would come with the details at the most appropriate time.

    @ 906,
    Yes I remember both the songs, from Dus Lakh and Kundan.
    Thanks for the posting.

    Thank you for the invitation for tea.
    Does the पान वान, is inclusive of नाश्ता and मध्याह्न-भोजन?
    I would like to have शुद्ध हरयाणवीभोजन.
    But I don’t want be a कबाब में हड्डी in this शानदार महफ़िल.

  618. Mumbaikar8 @ 911

    The final target is enjoyment, so I think there is no harm in being multi-dimensional.

    @912
    That is the beauty of this contra songs topic. One song can serve as contra to many and the different pairs give different feel. That is why I am dealing in contra songs only, because for intra-contra old songs have to be checked for fear of repetition. Josephji mentioned this difficulty @ 851.

    @ 913
    Meera said ‘he ri main to prem diwani mera dard na jane koi’. Baat to sadiyon purani hai par kahne ke dhang nirale hain. Hemant Kumar sang ‘ya dil ki suno’ in Anupama, but is saying just the opposite thing in ‘le le dard paraya’ in Chhote Babu which also looks true.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NvYZxz5a3Sw

    @ 913
    Zulf is such a topic which makes us nostalgic each time this is mentioned. Whether it was ‘tumhari zulf ke saye men’, ‘zulfon ko hatale chehre se’ (requesting her to remove the zulf), ‘chehre pe giri zulfen’ (offering to remove the zulf himself), or ‘na jhatko zulf se pani’, Rafi seems to be enjoying the ‘khuli zulf’. But Mukesh told her ‘bikhrake zulfen chaman men na jana’ which was posted by me. Even there Mukesh had given a hint to do something to her zulf. But, in Banarsi Thug, Mukesh made a direct request, ‘khuli khuli zulfon ko bandh bhi lo, ho jaye na duniya men sham kahin’. What a song. Usha Mangeshkar must be feeling proud to be associated with that song, as well as Vijaya Chaudhary, who rarely appeared in lead roles.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBiKYNQDYJM

  619. चाय वाय and पान वान is offered to temporary visitors and as you were not ready to do even that, I offered them. If you really intend to visit my home, come with at least two spare days and we will give a fair taste of haryanvi food, which you would remember at least until you visit us again.

    On कबाब में हड्डी, I would just say that nowadays vegetarian kababs are also being served and their is no chance of having हड्डी in it.

  620. How can decline such an invitation right from the heart?
    Let me try to post at least one pair.

    Posting a pair of Non film contra songs both recorded in 1967.

    Gira Do Parda Ki Daastan Khali Ho Gayi Hai, I think the composition is in Raga Todi.
    Hemant Kumar, Gulzar
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iBw7YEkr4OI

    To my ears there seems to be some similarity with the song ‘Chhupaa Lo Yun Dil Men Pyaar Meraa’, Mamta (1966).

    Now the contra song,

    Abhi Na Parda Girao Teharo Ke Dasatan Aage Aur Bhi Hai – Based on Bageshree
    Hemant Kumar, Gulzar.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x_edEPiRpMY

    Hope the songs fit the theme and the standards.

  621. …auro ko pilaate rahte hai aur khud pyase rah jaate hai ,
    ye pine vaale kya jaane paimaano pe kya guzri hai, guzri hai
    diwano se ye mat puchho…’

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ Deewanon se ye… / 1967 / UPKAR / Kalyanji Anandji / Mukesh

    https://youtu.be/7eEgZkaBcfo

  622. He says… Felicitations to all on this happy occasion , I am happy , do not misread my tears , I have lost my balance . Tears are of many types … when you are sad or even when you are happy you can get tears but the world does not understand this… something of mine is of someone else now , … An old relationship has been broken for a new one…

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ Mai to deewana… ‘ / 1967 / MILAN / LP / Mukesh

    https://youtu.be/Cg393BADFSo

  623. Hans ji,

    Zulf is really a fascinating subject. There are as many songs as are hairstyles. See how gurudutt is carried away by waheeda in pyassa milestone song….zulf shhane pe mudi ek khusbu si udhi., khul gaye raaz kaayi, baat kuchh ban hi gayi. Like wise sunil dutt lost in charms of leela nayidu…..zulf lehraiyi teri aur meri takdeer bani…. Now contra to this could be…johney walker…zulf ke phande mein phaas gayi jaan. I hope these songs are not repeats, so no links are submitted.

  624. Muliji @ 918

    This is not only a fitting tribute to them but also a contra to ‘chehre pe giri zulfen, kahdo to hata doon main’.

    There is no end to the zulf songs. Here is the he man saying
    ‘zulfon ko aap yun na sanwara karo
    ishq warna kisi din bahak jayega’
    This is from film Chandan Ka Palna which was one of the early films which I saw in cinema hall. After listening to RDB’s songs from 70s and 80s you would not believe he composed this song.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q6R4FxwtSqk

    And look at this pahalwan bhai of Dara Singh, making just the opposite request and saying
    ‘is se pehle ki haseen raat ka jadu jage
    apni zulfon ko sungha kar mujhe behosh karo’
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YZlr6kLadz0

    Kahan gaye wo zulfon ke aise gane likhte the, compose karte the aur gaate the, ho humen nasha chadha dete the.

  625. Joseph ji @ 920
    Your intra Contra has he serving tirelessly to others without quenching his thirst
    A possible contra is Sadhna asking the saki to give more ( saki Seems to be reluctant)
    Kaise rahu chup – Intequam
    https://youtu.be/5eNqwidOf34

  626. Hans @ 866
    Continuing funny instances of 812.
    Yesterday on Raksha Bandhan getting nostalgic I remembered the lyrics murder I did loooooong time back.
    It is ever green Rakhi song bhaiya mere rakhi ke bandhan ko nibhana,.
    I would sing Bhai ke, “ujde” in place of “ujle”, mathe pe bahen lagaye mangal tika.
    I do not remember, whether it was deliberate to tease the “ canewala headmaster or it just ignorance.
    Obvious contra Rakhi songs

    Rang Birangi Rakhi Leke Aayi Bahana
    https://youtu.be/O7hhjknKC6I

    mere bhaiya ko sandesha..Didi1959_Lata_Sahir
    https://youtu.be/NV_RPw90OUY

  627. There was a you tube video showing a collection of Madan Mohan’s “Aankhe” songs . OPN’s Julf songs can be equally formidable . Apart from the songs mentioned above one can still find zulf in
    Zulfe hai ya badaliya, ye hai reshmi zulfo ka, zilfo ki chaaon me and his obsession continued till zulf laharai to sawan ka mahina . But there is one unusual song from Ek Musair Ek Hasina which takes the cake :
    O Yaar zulfowale
    And there is another from Naya daur extolling hero’s zulfe
    Ude jab Jab zulfe teri . For which there is a contra which I may post later on.

  628. Continuing with zulf songs. I think most us might have listened the Mukesh beauty ‘itna husn pe huzoor na guroor kijiye’ from Muhabbat Isko Kahte Hain. Can anyone hearing its audio believe that lady being addressed is Tun Tun and person lipsyncing is Kumud Tripathi, a small time comedian. Of particular interest is the second antara.
    रोको जुल्फ को यहीं,
    काबू दिल पे अब नहीं,
    ये दीवाना आपका
    ज़ुल्फें छू ना ले कहीं।
    https://youtu.be/NH4X1N0v3yw

    In Kahin Din Kahin Raat, a song sung by Mahendra kapoor is filmed on Johnny Walker, saying ‘o yaron ki tamanna hai teri zulfon men phans jayen’.
    https://youtu.be/lJx7PboBsAo

    Hearing the above song one would think this a wierd wish. But, see what the guru Rafi is saying ‘kanton men phansa anchal, zulfon men phansa ye dil, haye ho gayi muskil’ – Do Dil.
    https://youtu.be/NRGABMaxGtU

    I dont know the reasons, but the chela MK, after declaring his wish goes and asks in Dil Aur Mohabbat, ‘zulfon ki talashi de de mere dil ki ho gayi chori’ in the antara, though the song starts as ‘ankhon ki talashi dede’.
    https://youtu.be/dh-ibpZcRsE

  629. She: Return my heart . He : What kind of a person are you ? First you give me your heart and then ask me to return it !

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ Tu mera dil lauta …’/ 1957 / MAI BAAP / OPN / Geeta , Rafi

    https://youtu.be/2Lxbih7nmRw

  630. A song of contrasts between the past and modern day ladies …

    He says he is shattered as today their love is not like those of laila , heer or such others , …they would not die for you , they look at your pockets , they cannot be trusted…

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘Ab mohabbat mein…’/ 1963 / BANARSI THUG / Iqbal Qureshi /Rafi

    https://youtu.be/2mvsNa9_pno

  631. Venkataramanji @ 919

    Thanks for accepting the request. I heard the two songs carefully, as they were new to me. It was painful to hear the once great voice of Hemant Kumar. Regarding the tunes you know better. The tune of the second song seems to be like ‘sitaron ke aage jahan aur bhi hain’. The two lines of mukhda of Iqbal’s poem were used as prelude to the song ‘shamma par jal ke bhi parwana fana hota nahin’ sung by Asha in Meenar. Lyricist is Rajendra Krishan and composer CRamchandra. The idea of the second song Gulzar has taken from this song and developed it around with his stock eloquent wording. He wrote great lyrics early on, but later fell into this habit of using lyrics of songs which were less popular but had good lyrics, as base material for his songs. The first song was perhaps purposely written as contra, but lyrics of this song are awful for a name like Gulzar. Instrumentation of the first song is like some person like Hans, who knows nothing about them, is multi-tasking with them one by one. Here is the link to the Meenar song.
    https://youtu.be/mD35xRhdEkM

    Keep posting songs.

  632. Bhatiaji @ 922

    The songs mentioned by you are fit for the post and ‘zulf ke phande phans gayi jaan’ is contra to other songs. Moreover, ‘jane kya tune kahi is in itself one of the great inter-contra songs. For the contra songs post, if both songs are repeated, only then they are repeat songs.

  633. Cansyaji @ 931,
    Thanks for posting the nice intra-contra song ‘Itne qareeb aake phir na jaane kisliye kuchh ajnabi se aap hain kuchh ajnabi se hum’ . I am surprised it was not posted earlier.

    Posting another composition penned by Faiz Ahmed Faiz in a different context.
    Not sure whether it would be an apt posting

    Ham ke Thehre ajnabi itni madaaraatoN ke baad
    Phir baneiN ge aashna kitni mulaaqaatoN ke baad

    Ustad Moin Khan & Sorju Bhattacharya presents Faiz Ahmed Faiz’s ‘Ham ke Thehre ajnabi’ and Kazi Nazrul Islam’s ‘’Money pode aaj shay kon’ in tandem.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_90dhHsllM&feature=emb_title

  634. There are so many songs extolling zulfe one way or other that it is difficult to find a contra.
    But there is
    Use jab jab julfe teri – Naya Daur
    Not only Vaijayantimala but all the kuwaariyas are enamoured by Dilipkumars Zulfe.
    https://youtu.be/tYbjBsAPlTo
    Ye aaj Kal ke ladke- Dillagi
    But here Mala Sinha is disdainful & derides them as
    Kabutar, kabutar
    This song was pretty popular when I was a kid, especially the kabutar part.
    https://youtu.be/fQW3VwUjfXU

  635. Hans @910,
    In Sun bal brahmachari main hun kanya kumari the lady has come determined to spoil the penance of the life-long celibate. In Kaisi zulmi banayi taine nari ki mara gaya bal brahmchari, the celibate has been ensnared in her charms and is ruing that all his ‘tap’ has gone waste. The lady has succeeded in her designs. I don’t find contra in these songs.

    @935,
    Humein haal-e-dil tumse kahna hai, kahiye: This is a song of perfect understanding, the two are in perfect sync.
    Hum haal-e-dil sunayenge suniye ke na suniye: The lady is not bothered whether the other side has any interest in listening to his story. Nice contra song.

  636. Mumbaikar8 @914,
    Granted. In the first case the zulf are still tied, and the hero wishes it opens and spreads. In the second song, the lady is coming with her open hair swaying in the breeze.

  637. Venkataramani @919,
    Gira do parda ki daastan khali ho gayi hai: Its metre is shorter than Chhupa lo yun dil mein pyar mera ki jaise mandir mein lau diye ki, therefore, tune is also different (Yaman?). My ears.

    Would Parde mein rahne do, parda na uthao, parda jo uth gaya to bhed khul jayeg be contra to the last song?

  638. Mr Joseph @920,
    Deewanon se mat poochho.. Auron ko pilate rahte hain, aur khud opyae rah jate hain is a very nice intra-contra song.

    @921,
    Mubarak ho sabko saman ye suhana, main khush hun mere aansuon pe na jana: We all know he was deeply sad, yet he chose to sing ‘I am happy, don’t go by my tears.’ Nice intra-contra song.

    @929,
    Tu mera dil lauta de: We do not know have the full information if the transfer was permanent, or only for safekeeping to be returned in due course, in which case she is right in demanding it back.

    @930,
    A nice intra-contra song.

  639. Canasya @927,
    If there are two hearts pulsating with emotions, even if they are in perfect sync, would appear as sounds from two sources. therefore, I agree with you, it can bean intra-contra.

  640. AKji @ 939,
    You are right .
    Chhupa lo yun dil mein is absolutely Yaman. You are on the dot.
    I realised it later. I should have listened to the song before posting.
    Thanks AKji.

  641. Canasyaji, @ 931 NV @ 934
    Sahir’s intra contra ‘Itne qareeb aake phir na jaane kisliye kuchh ajnabi se aap hain kuchh ajnabi se hum’
    For Asad Bhopali it is Ajanbi tum jane pahchane lagte seho.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kxk21D1PNNk

    NV@ 919
    I would agree with Hans @ 932 about Hemant Kumar’s singing, particularly with the first ghazal.
    I would repeat what AK said about MS @ 872.
    “But with due respects, did MS have to try her hand at ghazal?”
    Though I did not completely agree with AK on MS.
    I felt apart from her pronunciation she had done justice.

  642. AK & Mumbaikar8

    क्या बात है। मजा आ गया।
    This post is a great uplifter as Mumbaikar8 said. And varied can be the situations. Mumbaikar8 pruduced two situations, in these two also there was a subtle difference. In the second she could not do it despite his asking. And AK produced an ‘bomb’ as powerful as the Beirut bomb which was contra to both.

  643. The condition of his heart this unfaithful (bewafa) world will not appreciate but I say that happy days will return…

    ‘ …haale dil hamara, jane na bewafa
    ye jamana jamana , suno dunia walo aayega laut kar din suhana suhana ,
    hale dil hamara…’

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ Haal e dil hamara…’ / 1960 / SHRIMAN SATYAWADI / Dattaram Wadkar / Mukesh

    https://youtu.be/ITG7Y6eJY4A

  644. Man has to only to keep working , but the results are in his hands…

    ‘ … tera kaam hai yahi bas kaam kiye ja
    mat soch ye tu anjaam hai kya
    wo kaato ke sej de ya phulo ki .
    jhukne ke siva tera kaam hai kya
    jhukne ke siva tera kaam hai kya
    aadmi chirag hai uski chalegi kya
    chalti hawa ke saamne
    ho ho tu bhi majbur hai main bhi majbur hu , uski raja ke saamne… ‘

    A possible intra contra song …

    Chhod bhi de majdhar/ BARKHA / Chitragupt / Rafi

    https://youtu.be/5u_VSHyav_0

  645. Mumbaikar8 @ 925

    Happy Rakhshabandhan, though it is late. Your description of ‘ujle’ and ‘ujde’ is interesting, but both can be true in different situations. I have an elder sister, and a cousin who is my chhoti behan. I love my cousin more than my real sister. But, due to different reasons, I am away from both. So the ‘ujla matha’ is now ‘ujda matha’. On Rakhi, I just have the option of listening to some rakhi songs.

    The last antara in ‘bhaiya mere rakhi ke bandhan ko nibhana’ says
    बहन पराये देश बसी हो
    और वो तुम तक पहुंच ना पाये
    याद का दीपक जलाना
    https://youtu.be/ItCxB6tRXJM

    In Hare Rama Hare Krishna, in Kishore Kumar version are the lines
    मैं ना भूला तू कैसे मुझको गयी भूल
    https://youtu.be/WFWrnCFPMD4

    Both these look contra to me.

  646. Hans @ 932,
    Thank you for your insightful response to my postings.

    Hansji , Mumbarkarji @ 943
    I think, the link I posted contained the 1980-rerecorded version of the song, when Hemant Kumar was past his prime.
    The original recording was in 1967. I am posting a link of the 1967 recording. The beat is (lay) bit faster and the orchestration is also different.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HpnV99REDbk

    As far as the quality of the lyrics, you are the authority. Since the first recording was in 1967, the songs should have been penned by Gulzar early in his career, when he was in his early thirties.

    Akji @ 939
    Parde mein rahne do, parda na uthao, parda jo uth gaya to bhed khul jayeg seems to be an apt contra to the song ‘Abhi Na Parda Girao Teharo Ke Dasatan Aage Aur Bhi Hai ‘.

    Mumbaikarji @ 943
    Thank you for posting Asad Bhopali’s ‘Ajanbi tum jane pahchane lagte seho’.

  647. ‘ michael hai to cycle hai , michael jo nahi cycle bhi nahi…

    dil hai to dildar bhi hai , dildar nahi to dil bhi nahi…

    ho mai na hu to hai bekar tera jhumna…

    badal hai tu to mai barkha hu tere pyar ki , arey badal hai to barkha hai barkha jo nahi badal bhi nahi…

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ Michael hai to…’/ 1960 / BEWAKOOF / SDB / Rahi , Lata

    https://youtu.be/WsVUssw7y9I

  648. ‘ O dekh idhar dekh, tera dhyan kaha hain , sar pe budhapa hain magar, dil to jawa hain ,sar pe budhapa hain magar, dil to jawa hain ,
    dekh idhar dekh, tera dhyan kaha hain…’

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ O Dekh idhar tera…/1960 / BEWAKOOF / SDB / Asha

    https://youtu.be/vuYToMcuCbs

  649. @ 877 Josephji posted ‘duniya men rehna hai to kaam karo pyare’ and presented a contra in ‘is duniya men rehna hai to’ from Gumnaam. That was one aspect. The other aspect is born out of the ‘words kaam karo pyare’. There have been many songs asking people to do something. But what about the opposite. There was a doha assigned to the name of Malook Das.
    ‘ajgar kare na chaakri panchhi kare na kaam,
    daas malooka kah gaye sab ke data raam.’

    This doha was used as prelude to the song sung by Rafi, ‘raam naam japna paraya maal apna’ from Suvarna Sundari, with second line changed as
    ‘hum kahe khatpat karen jab sabke daata raam’
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2vUuiv-K5KI

    A song on the same lines and slight change in mukhda and different antaras was used in Do Dil. Rafi being the singer again. ‘raam raam japna’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_tw9hIrwSQ

    Chitalkar sang a song for Dev Anand in Baarish, with the same concept. ‘Dane dane pe likha hai khane wale ka naam’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VpRQmx2pg20

  650. AKji:

    A case of progressive concessions—unlock 1, unlock 2, unlock 3, … ?

    ‘Nadi naare na jaao Shaam paiyan padoon’ to ‘Nadi naare jo jaao to jaibo karo, beech dhaare na jaao’ to ‘beech dhaare jo jaao to jaibo karo, us paare na jaao …’ to ‘us paare jo jaao to jaibo karo, sang savatiya na laao’ to ‘sang savatiya jo laao to laibo karo, humka na milao Shaam paiyan padoon’ (Asha in ‘Mujhe Jeene Do’; MD: Jaidev):

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Txitmlpbr1M

  651. ‘ mann re tu kahe na dhir dhare…
    ………………………………………………..
    …utna hi upkar samajh koyi jitna sath nibha de ,
    janam maran ka mel hai sapna, yeh sapna bisra de ,
    koyi na sang mare …

    A possible intra contra song….

    ‘Man re tu …’/ 1964 / CHITRALEKHA / Roshan / Rafi

    https://youtu.be/uA2FhgF6VY4

  652. Josephji posted a great intra-contra song ‘sambhal ae dil’ from Sadhana’ There are the lines
    ‘jahan basna nahin mumkin wahan jane se kya hoga’.

    Did Sahir believe in a theory, the opposite of Ghalib, based on the saying that man is a social animal. Ghalib had said ‘rahiye ab aisi jagah chalkar jahan koi na ho’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-1GaD5PAG0M

    In Arzoo Majrooh worked on this concept of Ghalib and wrote ‘ae dil mujhe aise jagah le chal jahan koi na ho’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_7LtH-YJ8Os

  653. ..kahe jiyara tarsaye, kahe tarsaye jiyara……………………………………..
    …nit nit jage na, nit nit ja
    nit nit jage na, nit nit ja
    nit nit jage na, soya singar, soya singar , jhanjar jhan jhanan, nit naa bulaye ,
    kahe jiyara tarsaye, kahe tarsaye jiyara…’

    ‘ kahe tarsaye jiyara…’ /1964 / CHITRALEKHA / Roshan / Rafi

    https://youtu.be/nOq53Glastw

  654. ‘ haye kaisi julmi , kaisi julmi banai taine nari , ke mara gaya ,
    ke mara gaya barahmachari…………

    …bade jatno sath banai thi
    han banai thi , mori barso ki punye kamai thi , han kamai thi ,
    taine pal mein haye , taine pal mein bhasam kar dali ,
    ke mara gaya ,
    ke mara gaya barahmachari ,

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ Mara gaya brahmachari… ‘ / 1964 / CHITRALEKHA / Roshan / Manna Dey

    https://youtu.be/5lSD2XYHWrg

  655. Josephji posted a song ‘deewanon se ye mat poochho’ from Upkar. There is a line in the song ‘ye peenewale kya jane paimanon pe kya gujari hai’. But there are some who care for the ‘paimana’ alias ‘jaam’.

    In Dooj Ka Chand, Rafi calls the ‘jaam’ as his sathi. So obviously giving respect, though after the ‘jaam’ became khali.
    ‘Mehfil se uth jane walo’ – Rafi.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tCGBaPTUmT8

    And another. Manna Dey has so much respect for the ‘jaam’ that he calls dealing with as a full time job and other jobs have to wait.
    ‘Abhi to hath men jaam hai tauba kitna kaam hai’ – Seeta Aur Geeta’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w21YFsjBPEc

  656. There have been some responses to Canasya’s song at 931. But nobody got a song of the early happy days. Here is the one
    Aap jabse kareeb aaye hai – Rafi/Asha – Noor Jahan.

  657. Josephji posted the Barkha song, which is my great favourite, ‘aadmi charaag hai, uski chalegi kya chalti hawa ke saamne’. Canasya posted ‘nirbal se ladayi balwan ki ye kahani hai diye ki aur toofan ki’ from Toofan aur Diya which is again my great favourite. What a coincidence that both the songs are contra to each other.

  658. Venkataramanji @ 950

    The recording from 1967 is quite enjoyable and Hemant is not farm from his mesmerising days. Regarding your other comment, I would say bad habits start forming quite early, later they just magnify themselves, especially when they are glorified.

    As per a folk tale, a thief was convicted of theft and he called his mother to say something in her ear. She thought he would tell her some ‘chhipa khazana’. When she went to the thief, he bit her ear. When the judge asked the reason he said that if she had scolded me instead of praising when I stole a pencil of my classmate, my life would have been different.

    Gulzar was a multifaceted genius and I like a lot of his lyrics and almost all his early films.

  659. AK @ 937

    I think you have listened to half of the first song and gave your opinion or looked at it from some other angle. Look at the response of Mukesh who through the whole song is avoiding her calling himself ‘sant jati sati’. But in the other song all his ‘sant jati sati’ status has gone and he is saying himself that he is ‘mara gaya’ though he is enjoying being among the ladies. Both the songs are in themselves intra-contra too.

  660. In film Baharon Ke Sapne – 1967, there was a song ‘chunari sambhal gori, udi chale jaye re maar na de dank kahin nazar teri haye, dekh dekh pag na fisal jaye re’. This is a double tuned song. Manna Dey continues singing the mukhda lip synced by Anwar Hussain. Lat sings the antaras for Asha Parekh who sends encouraging message to Rajesh Khanna across the congregation. The antaras have intra-contra lines like ‘thokar lagi hans de ham basane wale dil ke nagar ke’. But this is nop about intra-contra of the antaras. I will present contra to the mukhda.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UbSTvAcajHw

    Going against the Manna Dey advice, this small time actress sings ‘hawa men udta jaye’ in Barsaat.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fm87fGL4reE

    But some one may object, when Manna Dey was specifically talking about ‘chunari’ then why ‘dupatta’. For those cynics, here is ‘gaya bachpan jo aayi jawani to chunari patang ho gayi’ from Ankhon Ankhon Mein.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=93CqNOFQMyg

    And Manna Dey himself tells the consequences of not taking proper care of the chunari. ‘Laga chunari men daag chhupaun kaise’ – Dil Hi To Hai.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uD5Pe4k3myI

  661. In Lahore Nargis Sings Rajinder Krishan’s words to the effect that spring will come again but we will not be together . This is a scene of imminent divergence.
    https://youtu.be/lqqbwfAoM3s
    In Jaal Dev is making an all out effort to woo Geeta through Sahir’s words meaning that if you do not come now with me the spring will never be back
    https://youtu.be/4GfUK9Urb6I

  662. Muliji @ 869

    It is ‘aapki ankhon men kuchh mehke hue se raaj hain’. The second line says ‘aapse bhi khoobsoorat aapke andaz hai’. In the second line the male is praising the female’s ‘andaz’. But in ‘andaz mera mastana mange dil ka nazrana’ she is praising herself.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fh6fHPDAJRQ

    In the above song the lady was not only praising herself, but issuing stern warning which smacked of ‘guroor’. So Dev Anand took up this matter with Madhubala, who turned out to be having more ‘guroor’ than Meena Kumari. The song is from Jali Note, one of the many magical touches of OPN.
    Dil hai aapka huzoor lijiye na lijiyue’ – Rafi/Asha.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lBg6MdyLYVQ

    But this sober pair of Bharat Bhushan and Vyjyantimala in Naya Kanoor has sorted it out between themselves.
    ‘lijiye dil ka nazrana, lijiye ankh ka shukrana’ – Rafi/Asha again.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lPa_gNfdaT4

  663. Canasya @ 981

    Any song on Johny walker has to be delightful. In the Bobby song the male threatens her. But now the times have changed. Here is Haryanvi song in which the wife brings ‘pudine ki chatney’ but the husband wants ‘masala daal’. But as soon as the wife threatens, he yields to the ‘pudine ki chutney’

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=enz9IH68QhM

  664. ‘ Jis din is duniya se….

    …. insaan ke dil me jab tak bhi takat ka nasha aur lalach hai(2), …..
    ye duniya jahnnaum hi hogi ye aaj bhi sach kal bhi sach hain ,
    jab apni apni mehanat hi sabki daulat kahlayegi ,
    us roz ye insaan nachega us roz ye dharti gayegi
    us roz ye dharti gayegi…

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ Jis din is …/ 1960 / MAA BAAP / Chitragupt / Rafi

    https://youtu.be/5OvhuQPcGX8

  665. ‘ O bekarar dil, o bekarar dil
    ho chuka hain mujhko aansuo se pyar
    mujhe tu khushi na de
    nayi jindagi na de
    o bekarar dil
    ho chuka hain mujhko aansuo se pyar
    mujhe tu khushi na de
    nayi jindagi na de
    o bekarar dil…

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ O beqarar dil …’ / 1964 / KOHRA / Hemant Kr /Lata

    https://youtu.be/KxOGhSp1oEU

  666. Dear SoY participants, Super Heroes, and all,
    It would be befitting if both the posts cross the 1k mark together.
    Hope my request will find favour with all.

  667. ‘ …beqaraar dil, tu gaaye jaa
    khushiyo se bhare vo taraane
    jinhe sun ke duniyaa jhum uthe
    aur jhum uthe dil divaane
    beqaraar dil…’

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ Beqaraar dil tu…’/ 1971 / DOOR KA RAHI / Kishore Kr / Kishore , Sulakshna Pandit

    https://youtu.be/HVU4lAR8juc

  668. ‘… It is bad to go to shady places … people are cheats …they will seduce you and then become a killer …they will embrace you but their eyes are on your pockets…; … come to me ,… I am special and endowed with worthy qualities and you will not find anyone like me anywhere in this world…

    ‘ Aise waise thhikano …’/ 1958 / SADHNA / N Datta / Lata

    https://youtu.be/ThJyFd7rba8

  669. I would request Venkataramanji to have the honour of posting 1000 the post on both the themes.
    Right now there are 998 here.
    Therefore I would post 999th
    Tum Meri jindagi me – Bombay to Goa
    Meri jindagi me aate – kanyadaan

  670. Muliji

    Jiski taqdeer men jo hota hai wo milta hai. It is most befitting that 1000 came with you as this was your idea. Venkataramanji is clearly working for victory of the other post, so him posting the 1000th here would not have been fitting. Besides he is so lost in his ‘dreams’ that he has lost the ‘contra’ somewhere in the ‘dream alleys’. 😉

  671. …kisi ki har kisi ki jeet, kisi ki har kisi ki jeet
    anokhi hai yaha ki reet
    anokhi hai yaha ki reet, bina sur gunjta sangeet
    ye kaisa gunjan hai, ye kya pagalpan hai
    thi jinse pal bhar ki pahchan…’

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘Thi jinse pal…’/ 1952 / TAMASHA / Asha / Khemchand Prakash

    https://youtu.be/nFBCAERTiAY

  672. Rahulji,
    It was most appropriate that you posted the 1000th comment here.
    You were the initiator of this post.
    Congratulation to all for the tremendous effort.

  673. Hans @946,
    You are a real rasik. There is a special pleasure in participating when someone appreciates like this. Thanks.

    @961,
    Thanks for posting the correct link. I still don’t know how this mistake happened. I had clearly seen this video. By mistake the old copy link must have been there in the clipboard.

    @988,
    The three Mukesh-deewana songs you have posted are quite clear. I have another Mukesh-deewana great favourite, Deewanon se ye mat poochho deewanon pe kya guzri hai. All such party songs are of betrayal and the singer is grave, trying to hide his pain, with the other party feeling equally sad, remorseful and sometimes pained at the unjust accusation. But this song confuses me, the expression of both Manoj Kumar and Asha Bhosle are ambiguous, I can see them exchanging glances and smile, then later they switch to being tormented. The poor piano-accordion player is also equally nonplussed and pauses for a while (0.52) trying to read Manoj kumar’s face.
    Deewanon se ye mat poochho deewanon pe kya guzri hai by Mukesh from Upkar (1967), lyrics Qamar Jalalabadi, music Kalyanji-Anandji
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ha5rDi8YSaI

    @989,
    Again there is no ambiguity in the two deewanas.

    @992, 995, 997, 998, 999,
    Nice set of songs.

  674. Mr Joseph @947,
    Haal-e-dil hamara jaane na, bewafa ye zamana: A nice intra-contra song.

    @948,
    Chhod bhi de manhdar…Aadmi chirag hai, uski chalegi kya chalti hawa ke saamne is abeautiful intra-contra song. Hans has given a nice comment on this song @970.

    @954, 955, 962, 964: Nice intra-contra songs.

    @965,
    We have discussed ‘brahmachari’ contra-songs earlier too, on which I commented @937, and Hans has responded to it @972,

    @983, 984, 985, 994, 996, 1003: Nice intra-contra songs.

  675. Congratulations to all of us at SOY. V V V Special mention… Rahul ji, Hans ji, S Joseph ji ,AK ji, NV ji, Mumbaikar ji, Canasya ji, ksbhatia ji, Mahesh ji, Dr Rajesh ji ?,and anyone else I may have omitted.

    The post has infinite possibilities especially after the Intra contra introduction!

    My role? Did someone ask?
    Conspicuous by absence!

  676. Mr Muli @951,
    Very sharp observation, Amitabh Bachchan dancing without ghunghroos in Hum naace bin ghunghroo ke. Perfect contra to Dilip Kumar’s precondition that if they want to see his dancing talent they have to tie ghunghroos to his feet.

    @952,
    Again a bull’s eye. In the first first song the steps are moving wayward due to love, in the second they effortlessly go on the right track.

    @974,
    Your analysis of contra in Bahaarein phir bhi ayengi, magar hum tum juda honge and Ye raat ye chaandni phir kahan is outstanding. This gives a new way to look at lyrics.

    @990,
    Naino mein nindiya hai, aankhon mein kajra hai and Need kabhi rahti thi is dil mein: Both songs start saying the same thing, but you have made a very perceptive observation about divergence from this point – Rajesh Khanna is exasperated whether there is any room for him, but in the second song the lady herself removes any doubt, …Ab rahte hain saanwariya.

    @1000,
    You gracefully offered the honour of posting the 1K song, but while you were in Pahle aap, Pahle aap Hans posted his comment, giving you the glory, which you rightly deserved. This was your baby, and you have also nurtured it with posting some very nice songs and superb analysis. Congratulations.

  677. Canasya @953,
    Ye ladaai hai diye ki aur toofan ki: Nice intra-contra.

    @Canasya @960,
    Unlock 1.0, 2.0, 3.0 is a wonderful idea. Would this be a ‘Step function’? Leaving it to you to explain it in layman’s language. Many songs come to my mind. This seems to be a perfect step function:

    Humne unke saamne pahle to khanjar rakh diya
    Phir kaleja rakh diya
    Dil rakh diya
    Sar rakh diya
    Aur kaha,

    Chaahe to mora jiya laie le saanwariya
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oAvQFR7QdeI

    She puts down the dagger right in the beginning, and after offering things progressively, she gives a choice to her patrons to take away her life too, if they so wish.

    You have created a new theme, surprisingly there are many songs of progression. Think of Pyasi hirni ban ban dhaye. Every stanza has an element of this – Ek to hun bholi bhaali dooje akeli/ Chori chori fanda daale baanh pakad le jaye re. All songs of Ek do teen chaar paanch (Tezaab) are of this type. Unlock down is also unlocking our brain cells in unique directions.

    @979, 981
    You have discovered another nuance of Lockdown to Unlockdown. Na na to Haan haan; Nahin hoga to Hoga hoga hoga

  678. Venkataramanji @1004,
    The credit belongs more to Mr Muli, the original creator, and all the participants who have expanded it manifold. I was only Chal pade jidhar wo le chale

    Dr Shetty @1007,
    You are never absent. Your weekly best wishes off-line is a great encouragement, besides your presence on the blog. Tanks for your greetings.

  679. I in all humility accept accolades showered by all of you though real haqdar is Ak ji.
    Contra & dreams have become Sachin- Vinod partnership and as the records are meant to be broken this should also be broken in due course.
    Hansji’s versatile contributions, Mumbaikarji ji’s swift additions, Joseph ji’s intra Contra deliveries, Canasya ji’s late surge of Lock to unlock and Akji’s brilliant responses have all added to the flavour of the post apart from contributions from Venkatramanji, Rajeshji Bhatiyaji and many other readers.
    Hansji has mentioned about my taqdeer therefore it is appropriate to end this post with contra on Taqdeer
    Naseeb me jiske Jo likha tha – Do badan
    https://youtu.be/AoJ-iiWsLJA
    However I should mention that yaha kisike hisse me pyaasa nahi aayi, everybody got drink of her/his choice.
    Haatho ki Chand lakeero ka – Vidhata
    This is intra contra + contra to above
    Taqdeer hai Kya main Kya janio
    https://youtu.be/xn5rvhjKIlQ

  680. Ak ji and all of my friends…;

    It can be hard to keep up your own pace when you work in a creative field. All have worked hard to make it happen . Some wanted it to happen, some wished it would happen, real followers made it happen . Embrace success with both arms, hug it, love it, and above all become passionate about it. Yes, more the merrier.

    Collectively…. all I wished to state is……an intra contra motivational song…

    Le chala jidhar ye dil nikal padey….Rafi…Miss Bombay….HBehal

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cR-4uP-TLYQ

  681. Have a look at the following two songs which are well known.

    Sawan ka mahina pawan kare sor
    jiyara re jhume aise jaise banman nache more
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aUNx5YQuX-Y

    Sawan aaye ya na aaye
    jiya jab jhume sawan hai
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tBSbnKHvsW8

    One would ask where is the contra. The contra is in the ‘jhumna or jiya’ In the first song it is sawan ka mahina and ‘jiya jhume’ because of that. In the second song ‘jab bhi mera jiya jhumega’ to iska matlab sawan aa gaya.

  682. Here is a song which is new variant in lockdown unlock situation. In ‘bhoki surat dil ke khote’ which has also lot of intra contra, the two warring parties are in lockdown position in the first two antaras. But, suddenly sign the truce in the third antara and reach a perfect unlock situation.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cb2ef3cUrKU

  683. AK @ 1005

    I could not believe it when I typed the above number of 1005, that we have reached four figures. And as per me there is one reason. This post has so much ‘ras’ in it that I appear a rasik. In fact, it has brought out this side of some other friends to the fore-front. Actually adda culture can not be interesting without mutual appreciation.

    About the link, it is normal and happens to most of us. This has happened to me also and some one had drawn attention to it, most of the times Venkataramanji, who is very meticulous in such matters, but he also makes mistakes.

    About the Upkar situation, perhaps you have forgotten the situation. Manoj Kumar and Asha Parekh are having ‘sagai’, but Manoj Kumar has to leave for the war front, immediately after the party. That is why the lyrics and scene are such.

  684. Hasarat Jaipuri and Kaifi Azmi are on the same page when they write respectively :
    Aanso ka Hamare Gam na karo
    Ye bahate hai to bahane do
    And
    Bahate huye aanso aur bahe
    Ab aisi tasalli rahane do
    But Sahir strikes a different note when he writes
    Ponhkar ashq apni aankho see
    Muskurao to koi baat bane
    Interestingly in this song Sahir adorns 3 different roles
    Extreme left :
    apna haq sangdil jamane se chhen Pao to koi baat bane
    Socialist
    Rang aur bhed jaat aur majhab
    Jo bhi hai aadmi se kamtar hai
    Romantically optimist
    Nafarato ke Jahan me hamko
    Pyar ki bastiyaan basani hai
    The links
    1 ehsaan Tera hoga mujhpar
    https://youtu.be/2ca43nTQUL0
    2 ya Dil ki suno
    https://youtu.be/poXBa76JNKk
    3 ponchkar ashk apni aankho se
    https://youtu.be/zgMnYoWYHXU

  685. Mr Muli @1016,
    I was in a dilemma whether we are killing the hen which lays golden eggs, all at once. Remember Amitabh Bachchan-Madan Puri dialogue in the film Deewaar (1975)? When Vijay performs an impossible-looking job single-handed and comes to ask for his cut, Samant instead of paying up, draws a revolver. Vijay coolly reminds him of the story of the hen which laid golden eggs, and asked him, “Kya saare ande aapko aaj hi chahiye?”

    Yet I can’t help responding when some readers come up with brilliant idea and a very novel way of looking at songs. Canasya came up with Lockdown-Unlockdown progression, which Hans further developed. Now you have come with an example which is akin to the philosophy of “Thesis, Anti-thesis and Synthesis” which became the base of Marxian dialectic.

    I should say here that “Samudra-Manthan” of songs and contra-songs has given us many novel gems which need to be developed separately. My preference is that this is done by originator of these ideas.

  686. Muliji @1011

    I talked about kismat which was based on some instances. The day we completed 800, I went out for my evening stint of gardening. A relative came then and my return to the desk was delayed, so we came second, though I had not even seen where the other post was heading until I checked that tab and I found 799 have been posted. That day too I and Josephji were posting songs and his and my posts are timed at 10.04 pm. Similarly, for 1000th also you and I posted at the same time and I came second on both occasions. Another coincidence is that the same relative who came that day called me to his house on the 1k day and I came back late and we again came second.

    Your statement that ‘kisike hisse men pyas nahin aayi’ is also perfect. A different set of persons are taking forward the two posts. Mostly four of us are posting here with replies by AK and occasional help by some other friends. This only means we like this post. That may also be true of Dr Shetty, Dr Deshpande and Venkataramanji, who are carrying forward the other post. Dr Shetty has not showed up here since long, though he contributed a lot early on. Dr Deshpande who is leading there has never posted here. And Venkataramanji despite our ‘chai paan’ request did not find time for us, though he set the individual record of posting 74 comments in a single post on the same day. This record is not likely to be broken, unless he himself someday thinks of erasing it.
    At least I can say it for myself that I cannot break it.

    But I like to enjoy the way our post is going with replies and counter replies. Dehla coming after a nahla by someone. The target of 1000 has been achieved. Let us move at a normal pace.

    @ 1016

    A good series. Could the song ‘geet gata hoon main, gungunaata hoon main, maine hansne ka wada kiya tha kabhi is liye ab sada muskurata hoon main’ (Lal Patthar) in response to ‘ponch kar ashk apni ankhon se muskurao to koi baat bane.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ays7xJK8UF8

    Or we may even think of ‘kisi ne apna bana ke mujhko muskurana sikha diya’ Lata in Patita.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MA72LAYKZRg

  687. Thanks to Mr Muli, Mr. Joesph, Canasyaji and last but not the least Hans for a nail biting finish
    You’ll must be feeling good to give Husain Bolt a run for his money.
    I , as always, loved the way Bhatiaji has said it.

  688. AK,
    Congratulation to you on double “k”.
    Yes, you were not much involved in the Dream project.
    But you are the host you get the credit of inviting such guests.
    It is hard for me to participate from PT zone.
    I miss the intricacies when things are moving very fast.
    I had even missed lock unlock of Canasyaji until I read it in your response to Mr. Muli @ 1016

  689. Mumbaikar8 @ 1019 & 1020

    Thanks for the greetings. I agree with you and Bhatiaji that things should move at a regular pace. I think AK is also of the same opinion. Some time back Venkataramanji, asked readers not to flood posts with too many songs so that members can keep pace and listen to the songs. I dont remember the post in which he said this. In the dreams post too at 154, he asked members to slow down the pace as Ashwin was not able to cope with it. I dont know, what inspired him to forget his own advice and suddenly become the Usain Bolt. 😉

    The contra post was posted on 10th May and completed its 1000 on the 88th day with an average of 12.3 comments per day. On the other hand dream post achieved this feat 2 minutes before the contra post on its 44th day.

    I have looked at my figures. I was away from this post for more than a month. So I was trying to catch up and because of my posting more comments, the things have moved at a faster pace, which I dont like and for which, I am sure, you would excuse me. I returned back at comment 659 and then onwards I posted 115 comments out of 342 upto 1000. My only excuse is that there were many nahla-dahla type of situations where all of us were responding promptly to each other. For the last 300s we have taken 4, 5 and 4 days respectively, which when we see that Bhatiaji, Josephji, Muliji, You and me and our host AK were all contributing handsomely can not be said too fast. But now there is a lull after the storm. So you can enjoy your break.

    Regarding the lock-unlock that was a dangerous googly by Canasya, which I could not read immediately and only when I visited the comment nos he mentioned I saw through. And I agree that AK is the hub of all these activities and nobody can take more credit than him.

  690. Mumbaikar8, Hans, Bhatiaji and others,
    Thanks a lot for your nice words and your active participation. The theme has expanded in many novel and intricate areas thanks to the readers.

  691. Hans ji @1002,
    I would not deny that I was working for the victory of the post on ‘Dreams’, but that was after the post reached the 750 mark. Closer to the mark I wanted both the post to cross the 1K together. After posting the 998th (08:47 pm) comment in the post on dreams, I posted a comment to that effect @993 (08:59 pm) in this post. In the meantime, Ashwinji posted a comment and made it 999 (08:52). I was waiting for 999th comment to be posted from your end. In the next 17 minutes (between 09:00pm and 09:17 pm) another 6 comments were posted by you and Josephji, making it 999. I had already typed my next comment in the comment box and was waiting to hit the enter button. I waited for one and a half minutes hoping that the 1000th comment would be posted simultaneously. But I could not accurately time it. If I had waited for some more time…………….but that was not to be. Taqdeer ?

    Yes I agree with you that the 1000th comment here coming from me would have been like inviting Rahul Gandhi to do the honours on the achievement of Swachh Bharat Abhiyaan, PM Modi’s dream project. It was another matter that our Rahulji was fated to do the feat here. As Akji said it was appropriate too. It could have been you or Josephji.

    Rahulji, thank you for the offer, for posting the 1000th comment here and also for acknowledging my limited contribution to this post (@1011). And you are right the real haqdar is Ak ji.

    But Akji is too modest about his role. I should acknowledge his insightful interactions and ready responses which always encouraged the participants to continue their exchanges and exposition on the subject.

    Hansji @ 1015,
    I do draw attention to mistakes at times. Keeping aside the typographical, grammatical, spelling mistakes and errors due to lack of concentrations, the goof ups that I make are many. But there are many mistakes factual or otherwise, which I believed to be correct at the time of posting. But such mistakes give me the opportunity to get my fact and figures right, get corrected. But I feel really sorry for the other errors. But I welcome the loving mild tick-offs that I receive in the process.

    Hansji, I love reading any good story and you provide a quite a few now and then and I love them too.

    I will try to narrate the story sometime later as to how I got lost in ‘dreams’ and in the process how I also lost the ‘contra’ somewhere in the ‘dream alleys’. But that may not make an interesting read.

    Based on the comments posted in the two posts, I would concede that the quality of comments was superior in the post on contra songs, since it involved brain work, replies and counter replies, understanding the lyrics etc. Most importantly, in the process the number followed involuntarily. But my postings provided the numbers within a short span of time leaving no scope for any discussion/ response whatsoever. I suspect most of the contents might have gone unnoticed.

    Between a one man show and a team effort, the team effort is always desirable.
    Between the brain and the brawn, no doubt the brain is superior.
    Between quality and quantity, it is the quality that counts in the end.

    If a due diligence audit is done, the net worth of my comments will have to revalued and written down. However that does not take anything away from the original post and its main stakeholder, Ashwinji.

    And thank you everybody for the wonderful series.

  692. Hansji @ 1021,
    Yes Hansji, sometime back I did request readers not to flood posts with too many songs so that members can keep pace and listen to the songs. In the dream post too I made a request to slow down the pace as Ashwin was not able to cope with it. And I still hold that opinion. My postings at the post on ‘Dreams’ was an aberration, you may attribute it sudden rush of adrenaline. And at some stage there was a race, you cannot deny it.

    ‘I dont know, what inspired him to forget his own advice and suddenly become the Usain Bolt.’

    Well, I will defer it for another day.

    Thanks a lot for sharing your opinion.

  693. Hans @ 1021
    I fear, AK might charge me for incitement for my comment @ 239
    My intention was to let the post grow organically never wanted to pump up with steroids.

  694. Mumbaikar8,
    RIP Rahat Indori.
    I peeped into your @1026. With you I don’t charge, I am always a defendant. Just wanted to put the record straight.
    Kamala Harris great news for democracy? She is the running mate with Biden. VP does not matter much. For Presidential nomination she left the race long back for lack of support. I hope you are not an Indian-American romantic. She is multi-racial alright, in that sense democracy yes, provided the Team wins. Best wishes.

  695. @ 1023

    The third angle could be ‘chori chori meri gali aana hai bura, aake bina baat kiye jana hai bura’ – Jaal’
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6rwcCUlmDs

    There is a panjabi song ‘batti baal ke banere utte rakhni aan, gali bhul na jaye chann mera’ which roughly means ‘I keep a light on the boundary wall so that my moon (chann) does not forget my street’. This is my absolute favourite, sung by Shamshad in film Bhangra. The song is picturised on Nishi who was known as ‘Panjabi Madhubala’ in panjabi films. Her chann in the film is Sunder who used to act in comic roles in Hindi films. This may be the 4th dimension.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbQN06a85LE

  696. Talking of step function (AKji) and dimensions (Hansji)
    Here is a progression of numbers
    Tujhe Dekha Tujhe Chaha
    Tujhe puja Maine – Chotisi Mulakqat
    In this there is a mention of infinity
    Anginat saalose meri
    Tujhse ek pehchaan hai
    https://youtu.be/ITZkamf3edM

    Now from infinity we slide down to zero
    Bin dekhe aur bin pehchaane
    Rum par hum qurban- Jab Pyar Kisise Hota Hai
    https://youtu.be/h6d0tcKnNt8

    And in between there is Delta also
    Chotisi Mulaqat pyar ban gayi
    – Chotisi Mulaqat
    https://youtu.be/U4iaCga94so

  697. Mr Muli,
    Canasya would be happy that his comment has led to some serious mathematics. Long ago, before you had arrived on SoY, I posed some thoughts on mathematical analysis of songs to our experts for serious research, and I had also constituted some committees. But everyone went by its date of publication, though I had declared that it was purely coincidental. Now you and Canasya can take it further. Today is not 1st April 🙂 .

  698. She gives so many reasons why she begs him for his portrait , … she loves him and does not know if they would meet again ,….
    ………
    He gives so many reasons why it is of no use to have his portrait … his portrait is not like him , is lifeless, does not speak…

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ Meri tasveer lekar…’/ 1961 / KALA SAMUNDAR / Anand Bakshi / N Datta / Rafi , Asha , Balbir

    https://youtu.be/PlpFYiNWgvM

  699. He had a portrait of her with him but soon knows that the portrait cannot be like her due to so many reasons…and says there is nothing like you in this world…

    ‘ Jo baat tujh mein hai , teree tasvir mein nahi ,…’

    A possible intra contra song…

    ‘Jo baat tujhme…’/ 1963 / TAJ MAHAL / Sahir / Roshan / Rafi

    https://youtu.be/K-LpErDQEps

  700. Venkataramanji @ 1024, 1025

    Whatever I said was in passing and I told frankly what I thought and most of what I said was based on facts. Whatever you did was also whatever you thought best and there was no need for the explanation. at least for me. I have been saying lot more things which are not to the liking of many and on a number of times I have confronted AK. That is part of the adda culture and he respects me and I respect him. I have differences with Mumbaikar8 too on some issues, though most of times we are on the same page. That does not alter our relationship. Similarly, for you I have huge regard and I call you no.2 and that is true for me. I never write anything to flatter anybody. The amount of varied info you provide will make anyone your fan. So whatever I feel in the present episode of 1k will never force me to change my opinion towards you.

    My response here has been necessitated due to fresh points raised by you. You say there was definitely a race and this was only an aberration. The first aberration had already happened at the time of 800. But, I agree that you have a right to make two aberrations. You also admitted you were working for the victory of the other post, but only after 750 mark.

    Even if the 750 mark thing was true – which is not – it evoked a natural question, what was the reason. As I stated, there was a gap of 45 days between the posting of these posts. So why it is necessary to post the 1k before this post. And what suddenly changed at 750. This is particularly strange when Ashwin is not able to cope with the influx. He already has a backlog of 300-400 comments, which if he replies one by one would take this past 1500 easily, which target the contra post is not likely to achieve.

    To put things in perspective, you posted 29 comments out of 100, from 601-700, which was the highestfor that set of 100 comments. Next was Ashwin who wrote the article and Dr Deshpande came third with 24. So it was not after 750. From 701-800 you posted 43, from 801-900 you posted 31 because you were on a break. But, in the next century your contribution was 86.

    I will come to your first para at 1024 later. First let me make it clear that there was no race in the minds of those posting here. I came back at 659 and I have not seen anybody talking about any target. But, on the other post targets have been mentioned on a number of occasions. Here nobody even mentioned or congratulated on reaching 800 or 900. Once only Bhatiaji mentioned it after we reached 700, but nobody took any notice. I mentioned 1000 when you posted a congratulatory message at the time of 900 and mentioned long targets of 1107 etc. I only said we dont go for such targets and said “Looking at that list and the regular participation of other friends, I can say that we can reach 1000. But, if friends vanish, the inspiration vanishes.” This means I was not even sure of 1000 if friends stopped posting comments. But, on your side after you posted 800, pat came congratulatory message from Dr Shetty. And Dr Deshpande who never posted a comment on this post, visited this post to see the time of 800 post here to make sure that sapna post has won the battle and mentioned this fact at 806.

    Another thing I may say is that if I had the race in mind, I would not have let you win. I had talked in lighter vein at your at a stretch postings at the time of 800, talking about Durga Maa or Bengali Jadoo. But, I may tell you that I am well aware of the technique you employed at that time of preparing texts in multiple tabs and then posting one after the other to surprise the opponent. Long back when Orkut was functional, I used to post comments by this technique when my comment was long and I did not want any intervening comments or to engage with persons who may respond after my first part was posted. So if I had the race in mind, I could have done the same after your 800 trick. Even after 1k I have about 50 sets ready. At 6.55 pm the contra post had 981 comments and you started at 7.30 with no 929.

    As this is turning out to be long, it would be continued in the next part…….

  701. contd. from the last…

    Now the first para. First let us look at facts. Contra post stood at 981 at 6.55 pm, at which time sapna post was at 927. Canasya posted 928 at 7.12 pm. You started at 7.30 pm and go to 998 and then said here let us post together 1000th post. What was this. I would not use any words for this situation. At this post (993) I went to the sapna post and saw 999 there. I considered it to be a joke and thought NOT AGAIN. Though I continued to post till 1000, because I had to go for a post-dinner stroll with the family. Now the question arises, did you set any time for the 1000th for us to respond. It is particularly strange because we were not posting comments under some mutual arrangement on this side. How were you so sure that only you would be posting 1000th and nobody else from that side, even if we responded. It would have been another matter if you had set the time before starting posting your 71 comments. Then it would have looked like a friendly and positive gesture.

    Now, another thing. AK was wondering on your recall power for finding sapna in the interiors. Recall power mostly functions best with favourite songs. Though I knew that to look for sapna in the antaras, you can go to any lyrics site and find songs in bulk, without listening to them. I am not saying that friends are using this method. But, on looking at your bulk postings on the 1k day, I found you had posted long comments which included lyrics showing sapna in antara. Most of them gave repeated lyrics as the singer repeats while singing. Normally a person typing would not repeat them, but that would be obviously done if one copies and pastes from lyrics sites. Since these sites make a lot of mistakes, it was likely that the mistake will be carried out while doing copy paste and particularly when one is in a hurry. This was more likely in old songs, because these sites make more and more mistakes as we go back in years.

    So I researched 2-3 vintage songs and found that the lyrics you posted at 932 of Kanan Devi’s song from Hospital, were taken from the lyrics site ‘lyricstashan’. Looking at the lyrics, I saw there were obvious errors. So I listened to the song carefully 3-4 times and found the relevant lyrics which you posted to be as below:

    ‘prabhuji -2 tum rakho laaj hamari -2
    man ki baat chhupi nahin tumse, gobardhan girdhari’

    This site has written ‘joban dhan sari’ for ‘gobardhan girdhari’ and ‘sabse’ for ‘tumse’. Some other sites have written ‘joban dhalke sari’ for the same.

    The second antara is thus:
    ‘kaisa dekh rahi hun sapna,
    (kaise dekh rahi hu sapna)
    sapna bhi kya hota apna,
    (sapno ki kya hota apna)
    jo kuchh hua teri marji se,
    (jo kuch hua meri marji se)
    main thi bholi nari’
    (mujhko sone na de)

    Look at these lyrics and those of the site, which have made wild guesses at some places. There is huge difference which would have been clear to you if you had the time needed for this.

    I am deeply sorry for bringing forth all this, but it was necessary after you said there was a race.

    I am posting these two comments from two different tabs like you.

  702. Mumbaikar 8 @ 1026

    You have not taken into consideration the fact that when you made that comment, the post with steroidal virus was not even born.

    @ 1027

    Have you posted the lyrics by Rahat Indori just as a tribute or to show some greatness in them. Because, to me Anand Bakshi made better tukbandi than him.

    ‘dhuan-dhuan’
    ‘ruan-ruan’
    and what would be next
    ‘mera dil hai ek kuan-kuan’ 😉

    And is Kamala Harris a ‘Devi’ or something, because she has middle name ‘Devi’ added (may be recently) at wikipedia. If the reason is multi-racial as AK suggests, I would say multi-racial is neither good nor bad. Tiger Woods’ earnings were looted by a white and Boris Becker’s by a black. And Meghan, another multi-racial, has Prince Harry pinned to her tail like an Indian Joru Ka Gulam.

  703. Hans @1035,1036,
    You have addressed your comments to Venkataramanji but I could not help coming in to say that I felt anguished at your tone which questioned his motives as if he was gaming for one post or the other. When the two authors were not bothered about any milestone, it is unfortunate that the exchange between two readers should create this kind of impression. Both of you are highly respected by the SoY community and both of you also share respect for each other. If some readers participated in one or the other post more, and coincidentally both happened to be moving towards an interesting landmark in tandem, the readers turning that into a race is all in good fun. I get to see all the comments in real time, and you must have realised that I deliberately kept myself away near the final tape lest I gave an impression of racing.

    I have to acknowledge that the comments on the two posts have been huge learning experience for me, and I have to especially thank you and Venkataramanji among others whom I have also acknowledged earlier. I am grateful to both of you and other readers for enhancing my understanding. Let us celebrate this Independence Day with three cheers for the great SoY family.

  704. AK

    I know very well that you keep away from any race. At 796, you replied to 11 of Josephji’s comments in one go and you have been doing this regularly. You could have bifurcated that comment and posted other comments to complete 800. Similarly Ashwin is also out of this because he is on a long break. I have no problems with some friends posting in the sapna post. I mentioned this in my reply to Muliji at 1018. In fact some of the friends here did not post there because Ashwin was overworked, Mumbaikar8 even said it. I also posted there when I found some. You know I had even forgotten about this post for over a month, mostly because of being busy at home as well as posting songs at the Naseem Bano post. I even did not post on Madan Mohan post, though without doubt he is my favourite MD. So every body has the choice to post where ever he or she likes.

    Having said this, I would say that there was no situation of moving to a goal in tandem and I have made it clear that nobody on this side was keen on any race. I acknowledge you have a right to be anguished and you have also a right to choose on which situation you will feel anguished and on which not. But, I emphatically deny that my tone was such which questioned his motives. In fact he has admitted himself that he was going for the victory of the other post. I had seen all that was happening earlier, but refrained from commenting. Only when he tried to justify what he did and also stated that we were in a race, I stated my point of view which is based on facts. You can point out if any of facts I stated is wrong. You can also see Venkataramanji’s reply to Dr Shetty at 1026 on the sapna post, which would show that we were on normal course and he only started a one side race.

    Whatever I have stated is quite clear to anybody with brains posting on SOY. This is quite evident from the situation post that bombardment. All the fun and enjoyment has gone. Here we completed 300 in 13 days and now we are half into the 8th day and not even 50 comments have been posted. Of these 50 less than one fourth are related to songs and others are of general nature. How this happened. This is because friends here felt bad. I swallowed the bitter pill and took up the matter, which I did believing it is for the betterment of SOY.

    There is no doubt that Venkataramanji is a dear friend to me and I have huge respect for him, but it is the duty of a true friend to point out the mistake of the other. During the course of Mr Lalwani’s post on SDB, there was an exchange of ideas between him and me. Whatever he said to me, I took in that spirit. Even on sapna post when I posted comment mistaking the pm time as am time, Venkataramanji pointed out my mistake and I corrected it. Without his friendly interjection there could have been a misunderstanding in the minds of Ashwin and Dr Shetty. Not only that, I remember once when I said something of the sort that I would quit posting on SOY, Mumbaikar8 rebuked me like a true friend. Whatever I have done in pointing out his mistake, is in the same spirit. I have always been of the opinion that brushing things under the carpet is bad. If I had not taken up the matter, I would have failed in my duty to other friends on the SOY.

    And as always I agree with you our SOY family is great and unique. And to continue in that spirit, I would ask pardon from Venkataramanji for whatever I have written and request him to continue posting his comments. Let us forget and forgive. I request all other friends to continue the fun and enjoyment. Here is a song for the occasion.

    Ehsan mere dil pe tumhara hai dosto – Gaban – Rafi – SJ – Hasrat.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nmGfG_VmZKY

  705. Three days and no songs, what has happened. Let me start.

    In Zindagi, Rajendra Kumar has a misunderstanding with Vyjyantimala and she lives away from him. He sings the song to a boy who is his own son, but, he does not know.
    ‘muskura ladle muskura, koi bhi phool itna nahin khoobsurat,
    hai jitna ye mukhda tera’
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vGQN0xwx9V0

    In Dhool Ka Phool, he ditches Mala Sinha, who becomes an unwed mother and what she gets to sing.
    ‘tu mere pyar ka phool hai ya meri bhool hai kuchh kah nahi sakti’

  706. Hans,
    This is a nice contra pair. There is no problem in a normal birth, and if a child is born out of wedlock – no fault of the child or its biological parents – our orthodox society finds it problematic. In many societies it is not an issue at all.

  707. Mr Muli, Hans,
    I am following your discussion on who belongs to whom with interest. On this I remembered this song, and it has left me confused where to place it. Experts to give their finding.

    Tu auron ki kyon ho gayi by Kishore Kumar from Ek Baar Muskura Do (1972), lyrics Indeevar, music OP Nayyar
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwgq6y_lA5Q

    तुझको आज बताना होगा
    क्या थी वो मजबूरी
    साथ उम्र भर का देना था
    दे दी उम्र भर की दूरी

    कितने अटल थे तेरे इरादे
    याद तो कर तू वफ़ा के वादे
    तूने कहा था, खाकर क़समें
    सदा निभायेंगे प्यार की रस्में
    तू औरों की क्यों हो गयी
    तू हमारी थी, जान से प्यारी थी
    तेरे लिये मैंने दुनिया सँवारी थी
    तू औरों की क्यों हो गयी …

    प्यार की मस्ती तूने न चाही
    तूने तो चाहा चाँदी का प्याला
    आँसू किसी के क्या तू पहनती
    तुझको पहननी थी मोती की माला
    हो, तुझको पहननी थी मोती की माला
    पग पग पर विश्वास के बदले
    छला करेगी तुझको शंका
    आग के लपटों में लिपटी है
    ये तेरी सोने की लंका
    तू औरों की क्यों हो गयी …

    क्या ये तेरे सुख के साधन
    मेरी याद को भुला सकेंगे
    मेरी याद जब नींद उड़ा देगी
    क्या ये तुझको सुला सकेंगे
    हो, क्या ये तुझको सुला सकेंगे
    साधन में सुख होता नहीं है
    सुख जीवन की एक कला है
    मुझसे ही छल किया न तूने
    अपने को तूने आप छला है
    तू औरों की क्यों हो गयी …

    तेरे लिये मैं लाया बहारें
    तेरे लिये मैं जान पे खेला
    दो दिन भी तूने राह न देखी
    छोड़ के चल दी मुझे अकेला
    हो, छोड़ के चल दी मुझे अकेला
    तेरी जुदाई मेरी चिता है
    ग़म की चिता में मैं जल रहा हूँ
    मन मेरा दहके मरघट जैसा
    अंगारों पे मैं चल रहा हूँ
    तू औरों की क्यों हो गयी …

    तू हमारी थी, जान से प्यारी थी
    तेरे लिये मैंने दुनिया सँवारी थी
    तू औरों की क्यों हो गयी …

    This fake Shammi Kapoor is not interested in seeking a bona fide answer to his query. The way this question is posed to the lady, it permits only one answer. That she is the guilty party who has betrayed the man for selfish reasons. Such leading questions will be thrown out by a judge. It is also very rare in films too, normally these are expressed as soft laments that things went so wrong between them.

  708. Hansji @ 1045
    Yes it is A nice contra to main Piya teri
    Rafi says ab wo hamare hote Gaye
    While lata’s words are main Piya teri
    Both are however indifferent
    To counterpart’s decision .
    For a person who has very limited knowledge of pre 50 songs it is hard to believe that its Rafi’s voice.

  709. Akji @1046
    Tu auro ki has to belong to a separate category. Despite all the raging & leading questions asked by fake Shammi it still falls short of plaintiff cum pleader cum judge all rolled into one and original Dharam pronouncing
    Tu phool bane patjhad ka
    There are 2 interesting points about Ek Baar Muskoora Do
    1 Except for ye Dil lekar nazarana all the other songs are unlike OPN
    2 Joy has no song filmed on him
    The nearest contra to this song which comes to my mind is
    Tum meri ho – Aan Baan – Hasarat – SJ
    https://youtu.be/hCfidlYn2G0
    Here Rajendra Kumar is at least giving a chance to Rakhi to come clean & she is readily obliging.

  710. Mr Muli,
    The most brazen declaration that you are mine is in Main tera boyfriend tu meri girlfriend, haan mainu kah di na na na na. Though the lady declares:
    Tera aitbaar nahin,
    Karna main pyar nahin
    Kyun mera peechha karda
    ,
    her skimpy dress and dancing in close physical contact with the man, does not match with her words.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FQS7i2z1CoA

    The older generation was more genteel:
    Tum agar mujhko na chaaho to koi baat nahin,
    Tum kisi aur ko chaahegi to mushkil hogi

    This is not a threat, it is only a sincere pleading that he would feel bad.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_f4q-rQLjz8

  711. AK ji @1046, Muli ji , Hans ji,;

    I never liked the song and its picturisation . It seems the fake Shammi is riding horse and as a jockey …. wants to reach finish line….. but lost the track. Yes it was unlike of OPN . Look at other cool one….Tera jaana …from Anari . A song that is etched in our mind …memory recall bank !

  712. The constrasting games of roothna- manana
    Net practice
    For Rajendra Kumar & and Vaijayanti mala
    Tum roothi raho – Aas ka Panchi – Hasrat – SJ
    https://youtu.be/Xbnj55AUtXE
    Sicilian defense for chivalrous Dev Anand and it is so effective that within 2 Antaras Nutan resigns
    Dekho rootha na karo -Tere Ghar Ke Saamne – Hasrat – SDB
    https://youtu.be/0uMVhk5-cF8
    Danish Gambit for Rajesh Khanna
    Jana hai to jao manayege nahi – Doli- Indeevar-KA
    https://youtu.be/Q0ZImcWaqCo
    And end game for Geeta bali
    Ruth ke tum to chal diye – Jalati Nishani- Quamar Jalalabadi- Anil Biswas
    https://youtu.be/KNKSDzKQu80

  713. A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ muhabbat me tadpane se karar aata hai iss dil ko , jo jalim dil ko tadpaye wahi bhaata hai iss dil ko…’

    ‘Mohabbat mein tadapne…’ / 1958 / HILL STATION / SH Bihari /Hemant Kumar / Lata

    https://youtu.be/6nZFjwXKfZg

  714. A possible intra contra song…

    Everyone readily receives money but do not give it away readily

    ‘ Lene se inkar nahin , dene ko taiyyar nahin …’

    A possible intra contra song ..

    ‘ Lene se inkar …’/ 1954 / AMARDEEP / Rajinder Krishan / CR / Rafi

    https://youtu.be/QdoFkFzlhh8

  715. Rahulji @ 1051,

    You have drawn a nice parallel between Rootna – Manana songs and Chess openings/moves.

    Can this song be included in your series?

    Shatranj ki chal hamari shatranj ki chal hamari
    Tu ranj na karna pyari tujhe jeet ke le jayenge……

    Chota sa ek sipahi kar jaye wo tabahi
    Magrur badshahi rah jaye hath mal ke
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gJP1macr6F4

  716. AK, Muliji @ 1046 – 1049

    Good contrast between old and new songs. Warning : Dont look for logic in modern song picturisation and lyrics. I agree old songs were sophisticated. Dilip Kumar said ‘hum wo nahin jo pyar men rokar gujar de, parchhain bhi ho teri to thokar pe maar den, wakif hain hum bhi khoob har ek intaqam se’ – Dil Diya Dard Liya. And look at the lyrics of ‘tera bhi kisi pe dil aaye’ from Ek Sapera Ek Sapera.

    ‘tu jise chahe wo tere dil se begana rahe
    tujhko bhi duniya kisi jalim ka deewana kahe
    meri tarah betab rahe, raton ko bekhab rahe
    tu jiski tamanna di se kare, wo naam se tere ghabraye’

  717. Muliji @ 1051
    Continuing the roothna manana songs in chess terminology.

    Here is the first one where the king is waiting to be check-mated from the start like a King-Rook vs King ending. Chitragupta-Lata magic never ended.
    Kab tak huzoor roothe rahoge leke gusse men pyar – Lata – Aulad
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kL1ZC90wuJM

    The second one is from Jwar Bhata. Singer is again Lata. Here Saira Banu knows the all flight squares are blocked as king Dharmendra is about to be check-mated.

    Rootha hai to mana lenge.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lFtzzeWdtX0

    These were pre-marriage situations. But, post-marriage is a different setting. She blocked the straight lines thinking he will move like a Rook and the diagonals for his Bishop jumps. But, he kept jumping like the Knight over her pieces and she did not have enough pieces to block all 8 squares. So in frustration she upturned the chess board.

    Roothe roothe piya manaun kaise – Kora Kazaz – Lata.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lop50ih6VRs

  718. Hansji @ 1056
    Brilliant as usual .
    Kab tak hujoor is my favourite from the days when it was played almost daily on AAP hi ke Geet program.its contra from jwar bhata pales in comparison .

  719. hum pyar ka sauda karte hain… & kar na sake hum pyar ka sauda…

    A possible contra pair…

    ‘ Hum pyar ka sauda kartey hain ek baar , chahe mit jaayen chahe mar jaayen…’

    ‘ Hum pyar ka sauda…’/ 1964 / ZINDAGI / Hasrat Jaipuri / SJ / Lata

    https://youtu.be/-CYU3mhTeDk

    & the possible contra song …

    ‘ Kar na sake hum pyar ka Sauda , keemat hi kuch aisi thhi …’

    ‘ Kar na sake hum…’/ 1992 / KAL KI AAWAZ / Samir / Nadeen Shravan / Asha , Kumar Sanu

    https://youtu.be/cu4PC4cOE-g

  720. A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ …pooje sabhi kale bhagwan ko ,
    aur thukraye sab kale insan ko…’

    ‘ …surat toh kali chupa na saku ,
    kitna ujala hai dil ye dikha na saku…’

    ‘ Krishna O kaale…’ / 1964 / MAI BHI LADKI HOON / Rajinder Krishan / Chitragupt / Lata

    https://youtu.be/DH9YfoQk_RI

  721. Akji, Hansji, Venkataramanji
    In one aspect Hindi films , specially the formula films resemble Cricket and that aspect is that most of them are fixed. We can predict the twists & turns and usually no matter how curvy is the turn, end is flat
    ( No doubt there are exceptions).
    So here are few cricketing contrasts
    Mala Sinha here has a close shave and escapes unscathed despite, Shammi’s hectic overtures .
    Nazar bachakar chale Gaye wo – Dil Tera Diwana
    https://youtu.be/Tfy08HYgya0
    But Saira Bano is bamboozled by Vishwajeet’ s googley ( which He himself was unable to read properly many times)
    Unki pahali Nazar kya asar jar gayi – April Phool
    https://youtu.be/b3moD0tZBg4
    And in this case Saira again but now against Ageing Jubilee Kumar and is clean bowled .
    Unse Mili Nazar – Zhuk gaya Aasman
    https://youtu.be/5i160jmz6JI
    And this also is the hattrick for Hasarat & SJ combination.

  722. Rahulji @ 1063,
    That was wonderful.
    If you expect me match your Originality/ imagination I would only disappoint you.
    But I can share a borrowed idea. I can recall a song based on which AKji wrote a short piece, on the occasion of the World cup , a mast read/ must read article (04/11/2011).
    The World Cup mania: A song to cricket

    Here is the link to the song,
    She Ne Khela He Se Aaj Cricket Match
    Ek nazar mein dil bechaara ho gayaa LBW
    Md.Rafi, Love Marriage (1959), Hasrat Jaipuri, Shankar Jaikishan
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xs-S_Y8rGH4

    Hope you will be able to accommodate it.

  723. Muliji

    Nice cricket narrative. Let me also try.

    You know fast bowlers like to stare down the batsmen, who mostly avoid those stares. In the same way, after watching the fate of Saira Bano, this girl sings in Sazaa, ‘dhak dhak dhak jia kare dhak, ankhiyon men ankhian daal ke na tak’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wq-fOQkYxWw

    And now just like the lone recognised batsman farming the strike to save the tail-enders, this person Sudesh Kumar asks Nanda ‘ruk ruk chamke jhuk jhuk chamke kyun sari mehfil pe, o bin badal ki bijli aa gir ja mere dil pe’ – Pehli Raat.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zMxjb4dNb3M

    Your mention of the words flat and googley, brought to mind our googley king BS Chandrasekhar. He was batsmen’s nightmare and bowlers delight. He got his stumps flattened as regularly as he himself flattened others stumps with his googlies. Now look at this Kishore Kumar song from Sheesham ‘dil ho gaya shanty flat’. Nazim Panipati has given adequate matching words for KK to work upon the song in his favourite style.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IatOrq9aFsk

  724. There are a number of female songs, where the ‘bachpan’ is remembered and ‘jawani’ is cursed. Most of them are contra songs because ‘jawani’ is also liked in these songs. For example look at ‘dhadke mera dil mujhko jawani ram kasam na bhaye bachpan yaad aaye’ from Babul. In the antaras she sings lines like ‘kaun sune balam bin dil ki baat kahi na jaye’ and ‘bal bal jaun kaga par jo pee ka sandesa laye’.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ewf71Toj6sk

    Now look at this song from 1971 film Pyar Ki Kahani, where she says ‘umar hai satra saal itni lambi choti hai’ and her sakhis chant ‘baby tu chhoti hai’ and proceed trying to convince her she is really chhoti.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ljtmdcQTQdw

  725. ‘….din hai bahar ke tere mere ikrar ke , dil ke sahare aaja pyar kare …

    dushman hai pyar ke jab lakho gam sansar ke, dil ke sahare kaise pyar kare ?

    A possible intra contra song….

    ‘ Din hai bahaar… ‘/ 1965 / WAQT / Sahir Ludhyanvi / Ravi / Asha , Mahendra Kapoor

    https://youtu.be/JWpi2r6UiXA

  726. ‘ ….bemuravvat bewafaa begana-e-dil aap hai , aap maane yaa na maane mere kaatil aap hai…’

    May fit in as an intra contra song…

    ‘ Bemuravat bewafa begana- e- dil…’ / 1966 / SUSHILA / Jan Nisar Akhtar / C Arjun / Mubarak Begum

    https://youtu.be/SPBthDTld1k

  727. A possible contra pair…

    ‘…ye waada karo chaand ke saamane , bhoola to naa doge mere pyaar ko ,

    mere haath mein haath de do jaraa ,
    sahara milega mere pyar ko…’

    ‘ Ye waada karo…/ 1956 / RAJHATH / SJ / Hasrat Jaipuri / Mukesh , Lata

    https://youtu.be/ibuN4lFQt_Q

    & the contra song…

    ‘ tumhe yaad hoga kabhi hum mile thhe , mohabbat ki raho me mil ke chale thhe,

    bhula do mohabbat me hum tum mile thhe , sapna hi samjho ke mil ke chale thhe… ‘

    ‘ Tumhe yaad hoga…’/ 1959 / SATTA BAZAR / Gulshan Bawra / Kalyanji Anandji / Hemant , Lata

    https://youtu.be/nLl34jZYYSY

  728. Muliji

    Welcome back.

    Two different type of wada songsfrom the 40s. In the first one from Duniya- 1949, sung by Rafi and composed by CR, he is not able to understand the meaning of ‘the wada’,
    ‘Is wade ka matlab kya samjhun, aasaan bhi hai dushwar bhi hai,
    hothon pe hansi, abru pe shikan, ikrar bhi hai inkar bhi hai.’
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WL-m7KL3egQ

    In the second both have a perfect understanding.
    Chale aana more raja wada yaad karke – Heera-1947 – Paro and Durrani.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ueeJkx2jrQ

  729. Josephji’s ‘ye wada karo chand ke samne’ brought to mind two different sets of songs.

    ‘Dam bhar jo udhar moonh phere’ from Awara.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E5JruUDe5XU

    In the above song the shy pair ask ‘chanda’ to turn his face the other way. In ‘gup chup gup chup pyar karen’ again the pair is shy and requesting ‘chanda’ to hide.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y0o2D3XxBCg

    In the next two songs, they are doing the opposite, asking ‘chanda’ to be a witness.

    Ae chanda tu dena gawahi – Holiday in Bombay (1963)
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7bvgY0EYD3Q

    In the above song both are singing in unison about the gawahi matter, but in the next song Surinder Kaur has taken up the case of Madhubala to ask ‘chanda’ for his gawahi in film Singaar – 1949. What a gem.
    ‘Chanda re main teri gawahi lene aayi,
    mose baalam ne dekh le teri chhaiyan men hai preet lagayi.’
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0YWlliAzvXw

  730. Fasana creating tension.

    The first one has tension because he could not tell his ‘fasana’.
    Hum apne dil ka fasana unhen suna na sake – Actress – Rafi
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qX4mfMggqB8&t=136s

    The second one is under tension because people have told his wrong ‘fasana’ to his lover, which he wants she should forget.
    Dil ki awaz bhi sun mere fasane pe na ja – Humsaya – Rafi
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=47uOmFWDCZU

    And now the third one is tense because her hakikat is being taken as a fasana.
    Ye afsana nahin zalim mere dil ki hakikat hai – Dard – Shamshad
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HRLuIVsvj94

  731. A possible intra contra song…

    ‘…pukaaraa hai tujhe manzil ne lekin mai kahaan jaaun ? bichhadakar teri duniyaa se kahaan mera thikaana hai ? shikaayat kyaa karun dono taraf gam kaa fasaana hai…’

    ‘ Shikayat kya karoon…’/ 1955 / KUNDAN / Shakeel Badayuni / Ghulam Mohammad / Lata

    https://youtu.be/t_hMI9tjR2Q

  732. A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ …do dilo ki chaahte duniya ki namanjuriya , muskuraane hi se pahale pyaar kyon rone laga ?
    ishk me jo kuchh naa hona tha, vahi hone laga…’

    ‘ Gham ki Wadi…’/ 1952 / SAQI / Rajinder Krishan / CR / Lata

    https://youtu.be/BIz2MpHzZEY

  733. A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ mar gaye hum jeete jee malik tere sansar mein , O chal diya hamko khivaiya chhod ke majhadhar mein ,
    malik tere sansar mein mar gaye hum…’

    ‘ Mar gaye hum…’/ 1954 / SHABAB / Shakeel Badayuni / Naushad / Lata

    https://youtu.be/Bka0-3vv7dE

  734. Fasana , Afasana, Kahani there is is thin line of demarcation between these words.
    Rafi sings ” Dil ka suna saaj tarana dhoondega ” in which the first antara is ,
    Log mere khwaboko churake
    dhalenenge afasanome
    Mere dil ki aag bategi
    Duniya ke parwano me
    Waqt mere geeto ka khajana dhoondega
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v62_-JTtVIU
    Ek Nari Do Roop _ Asad Bhopali – Ganesh
    While Mukesh renders the following
    Kal koi mujhko yaad kare
    Kun koi mujhko yaad kare
    Masroof jamana mere liye
    qun waqt apna barbaad kare
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QkGqpVYjLUw
    Kabhi Kabhie- Sahir _ Khayyam
    Now almost everybody knows that Rafi has rendered the first song but not many know the lyricist ( Asad Bhopali)
    As such Sahir’s lines are apt for a lyricist ( generally remembered last barring few exceptions) while Asad’s lines are fit for a singer. Even SOY lists only 6 lyricists which is the lowest number of entries under any head.

  735. AK ji , Hans ji
    Sawan and sajan/Piya/balam is as soon a pair in HFM as AB and LP .
    Here are different shades of this combination
    1 Expectant
    Raato ko chori chori bole mora Kangana Able jo barakha aaye aayenge sajana – Mohabbat zindagi hai- Asha – SH Bihari- OPN
    https://youtu.be/zBiMLZhPT2Q
    2 Dejected
    Sawan aaya badal aaye
    Mere Piya nahi aaye -Jan Hajir Hai- Dilraj Kaur- Shaily Shailendra-Jai Parte
    https://youtu.be/sFn_i8tABpw
    3 Indifferent
    Sawan aaye ya na aaye jiya jab jhoome sawan hai – Dil Diya Dard Liya – Shakeel – Naushad
    https://youtu.be/tBSbnKHvsW8
    4 Usually sawan is a leading inddicator and then sajan may or may not arrive but in this song sawan lags behind sajan
    Aaoge jab tum o sajana

    Barasega sawan , barsega sawan
    Jhoom jhoom ke do dil aise milenge
    – Jab We Met – Ustad Rashid Khan-Faiz Anwar-Sandesh Shandilya
    https://youtu.be/WPwTPhFMm3k

  736. A possible intra contra song…

    ‘…hum pyar karna sakta ke nahi sakta ? hum aankh ladana sakta ke nahi sakta ?

    O pyar jatane wale kya tera mera sath ? Meri phulo jaisi jawani , tere kaato jaise hath …’

    ‘ Hum pyar karna…/ 1951 / Qamar Jalalabadi / SHABISTAN / CR / Lata , CR

    https://youtu.be/MrhKAqS-qeI

  737. Muliji @ 1080

    Yes, afsana and fasana are one and the same thing and kahani is its hindi. There are so many great songs with both the words.

    Sunil Dutt tells Mala Sinha ‘wo afsana jise anjam tak lana na ho mumkin, use ik khoobsoorat mod dekar chhodna achha’ and Dilip Kumar tells Nargis ‘meri kahani boolne wale tera jahan abaad rahe’. The same sentiments expressed with use of different words.

    But, look at Nanda. She is searching the eyes of Dev Anand and he in turn is keeping her guessing.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b1X5TbYfUkI

    The word kahani has been used beautifully in songs which told a story. In fact afsana has rarely been used in such situations. Like ‘ye kahani hai diye ki aur toofan ki’ was used to denote the struggles of an adolescent in Toofan Aur Diya.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-igwb2tYpA

    And in Rajput-1982, the kahani of diya/baati was turned into a lori.
    Kahaniya sunati hai pawan aati jati – Rafi
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KnHEZ0zw1BE

  738. Muliji @ 1081

    There were lyricists who connected sawan ka mahina with ‘zulf’. Here is a sample. OPN put the soul of Asha Bhosle and Geeta Dutt in Vani Jairam for this song.
    Zulf lehrai to sawan ka mahina aa gaya – Khoon Ka Badla Khoon
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZnZdCRb678

    But, look at this one from Sawan Ko Aane Do. He is waiting to write songs on her after sawan arrives.
    Tumhen geetton men dhalunga sawan ko aane do – Jaspal Singh
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qxziCYx1iqM

    And look at Dev Anand he makes another use of sawan in Sharabi.
    Sawan ke mahine men ik aag si seene men – Rafi.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-4stK4F7Ow

  739. Ak ki , Hansji
    Chand has been a very handy object for HF lyricists. They have forced chand to play varied roles . Sample this
    1 Bystander – dum bhar jo udhar mooh fere
    2 postman – Chanda re Mori Patiya le ja
    3 Security ( Y grade perhaps) – Wo Chand kaha wo jaye
    4 Magistrate – wo raat ke musafir
    But most commonly Chand is used to describe Heroine’s beauty. There are countless songs of this type.
    But for the contra I am using the following :
    1 Ek raat me do do Chand khile
    Barkha- Rajinder krishan- Chitragupt
    https://youtu.be/R9I06HdOyZE
    & Kaisi haseen – – –
    Ek Chand Aasma pe hai Ek mere saath hai – Aadmi- Shakeel- Naushd
    https://youtu.be/ULh0XPRYpvo

    In both these songs hero is using Chand as a replica of his love
    3 And consider this where the heroine is considering Chand as a replica of her love.
    Raato Ko chori chori – Mohabbat Zindagi Hai-SH Bihari-O P Nayyar
    https://youtu.be/zBiMLZhPT2Q
    Where the first Antara goes
    Do Chand hoge meri Atariya
    Ek to gagan me hoga
    Duja more angana
    Can 3 be considered contra to 1 &2

  740. A possible intra contra song…

    She says this merciless doctor will give you some ailment rather than cure

    ‘ …kana kubda langda loola budha doctor aayega , dawa to kya dega wo jalim rog lagake jayega…’

    ‘ Kaana , kubda , langda…’/ 1957 / EK GAON KI KAHANI / / Salil / Asha

    https://youtu.be/VU45_7HJHLQ

  741. A possible intra contra song…

    She says delay in marriage would break her heart , but he says that marriage has many headaches so avoid marriage.

    ‘ ho chat mangani to pat shadi
    na dil ko todo ji , bade lafde hai shadi me ye lafde chhodo ji…’

    ‘Ho chat mangni …/ 1958 / CHAALBAAZ / Chitragupt / Anjuman Jaipuri / Geeta , Rafi

    https://youtu.be/QePRQkPTTYUĺm

  742. Mr S Joseph @1053, 1054, 1055, 1062, 1076, 1077, 1078, 1082, 1086, 1087,
    I admire your capacity to discover such nice intra-contra songs.

    @1061, 1071,
    Nice contra pair of songs.

    @1069,
    I was not able to locate intra-contra in Bemurrawat bewafa begana-e-dil aap hain.

    @1079,
    You would remember Shabab had another superb intro-contra song on the same jeena-marna theme – Marna teri gali mein, jeena teri gali mein.

  743. Mr Muli @1063, Hans @1066,
    This is very intelligent. I remember SJ had earlier done another song on the same theme in Main Nashe Mein HunNazar nazar se ho rahi baat pyar ki:
    https://youtu.be/UxhJqDTVPIo

    I was just thinking whether it fits any cricket analogy. The club dancer is quite brazen and in-your-face. Raj Kapoor is feeling stiff because he is conscious of his good lady. But a few drinks, and he too gets in the mood. Is this like Indian team’s tour to Pakistan once after a long hiatus? The warmth and welcome that was shown by them was unexpected. But it being an Indo-Pak match, the Indian team was a little frosty to start with. But with some partying they enjoyed the whole event.

    @1081,
    Can we add one more, ‘Nostalgic’?
    5. Nostalgic
    Sawan mein barkha sataye pal pal chihn chin barse/ Tere bina man tarse
    https://youtu.be/OY44ebddTM8

  744. AK ji;

    Thanks for posting of…..Ae chaand chhup na jana ….a great vintage song and hearing after a gap of time thrilled me. Chand itself is a romantic symbol and may be many poets and prose writers tagged it worth of honeymoon.

    Incidently Rangan ji wrote a beautiful post on Chand and a number of active members contributed a lot of songs on this theme. Revisiting that post would be a treat for those who missed the bus .

  745. Hans ji , Ak ji, Joseph ji ;

    Its a great pleasure listening to intra contra songs posted from time to time. While listening to happy songs…..I am equally carried away with sad ones. I will try to post such sad songs too….and here is one of oldies where Mukesh sang his heart out with emotion filled pathos.

    Wafa Jinse Ki Bewafa Ho Gaye {HD} – Old Sad Song | Rajendra Kumar, Meena Kumari | Pyaar Ka Saagar

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fP6sUC2U6MI

  746. Muliji, @ 1085

    Very nice comparison. In all these songs you mentioned, the lyricists had a healthy respect for the moon and provided him with respectable jobs. But, Gulzar to look different compared moon to ‘bheekh ka katora’. Horrible.

    Roj akeki aaye – Lata – Mere Apne
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ogDsv3nJr_I

    In the other set you gave situations where they compared the lover with chand. But, here in Piya Milan Ki Aas, she finds out that she was mistaken in thinking him as a chand.
    Man ki gagariya men tu chamka – Lata and Rafi
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FvfgFonNeiQ

  747. AK @ 1089

    I have another option for song posted by you. You remember in old days fielders like Solkar stood very close to the batsman at short leg or silly point. This song may fit here. I have imagined what they must be talking through the eyes. Fielder would say यार एक कैच दे दे and batsman would say यार थोड़ा पीछे हो जा.

    I think in the nostalgic category there would be many. In what category would you put ‘na na na barso badal’ from Samrat Prithviraj Chauhan.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i26cab4QC2U

    @ 1090
    This is a great recall from so old a film. But in the end he sleeps. But, hindi films are full of contra songs. ‘Ae chand chhup na jana’ has a contra in ‘ae chand zara chhup ja’ from Latt Sahab.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aTHjk5pS_1I

  748. A possible intra contra song…

    ‘…gusse se mat dekho hamko karo na aanhke lal , bade bado ki hamne babu kardi sidhi chal .
    kyu kaisi kahi ?

    tum jo ho so ho lekin khuda to nahi…’

    ‘ Tum jo ho …/ 1966 / BIRADARI / Prem Dhawan / Chitragupt / Manna Dey ,Rafi

    https://youtu.be/uhpMWP3MNmM

  749. A possible intra contra song…

    ‘…jara thahar jara thahar
    tujhe samjhau jindagi kya hai , jo aaj tak na mili tujhko wo khushi kya hai ,
    dil todna kisi ka ye zindagi nahi hai…

    ‘ Dil todna kisi ka…’ / 1964 / POOJA KE PHOOL / Rajinder Krishan / MM / Lata

    https://youtu.be/30-ggBk4XyU

  750. A possible intra contra song…

    ‘teri khatir sitam dil par gavaaraa kar liyaa maine , kahaa kisne muhabbat se kinara kar liyaa maine ;

    jo khushi se chot khaye ,
    vo jigar kaha se lau(2) ,
    kisi aur ko jo dekhe ,
    vo najar kaha se lau(2)
    jo khushi se chot khaye…’

    ‘ Jo khushi se…/ 1953 / DIL-E-NADAN / Shakeel Badayuni / Ghulam Mohammad / Talat

    https://youtu.be/GYs_56uWEtM

  751. ‘…A possible intra contra song…

    ‘ maangane se jo maut mil jati, kaun jeeta iss zamane mein , dard hota na bekali hoti, dum na ghut-tha yu virane mein ; maangane se jo maut mil jati, kaun jeeta iss zamane mein…’

    ‘ Maangne se jo maut…’/ 1966 / SUNAHRE KADAM / Mahendra Pran / Bulo C Rani / Lata

    https://youtu.be/CiYIqGS0LCY

  752. A possible intra contra song…

    ‘Jhoot ka deep kabhi na jalataa sach ki jyot amar hai ,
    tere man me khot nahi to tujhako kisakaa dar hai…’

    Jhoot ka deepak…’ / 1959 / GUEST HOUSE / Prem Dhawan / Chitragupt / Rafi

    https://youtu.be/2TZo-r2VDew

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